₦airaland Forum

SmartPolician:
The most disgusting argument I have heard is that the white man made Nigeria a mess. For instance, after the likes of Akpabio has looted every kobo budgeted for the NDDC, he will tell you that the white man doesn't want Africa to make progress! Nobody asks them what they did when they had the opportunity to fix things.

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On this, I agree with her.

marenkurz:
■ AI generated data doesn't help your argument. I work in research and development, so the data it's probably nonsense.
■ I have practical experience and I'll tell you for a fact. Kids grow up differently. Child A might outgrow wetting early and child B might take a while.
■ You can blame the parent/teacher. A simple reminder will help the child. In time, the child will outgrow it. It doesn't require prayer, doctor or any expert. Just attention.

1. What is instead bullsheet is your claim. The post is AI generated from actual data and reports written by humans who work with children and in education.

2. That kids grow differently is known and indicated in that post there which clearly explains that about 40 - 60% of kids in Europe and America are potty trained beginning from 24 to 36 months.

3. Blame parents? Who blames parents/teachers? Are you OK at all? A simple reminder will help the child. Have you actually raised a toddler before? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Olympuse:
Hello guys, I created the topic to seek your opinion on something I intend doing.
I have been teaching for some years now and I feel I am not making progress, man don dey old and no achievement in sight. I have a skill I am learning by the side(web development).
I want to quit my teaching job and focus on perfecting this skill for next 3 months.
But when I think of the economy and responsibilities and expectations from home, I procastinate.
But now the teaching job is becoming tiring to me, what should I do brethren

You live in Nigeria, and with the economy the way it is, you are trying to quit your job? The only reason I would think why anyone would think to quit a job during a recession/depression like the one Nigeria is currently experiencing is if the person is experiencing abuse of the kind that he/she can no longer endure or if the wages receive no longer pose the advantage it used to. I advise continuing as you have until things begin to look up instead in the country.

If they are intentionally doing it then get rid of them. You are a boss, not a babysitter!

Tonytonex:
■ Tinubu is wicked and heartless leader. all the subsidies wey him remove no do am? He still wants to add more and increase more taxes with the current hardship people are facing.
However, I'm in support of the tax reform. Cause, some people want to reap where they didn't sow.

I am equally not against tax reforms either. What I am against however is giving credit where credit is not due which seems to be all this administration has been banking. Taxes were not introduced to Nigeria by Tinubu, and most of his tax policies have yet to be implemented. So it is erroneous to claim that taxes are currently paying off anything in that country when tax revenue of old has not been able to do that before now. Couple that fact with the fact that the Naira has been severely devalued meaning whatever amount Nigerians once paid is now devalued by more than a 3rd, and you immediately see how claiming tax money has been paying off Nigeria's debts is near impossible.

marenkurz:
That is why children use diapers. They start by pee/poo in the diaper, then with training, they outgrow it. I have two kids that are schooling in Germany. Also had their kindergarten in Germany. Even oyinbo kids poo/pee on themselves. What is the problem?

Most 3-and 4-year-olds in preschool, even in Germany, are already potty trained. Accidents may happen most especially when they are napping maybe but that is far and in between. A child who regularly poos and pees on self at that age is a child that needs help.

tunize:
■ When you were 3years old, you were already sensible to the point of knowing what trauma is abi?

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um... If you ask whether I knew at that particular age that that event would ruin my life for many years to come, the answer is, of course, no. What I knew at that age was a feeling of abandonment and rejection. And that feeling would dog me for many many years after that. That is what trauma does to individuals. So, explain to me how you are still stumped by this.🤔

Missroyalluv:
■ Does it mean once she's lonely, she should remain that way till the end of time?
■ Alot men are occupied,having fun and no one is complaining.
■ What happened to the lonely wife at home?

If she is lonely or he is lonely in the marriage, he/she can simply get the Bleep out of the marriage since marriage. Divorce is not a crime.

