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AntiChristian:
✓ Yeah, war slaves are to serve God! I mean God having a share of war booty! [b]I can't imagine Israel following the Torah and doing this today! Majority of the virgins are to serve the warriors!
Exactly! The Biblical Israelites are as you claimed. I like your honesty here! But you know Yahweh supports them terrorist Israel in the Bible?
✓ Jesus was the Prince of peace and he should have mediated in the terrorism acts and genocide commited back then!
✓ For example: Jesus would never support all these killings while on earth! Why did he supported them when he was not on earth?
[size=12pt]1 Samuel 15:2-3
This is what the LORD of Hosts says: ‘I witnessed what the Amalekites did to the Israelites when they ambushed them on their way up from Egypt. Now go and attack the Amalekites and devote to destruction all that belongs to them. Do not spare them, but put to death men and women, children and infants, oxen and sheep, camels and donkeys.’”
Numbers 31:17-18
So now, kill all the boys, as well as every woman who has had relations with a man, 18but spare for yourselves every girl who has never had relations with a man.
And nothing stops God from killing the enemies like Sodom![/size]

1. Terrorist's in the Bible? Please be specific! 🥱🥱🥱

2. Were all the other princes doing the same thing... Or you are just bored and looking yet again to foist your private delusions in ignorance? 🥱🥱

3. Jesus Christ of Israel would never support the commandments of His own Father in His own Nation? Are you high? We are talking her of the sovereignty of a nation that existed almost 2500 years ago here. 🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
✓ Moses was said to be filled with the spirit of God in Numbers 11:17 and Numbers 27:18! Hence the laws he promulgated should have been top-notched standards that should be able moral compass for ages to come. Notwithstanding, I can understand as Samson too was empowered with the same holy Spirit!
I think the criticism occurs as a result of the Holy Spirit frolicking with the Character Moses! Assuming Moses was just a man, then i wouldn't have made such comments! Giving that terrorists are now following this Holy spirit script...

Clearly, this criticism is a really of your personal ignorance and nothing else. 🥱🥱

What you are insinuating is that your Muslim terrorists follow a military code designed specifically for a nation whose military ceased to exist over 2500 years ago? Are you certain you are OK? 😩😩

A better question to ask is, "Are/is the Christian deities weak?" 🥱

The reason for this is simple and it is that to this day, we have yet to find any definitive evidence that the god(s) of the Christians are directly linked to the Bible. We know what the Christians claim but there claims are not evidenced anywhere in the Bible? 🥱🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
✓ Same commandments Jesus upheld in Matthew 5:19.
✓ Yes, according to the Bible he did that! He obeyed God and his family obeyed him and were saved and preserved!
✓ See number 4 below. Jesus never refered to the birth system. He was never concerned about that! What he said was clear in John 5:19.

So Jesus replied, “Truly, truly, I tell you, the Son can do nothing by Himself, unless He sees the Father doing it. For WHATEVER the Father does, the Son also does.

What does "WHATEVER" means as used above?

1. Wrong! Jesus Christ of Israel was not a soldier therefore he could not have up held that particular commandment, even though he lived under the very same Law of Moses under which it fell. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Wrong! The book instead presents Noah as a man who was able to save his wife and children from drowning. Anything apart of that is imagined and not of that book. 🥱🥱

3. Why did he need to refer to the birth system when he came into the human dimension through the birth system? 😩😩

Mikocake:
✓ In as much as you made some valuable points in your write up, but there’s no almighty formula to things like this. All I’m trying to say is that he should keep on keeping on. There’s power in repetition. No one was born with emotional or social skills and you build it by . interacting with others, knowing what works and what doesn’t. How would he improve if he doesn’t interact? You can read thousands of books or watch thousands of videos but if you don’t interact with people is of no use. I’m only encouraging the op to continue being social and open, and if desires to get a partner he’ll surely see someone who understands him, simple.
✓ Op keep pushing my brother, nothing good comes easy. There are many people who are in such situations that still found a way to pull through.
✓ Not every lion who chased a zebra caught it, but every lion who caught a zebra chased it.

