Rubyjade: People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better
Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal
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While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja
Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.
Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.
Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.
This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.
That's not betrayal that's just ppl minding their business. Grow your @ss up bro
God1000: The corruption in our military is endemic and pervasive, a lot of money earmarked for military hardwares has been looted for decades leaving our armed forces in a sorry state.
We should be able to have these sophisticated weapons as a country, no one can predict the future
no worry when biafra start them war, Naija military go show una wetin e get
She contributes her share to the upkeep of her family which is what she agreed to in marriage. Why do you instead expect her to carry it all by herself when she never signed up to doing that?
So because husband no dey bring e share she will not strive to get a better job and hence better the life of her family? this is why I can never buy into this feminism bvllshit
Kobojunkie: Mama Bomboy works but her salary is not enough to carry the entire load so she needs Papa Bomboy's contributions, after all it is also his family and child.
So again, What is wrong when mama Bomboy taking to asking her husband for money when he demands sex from her?
What can be construed as satanic about that?
Which kind dead work she dey do? Shebi na dem dey clamor for gender equality oya make she hustle bring money for the family
Mama Bomboy's husband refuses to contribute to the needs of his household ___ he always complains there is no money even to pay bomboy's school fees. But this very same man goes out each night to pay prostitutes for sex. About 70% of his pay goes outside to servicing sex workers. What is wrong when mama Bomboy taking to asking her husband for money when he demands sex from her?
What can be construed as satanic about that?
she no fit find work abi? Maybe na when husband begin dey r@pe am or husband bring slay mama enter their matrimonial bed na that time mama Bomboy go know e place
femmoy: Good afternoon good people of Nairaland, I need your help with my phone's data consumption.
I subscribed for 4G plan 3 days ago,when I checked my remaining plan today,it was 1.5G. I slept for about 4hours without disconnecting my data and when I checked again I saw 4MB. I subscribed again this time 6G and after surfing the web for about an hour,I got a message that my remaining balance was 500MB.
Could I have tampered with a particular setting unknowingly or what could be the problem?
My phone is Infinix Smart 5 and I'm using Airtel network.
Typical case of woman protesting in solidarity for her friend wey her husband beat for the first time when she get husband for house wey dey beat her on a daily basis.
We are a very peculiar people. Very very peculiar.
Omicronvaccine: Disc jockey and billionaire's daughter, Florence Otedola, also known as DJ Cuppy, has said that she may be single but she is a great mother, IGBERETV reports.
DJ Cuppy who celebrated her dogs on their first birthday on 17th February 2022, said that her pets can prove that she is a good mother.
I created you to keep track of my progress as I venture into learning software/web development and eventually become an established developer.
Today I downloaded a course: The Ultimate Full Stack Web Developer Bootcamp by Kalob Taulien. Going through the contents, Kalob advised that one of the best editors is VS Code, so I downloaded it too.
So far, I have learned how to customize the VS Code editor; create an html file; add the html, head, title, body, bold, italic and underline opening and closing tags. I also learned how to link different pages both internal and external.
Tired already, see ya tomorrow my dearest diary.
P.S: Special thanks to the ogas at the top, the likes of @tensazangetsu20. Going through your thread on the languages newbies should learn was a huge source of motivation. I'm grateful boss.
Heyah, u go enjoy the ride I promise , download sololearn from your app store and look up easy web on YouTube for practical Good luck
thanksjosh005: Yes, but I knew that sounded silly. Most likely not a via email contact support. They have phone numbers in your reach for support.
So basically, my share of advice is review the steps you took while migrating. You might start by verifying your domain. Also, check3 your FTP manager. Review the kind of file you were trying to transfer. And Did you make any changes before doing so? It might be those changes altered something.
thanks jare i was just trying to say their customer service sucks big time, u cant open ticket u cant chat with them and 5 minutes on their call center cost 600 naira AND THEY PUT YOU ON HOLD THE WHOLE TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!! the only place you can really get em is on twitter
Thandiubani: Nollywood actress Julianna Olayode has made damning allegations against her ex-foster father, Pastor Timilehin Adigun.
