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Thinkingtru:
You said something about the kids passing through what I am passing through twice. I deliberately did nit write this on the initial post The eldest child once aske me what I was thinking when I married someone like this
NB We live oversea now.

Just so you know, the problem here isn't just your wife but you. You claim you have been playing endurance husband for 10 years all while neglecting the mental and emotional wellbeing of your children. You are part and parcel of the problem that is your marriage today. So, my question is what do you plan to do? Endure for yet another year while waiting for... I don't know... an award of some sort to arrive in the mail maybe by then?

gidgiddy:
➜She left one important thing out. A sex worker has shelf life. No matter how beautiful you may be as a sex worker, your customers will dwindle with age. No man is going to hook up with a 60 year old sex worker when he could easily find a 20 year old one, even if it's free.
➜However, with marriage, a man commits to you for life

1. Not entirely true at all as it mostly depends on the sex worker. She may not get as many customers as she gets older but she decides when to quit the trade. A similar thing tends to happen also to many married women at that point. Sex is no longer as regular for them as it may have been when they were younger and this depends.

2. Commits for life? LOL 😏

ajailer:
➜Trash talk. Are women in marriage being forced to have sex with their husband?
➜These days, the ladies are even the ones keeping tabs of their sexual activities with their husbands in a marriage, lots of them initiates the move with their man. So where is the pay for sex here?

Sex workers are typically not forced to have sex with their clients either.

2. As long as they are married, isn't sex typically part and parcel of the deal? You rarely, for instance, read of married African men who are comfortable in a marriage that excludes sex.

Tallesty1:
➜Or maybe the guy did something to her, something so bad that he feels he deserves the punishment. Because why will someone he loves treat him this bad for 10 solid years and he keeps trying? Dey gum him? Dude has been suffering for the past ten years, that's around the same time Buhari became president 😔 😔. He's a strong man.

Did the children also do something bad to her to deserve the same punishment? Na the children wey dey in the middle of the toxicity suffer pass...

Goodnewsforlife:
your parents failed at parenting by raising an imbe_cile like u U will die miserable, I know u have heard it countless times but I am adding to it

Again, stop reasoning like am imbe_cile!

Goodnewsforlife:
don't mistake me for your father No wonder they call u evening newspaper n those small boys mess u up here

Again, stop reasoning like am imbe_cile!

Goodnewsforlife:
this fool abeg dont quote me U know I stated it categorically yesterday that I hate having any conversation with u n once I see u on any thread I leave Please I can't stand your madness Just leave me alone

Again, stop reasoning like am imbe_cile!

press9jatv:
➜ you are a clueless ignorant mumu guy here. Chidera preach more about saggy boobs. You never watch it. What a clueless lazy thinker. Mumu ignorant guy

Abeg, get off my mention with your ramblings!

Saggy boobs are somehow about this gal and not something that nature itself determines for most women? And we are 2025 and this is how many Nigerians still reason? Gosh! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

press9jatv:
she lie here. Enough sex works in marriage

What you just posted makes no sense!

Goodnewsforlife:
Omo who dey date this one's self. Wetin u wan enjoy from all these fallen heroes now

Why do you folks like you choose to reason like imbe_ciles? So if your teenager were to have boobs like that from age 13, you would automatically conclude that she is not worthy?

press9jatv:
“Marriage is the lowest paid form of séx work” — Blogger Chidera Eggerue

She is right! 🤔🤔

Sp1ritHusband:
Separation! Separation!! Separation!!!.....

@OP, I am all for immediate separation from that toxic environment for you and your kids. Your post suggests you have been traumatized by it all, do you ever wonder how your kids have been dealing with it all? Please consider separating from her until you both have been to marriage counseling and figured out the best way forward for the marriage and the two of you.

Marriage no be by force!

EmmyMaestro:
Who remembers this groundnut oil?😭😭 When you see this, that's your yearly reminder that Christmas is around the corner.

The brand still dey?