1. The only power in repetition comes from repeating that which you have previously learned and come to know to be right. GIGO - Garbage-in-garbage-out.; if you repeat foolishness, you will only continue a cycle of foolishness. And we clearly see that is what most Nigerians like to do ... recyclinh foolishness in hopes that some way, some how it will magically transform itself to wisdom... something that clearly never happens. 🥱🥱

Repetition only works in your favor when you first learn the right way to do things and then go on to putting that into practice, sparing yourself any wasted foolishness, and meaninglessness by that. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Nothing good comes easy! All the more reason why he has to do the hard inner work necessary to equip him with the emotional and social intelligence -- the e best practice tools --- that is best able to aid him in obtaining that which he needs to find before venturing out there. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Blindly chasing after zebra does not get a lion fed. (Contrary to what you may have been told, lions dodo go hungry if their chase fails.) Knowing the particular zebra to go after and when is how a lion is best able to ensure he gets fed that day. 🥱🥱🥱

bestman09:
Wish you know all the stress men go through daily. You think all men sleep?

Women deal with many of the exact same stresses that men deal with. 🥱🥱🥱

Osiris12:
you go sleep sef and the brain go still dey calculate next moves

That is anxiety and is in no way unique to men. That woman in that video's brain is also doing similar calculations trying to find her the best way to posture herself in order to have time for that baby, get her some sleep so she can deal with her work the next day -- meetings, ledgers yo prepare, schedules, appointments, drop-offs, etc.🥱🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
➜I never said it still continues till this day! If your God can give such laws at one point in time so what moral standing do you have against those terrorists who claim same today if they exists?
➜ Is that not extreme hypocrisy?
➜ Reading Numbers 31 in context, we saw how virgins were spared and others were killed. Even 32 virgins were awarded to the LORD from the booty!
➜ So because all these laws are no more in use today then they stopped becoming acts of terrorism and genocide? Or is it because they involve your God?
➜ And where was Jesus the price of peace back then when all these happened?

1. Moral standing? Who told you the Law of Moses was about your moral standing? Tell us what your moral code of today has to do with what existed or was 2000 years ago?

Now that I think about it, the right of the Israelites to war was actually taken away from them, the moment Judea was captured by the Babylonians, as they never regained their freedom from that point on, and were never able to raise a national army... we are talking over 2500 years ago, actually. And during that time, many of their women were taken by their captive nations as slaves, as detailed in parts of scripture. While the vast majority were sold off into slavery in foreign lands.

2. Hypocrisy in what sense? You would have to explain this reasoning of yours to me. 🥱🥱🥱

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Additionally, given that the rightness or wrongness of particular actions— particularly those which pertain to your moral codes —is dependent on the circumstances of the time and culture in which it occurs, ethical relativism, why the sudden insistence by your person that what you consider of moral code be compared to objective truth which it cannot be? Isn't that act of yours more closely tied to hypocrisy here than anything else? 🥱🥱

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3. Yes, from the female slaves taken during the law, some were taken as slaves to serve the positions available in the temple. What do you have against that? 🥱🥱🥱

4. Um... Israel was a nation with its own borders and laws, and it had an army and the right to conquer and destroy any army that encroached on its territory, like any other nation out there. It was a terrorist group like the many islamic terrorists groups out there, you keep wanting to compare it to. 🥱

When the Assyrian nation descended on the Northern nation of Israel around 720BC to wage war against it, there was no cry of genocide even though about 1/3rd of the people were decimated, and the remaining 2/3rd were either taken away into slavery or exiled. When the Babylonians, the Persians, then the Greeks, and eventually the Romans, sacked the southern nation of Judea, killing more than 1/3rd, sending a good portion of those alive either into slavery or exile, no one cried genocide then either. 🥱🥱

5. We are discussing talantolo, this one dey talk tolontala... wetin concern Jesus Christ of Israel being the prince of peace with any of the issues of Israel(Judea included)? I mean, His literal arrival ushered in the end time... the time of the curse of the Law of Moses... upon the poeple and the land. 🥱🥱

This mama's restless night of sleep shows a glimpse into all the unseen work moms do. It's no wonder 93% of mothers report feeling burned out and 89% report getting less than 8 hours of sleep each night

Like many co-sleeping, breastfeeding mothers, Cherrell, a former labor and delivery nurse, is tired. But she didn’t realize quite how tired she was until she recorded a night of sleep for Motherly. In the now viral time-lapse video posted to our Facebook page, viewers can watch as Cherrell and her husband co-sleep with their 17-month-old toddler, Cleo, nestled between them. Throughout the night, Cleo sleeps restlessly, while Cherrell breastfeeds often to soothe her. Needless to say, Cherrell woke up the next morning, exhausted.

