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Owon:
➜Ekpa Wasted pained soul Very daft Please get a life!

This from the same ignoramus who
⚉ screamed aloud about a mythical hymen in 2025, a myth that has been continually debunked for over 40 years.
⚉ proclaimed himself as toto monitor — monitoring spirit abi na pervert— over the private parts of his daughters.

What a wasted brain and life. 😩😩😩😩😩

Owon:
➜Get a life frustrated wasted soul. I'm sure you're just pained that you've been passed around like football by multiple men... Many of you know the truth but will also say rubbish out of hypocrisy.
➜ If you have a daughter now, would you prefer to give her hand out in marriage as a virgin or as a girl with multiple sexual experience with different men?
➜ You think God was crazy for not choosing a whorē to birth Jesus?

. I am pained by highlighting your blatant display of your vast ignorance.

➜ See dem... the toto watchers aka perverts! They go as far as to set themselves as monitoring spirits over the toto of their own daughters. OP, you see what I mean?

➜ Were you born by a non-LovePeddler yourself? Are you Jesus Christ's reincarnation? Nonsense!

These ones no go ever read, na to dey regurgitate all kinds of propaganda and muths fed them by equally ignorant animals dem dey to do in life. And true to it, most of the women who end up with their kind end up loading up one crisis after another as reward.

rapheal5:
➜You are married so you don’t know what Genz ladies with multiple body count are capable of…

You don't yourself have multiple body counts, abi? Married men and women these days don't usually also have multiple body counts, right?

Honestly, sometimes I can't help but wonder how dem take born people wey dey tiny-brained—shortsighted, small-minded, etc,. 🙄🙄🙄

Kayberg:
➜Trash and junks as usual. Charles Taze Russells do this one, it really showed in you. If he doesn't rape his daughter, househelp or wife's siblings, then you can go and force him to.

Is that like saying Mohammed was pure or something? I don't follow at all. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

rapheal5:
➜Oga check the post and read slowly..

I will leave you to your own particuar delusions then. 😏

rapheal5:
➜Yes and that’s what the op stated above…

Stated where?

Kobicove:
➜Yeah! She finally realised she was in a loveless marriage immediately after she got a nose job that made her presentable enough to attract attention from other men

Ah! I see you want to specially interpret the story in a way that strengthens your particular bias! Anyways, you are, after all, free to subscribe to any particular delusion that makes you feel better about yourself there. So, good luck!

Owon:
➜Very senseless and draft comparison. Virginity is to girl and for men, it's okay but not important. This is why women have hymen and men don't. So if a jobless and poor girl now is only qualified to marry a poor and jobless man?

You are a true Nigerian—the village champion kind— to the DNA... see as you dey beat your chest in blatant ignorance as only one from that special ignorant breed could. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Imagine this one shouting around about hymen in 2025 while wanting us to believe that in the blackhole that is his existence, common sense can be found! 😩😩😩😩😩😩

RaySimran:
➜ My $11K nose job helped me leave my husband Source: https://nypost.com/2025/04/02/lifestyle/i-felt-reborn-after-my-major-11k-nose-job-i-even-left-my-husband-a-month-later/?utm_campaign=nypost&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter

Good move! Don't let insecurities keep you tied down in a loveless/unhappy marriage. It has never been worth it to do so.

Valwezzy:
➜Behave yourself and don't quote me with your smart-by-half logic, shifting the goal post without answering my question.

This response came from someone who attempted to shift the goalposts earlier!

Valwezzy:
➜And the jobless ladies who married financially buoyant men who in turn set them up in business and for life are reasonable abi?

Again, those ladies who sold their virginity to those rich men are only among the handful out there who were able to get the most out of the exchange. They reasonably offered their virginity only to rich men and got set up for life for it. They got the best bargain for their virginity, yep! The vast majority, though, who offered their virginity on the altar of marriage were not so lucky. Many of them ended up breadwinners, slaving away to feed the very same men they gave their virginities to.

guobe:
I asked Meta AI this question and these were its thoughts. Do you agree?

