VickyRotex:
I thought you said we're funny. How come our opinions count?

Rozz:
Let him find a way around that condition first before thinking of marriage.

malcom1X:
Family house is different from living with the parents, we don't know how big the family house looks like but if it can accommodate your sister then no problem.

She is part of the family once she gets married to the guy.
He is also running the Dad's business too not that bad.

Tell your sister to stop putting pressure on the guy.
Or leave the relationship or at the very least contribute money and pay for a house so they can move out.

Rozz:
Why will a guy who stays in his parent's house think of marriage

Oluromantic:

I'm offering same advice. He shd work towards relocating. Once he does that, they're good to go

savvy12:

According to her,he is not making any plans to relocate.He doesn't even know where to relocate to because the N-power job he does is in the village.He is not searching for alternative jobs too.He is 35.
He doesn't have any married brother.He is the first child.

VickyRotex:


What do you mean by he might refuse to relocate?
Is he showing any signs that makes you think he wants to live in his parents house forever?
Does he have brothers that are already married and staying in the same house with his parents?

I've seen cases where the guy moves from his parents house few months to their wedding. So this one isnt an exception. But the once he gets married part is what I dont understand.

I don't see anything wrong with this if and only if he is making plans to move to his own house before the wedding. So I'd advice your sister, that they both work on that prior to the wedding.

If there are any further showstoppers, then she should step out of it.

MrBrownJay1:


tell your sista to give the dude this simple reply:" when you relocate and get your own place, i will marry you"

savvy12:
My younger Sister has a suitor who has been disturbing her for marriage. The guy is an n-power beneficiary and currently runs his dad's little business.

The problem is that he still lives in his family house but promised my Sister that he will relocate once they get married. We told my sister not to accept his proposal because he might refuse to relocate after marriage.

Note: he stays in the village and he is a graduate too.

paul100:

. I just dey reason that thing he said.Which one be not sensitive parts.I don't know whether na her teeth he dey touch.

Ebenezer2O2O:
shut up

ProfAmaben:
Very true, seems the quality of football is on a rapid decline. If not, explain why a decent player like Dembele would cost 144million, or Coutinho 160million?
In the world today, how many people can we call "Strikers"? Imagine Erlin Braut Haaland a 19 year old having a price tag of 100 million Euros, Lautaro Martinez 111 million Euros, Mbappe has no price tag and could go for 250 - 300 million pounds easy.
The players today won't even break the first eleven of most top teams back then, AcMilan, Juve, Inter, Barca, Real Madrid etc are clubs that Jordan Henderson can't even be a reserve player, yet he captains the current champions league holders and would soon be premiership champions.

OKorowanta:


Na true,he dey sell fish!

Goodmarlian:
African-Americans should return to Africa their homeland since they are not wanted in America , Africa can absorb them all yes ,after all they will bring development to Africa because more advance in science and technology and civilization unlike the Homebase Africans.

My opinion though.

Ebenezer2O2O:

toprealman:

I wonder the insensitive part brother is touching.....lol

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Maybe the reason why she's having mood swings is because you can't give her a good kiss. Brother make I tell you, even the bible encourages us to kiss one another with a holy kiss. That's how important kisses are. Hiss her doubts way in a holy manner and then watch and see as her mood swings will disappear.
Don't allow these small boys on nairaland who are not even thinking of marriage in 20yrs deceive you into leaving your babe cos of this. Kiss her and assure her you can't wait to shift her womb in weeks time

Ebenezer2O2O:
you're really simp and ass licker.
Your life is really sorry one

Donbabaj:


From my observations I dont think she is, she claimed not to. She has had only one heart break in the past where a guy jilted her and she told me. I have had cause to investigate from a friend in her office but they all said she is just a tough lady but very hard to get. Guys have tried her but couldn't get her.

Naija246:
Women are economically better to rent than buy.
Don't marry that lady.
Don't say I didn't warn you

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

dingbang:
You sef.. But you were touching her and you didn't tell yourself it wasnt biblical too abi.

Naija246:
This is what happens when you forfeit your freedom to a woman all in the name of marriage.

I will keep preaching this;men are doing Women a huge favor by marrying them.
The benefits of single life to a man outweighs any pros marriage offers.

We live in a world where sex is so cheap and readily available so I don't know why a full grown man will open his two eyes and decide to be a woman's workhorse ... slaving away at some job that he probably hates while she sleeps at home eating, getting fat and watching TV


This man is probably innocent!

seanwilliam:
you are more stupid tbh..the guy is clearly spilling the fhucking truth.. this shows you are a certified simp

VicM6:
If u tell ur papa make he send me like 5million naira make i use go study aboard, e no too bad na since 4 ur mind now, all graduates from nigeria uni are dullard bah.... I no blame u na, na ur papa wey waste money send u go aboard to go study.. Even seun lalastica self na nigeria here him study nd u dey him platform dey type rubbish gv us 4 here.... God go judge dat ur coconut brain.

irumanle:
In a nutshell you are saying that those of us that can not afford schooling abroad should forget about education. Thunder fire you guy.

Naija246:
I just enjoy seeing women go so low morally speaking

Their behavior normalises casual sex which is good for guys like us who don't really wanna wife up any woman.

Feminism is a blessing in disguise for us red pilled men
Thanks to feminism we get to have sex with so many women.... without commitment

Guys, just improve your self and you will be at the top of the sexual market place.

Leave the simps who trade their freedom for some pussy they will be tired of after 5 years of marriage.

MelaninSkinGirl:
This is why you should never use a public swimming pool. Many people spit, piss, poo or have s......X in these public pools.

Khayceeofficial:
We hear this all the time...


How does 2,000 teachers impact the students lives?
Naija government and misplaced priorities


Modified: what do these fellows below gain in booking spaces that's as useless as Facebook likes?