In our State of Motherhood survey, we found that 93% of mothers report feeling burned out and 89% report getting less than 8 hours of sleep each night. Cherrell’s restless night of sleep shows a glimpse into all the unseen work moms do, and with 25 million views on Facebook, her experience is striking a chord with mothers everywhere.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVRC08nqME8?si=T6oTkVlhEcBqjBK0

When Cherrell first watched the video, she tells Motherly her first reaction was, “Ummm did I even sleep?!” Though she knew it had been a difficult night’s sleep, “In my mind it didn’t look like that. I was shocked to see how short those waking intervals actually were.”

Regarding her child’s sleep journey, Cherrell writes, “I actually never intended to co-sleep. I always envisioned I would, but I tried it once or twice when my oldest daughter was little, and quickly realized it wasn’t for me, or her for that matter. But Cleo has obviously been a whole different story.”

Cherrell made the decision to co-sleep with Cleo when she came down with RSV, a common and acute viral respiratory infection that can cause some respiratory complications, at two weeks old.

“We ended up pulling Cleo into our bed around that time to keep an eye on her respiratory efforts, and help her maintain a more upright position. After she recovered, I did try and have her sleep in the bassinet, but she never once slept longer then one to two hour stretches, so just to manage, I brought her in bed with us.”

Still recovering from her delivery in the midst of the pandemic, Cherrell decided it was easier for her to breastfeed Cleo by her side at waking intervals than it was to get up, feed and change her and get both she and the baby back to sleep. Like many moms going through this phase, finding any way to any way to cut corners to get more rest and recovery is worth it.

Cherrell tells Motherly, “It’s definitely been an exhausting phase in my motherhood journey to say the least. While we’ve unsuccessfully tried a ton of different (sleep training) strategies over the last year, we now have a new plan in place with a sleep consultant to help us transition Cleo to her own bed in the next coming weeks. We are all looking forward to it, as you can imagine, so I am soaking up these last nights with her by my side.”

https://www.mother.ly/video/co-sleeping-video-goes-viral/

Nahimm:
➜she said 25 but I’ve seen an old document of hers that says 27, and also her antenatal form carries 27. I know ladies don’t always feel comfortable giving their actual age, there’s usually about -2 difference in the age they tell other people.

Wrong! Don't use your erroneous assumptions regarding women to excuse your ignorance of your wife's age. Find out from her why the discrepancies between records. If you insist on interrogating her, then be sure you will have failed even before you start.

mayhead:
➜As long as you have a mentality your problem is spiritual, you’d always have a problem, you’d always find why you look for and you can never find something when they say it’s spiritual, so therefore, you’d spend all the years finding something that never was the problem

Stop lying to him! There is nothing spiritual about a downturn. 🥱🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
➜If Jesus is both fully God and fully human, then who truly died on the cross?
➜ If Jesus is God, and God is eternal and immortal, how can God die?
➜ If Jesus died only in his human nature (the flesh), but his divine nature remains alive, can we say Jesus truly died?
➜ When Christians say "Jesus died," are they referring to the death of a human person, a divine person, or both?
➜ How can the death of Jesus be complete and real if one nature (divine) is immortal and the other (human) is mortal?
➜ Does the statement "God died on the cross" mean God ceased to exist, or is it a metaphorical expression?
➜ How can Christian reconcile the claim that "Jesus died" with the doctrine that God cannot die?

1. Jesus Christ of Israel died on the cross; there is no hard and fast rule that the essence of YHWH(God of Israel) cannot present itself in human form through the human creation system that YHWH(God of Israel) built, and experience, too, the death that YHWH(God of Israel) prescribed for mankind. 🥱🥱🥱

Allah may have such limitations, but YHWH(God of Israel)never suggested such limitations to His Power. 🥱🥱🥱

2. What is it about the human death as described in Genesis 3 vs 19-24 leads you to believe that such could never be experience to any essence belonging to YHWH in human dimensions? 🥱