2. The one not complaining is the woman who chooses to remain as wife to a cheater, right? That decision is wholly hers to make. She has the choice to divorce him but rather chooses to remain with him in all of his cheating. That is all on her.

3. If she is lonely in the marriage the sensible option, if no resolution in sight, is divorce. Divorce is a logical solution to loneliness in marriage. However, when a man or woman chooses to forgo that sensible solution to opt instead cheat on his spouse thereby violating the marriage agreement, it then falls on the other spouse to decide whether to condone such an act or seek divorce.

By the way, cheating does not resolve the problem of loneliness in marriage. It has been shown to exacerbate it and make the divide between spouses even more apparent for third parties.

Missroyalluv:
Apart from the crime of sleeping with other people's wives, why do people record themselves during intimacy? I'm very curious I'm sure this man have an aim for all what he did? Do you think men who are very busy with work and other things, their wifes deserve this kind of man inorder to keep their marriage going, to avoid loneliness? What's your opinion on this?

What is a marriage and what is required to keep it going though? Answer this question and you will find that you already know the answer to your question there.

JAMO84:
The President has made it clear that he does not intend to subsidise fuel.
Only Peter Obi's supporters will believe this crap from Sahara reporters. Courtesy of their hatred for Tinubu and their inability to recover from a crushing election defeat.

When did that happen? Before or after NNPCL announced that it was owing $6 billion? Or was it when the house started investigating NNPCL's $3.2 billion debt for 2024?

HgAkpobomeEr:
Subsidy is a good thing.

Not when it is almost immediately ends up in the pocket of the rich while the poor see nothing of it.

Tonytonex:
oga, if you buy things at super market and the rest, you have paid tax. If you pay for electricity, you have paid tax etc. even people drinking beer, soft drinks oh, there's tax inclusive.

Yes, we know that and if i am not mistaken, Nigerians have been paying VAT on goods since before the last 17 months. I am instead referring to the tax policies of this administration. Have they been implemented at this point in time or are you merely jumping the gun in some attempt to score one on taxes for Tinubu?

Tonytonex:
VAT is the tax .

That much we all know. The question again is who is paying taxes wey dem never implement abeg? Dem never even begin to dey pay minimum wage at any level, you don dey suggest say dividends don dey come in. Why?

Thrasher2024:
I know she's terribly heartbroken right now but at least when Hilary Clinton lost to Donald Trump, she immediately accepted defeat and congratulated Trump. Harris on the other hand couldn't even address her supporters that were waiting for the results and party, instead she allowed a spoke person to address them to go that she'll address them today, it's almost 11am in the US at least she should say something or Biden should say something

She is allowed to wait until 100% of votes are collated though. There is no law that mandates she concede before then. 😂

My own vote has not been counted since I submitted my ballot by mall and I wonder why the rush to announce a winner. 😁

tunize:
✓ At 3•5 years old you remembered you first traumatic experience hahahahah kai nairaland and story tellers. You get sense wen you dey 3years?

You actually think 3-5 year olds no get sense? I hope you don't ever intend to raise any kids with this mindset of yours. 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

fitinwell:
It's almost all kids ooo
If you want to enjoy parenting.. you have to come down to your kids level...
And communicate in kids own baby language....

Where do you folks get these ideas from? My one niece was potty trained before age 2 and she learned well because she never has a problem with such after that. She too loved watching cartoons all day and we let her by age 3, indulge in as much PBS shows as she loved.

Other kids I know were also potty trained early but aside from accidents here and there, they never experienced anything close to that described by the OP of her kid literally peeing and pooping on herself while watching cartoons. So where do you get off claiming that nonsense happens to almost all kids?

marenkurz:
Chill.
It is perfectly okay for a children to pee or boo on themselves. No child is the same. Just because A child stop doing those early doesn't mean child B will do the same.
You can also help her by reminding her often. Tell the teachers to do the same. It's not a big deal.