I agree with the AI on this! These men believe these things, not because there is a rational reason, but simply because of the particular propaganda/delusions they have chosen to hold on to in this area. The concept of masculinity is a delusion in its entirety and holds little to no real benefits except for those constructed in the minds of those who hold tightly onto the delusion against common sense.

drimzsmoke:
➜I learnt the basics of the reproductive system, purely basics. Modern biology doesn't even have any image of a woman's vulva(no secondary school biology textbook had it in my time)
I couldn't calculate a woman's ovulation date using her LMP when I was in secondary school . I didn't know the half life of the sperm cell or ovum either

All these are excuses abeg!

drimzsmoke:
➜Were you taught this in your own Biology🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚

You didn't learn about the human reproduction system in Biology class?

Myrrhis:
➜No benefits, right? That is why you almost fathered the child of another man. Keep being woke.

You would be a fool if you dared conclude that because you married a virgin, it magically means all of your kids are yours. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Valwezzy:
➜And the jobless ladies who married financially buoyant men who in turn set them up in business and for life are reasonable abi?

Those ladies who sold their virginity to those rich men are only among the handful out there who were able to get the most out of the exchange. They reasonably offered their virginity only to rich men and got set up for life for it. They got the best bargain for their virginity, yep! The vast majority, though, who offered their virginity on the altar of marriage were not so lucky. Many of them ended up breadwinners, slaving away to feed the very same men they gave their virginities to.

KobomatPhones:
➜I met this girl on 8th of March (last month) and around 22 of the same march. She called and said she was experiencing pregnancy symptoms. In less than 2 weeks? Long story cut short, she’s pregnant. Pls how is this possible? According to her, her last period was around 20th-25th of last two months (that’s February)

. This one never paid attention in Biology 101 class.

Lordbinsmar:
➜Law of sexual purity.

Written by whom? Where can one find this law documented?

Lordbinsmar:
➜ ... The only case to marry a non virgin is if she was rap*****d or if her husband who disflowered her is dead....

This is as established by what law?

Patrotism:
.... marrying a beautiful virgin?

Na the face you dey call beautiful abi na her virginity be the beautiful until right after you take it away from her, leaving her with nothing of value afterwards?

rapheal5:
➜...Getting married to a virgin is good only if she possess good character, respect and peace of mind …I would choose a non virgin with the above attributes over a virgin with non of the attributes..

But is there really, truly, a benefit to getting married to a virgin man or woman, forgetting all other things you have thrown in there?

bayfed:
With the comment am seeing, am glad they’re still sane men in Nigeria, [b]who by all means most preserved our culture [/b]and also preserve the behavior of the unborn the children. I can not commit to any woman, I didn’t met with virtue.

There is no evidence the concept of virginity was ever part and parcel of any of the major African cultures, particularly those in Nigeria. Evidence instead continues to insist that these beliefs were imported into Africa from other parts of the world, where people worshipped virginity gods or the idea had previously been raised to religious/political status.

Just an FYI!

umarfantami:
➜May be you didn't understand the concept. For a man is to take the family responsibilities
For the woman is to keep her virginity for the man.

Rubbish lies!🙄🙄🙄

In Nigeria, women sit as breadwinners in almost 50% of relationships, and many of these women were virgins when they got married. Women literally carry the bulk of the responsibilities of keeping and maintaining the home on their heads, including providing for and feeding their husbands. These women offered up their virginity, believing that in return, what awaited them was a better life, but found themselves living in serious suffering after it all. So, where are these men for those women?

