₦airaland Forum

nanizle:
We all know Buhari will win any online poll.

But on Feb 14? The odds favour Jonathan.

I think I agree with you.

Hisses silently, moves on to a better thread.

Beautiful family. GMB, your family needs you more than Nigeria does. So you should be spending time with your family and grandchildren rather than campaigning and seeking to be president.

wordcat:
Conception is Conception whether Supernatural or Softnatural.

By the way; to save the world from who exactly?

To save the world from sin and eternal damnation. To restore man back to God through his death and resurrection.
Whoever believes in Jesus will not perish but have eternal life life.

wordcat:
Don't tell me your god is wise by sleeping with another man's wife?

So convenient for you to say that. But that's not the correct picture. It was a Supernatural conception, no physical contacts involved. The only way to bring to earth the saviour of the world. You have the right right not to believe it, but it doesn't change the truth about it.

wordcat:
Though the Angels have been sleeping with daughters of men but Joseph been suffering from poverty lacks absolute control over his wife and as such his wife, Mary the mother of Jesus committed an adultery with Angel Gabriel.

The Pope knows this but refused to tell it to his church members. Hope I will not receive a blow from the pope tonight?

I know ignorance when I see it.

uzolexis:
Really like ur story

Interesting.

bukkylois:
Wanna tell my story too. But let me find him first.... Will run back here yo give you guys the gist.

Let God guide you. There are deceivers out there.

I met her in church. We became friends. Just friends, serving God faithfully in youth ministry.
Later, my heart began to skip abit for her. The mere thought of her brought smiles to my heart.

At first, I felt concerned that I was taking the friendship more than I had thought. "What is wrong with me?" I asked myself.

I prayed about it. I got the assurance that all was well. I told her I loved her and would want to marry her. Turned out she was convinced about me too. Two years later, she became my my wife and has been so four years now. We have been happy ever after. I thank God for everything.

God created sex to be enojoyed in marriage. Both premarital and extramarital sex are the devils ideas. It is not what people say about sex that matters, but what God says.
#up team no sex before marriage.

FrancisTony:
No matter how hard they try to justify promiscuity, it still doesn't change anything.

#TeamVirgin
#TeamZipUpBeforeMarriage
#TeamNoMasturbatìon
#TeamSelfcontrol

Thank you joor. I am with you all the way.

Tell your friend to give his life to Jesus. Let him not trust in wealth but in God.

I do care. Only perverts and the sexually promiscuous will say they don't care.

So Abike is now an arms analyst?

halamadrid8:
Why the thing dey pain you like this,so you wan begin hawk ya fake medicine and all sorts in the BRT buses?FYI this is very much different from hawking and preaching.

I didn't know you are their spokesman. Pls tell them to allow us preach there too. What is good for the goose is good for the gander too.

This is not right. They said no preaching, no hawking on Brt buses. So why do they allow campaign.?

EbiJUNIRO:
m not and I nt ready yet too... Was jst kidding abt d post though....

Ok ooooo. Suffice to say that s2xual activities are right only in the context of marriage.

Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?

You sound like some one is forcing you to abstain; that on your own, you wouldn't want to. If you are truly born again as you claimed, you would know that sexual purity is what God requires of us. So why call it indoctrination?

Anyway, the following might help you:

1. Decide that you would never do the act no matter what happens. You will be obeying God and reserving your self for your future spouse by so doing.

2. Refocus, or redirect your mind/ attention to something else whenever the urge comes. What you focus on increases.

3. Resist the temptation to be exposed to sexually explicit movies, pictures etc. They will make it more difficult for you to cope.

4. Avoid being alone with a girl in a very private place. Anything can happen if you do. And done blame the devil if you fall.

5. Pray and ask God to help you. With God, all things are possible.

shomutuski:
I think so too BRAIN.

Good.

mako007:
Nigerians are just hypocritical, anyways I'm looking for folks that could volunteer in my adult film, trust me it's gonna be a blockbuster, first of It's kind in the world (i mean the story line) . If you ask me I'll tell you its an easy route to stardom but in this clime we are it's a very big price to pay. Someome PM me Mehn.

I think you can do a good story line without indecency in it. Indecency encourages sexual misconducts.... In our clime here the society frowns against it.

dancok:
madam sit down,is sex a food?

Sex is good in marriage. It meets a hunger food cannot satisfy.

jadelyn007:
my dear just cheat on him. Make sure you are really discreet about it an still give attention to you marriage. You can't live life constantly being starved of sex. Have a side guy Wishing you the best.

If I were her I would ignore this advice. Adultery is a sin. It breaks marriages.

shomutuski:
Mrs Ola. All I can say is for you to hook up wif me and ur life will change.. I will f**k u to the extent you will renew ur marriage vows with ur hubby... 3319a393, if he sure for you...

Pls stop encouraging her to commit adultery. She wants help with her husband not unholy offer like yours.

My dear, I really sympathise with you. Sex is meant to be enjoyed in marriage and you have full right to enjoy it. God made it so.

Obviously, doing it just twice a month is not good enough. I can imagine how you feel... So unsatisfied.

But please don't divorce your husband. And don't divorce him either! I think he is a victim of bad religious sex education. Apart from that, there could also be some childhood experience that has affected his attitude to sex. Pls help him to discover emotional healing.

Accept it as a challenge to help him overcome his lack of desir to do the thing always. Like I said, do not cheat on him and don't divorce him either. Humbly and politely discuss your expections about sex with him.

At this juncture, both of you should also seek sexual, marital counselling. A good counsellor could help him tackle the rootcause of the problem.

Above all, also pray about it. Let me assure you, very soon your husband will be asking for it everyday. It is possible.

iamphilips:
i suspect jazz o, because no1 raised alarm until 5mins after he left.

People need to be careful. Not everyone you see in a banking hall is a genuine customer. Some are there with ulterior motives.

I praise her courage but she won't go far. Apologies to her. The time for a woman Naija president is not now.

FASHOLA, Buhari took your chance. I would have voted for you if you were Apc's presidential standard bearer. But with Buhari as their main man, I think I know were to put my vote.

Thanks a lot.

Ordinary resolution is not enough. If the reason is not strong enough, you can't keep the promise.

What reason would I consider strong?

1. That you are now born again, so old things have passed away, including engaging in premarital sex;
2. You are now convinced that premarital sex is a sin against God, so you are stopping the practice because you don't want to continue in sin;
3. That you are trusting in God to help you keep the promise till you get married, not relying on your strenght alone;
4. That you are ready to obey God by staying away from sex until you are married, even at the risk of loosing your current man if he refuses to respect your decision.

If you are not sure of any of the above, I doubt if you can keep the promise.

May God help you.

mizjules:
Thanks a lot! I guess that explains it

You are welcome.

Yes, I can identify with some of those... It feels old to be old.

When you are young, you wish you were older. When you are older, you wish you were younger.

Advise: be happy at whatever age you are now.

mizjules:
What's the fear of too much crowd called?

"The fear of crowds is called enochlophobia or demophobia.
 
A fear of crowds can occur for any number of reasons, but some common reasons are:
 
Getting lost
Being trampled or crushed
Not being able to breath
Becoming ill from touching someone
Feeling insecure around so many people you do not know
 
Women experience the fear of crowds more often than men, as with other forms of anxiety. Although most people suffering from fear of anxiety understand their fears are irrational, they feel helpless and unable to control their fear."

Source: http://www.healthcentral.com/anxiety/c/22705/98818/fear-crowds/