3. Well, human death is not eternal death, and it stipulates th when death occurs, no longer is the man temporarily animated by the breath of life(eternal life of YHWH) - Genesis 3 vs 19-24. What this insinuates is that when Jesus Christ of Israel took His last breath as a man on the cross, He ceased to be temporarily animated by the breath of life designated to animate all humans— He was unplugged from it—, and was hooked back onto His eternal Life, which we are made to understand He had before taking on the human form. 🥱🥱

4. I don't subscribe to Christian hogwash. I know from what is written in the books that He did die like you and I will eventually die at the end of the day. That much is confirmed in all 4 Gospels.🥱🥱

5. Again, human death is as defined in Genesis 3 vs 19-24. And the key here is the termination of the breath of life, which temporarily animates the human(from dust you were made and to dust you return happens over an extended period without a breath to animate the man, as we all know). Any other idea of human death you have is meaningless since the only one that applies and the entire book works with is the one that is defined in Genesis 3 vs 19-24. 🥱🥱

6. Jesus Christ of Israel died on the cross, and this was confirmed by the accounts of His followers. His human experience(the temporary human life he had —birth to death — ended when he took his last breath on the cross.🥱🥱

7. Again, I cannot speak for any of you religious folks. 🥱🥱

Rearealki:
➜See you are right. I have been watching videos since my 18th birthday it’s a decade + later now I have still not have a grasp of the least social and emotional skills.
➜I don’t think I can ever

It ain't about merely watching videos. Self-reflection work is needed, and this is something you will need to do throughout the rest of your life if you have come to understand the importance of such efforts towards ensuring your best outcome in life and also in your every relationship in life(not just romantic prospects).🥱🥱

The least social and emotional skills? You mean you have watched videos, and you are still unable to realize what boundaries are, their importance, and how to decide them for yourself and your relationships? 🥱🥱

2. Why have you reached this conclusion? Are you mentally unable to learn or something? What is the reason behind this conclusion of yours?🥱🥱

Nahimm:
I turned 29 about a month ago. I met my wife in the first quarter of 2024. We dated for a short period—about three months—before she became pregnant....

How old is your wife? 🥱🥱🥱

Mikocake:
➜There’s a partner for everyone.
➜ When you meet your own you wouldn’t have to stress it.
➜ Just keep talking to as many as you can. Remove the pressure to win them over, just see it as fun. You’ll be amazed by the results you’ll get. ➜ Your problem is that you’re taking women too serious.

1. Let's stop telling everyone this lie that was invented by your traditional/religious leaders to keep many subjugated and controlled under their banners. There is no partner for everyone out there. As a matter of fact, about 25% of the population in every generation go on to never experience marriage or a romantic relationship in their lifetime. Not through any fault of their own, but because life had many other equally important or meaningful plans for them. And that is the fact of this life we live in. 🥱🥱

2. Again, stop telling him this lie! No human out there has mind-reading abilities. That stress of having to communicate your feelings and plans is necessary regardless of who you meet. 🥱🥱

3. This is the worst advice that many out there ever received. It leads to burnout, bitterness(being rejected so many times tends to take a toll on the average emotionally deficient being out there), and disillusionment. Look at threads in the Romance section on Nairaland for the evidence of this. 🥱🥱

4. Wrong! His problem, as he honestly stated, is that he is still lacking in emotional and social intelligence. And the only way to properly resolve his issue is for him to take time out from the chase to work on these skills until he is at least at a point where he is comfortable enough to express himself to both men and women, and also knows how to handle rejection, not as an attack on himself, but a fact of life. 🥱🥱

Rearealki:
➜Seems i have configured my life to be single even tho i desire relationship
But it seems it impossible for me to have one. I lack basic skills of having a partner. Like communication skills. Leadership skills. I don’t even know how to woo a lady or talk to them
May be this is due to my childhood mindset that if don’t talk to girls I will make heaven now all my efforts on ladies dies on first trial

It is OK to admit to yourself that you are lacking in emotional and social intelligence. Most people out there struggle in the same areas, but somehow think that by faking it, they can make it. Unfortunately, they are also the majority out there who end up embittered and miserable in a relationship. Being honest with yourself is the best way to go, and this is the first step towards obtaining the know-how/skills you need. 🥱🥱🥱

If you are not able to access YouTube channels to get the training in Emotional and Social Learning, you can download books on each of the subjects, using that as a guide to help you do the heavy inner work that you need to train your mind and brain to become a better human being overall. Consistency is the key, and self-discipline is needed to ensure success. 🥱🥱

