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Very helpful. Thanks for posting.

Congratulations on your baby.

From your story, I can see that your marriage has worked before. So it can work again.

It's good you have chosen to stay despite the current challenges.

I can assure you that no marriage is irredeemable. Yours can be salvaged and I pray that your husband comes to his senses sharply.

Now that you know what the issue is, nagging your husband will not save the situation. I'm glad you already know this is a problem you have, and you are working on improving.

Obviously, your husband is now under the spell of native doctors. Demon spirit are at work in him. It is your love and prayer that can delivered him.

Pray for him for God to open his eyes to see that the devil is at work in him. If you can, join the prayer with fasting. Nothing is impossible with God. He will deliver your husband.

If you have the time, you can check out this article in the link below:

https://victorscorner.com/2016/10/07/towards-a-better-marriage-7-shut-the-door-on-divorce/

charles009:
Good people of nairaland,
Everything you are about to read is not fiction but certain reality.

At the heat of this DNA wahala, a married Ex called me on 6th of Jan to notify me that her son is mine and not her husbands. I remember vividly a certain Saturday in 2015, when we argued intensely over the paternity of the child during her pregnancy. She insisted it was her boyfriends, make una fear women. She swore she was single. Our calculations showed she was ovulating while we had some encounters. She proceeded to block me on all social media platforms and 2 months later, her friend informed me of her wedding.


The issue here is that I am married with two kids and expecting another, she told me her husband lost his job early 2018 and it has been a very rough patch for her family. she says she wants a divorce.

I asked for the boys pictures and it put instant tears to my eyes. Showed a few friends and the resemblance is striking so they said. The most painful of all, he looks not properly looked after.

I am doing fairly OK now, I wouldn't wanna to see my blood suffer, if you were in my shoes how would you handle this. My wife would not want to hear of another child...

Mature advise please...

DIscuss it with your wife. Ask her for your forgiveness. Don't hide it from her, or else she will hear it from another person.

Boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, I do not share in that concept, especially if sex is involved. Someone will always feel hurt or cheated.

When you are ready, meet someone and get married.

Pochettino:
Stop marrying pretty girls and come for we ugly ones, men no go hear. Now see.

Fine gals will always cheat whether they want to or not.

Stop calling yourself ugly, please.

May be number recycling will be a thing of the past from then.

Blog design.

AltarBoy1:
I will have to stop here for now. I welcome any form of question or criticism. But no insults plz.

Thanks for your time and effort.

This Innoson is a very innovative man. From okada assembling to car manufacturing, now to aircraft manufacturing. This is commendable. Thumps up Innoson.

GboyegaD:
Sex is good but only in marriage.

God approves sex within marriage. Outside marriage, it is sin.

OB7Foreva:
In my own case is the girl that is disturbing me for sex, she thinks sex would make the bonding much more stronger

Guide her properly if you believe premarital sex is wrong.

Thanks for the message. Another proof that not everyone on Maitland supports premarital sex.

First, Mary was a virgin. But then she was not the only virgin in town.

Second, Mary was favoured. This one was an act of God. No one can explain it.

I wish and I could say it's her life. But I'm reminded that all our actions have consequences, both here on earth and in the here after.

Six years ago, I was in Gombe during Christmas. The major roads were decorated with Christmas lighting, like you would find here in Lagos. That was kind of a surprise to me.

Another thing I found surprising was that Gombe state has a large Christian population - far more than you may have been told by the media.

mariahAngel:
Social media is a very dangerous terrain.

It is anti-love and anti-family.

You deserve an award for this observation.

I don't support premarital sex too. It is ungodly.

Fantastic. This is a virtuous woman to learn from. Her husband must be a happy man.

slawormiir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright. Congratulations..

Building a house is not a child's play... respect to any body way don build house
I tried that thing before because i see say small small boys dey build mansion here for sapele road in Benin city
I try am i nearly die....na when i start am before i realize what have put my hand into...Bag of cement nor funny
Steel rod...three quarter granite, budding...filling of the house after foundation gulped my 300 thousand naira instantly...na there fear catch me
Initially i wanted a metro tiles type of roofing...na when i begin buy steel rod...I fear na...
Na im i quickly change my mind to the normal aluminium long span.....
Even as at that now..I nor fit still run am...money for wood work of about 15 fit na 1million....
I just kukuma abandon the building. ...I cannot go and kill my self

God will make a way for you.

"Ghana has a reputation for being one of the most stable democracies in Africa."

Nigeria is learner.

There is nothing forever.

Honesty wins out, if not in the short run, but in the long run.

Pray to God to give you a good lady to marry. Marry her here and then both of you should relocate together.