God2man2again:
➜James 2:9 " Ye believe that there is one God, even the devils believe that and shudder (tremble)"
The devil, Satan and his legions of demon believe in the existence of God as shown in the above Scripture. Whenever demons see Jesus Christ, they cried out because they know him.
Acts 19:15 And the evil spirit answered and said, Jesus I know, and Paul I know; but who are ye?
The devil never denied the existence of God in the scriptures, so denying the existence of God is one of the greatest deception organized by the devil to keep man in darkness forever.
➜Atheist are very quick to say that how can there be God when i prayed for my mother to be healed of her infirmity yet she died despite her being a good Christian?
How can there be God when there are so much sorrow, poverty, wickedness and oppression in this world? Where was God when I lost my Dad? Where was God when despite my dedication to God, I still failed my exam? Where is God? Show me? I want to see. The whole world has been handed over to Satan, the devil.
➜The only way out is to run to Jesus Christ for help, if not, the person will go from hell, here on earth, another hell after death. Therefore, to label yourself as Atheist is one of the most foolish things to do on earth because the devil, IS NOT AN ATHEIST.

1. The problem here isn't those who don't even believe in God of Israel but those of you who claim you believe in God of Israel yet lack the critical ability to reason even the things you claim you believe of your God of Israel. If, as you said, the devil is written to believe in the God of Israel. Not a single one of the verses you will search and find will convince you of the devil/Satan not believing in God of Israel at all. Isn't that more than enough proof that these athiests have nothing to do with this same devil/Satan who professes belief in the God of Israel?

2. They are right to question these things since you try to shove a God you don't even understand at them. It is like someone shoving Zeus at me and wondering why I question the existence of a Zeus. Questioning these claims is the logical thing to do.

3. Stop going around lying to people about a God you clearly have little or no understanding of abeg!

galserv:
↪Son of perdition!
Romans 1:22
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they( and co) became fools,
1 Corinthians 1:18-19
18 For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish(...) foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God.
19 For it is written, I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and will bring to nothing the understanding of the prudent.

Make an immediate appointment with a professional mental health therapist abeg! Religion has not only scammed you but left you completely incapable of critically reasoning even your existence at this point. 😩😩😩😩

asanausana91:
Buhari is a million times better than Tinubu.

Spit out that rubbish before it rot your brain completely! 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

Imagine using kakistocrats as a measure against another kakistocrats...no be symptom of brain problems that one be?

Mayeldah:
↪I am an RCCG member but I am not impressed with this Take care of the flock first before going outside. A lot of RCCG members are hungry but you are sharing food and clothes outside. I am doing fine though, I don't need these kind of CSR donations but there are a lot of members that needs it first to survive. Charity begins at home!

If RCCG(and most of the mega-churches in Nigeria alone) were to spend its resources not on hiring more pastors or building more churches but on taking care of its members majority of those who live in abject poverty conditions, I expect that would result in at least 5 million Nigerians being lifted out of poverty in less than a year.

The trend is seen worldwide actually. Churches pretend they care for the poor while their own poor continue to languish. It makes no sense at all!

galserv:
✓ Son of perdition!
Romans 1:22
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they( kobojunkie and co) became fools,

Seek professional mental health counseling so you can take back your life from the fraud that is religion before it becomes too late for you in this life.

galserv:
✓ Typical statement from a son of perdition. Start going close to nak*d fire

Worry more about yourself! You are so deep in religious hell that you can't even see what this conversation has revealed of your level of ignorance.

I suggest you seek professional mental health therapy as soon as you can so you can maybe salvage whatever is left of your life.

galserv:
➜Your quotes are from your anus. You didn't quote scripture. Son of perdition!

You are already in religious hell and you have no clue how it will end for you. Religion is a scam... the quicker you realize this and run far away from it, the better for you.

galserv:
➜ Which books and verses did you quote? State them here. Son of perdition!