P.S. -the same skills you need to make good male friends are pretty much the same skills you need to make good female friends, and eventually decide romantic partners.🥱🥱🥱

BigYash:
➜At that age you say staying in his parents hux is not backwardness? Guy be honest for once..
➜ What if the parents, accepted that their problem is spiritual,and relax in their parents hux,will op have a place to stay now?
➜ Have you asked him if he learnt a skill,looked for job and money started vanishing from his savings?
➜ Op if you dey drink and womanize it will be hard for you. It's a new year.. try use this year learn one good paying skill. Get jobs and things will start changing from there.
➜ Don't stay doing nothing, cux they said it's spiritual. That mindset is the problem you are having. Take that shit off your mind and launch

1. It isn't! Imagine you have been in a coma for much of your 20s through 40s, only to wake up at age 48. Would you consider staying in your parents' home backwards even then? 🥱🥱

2. He is fortunate that his parents are not as deluded as other African parents then. Something OP should be thankful for. 🥱🥱🥱

3. If he didn't learn anything before now, he can start now learning whatever he needs to get himself started and headed back out there. 🥱🥱

4. I actually think it would be extremely difficult for him to get himself back on track if he still indulged in such nonsense at this point in his life. 🥱🥱🥱

5. There is absolutely nothing spiritual about his predicament, as all around the world, there are stories of people who were once in OP's shoes that were able to, through self-discipline, hard work, and consistency, eventually find their footing. 🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
➜How are beautiful war captive women to be treated?
Memory Verse - Deuteronomy 21:10-15
When you go to war against your enemies and the LORD your God delivers them into your hand and you take them captive, if you see a beautiful woman among them, and you desire her and want to take her as your wife. then you shall bring her into your house. She must shave her head, trim her nails, and put aside the clothing of her captivity. After she has lived in your house a full month and mourned her father and mother, you may have relations with her and be her husband, and she shall be your wife. And if you are not pleased with her, you are to let her go wherever she wishes. But you must not sell her for money or treat her as a slave, since you have dishonored her.

That prisoner of wars agreement was essentially brought to a halt just over 2000 years ago when the remnants of the land of Israel(the Judeans) were not only exiled, but the land itself was renamed Syria Palestine by the Romans, essentially bringing to a close the effect of that law which you quoted ushering in the time of the curses of the Law — Deuteronomy 28 - 30. 🥱🥱🥱

Since that time, the nation that YHWH Himself constituted has never warred against any human nation of the earth. And according to the Book of Books, the nation, whose King is Jesus Christ of Israel, ceased to war against the nations of men— no more slaves or anything of the sort — since the people of Israel were cursed by their God. And after the nation is eventually reconstituted here on earth by its everlasting King, there would still be no more wars. 🥱🥱🥱

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You brandishing those laws 2000 years later leads me to believe you have never, in fact, processed the content of that book outside of the space that is religion as fed to you by your particular religious gods. What a shame, because that book is a book of interesting reads.

AntiChristian:
✓ What's the consequence of that law?
✓ And by following him they were saved from the destruction right?
✓ You are still depicting falsehood!
John 5:19
So Jesus replied, “Truly, truly, I tell you, the Son can do nothing by Himself, unless He sees the Father doing it. For WHATEVER the Father does, the Son also does.
Emphasis on 'WHATEVER"!
✓ WHATEVER THE FATHER DOES THE SON ALSO DOES! THIS IS SIMPLE ENGLISH! DID THE FATHER DIE FOR JESUS TO DIE?

1. Consequences of a national Constitution? I don't understand what you mean. 🥱🥱

2. They were saved from drowning alongside all the other folks, yes, but that is it. Noah was, again, a father who saved his family from drowning with the rest of the world. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Point out the specific falsehood depicted in my response. 🥱🥱🥱

4. The father built the birth system and instituted death for all cursed. Jesus Christ of Israel came in through the very same and even insisted in similar for his own Kingdom/Nation. What part of this are you having a terribly hard time with? 🥱🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
1.So what was Moses's mission to his people giving them the law? What's the purpose of the law of God to Prophets?
✓ No one obeyed Noah to enter the ark? I thought God sent Noah to a people though!
✓ The quoted verse says Jesus does all he sees his father do! Tell us if the father died for Jesus to die! You keep insinuating that Jesus lied or that that John verse is false!