Fryx:
➜Once you meet a real”Man”, who makes you feel like a proper woman, you will forget this your current confusion and appreciate a man for what he is. But I couldn’t blame you. You’ve never met a “Man”.
➜ To men: Women I know, don’t care even if their man had 1000 concubines.
➜ Men has lots of jealousy. But women has lots of competition. As a man, if you are competing for a woman or learning some “OT” to make a woman wet, Or make a woman feel loved, you are fooling yourself. Woman excels more in trying to seduce a “Man” once they sight one. A woman will seduce a man she likes, and it means nothing to her. But if you try to reverse the role as a man, you are gone. Again, no real woman care if her man has many wives. Just be a “Man”

1. "Make her feel like a proper woman," meaning she does not feel she is already a proper woman—insecurity flags all over the place kind — and the man is one who preys on such women with low self-esteem, abi? 🙄🙄

2. Women don't care if their man had 1000 concubines? Let me guess, we are still on the topics of these insecure women you introduced us to in your earlier declaration of how they are prey to your "Man"? 🙄🙄

3. Oh boy! Now it's all just hogwash and brain farts! Oi vey! 🙄🙄

Fryx:
➜It’s not an unhealthy fixation.
➜ Not every lady is from a troubled home.
➜ And not every lady needs to climb dick or rub Toto with their fellow women to eat.
➜ If he is a responsible guy himself. He shouldn’t find it difficult to find one.

1. It is a very unhealthy fixation given that it has not been proven to provide you all any real value, and many of those who carry that fixation are eventually drawn to even more disastrous/inhumane fixations in the end.

2. Are you having us believe that every man who is not a virgin is from a troubled home?

3. But every man likes to? Is that your personal conclusion? 🤔

4. You mean like the one up there already eyeing primary 5 kids as his target? Even your politicians now prefer them served up as kids.

Antoeni:
➜Actually, a woman who gets married while she is a virgin, knows only one size of her man's manhood. Therefore, the size will not have any effect on her because she gets fitted to her man's pintle regardless of the size. On the other hand, if a woman experienced different pintle sizes before getting married, when she gets married, the size of her man's manhood will have an impact on her. Such a woman will begin to complain that her husband doesn't satisfy her in bed because she begins to compare her man's manhood strength, sizes, and weight with what she got outside from her ex fúckérs. Remember, a child who has never been trained to eat outside, will always believe that her mother's food is the sweetest and the best. Such a child will never know that her mother's food is not sweet. But the pièce de résistance is, no man can satisfy a woman; man does not owe a woman satisfaction. What a man owes a woman is love, care and to get her pregnant; because, the greatest joy of a woman in a marriage is when you give her a child, a family.

Yet, time and time again, we have read of numerous cases of women, formerly wedded as virgins, eventually going on to abandon or even cheat on their husbands. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Why do you folks resist the need to learn? There are numerous examples of why what you have worming in your head there in the year 2025 does not hold, and never has held at any point in history. Yet you resist the need to abandon ignorance. Is it genetic or something? Why?

EdiskyHarry:
✓
I wonder how this makes sense to you. Does this relate in anyway to what he asked?

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Osanoghodua1:
✓ My advise you for: God to primary 5 or JSS1 and pick a wife and pay her price, when she clocks 18, marry her as a virgin.

This is what I have been highlighting. This fixation on virginity has turned Nigeria into a haven for predators such as this one here. They have practically become part and parcel of the culture down in Nigeria, something folks used to think was only found among the Muslims in the core north is now rampant in all parts of the country.

sprints1:
virgins dey but u won't like their attitude they are usually introverted and very awkward in behavior infact nerdy

Is he himself a virgin that he would go about checking whether your child is one or not?

ObaaOfYorubaLan:
To even see the virgin from 13 years upward in Nigeria hard self. All of them na extra wide products

See what i mean with this virginity fixation? People who obsess go as far as even judging the virginity status of children. They are themselves not what they desire, but have no boundaries when it comes to sizing up others, including babies in extreme cases.

sarkinbauchi:
✓ Your comment is rubbish. If person want marry virgin, let him marry a virgin. If you didn't marry a vrigin, allow him to marry a virgin. Stop castigating people who want to do the right thing.

Have I said, "Don't marry a virgin."? You are free to marry yourself a virgin. I merely posited that that particular problem never seems to end with just marrying a virgin, as we have seen it play out many times in society.

Oyedepo, scammer at large. If we check property listings for all of the places mentioned we go find many properties that can be traced back to Oyedepo, possibly with many registered under names of family and friends. 🤔

Iamsane:
✓ You will serve as a good defence attorney for all successful scammer and fraudsters.

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