Earlier you had claimed that you worship the God of Israel and His Son, Jesus Christ of Israel. And all I have done so far is quote Jesus Christ of Isreal whose Words you have rejected 100% of the time. Clearly, you lied to us about worshipping them, despite the obvious facts. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

galserv:
➜You don't quote the word of God without backing it up with Scripture. You quoted from your anus - bullshhit! Son of perdition!

This statement even makes way less sense! Anything to avoid accepting what is in fact written, right?

galserv:
➜Quotes the words I don't like here. Son of perdition!

I see! So, you pick and choose what you like and abandon all others you don't like? Interesting!

galserv:
■ Where and when Just state one thing I said that contradicts scripture.

According to you, God of Israel only answers SOME prayers, but I posted two verses where Jesus Christ of Israel instead said His Father answers ALL prayers. Your ideas clearly conflict with Scripture!

galserv:
➜Satan-inspired drivel all the way. Quote scripture to back up your claims. Even your father the devil resorts to scripture at times to deceive people. Start going close to nak*d fire in anticipation of hell - your final destination.

Wow... you really don't like the Words of Jesus Christ of Israel, do you? I quoted two of His very own statements but you were quick to reject them because what He said matters little to nothing to that which you believe, right? 😏😏😏

galserv:
➜Anything contrary to the Bible is satanic. That's what your views are.

But everything you have spewed so far is contrary to that recorded in Scripture. So, that would mean you are the Satanic element here, right? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

galserv:
■ Sure I do. The Bible is my basis for my conclusion.

The views of Satan are contained in the compendium that is the Bible. In which of the books is in the compendium?🤔

galserv:
↪Back up your words with Scripture - that God said He will grant all our requests/answer all our prayers.
➜God answers my prayers according to His perfect will.
➜Point 2 is staight off your anus. Utter bullshiiiit!!!
➜You are the hell-bound l*natic that needs to have his head electronically knocked...

Do you deny this claim made by Jesus Christ of How the answers to prayers are part of His Father's Glory shown through Him, the Son?

13 And if you ask for anything in my name, I will do it for you. Then the Father’s glory will be shown through the Son. - John 14 vs 13

Be aware that the statement only applies to those who are children of God of Israel.

2. Stop lying! First, you don't even have the blood qualification to become a child of the God of Israel. Even if for a moment pretend it is possible to wave this utmostly important qualification, we would still run up against the fact that you don't believe the God of Israel at all since what you believe runs counter to what He declared in 2000 years ago as His Law.

21 Jesus answered, “The truth is, if you have faith and no doubts, you will be able to do the same as I did to this tree. And you will be able to do more. You will be able to say to this mountain, ‘Go, mountain, fall into the sea.’ And if you have faith, it will happen.
22 If you believe, you will get anything you ask for in prayer.” - Matthew 21 vs 21 - 22

Clearly, whatever it is you worship, it is so far away from the one who is the God of Israel, whose Word is Everlasting —unchanging.

3. It is a bullsheet because the Words of YHWH and His Son, Jesus Christ of Israel, clearly mean a bullsheet to you as we continue to see here. 🤔

4. You are already in the hell you are afraid of but you don't even realize it!

galserv:
↪Sure. You have satanic views that must not be allowed to stand.

Satanic views.... and you know this because you are an expert as far as these views you speak of, right?

galserv:
➜ Where and when did He God swear that He would grant all our requests
➜I pray that God should kill you now for blasphemy, will you want God to answer the prayer
➜Your head is not correct o

Interesting question coming from one who earlier made the claim below.

galserv:
That is not the case with me. I worship God through Jesus Christ. Why is that difficult for you to accept

So, you are not aware that every claim Jesus Christ of Israel made, He did swearing in the name of His Father whose Will alone He said He, Jesus Christ, did?

2. First of all, you are not even a child of the God of Israel nor are you even qualified to become one, so why should the God of Israel answer any of your prayers given that His promise was made to His children alone?

3. You should pay more attention to your head there because you keep spewing contradictory statements as though they were in fashion!

galserv:
➜People like you need to be resisted like the devil with heavy knocks...

Resisted? Are you alright?