1. Moses' mission, exactly as it is written in his books was to deliver the Constitutional Law of YHWH -- God of Israel -- by which His Nation of Israel was created of the people of Israel in the Land of Canaan to them, the people He chose and named. That Law was a contract made by YHWH establishing them as His people and the land as an inheritance to them. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Noah entered the arc with His family .. his wife and sons(in including their wives). They did so, not because they followed Noah but because he was their father. That is what the story states. 🥱🥱🥱

3. And like it says, Jesus Christ of Israel saw the works of His Father and did according to that which He saw His Father do. Jesus Christ of Israel saw
* that His father set up the birth system as point of entry into this world for all humans. And so, He, Jesus Christ of Israel did as He saw...He entered into the human dimension through the birth canal.

* that His Father authored death and cursed all human with a curse to exit this life by way of the grave, and so He, Jesus Christ of Israel took to dying to exit this temporary human contract that began at his birth ...

Jesus Christ of Israel did not lie since all He did was according to the work previously done by His own Father. He even broke natural laws because His Father made miracles possible. That is what is written in that book for all to read. 🥱🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
✓ I never used the word "proclaimed". As usual, you read it into it.
✓ But People of Moses didn't follow Jesus, they followed Moses as a messenger of God!
✓ Likewise, the people of Noah didn't follow Jesus but followed Noah as a messenger of God! This is the intended meaning!
✓ You mean Jesus lied that he does what he sees his father doing?

1. Again, absolutely none of the prophets that came before Jesus Christ of Israel proclaimed or suggested they were sources of Eternal life to any man or even their own selves. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Moses was never a source of eternal life; rather he was a messenger through which the Law of God was communicated to himself and his people. 🥱🥱

3. There was no people of Noah who followed Noah. 🥱🥱🥱

4. Jesus Christ of Israel did not lie since all he did was in accordance to that which His Father -- YHWH of Israel -- before Him has done...even that which He set in place doe all of mankind. 🥱🥱

Ibtxxo:
✓ My parents especially the one called mother killed my confidence as a child.
When i was a kid , I had discoloured yellow teeth.
She mocked me with it.
She will tell me my mouth use to smell.
This made me not to mingle with people as a child for fear of being called smelling mouth.
I was like this growing up.
I mostly stay indoors .
They mess upy life

You has your adult years to resolve and heal from your insecurities, but it seems you kept running away from them instead of embracing and then doing the inner work necessary to heal yourself of them all. That explains why at this big age you are still toting around with you baggage from your childhood. 🥱🥱

The truth is over 99.9% of us have trauma from our childhood that we carry with us by the time we reach adulthood. The ones who gain wisdom among use are those who come to realize the level of devastation those unhealed wounds from our childhood actually inflicts on us, and how seeking healing is the only way forward. 🥱🥱

Instead of brooding, start doing the inner work needed to heal from those wounds from your childhood. Go seek a professional mental health therapist for help with what you need to do and start working on bettering yourself from the inside out. 🥱🥱

The journey towards healing is lonely and tedious but the end is more than worth it. 🥱🥱🥱

Ibtxxo:
I was living alone.
No.job.
Rent house , I have to go back.
All the job i see is nothing.
Transport will eat.
Was doing 70k job before.
My tp to and from everday 1500.
I quit because it was not worth it

You made the right choice for where you found yourself, so why are you now thinking to begin beating yourself up for a master move? 🥱🥱🥱

Also, living at home with your parents while you sort yourself out means you can help them with chores and repairs around the house while keeping them company and also heal your mind and mental while you are at it. 🥱🥱🥱

My suggestion to you is that until you find yourself gainful employment and have saved you enough to get or build a house of your kwn, you should probably consider remaining single so you can pour all of your extra energy and time into yourself. I would recommend you work on your soft skills such as emotional and social intelligence so as to help you more maturely approach the world outside whenever the time comes for you to go back out there again. 🥱🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
1. Every Prophet that was sent by God were the way to reach eternal life for their respective times!
2. Because John said Jesus can of himself do nothing! He does what he sees the father do! Did he see the father die for him to also die?

John 5:19
So Jesus replied, “Truly, truly, I tell you, the Son can do nothing by Himself, unless He sees the Father doing it. For whatever the Father does, the Son also does.
3.

