smat101:
What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...
Its been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings.
I really lovey kid sister so much even more than my mum.
there is a lot to say but to cut the long story short,
when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14years.
just today I talked to her about sex,boyfriends, pornography relationship,sex, everything in that area...recently she was using my phone for Facebook,then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed as I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...
just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in...What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend,she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...
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My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...
So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...
I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

The same privacy you said you respected is the one you flouted and want to beat her on top of it?

Beating her will drive her further away. Just pretend you didn't see it and coerce her in trusting you as a friend.

Let her allow you to read everything, then talk to her of the repercussions if possible cite examples of people whose dreams, future were thwarted cos of it.

Let her know that the dude could post it online for the world to see, unwanted pregnancy and denial.

esivue007:
he only asked a question.
think dude is expectin a sensible reply/answer.

What he was trying to say indirectly was that it could lead to repercussions in the future just like those that bleach.

I don't know why you had to reason gay in that post unless you have a warped mindset.

popweezy:
Hmm..some one said I should chew enough kolanut when I feel I'm bitten..abeg b4 d kolanut begin im work shey the venom no go don enter body!??

He never said kolanut but bitter kola.


Consult market sellers to know the difference.

johnkey:
The guy is a big educated fool lol, na girl wey no get big breast you dey send money give.

Even if the dude was the richest man? Paying #950 000 for what exactly?

I believe he's one of the reasons girls are casting guys that send the #5000

janefblog:
Nigerian singer, Davido has denied taking his first baby mama, Sophia Momodu on a supposed vacation to Ghana.

JFB recalls photos showing the singer and his babymama in the same private jet had surfaced online. Read here

The singer revealed that his first baby mama had a business to handle in Ghana while he was also billed to perform at a concert, dubbed Afronation in the country so it was only fair that she joined him on the ride.

Davido said he brought along Imade because he didn’t want to leave her alone in Lagos especially without her mom and he didn’t want her to fly on a economy class.



The risky crooner expressed his displeasure over the viral reports about him and his babymama as he stated that it should end.

Davido needs to grow some balls or has Chioma squashed it already?

What's wrong if you went on vacation with her? Isnt she your daughter's mother?

Lalasticlala
Puskin

Kindly help a brother out. Thanks.

donbachi:
Chai!..what a sad story..i pray you find them and may GOD make you rich to enable you take good care of them,yourself and family.

Amen.

Udub:
Hello Nigerians and nairalanders. Please, I really need your help. I have been offered admission to study Geophysics in futminna. I have paid my acceptance fee but I'm stuck. I really need your help. I can't write another jamb.
I'm sponsoring myself. Registration for new students is from 13 to 23 January.If I let this opportunity go, my acceptance fee will get wasted and no school for me.
Please, good nairalanders, I beg for financial assistance.
I will be grateful if I can be offered help.
My account details are:
Account name : Ubong James Udom
Bank: First Bank
Account number : 0257119475
My phone number 08023282379
Please, moderator, help me move this to front page. May God bless you.
Below are photos of my acceptance fee recent, jamb admission letter, jamb result, post utme result
You can pay directly to the school thanks God bless you

How much is the school fees, how long is the program, how are you going to cope in feeding and accommodation and how do you intend to continue, assuming someone pays off first year?

When it comes to choosing a school for Post Graduate studies, many opt for University of Ibadan PG program making me to wonder what could be the rationale behind such choices.

I invite past and present UI post graduate students and other stake holders who are privy to such information to share their informed experiences which would enable potential and prospective PG aspirants to make a quality decision.

Thanks for your contributions in advance and happy new year!

This is a true life story.

My Uncle was a trailer driver and often drives loads from one location to another. This often leaves him at the mercy of cold and very soon, he resorted to sleeping with women of easy virtues.

Whenever he comes home, his wife would perform her duties without knowing he was unfaithful. They had children. Soon enough my uncle was diagnosed with AIDS and later on died. Unfortunately, his wife also was infected, she ran to relatives but most abandoned her, some showed sympathy but the stigma and segregation was obvious.

Few years later, she too died leaving behind children. Many a time I wonder what became of the children. Are they still alive? I pray each day that God would bless me so I can search for them and perhaps bring relief to them.

Nnemuka:
How do you impress a man trying to impress you?

By playing hard to get.

Kenneygirl:
Wtf did i just read

She gave him head. You can't do that for your husband?

Brunicekid:
What i will tell you is that she sees you as a VERY CLOSE CONFIDANT to share her personal lives with you. She trusts you very well enough, and has accommodated you in her personal space. It is a pretty sign, though. You have to man up and express your feelings to her. You don't expect her to come and say it directly.

Didn't you read the part where he said 'EX'??

donstan18:
If only burning the truck will bring back the deceased.

It will not but it could save you from joining them.

7Alexandre:


Maybe because of your negativity.

Most folks hate people with bad energy.

You know those people who wanna talk about the negatives only while ignoring the positive side.

Also couple with the fact that such negativity is coming from a woman.

Both you Mizwisdom & Timesup234 are like 5 & 6.

I always avoid people like that.

Because they never motivate you but tend to draw you into their territory with negative energy which is bad for human living.

Their matter tire me.

Mizwisdom:
Why was my previous post deleted?


Like I posted before, one Nigerian paid for the flight tickets of more than 700 stranded country folks in S.A does that make all Nigerians kind? what of the bro who gave N1 million to a beggar and translator right here in Nigeria? so because one White person pays your meal and complements your baby it means all Canadians are nice

He didn't say that. Can't you see that most are sharing loving story about Canadians.