But if you have plans to travel alone, don't marry here. Wait till you get there to marry.

It is unto you as you believe.

Personally, I know that if I eat in a dream, it is nothing for me to worry about. Greater is He that is in me than the devil in the world.

This is commendable. They should keep it up.

The most important thing is to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour. Every other thing is additional.

My view is that people should be God-conscious and not satan-focused. But it doesn't mean there are no demonic issues to deal with. Jesus had to cast out demons, so must any believer in Christ.

All pastors are not the same. Some are getting it right, while others are still learning.

Let's follow the example of Jesus in everything we do.

Jesus Christ was not born on 25 Dec.

It was just a convenient day chosen to celebrate his birth.

The stories in the Bible were balanced on all sides. It is not a question of the winners write history.

God who inspired the writers of the Bible, ensured that both the good, the bad, the ugly parts of history of Israel were written. So it's incorrect to call it a-one sided story.

As a side note, if reading the old testament bores you, why don't you start from Matthew, Mark, Luke and John? I'm sure you will have a different experience.

The story you read in the old testament is the correct version. David defeated Goliath in the name of God. The song you listened to could have been a metaphor, describing how the victory was won.

In the new testament, we have been given the power of attorney to use the name of Jesus to use.

But whether in the old or new testament, it is the same God we are calling. In Christianity, we don't have problem believing that Jesus is God.

Zzor:
As a Christian,we were told to flee sexual immoralities 1Corinthians 6:18 and if you happen to be in a relationship,then you have to set boundaries and this becomes very difficult if your partner keeps crossing them.My friend recently started a relationship with this God loving guy but he kind of disrespect those boundaries(kiss,hug,romance and all that)at any slight opportunity and she's seriously considering if this is a guy to continue dating,hes having problems putting her purity and her relationship with Jesus ahead of his desires,he doesn't seems like a guy that's going to love her selflessly with this kind of behavior he's putting up.After several discussion concerning this with him,he apologizes and blame it on temptations and his inability to resist her,he stops for a while and unconsciously continue with this act after sometimes.Now my friend is considering breaking up with him but don't know if this is enough reason to do so.You all know it's hard meeting men who will agree to her rules these days,not even the ones you thought were deeply into Christ.

Why date if she is not ready for marriage yet?

Yes, sexua purity is required of believers in Christ. But having a boy friend makes that practically difficult.

Let's call a spade a spade: The main reason a guy wants a girl-friend is because of sex. The guy will keep pushing boundaries until he eats the pudding.

Final advice: If you want to maintain sexuality purity, don't court temptation by having boy/friend.

Apostle Paul was a man of powerful impact in ministry. But do you know that it was an average man that commissioned him to full-time ministry? Who was that man, and what lessons can you learn from him and apply in your life today?

I believe there are life-changing lessons you can glean from the man who commissioned Apostle Paul to ministry. This is what I will show you in this post.

1. Ananias was a dependable disciple

The Lord needed someone in the city of Damascus to minister to Saul who just believed in His name and Ananias came to His mind. Bear in mind that Saul was not the only believer in that City at that period in time.

If God were to come to your city now, would He find you a dependable person to undertake a special task for Him?

2. Ananias heard the voice of God

How did Ananias know that God was sending him to go minister to Saul of Tarsus? It was because God had communicated that directive to him and he heard Him loud and clear.

As a believer in Christ, do you hear God speak to you?

3. Ananias was an obedient disciple of Jesus Christ

Ananias was enjoying the comfort of his house when he heard the voice of God to go into the street and look for Saul to minister to him. And he set out at once to accomplish the divine directive welcoming Saul into the world of Christ's believers. "And Ananias went his way and entered into the house..." where Saul was already waiting for him.

As a believer, how often do you obey the voice of God? Or even if you choose to obey, how urgently do you obey?

4. Ananias didn't let his fears stop his obedience to the Lord

You read from #3 above that Ananias was obedient to God's instructions concerning Saul, but that was after he had overcome his initial fears. Yes, Ananias feared for his life that's why he raised an initial objection, but he still obeyed.

Find a good reason to move against your fears. Your fears, no matter what they are, should not stop you from carrying out divine assignments.

5. Ananias was a humble person

People who are full of themselves cannot carry out divine assignments. And even if they do, they will mess it up because their pride will obstruct the move of God. Ananias's humility was on display when he accepted to go minister to Saul.

God's calling on your life is not an opportunity for self-promotion. Just like Ananias, your ministry should point people to the God who sent you, not to you who was sent.....


SOURCE: https://victorscorner.com/2020/12/01/9-great-lessons-from-the-man-who-commissioned-apostle-paul-to-ministry/

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