₦airaland Forum

RealityKings1:
➜What do you mean by prepared? If you have sexx, it ought to automatically become pregnancy except the man is impotent

Stop asking imbe-cilic questions for attention, abeg! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

RealityKings1:
➜500,000 is alot of money to raise within a 9 month time frame. Money isn't that easy to come by most especially if there are mouths to feed

Why have a baby in the first place if you have no way of paying for it? Why go to a private hospital you cannot afford when you could maybe plan to get the service at a free clinic, assuming there are those in Nigeria? Couples have at least 9 months to plan where to have their baby and save up the much as they can afford to do so. So, why go to a place you cannot afford, expecting the private hospital to take a loss on your behalf?

Naturalgbola:
see this baboon

Look who's talking! 😩😩😩😩

Newgoodkk:
➜Hello Brethren, Can You Categorically,Confidently and Boldly say " I'm Making Heaven " ?
Going by the Commandments of Almighty God ,His Rules ,Laws .
Galatians 5 v 19 to 21
Galatians 5 22 to 23
Accepting Christ as Personal Saviour,Being Born again ,Just having Fulfilled A standard of Gods Demands . Can You ? Bible Scholars ,Oya We wants to Learn.
... Commentators Pls Help Everyone to learn Help Enlighten us , Don't turn this to another Field of arguments and insult

The same Heaven which Jesus Christ of Israel stated belonged only to those who are first of the bloodline of the man named Jacob?

I can confidently tell you that anyone who claims he is going to get that reward and is not first of the bloodline of the man named Jacob is a bloody arse pathological liar and probably an attention wh0re at that. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Watcharena:
➜sorry ma'am, Even the woman have right to choose only men that are pure

But a man who is not pure and poor has no right going around demanding that which he does not have and cannot afford to pay for. Such a man is considered an imbe-cile at best.

Watcharena:
➜non virgins are fighting back ,
➜even the Bible said only virgins can be married

But you are a non-virgin yourself, proof that this claim of yours is clearly born of a private delusion.

2. Yet another private delusion of yours since the Bible never said any such.

Watcharena:
No marriage deal if she is not a virgin . Only simp can marry a non virgin. Never you in your life Marry a non virgin. A non virgin is not worth been a wife

. But only perverts go around announcing that marriage can only work if and only if the woman is a virgin when they are themselves not virgins.

FuckFuckPastor:
➜https://dailytrust.com/one-killed-three-injured-in-fresh-sara-suka-clash-in-jos/

What is with the useless reporting abeg? How come the victims don't have names or identities? Na fowl dem be?

Uche559:
Generous donor n generous collector. God bless the triplet. Dis world no balance

Which God? The same one that has watched as millions of others have been either murdered or starved to death over the decades in that same country, abi na another one?

neolboy:
✓ Thank God say she got pregnant before tying the knot

Thank which God? OP should instead be thankful to his dick for not letting him fall in a possible trap in this case. If he had been bedding the gal during those weeks before the pregnancy, he would probably not have been able to escape at all.

CodeTemplarr:
✓ be talking like deranged spiritualist there. There should be health insurance for uncovered citizens in emergency. We are fond of misusing the idea of intervention or emergency in Nigeria. They are for cases like these where the couple can't easily replace what is at stake - life.

Looking at the one talking like a deranged spiritualist, accusing another of the same.😂😂😂😂😂

This health insurance for uncovered citizens will fall from heaven for una, abi? Nonsense! 🤣🤣🤣

Gboom:
✓ For you to know mental illness is treatable means you must have experienced it before

And? 🤔

neolboy:
✓ Moral lesson: Do pregnancy test even on the day you are to tie the knot, do not trust to the extent of ignoring little things.

Sad story but this your concluding moral no enter at all.

What if she had only gotten pregnant for the guy after you had already tied the knot? Na so you come live your life filled with anxiety be that?