1. That is an absolute falsehood! None of the prophets in Scripture, including Moses, proclaimed themselves as the way to eternal Life. Only Jesus Christ of Israel is written to have ever done that in Israelite text and this was one of the reasons the religious leaders believed he had to die. 🥱🥱🥱

2. His father is the author of death and is responsible for cursing all humans to die. He saw that His Father mandated birth and death for all cursed on this planet, same as he mandated breathing and eating and so he too partook in them all. So?. 🥱🥱🥱

Ibtxxo:
No hope or road in front.
Just living for living sake

What made you have to move back in with your parents? 🥱🥱

Lamanii22:
✓ I can never wash my jeans in a machine

Why can't you wash your jeans in a machine built for washing even jeans? 🥱🥱🥱

TrainPark:
✓ Ok, I get your point.
The hubby is a civil servant and she teaches in a private school

We live in 2026 and the last thing Nigeria needs is yet another child that will be raised on an almost 100% carbohydrates diet. Those two are clearly barely unable to support themselves as it is, paying for them to have a child that is almost guaranteed suffering is not what is needed. They need to first get a source of better income, either by way of investment of side business before then bringing children in to the mix. No child deserves a life of suffering. That is my opinion. 🥱🥱🥱

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And as someone already stated, that money you intend to invest belongs to your wife too since you are equally married --- marital communal funds belong to both husband and wife --- so make sure she is OK with this idea of yours before you proceed.🥱🥱🥱

TrainPark:
✓ Fast forward 25yrs, his ex girlfriend connected eith him and they had a phone call and discussed life generally. There is no intention or suggestion of anything romantic . Just mutual respect.
She mentioned that she had been married for 18yrs without a child. She was considering IVF but she and her husband cannot afford it.
He is considering supporting her and the husband with money to do the IVF which costs just a few millions. What do you think?

Her husband of 18 years can't afford IVF but na child him for afford? 🥱🥱🥱

Tell her you would rather invest the money in business idea she has or her going back to school for education that could help her better afford a lifestyle better than the one she currently has. 🥱🥱

Giving her money for IVF is like giving her money to purchase a car when you know she will not be able to afford to fuel and maintain it. 🥱🥱🥱

eherbal:
OsunDefenderJan 14, 2026 9:00 PM
A yet to be identified housewife has killed her husband, side chick and grievously injured one other person in Ighwre-Ovie area of Ughelli North Local Government Area of Delta State.
The woman who is currently being held at the Ughelli Area Command, according to reports, macheted her husband’s skull multiple times before going berserk and killing her husband’s side chick and injuring another.
The woman, mother of two, was said to have killed her husband because of his extramarital affairs with another woman.
“The woman has been accusing her husband of having extra marital affairs with another unidentified woman, whom she killed the same day.
“Having become fed up with her husband’s infidelity, on that fateful day, the husband came back home drunk and on entering the house, the wife welcomed him by dealing multiple machete cuts to his skull from which he died instantly.
“Not satisfied, a female neighbour who tried to intervene by stopping her, got what she didn’t expect as her jaw was slit with a machete and is currently receiving treatment in the hospital.
“Again, she went to her husband’s side chick’s house, and on entering her house that is within the same area, she used a hammer to burst her skull.
“A woman who heard the noise from her neighbour’s house narrowly escaped being attacked in the process before raising an alarm that attracted people, which led to the suspect’s arrest,” a source said.
https://osundefender.com/wife-reportedly-kills-husband-girlfriend-over-alleged-infidelity/

Nigerian journalists need to begin doing a better job, abeg! How is this any different from any other work of fiction out there? 🥱🥱🥱

Lamanii22:
➜I can never wash my jeans in a machine

HUH

Lamanii22:
➜Not everyone can afford that plus it's not all clothes that is ideal for a w.machine.
P. S: i have a washing machine

. What clothing can you not wash or dry in your washing machine/dryer? 🥱🥱🥱

ayoncox:
they will do it 50/50 but the wife will focus on the children during the day while he goes out to hustle

Again, why can't he do the homeschooling? Why does it have to be the wife doing it? Why are the wife's career goals/aspirations expendable? 🥱🥱🥱

Why should her day, which she could and should use in doing her own hustling, be eclipsed by this homeschooling of children who are meant to be away at school at that time? Will the man compensate her for lost wages? 🥱🥱🥱