Perfectly okay for a child to pee or poo themselves? What in the world are you people smoking abeg! You say that like children/toddlers like pooing and peeing on themselves. No they do not. 😩😩😩😩

Samueltemi337:
So saying you were 3.5 years at the time is not saying the age?

My brother was born when I was about 3.5 years of age which also happens to be the same time the event i remember happened. Why are you having a hard time with this for Pete's sake ..😂😂😂😂😂

Mamayam:
✓ Which therapy did you use to resolve it? EMDR?

After several years of professional therapy, it took a lot of personal effort of my own to overcome them actually.

miketayo:
✓ Some kids wants attention. Once there is a new baby they start acting weird to get attention.

That's only some kids, and not all kids. So imi prefer to err on the side of caution when it comes to those vulnerable beings, especially when I consider my own experience.

Kobicove:
✓ Why would the birth of a new younger sibling traumatise a child?

it may be many other things and not the brother at all. That is why if all the mother could think of is the baby, then I feel she might as well get doctors involved ASAP . It could even be something she encounters in those cartoons she spends her time watching or even her body. I can't really say myself.

My trauma was not my brother or my siblings but born of believing I was being abandoned/rejected the day my parents left me in the care of some neighbors in the village so they could go have my brother at the hospital. The plan was originally to leave me and my sister there but she cried a lot and ended up going with them. I was a quiet child so they took it mean that I was fine with being left there. Not knowing what was taking place on the inside of me. 😩😩😩😩😩

Samueltemi337:
Definitely you will have memories of some experiences
But the fact that you remembered the exact age you were at that time shows you are lying

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I never said anything about remembering the age I was at the time. Rather what I recalled was the event. Obviously, one could easily figure out the age by the event that took place. 🤔

Alliswell248:
No more subsidy.... This is simple arithmetics

No more subsidy or they can't pay subsidy anymore with NNPCL now in a hole for over $6 Billion?

Tonytonex:
All the taxes, subsidies money...

Who is paying taxes wey dem never implement abeg? Dem never even begin to dey pay minimum wage at any level, you don dey suggest say dividends don dey come in. Why?

Okoroawusa:
■ But it was true when they said it was 97% right?

It was more believable because that ratio endured over many years as the debt ratio. Wanting Nigerians to, out of the blue, now believe that like overnight, the debt ratio without any general improvement of any kind, has dropped from 98% by over 32% is propaganda at best. This same administration has up until now not hinted at a decrease in that number throughout the past 16 months. But suddenly we are now to believe it has fallen like overnight to 60-something percentage just as the President himself announced the country had been on the verge of bankruptcy?

Pbatmedia:
https://von.gov.ng/nigerias-debt-service-ratio-drops-to-65/

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Emmanuel909090:
■ Seems you haven't seen a contractor buy the parent company? Business management differs. So you feel if she'll folds today everybody who works for shell will suffer? A lot are even making more than they make from shell, but still remain in shell it's called diversification. A lot of doctors I know make more money from their private clinic but still work for a general hospital, and you think if general hospital folds they will suffer?
Anyways the whole idea is anybody who has lived and worked abroad for years is not supposed to come back here and start job hunting. Creat a job and employ other people. Exception of students abroad

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Obrigardo:
✓ I don't know if you have caught this up as Kamala's campaign promise, that's she going to waive out college requirements if you are looking for good paying jobs
I don't need to stress how many Nigerians this will help, hardworking people, in the US if she wins.
I don't know why people ain't talking about this

Wave which college requirement? You actually believe there are companies out there that are going to hire unqualified workers abi wetin?

Krismas:
u are to believe what u like.
The Elephantine people were Jews. If I may use that word. But you can see, they wrote in Aramaic and not Hebrew 500BCE. So if that does not answer your question, I don’t know what else will

Record has it that some Israelites ran off to Egypt begining around 700BC; Also, about 200 years after, some from the nation of Judah -- Jewish sects of Israel --- equally escaped to Egypt.

That again is by the side, my focus remains on claims you have made of the Hebrew language.