[quote author= post=134817774]✓ Source: https://dailypost.ng/2025/04/02/enugu-woman-kills-sister-attempts-to-kill-mother-niece-with-cutlass/[/quote]Possessed? People prefer to believe in possession than in treatable mental illness in the year 2025?

Racoon:
ABU Zaria have its own fair share of producing exceptional men and women of calibre.

Exceptional by what standard?

Tradepunter2:
Why do I find this funny.... The man is a sharp shooter tho

An imbe-cile you celebrate as a sharpshooter? If this news is to be believed, it points to the two conceiving at or around the time Nigerians were planning the #EndBadGovernance protest of 2024, a time when it has become abundantly clear to all that life can never go back to the way it used to be. It was during that time that these two dunda heads decided to have sex without protection and here we are today with 3 infants who might become tragedies --- along with the many others before them that we don't get to read more of these days--- soon if no one comes to rescue them.

Chilipepper:
✓ Despite his pleas for the hospital to begin treatment while he sourced for funds, they allegedly refused and referred them to a general hospital far away in Epe, Lagos.Sadly, his wife passed away before they could reach the second facility.“They watched her die,” the husband said tearfully. “I begged them, but they drove us out like they didn’t care. How can life be so cheap?”The incident has triggered widespread anger on social media, with many calling for urgent reforms in the healthcare system and stronger regulations on emergency care. Nigerians are demanding accountability and justice as they question how a medical institution could allegedly prioritize money over saving lives.

Pregnancy is a 9-month gig during which those who are intentional would have not only prepared themselves for that final emergency to come but also done all necessary to ensure they are prepared as far as the bill to come.

This here is a sad story indeed, but I can't really fault the hospital for choosing to protect its bottom line either.

studyless123:
➜ It's the power of love Kobo. There have been many real-life incidents where husbands risked their lives to save their wives and vice versa.
In 2017 Las Vegas shooting, Sonny Melton, shielded his wife, Heather, from gunfire and died in the process.
In 2013 Boston bombing, James Costello was injured in the bombing but used his body to shield his then-girlfriend (now wife), Krista D’Agostino and they later married.
In August 2020, Mark Rapley punched a shark repeatedly until it let go of his wife Chantelle’s leg
My cousin's babe (from US and only child) defied all orders to live with him in a riverine city in Nigeria despite her influential background.
While I was hiking along a certain trail, I put my life on the line to save a kid from a bear attack.
I don't have issue with transactional sex if that's what I want, I don't have issues with friends with benefits if that's what I desire and I'll roll with a sugarmum if it tickles my fantasy but when it comes to marriage it's 100% commitment. That commitment on both parties creates a unique bond that makes you willing to do anything for the other party.
➜By the way do you hike? I was shocked to see LakeShore Trail as your location.

1. Why the switching of context? The OP and I were on marriage in Nigeria and with Nigerians? Why you come switch things to the U.S?

2. Bike.

studyless123:
✓ It has failed because of our pre-conceived ideas, understanding, media, training experiences, etc.
Marriage is not about property and the fact that properties continues to be an issues points to a deeper problem. I stated earlier that humans by nature are selfish.
✓ Love has no basic definition but it's evident by actions. There have been many individuals who literally took their lives to save others and that should be a norm for couples. If I love you, I'll die for you. I hope you get the definition.
3. Again, the psych of our generation has changed. I grew in a close-knit family where love and happiness thrived and we were taught to be selfless and observant. I also witnessed the euphony and harmony between many beautify couples. While I cannot change the way others live their lives, I am in control of my life and know what I want.
✓ Some couples have approached me for counselling and some have witnessed the magic that love can have on their relationships. Life should not be faked.

1. 🤔

2. What you described there sounds more like stewpidity of the utmost kind to me. 🫤

3. Well, you happen to be in the minority given the reality of life and living for many raised by Nigerian parents.

4. Lol... Love🫤

studyless123:
✓ I was not exonerating any sex. I've blamed men more for failed marriages because many failed to show love, leadership and being exemplary.
✓ This in-turn have created a generation of loveless couples that have made marriages to be a charade. There was a marriage.