Since you don't have any experience, why not shut da fvck up niggar!

SyberKate:
Nairaland seriously lacks original content
Most times I go on Twitter and read about a news.
Only for me to come to Nairaland front page and see that same news.
So what is the point of coming here.
When I'm already getting the most current news first from Twitter

Carry your own original story come. It is the users that post stories on nairaland while twitter, its the owner that scouts for news.

There's a difference

Naijanewsgist00:
Man grieves as he shares his experience with new IPhone 11 he Bought for N17k

Detty December has been ruined for a for a Nigerian man who spent the sum of N17,000 to purchase an Iphone 11 worth over 300,000

According to the aggrieved victim identified as Bassey Imoh, he had purchased an Iphone 11 at a roadside plaza for the sum of N17,000 only to get home and discover that the phone greets him “Welcome” and “Bye-Bye” when he switches the phone “ON” and “OFF” respectively.


latest news

See his tweet below;

Iphone 11 wey ah just buy yesterday for plaza, Uyo..if i ON am e go tell me welcome two minutes later e go off by em self come tell me bye bye join..��� abeg people wey get Iphone11 na so de phone dey behave?? Because my 17,000 naira no fit go like that oooo����


>>> https://www.naijanewsgist.com/entertainment-news/man-experience-new-iphone-11/

Why is this not in crime section?

Seun
Puskin
lalaaticlala

fyneboi79:
Not business,just over the counter friendliness and I stopped counting notes she hands to me till I got a 15k shortage my eye clear.

Lol. Maybe it was payment for her services.


Sorry about that bro.

fyneboi79:
I trusted a female banker and she swipped me of a good sum of money as soon as she got the opportunity. Since then I don't act friendly with bankers no more...thieves!

This is unbelievable and you haven't given the details yet. Tell us more. Did you befriend her and she told you of a bogus ponzi scheme.

TheGiftedOne:
Criminals don't get killed outrightly, they are charged to court and tried. if convicted, they are prosecuted. So SARS were wrong.

SARS na....

Even if he was convicted, death sentence is not their punishment.

They should write to the IGP and copy chief justice, presidency, defence minister, attorney general, nass.

YungMillionaire:
I don't understand. Your girlfriend asked you if she could go out with her crush and you said yes? Did I read that correctly OR did you type it wrong?

Do you think saying NO would change anything?

She was telling him not asking him.

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

Op talk to your girl and see if you can fix her introduction soon: Damn I hate myself for sounding desperate.

Somebody said you should give her 2 abi 3 days to decide.

If she decides for the guy, for old times sake she should allow you to cash out like Regina Daniels did for Somadina.

You can't wash car for free nah.

Talkwisdom:

Bro,Don't bother yourself about girls,talk some sense into her the little you can and allow her make her choice.
Don't ever,I repeat, don't ever force love on a woman.

.

Sure. It has a way of rebounding cos it makes you look desperate which is a turn off.
Besides that dude may just want to score and move on, ask yourself if you are ready to be the fall back guy.

Even if she later marries you, the smallest issue, she will remind you how she left him to be with you and how you begged her.

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

Reason with me by Rude boy comes to mind.

No matter what you do, the battle is hers to fight. You can only reiterate your love for her but NEVER blame yourself for telling her to see him because one thing I believe in LIFE is that what will be, will be.

crownwealth:
Major General M. Buharin is supervising the highest corruption ever in Nigeria political landscape.


Posterity will surely not be kind to his highest attitude of “Holier-than-thou”.

Corruption in Nigeria have now been more institutionalized and integrated into our governance, no thanks to the failed Major General with highest level of cluelessness of modern day governance.

You guys should ask Major General Buharin to account for all the billions of dollars released to fight Boko Haram since 2015.

Similarly, Buratai was part of those supervising procurement of military hardwares during GEJ’s time and was accused of massive corruption, including buying choice properties in Dubai. Yet, Major General Buharin could not prosecute him. Why?

So, Buharin’s fight against kworuption is indeed a hoax and nothing but smoke screen.

Buharin, fantastically kworupt President in Nigeria history!

It was announced here that some soldiers made away with money entrusted in their care for conveyance to unknown destination.

I knew it was not the first time they were doing it because the money was HUGE.

The officer that sent them was probably trying to avoid it being detected through the bank and to use vehicles.

That is to tell you why Book Haram is still existing coupled with fact they see them as Moslem brothers.

10 man will fall that day if anything happens to Jeg.

Zombies be warned.

nanaman:


Madam, no one can decide for you since no one did when you signed the dotted lines and you were fully aware of what marriage means.

To your solution, visit the nearest government welfare agency in your state. They would guide you on steps to take. On child custody, only the court can decide who should take custody but let me chip in a secret with a yoruba adage " eni yara logun gbe".

All the best

You don't even care whether she understand the adage.

Eni bawo.

LegendaryLover:
ABOUT THE ILLNESS:
(a) is there no total cure or it can only be managed?


MARRIAGE:
maybe u guys could sit and talk with some1 he respects. then bare ur heart. help him see ur parents didn't know.


I think love is missing in that marriage; God's kinda love. That the only thing that can help couples be truly there for each other in tough times.

e.g husband losses job and wife divorces. wife is unable to get pregnant and husband leaves the marriage.




IS HE BORN AGAIN?

Person wey don bear pikin naim you wan make e born again, fah?

Kai!

Cutehector:
But why did you keep such medical information from him before you both got married? That's not fair in my opinion.

I don't think she knew beforehand as it started after giving birth to his children.