This is a continuation of accusations she made yesterday that he took over her social media handles and refused to release her passwords.
In a new post, Julianna accused him of sexually abusing her sister, demanding an#l se.x and lodging her in a hotel.
In a video she posted on her Instagram page this morning, Julianna addressed Pastor Timilehin's claim that she came by his office and was shaking because she knew she had wronged him.
In the video she posted, Julianna clarified that she was shaking because she got to find out that Pastor Timilehin had allegedly invited her sister over from school, lodged her in a hotel, and was touching her inappropriately. She also alleged d that Pastor Timilehin even asked her sister to allow him to perform anal sex with her. She said this was what was making her shake and tremble in anger when she went to see him in his church.
She said she suspected a while back that the clergyman was touching her sister and had visited him to ask him never to touch her sister. She said he denied the allegation, accusing her of using his ''weakness and struggles'' against him
''I told you Timilehin, you must not touch this girl. What did you do? You told her to come all the way from school, outside Lagos to meet you in the hotel for three days, watching her have her bath, sending her your nudes, even begging her to have anal sex with her and you think that my sister will tell me that kind of thing and I will not tremble and I will not be angry?'' she said in the video
The caption that accompanied the video she shared reads
''Timilehin Adigun, I can not make sense of the videos you did. Just when I think I have seen it all, you reveal another side of you. I thought I knew you but I didn't. You have no heart!
Your videos brought back memories, sad memories, painful memories, I have not been able to stop thinking about them, I can't even sleep.
Did you listen to yourself at all? I don't think you did.
You manipulated and sexually abused my sister and you thought I would be calm, you expect me not to be furious, how are you processing the things you did and the things you said? How? I don't get you.
You talk about apology and forgiveness.Forgiving you is a process for me. I forgave you then, for may sanity, just when I am trying to move on, you do something else that triggers me and I get mad at you again and I beg God to help me forgive you again.
The hurt is really deep, the pain, the trauma, the disappointment, the sleepless nights, the tears that drenched my pillow, the shock, the entire experience is indescribable.
Like I said, there is so much to say. I don't have the words yet.
My book Rebirth is full of your praises Timilehin, I spoke about all the things you did for me.
Even though then you had done it with two or three people that I know, but they were in good terms with you and they had forgiven you and everything seem to be okay.
We all thought it was a thing of the past for you and it will never happen again. When you told me it will never happen again, I believed you, I thought it had stopped.
Hence the reason I chose to focus on the good things when I wrote my book.
I saw you as a Father then, so I couldn't write a book and talk about your past.
You kept telling people, ' if Juliana ever talks about this she'll ruin herself and her career, she'll never be able to say it, she will be contradicting herself, Rebirth will speak for me'.
By the way everything I said about Timilehin in Rebirth is true, and that's why the hurt was really deep for me.... and I didn't know what to say and how to say it and I didn't want to look like the ungrateful person.
I couldn't talk to anyone, I remember talking to somebody I respect so much for the first time about it because I wanted to get help and feeling guilty I did, processing the whole thing in my head and hoping I didn't do wrong by telling someone about it, different thought in my head, you meant so much to me that I couldn't say anything bad that you did and not feel terrible.
Wo...oro po....there is so much to say...
You know your children Timilehin, don't ever call me you daughter again! And don't ever call yourself my father again!
I don't know why you mentioned Jenifa's diary, you want people to drag me for the mess you made.
You are just wicked honestly, what has Jenifa's Dairy got to do with passwords.
You sent an email and messed up the whole thing. Never said anything about it, people said all sort of things to me then, some are still talking till today.
You messed things up and I paid for it, who did I tell?
I almost went crazy when you started put the blame on me, as you have a habit of to blaming me for different thing, you just never take responsibility for the things you do.
I had to talk to the person who was present the day you sent the email as I thought I had amnesia.
I even had to chat with the director, because it felt like I was going crazy....'' he said
Pastor Timilehin is yet to respond to this allegation.
This is not the first time Timilehin has been accused of molesting young girls. In December 2020, he tendered a public apology after he was accused of sexually assaulting a number of the teens in his ministry known as MINE Teenage Ministry. Read here.