A system that has failed should be done away with not encouraged. The marriage property system of our ancestors did not work during their time for the majority and will definitely not work in this current era of ours. Whatever values where attached to it all turned meaningless in the end, if you will agree.

2. Loveless? Exactly how do you go about concretely defining love abeg? And how do you determine the number of marriages it applied to back in the days as opposed to today?

Anyways, I disagree as far as the loveless conclusion of yours. Marriage has always been a sort of business agreement between families/couples. Love is a relatively new idea that has yet to be concretely defined as far as marriage relationships are concerned.

studyless123:
✓ I have no issues with your choice but it baffles me that you keep your properties separate while your "privates" are shared with abandon. There was a marriage.

Does this not equally apply to men who purchase properties in their name without indicating their wife as co-owner of the property? If you listen to the video, the narrator indicated that the man had a house in his name --- no mention of his wife being co-owner.

Mmaita:
Tomorrow now, if the man dies, his people will want to come and claim the property saying it belonged to their son of brother.

We have seen that take place so many times before now too. 😂😂😂😂😂

maasoap:
➜You still didn't get it, do you, half smartass? One party was blindsided by the other, wasn't like both of them already knew what's up. Biatch was still enjoying some free stuff

Again, Why would I have had need to ask such an obviously stewpid question given that the only reason they remain together to this minute has to do with the fact that they have not made up their minds to quit each other? Try to begin engaging that brain of yours abeg!

maasoap:
➜Lol. See your hypocritical question . Your question should have been, why is she still with him? And thank God, the husband already knew what to do about it

. Why would I have had need to ask such an obviously stewpid question given that the only reason they remain together to this minute has to do with the fact that they have not made up their minds to quit each other? Try to begin engaging that brain of yours abeg!

dkidd:
➜And U are avoiding speaking on the first part which is the real problem. U see urself now?

Which part is the problem? I am not a mind reader, and if that is a problem for you, then I can't help at all.

louken:
➜ Meaning that the man is justified in initiating the divorce

If you wish to divorce because you can not longer stand your partner's fart, that is your prerogative. I have said it so many times before that marriage no suppose be do-or-die affair! 🥱🥱

omooba969:
➜Has the video said she carried the husband along? You know the bone of contention, don't you?

I see that you did not properly digest my previous post before pouncing. I do suggest you go back through it again before responding.

Kobojunkie:
......... What you all are saying is that if the wife had simply pocketed the money — maybe stored it away in her bank account —and not purchased any property with it, you all would have been fine, right?

omooba969:
✓ This is not the point. The question is that, is it right for a married couple to hide things from each other?

The video does not say she hid the money but rather that the problem began after it was revealed she used her incentive check to purchase property in her name only and then asked that her husband and her move to the new house together.

Hellisreal70:
The woman can not be called a wife, she is just a neighbor to the man. But this time a bad neighbor.

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Bullet4thiefnub:
She is not in the marriage and am out

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Lamasta:
The two shall become one after marriage, I see no reason why the wife will go ahead and buy a property without first seeking the advice and consent of the husband

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Mitsurugi:
➜I don't blame the guy. She'll use the ownership as a weapon in every fight and worse, tomorrow she fit vex tell the guy to move out.

What you all are saying is that if the wife had simply pocketed the money — maybe stored it away in her bank account —and not purchased any property with it, you all would have been fine, right?

SmartyPants:
✓ The Courts of Law.

The courts of what laws?

NothingDoMe:
American and UK courts. Definitely not Nigeria. 🤣

What the ..😂😂😂😂😂😂

SmartyPants:
✓ You know fully well that there's no such thing as a property bought in a man's name. The Courts will split it in half without thinking twice

Which courts?