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CONGRATULATION!
YOU HAVE FINALLY MADE IT
WELCOME TO THE LAND OF SPIRITS

Marriage closed!
Everyone find what gives you joy!

Is a pity,Rip,the main theives in higher places that cause hunger for these one to go and steal re still enjoying.

No

Give birth to d child and give it to me I will train f child to highest level

All these men and women that give birth because of conji in the name of marriage and no hope for d children a least for food,pls control ur conji if you don't have food for d outcome. Mtcheeeew

Fathers property, some women are very rich now what of mother's property?

Just be wise! Don't labor in vain that is gospel truth,it would have be awesome if you don't know that your baby daddy,you just get pregnant and train your child without involving anybody but now the mistake has been done,man figure is not even prob bcs is not a grantee of training a child well is even women that is pillar of children's training, but now he is knows about this try and involve him fully in training of that child,BC if you finish all this struggles he will appear to reap where he didn't sow,so be wise

Don't mind those people, you know what you want in life,nobody should push you after all not everyone that is telling you that even have your wellbeing in mind,what of if you choose not to marry! So know what you want let them don't push you.

See you!,God no tell you anything you're under guess work and not sure of your message, bcs if you're so sure you would have told them but you're afraid of not failing and losing your members,the una go stop deceiving people esp women na the day hunger go kill una,lie lie mtcheeew.

That's not good,she for dey sleep for parlour, since is a bed room bedroom flat,that act is not good for her.

I wonder if it should be your girlfriend that will be serving your 14years old niece and she will be your gf madam BC you just wanna marry her,abeg run comot make she see better man marry,you want turn her to your family slave,just imagine a child that is still a growing girl of 14 which I know how arrogant and disrespectful they use to be that you are here defending that you beat a grown lady bcs of her,(spare the rod and spoil her ooh),by d way you're cohabiting a woman and u brougt your niece and expect d woman to be comfortable in d games you two are playing every night if u niece is around and still serve her, better start training that your niece bcs you have teach her prostitution. Even you too still need training bcs you lack manners,bcs you for no bring that girl in that dirty game upon say ur mum informed you on time bf her coming but u even choose to disrespect her claiming you love them[color=#990000][/color], bcs a reasonable person will dismiss his gf bf her comin.better apologize to your gf bf u comot make she see beta sensible man.

Not interesting story

Yes the primarily role of a man is to love unconditionally first and every other thing will be his( submission) will be his, so men above claiming that love will be mutual might miss the track because that's your role to your woman and don't be selfish because they usually say love should be mutual and submissive personal to you alone so how can it work,love your wife so as to allow her play her own role.my dear your father is a good man and he will be blessed for carrying out his role as a man and your mum too.[color=#000000][/color]

Who culture and traditions,language don help,abeg is better you wake up,what matters on this earth is to be in a place that gives you joy and a better living.

Why won't the guy know how to cook what he will eat! Esp a young guy who is university,That is nonsense and people like painting nonsense, mtcheeeeew

I saw lies in your so called stories, am even irritated by this your story of submit money to you as in what! May be self you throw that respect to dust,my dear marriage is not like this you're taking it not army command parlor but is for companionship, you don't even love that your wife you're into what you stand to gain. Change your character and attitude because they are weird.

You're just a typical example of gold digger.

[quote author=noakchukibadan post=89152942]. Well, thanks for the advice, maybe I forgot to say that she places huge importance on birthdays, for her I must throw a party, every year for 7 years, and she can not even remember mine. Just to say happy birthday :
You can't be expecting much or to be done to the way you do to her because she is a woman and a sheep while you're the Shepherd ( the head),a Shepherd is incharge of his flock and do many sacrifice s for them and don't hope in return to get any sacrifice from his flock,so my dear don't pluck much in some many thing even is not returned to you bcs you're d man and the head of that family, you have a lot of sacrifice to make so that it can move perfectly,remove comparison be man you're.

Sorry my dear but honestly you have to over look some many things to make your marriage work,there is no perfect person you don't even know whom you will get next, don't attach so much important in so many small thing(e.g just know she is not a birthday person,not carrying grudges that she don't use to rem it),always forgive, don't act quarellsomely for e.g not accepting her gift BC ur birthday escape her mind,why will you even reject her gift expecting her to beg u b4 collecting it,Are you God! You're even the cause of some of your problems with her,learn how to appreciate and complain less,ignore so many things no body is perfect.all the best.

The rule is husband love your wife just like Christ love d church (first) then wife submit totally to your husband, there would have nt be martial issues if we all can abide by this God instruction because God is great and can never deceive us,we will also have good marriages.
What is love?
This is an intense feeling of affection and care on someone,and Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
1 Corinthians 13:4-5 | NIV and this is instructed by God to come first from the husband.
What is submission?
To yield or give way to another.Meekly obedient or passive.
So therefore if we are to compare these things a husband have a lot to do so as to gain submission from the wife.
Let's tell ourselves the truth and save our marriages.

My dear you're very irresponsible and you're justifying it to suit you with excuses, you as a married man Wit four children still do what teenagers and single guys and babes do,how will you stay out uptill 12am as a married fellow with children and you expect your wife to be happy what are you teaching your children and what are you looking for outside, you're also a very big cheat is it only when you have sex with another girl that you know you cheated no that's abig lie,another girl is boldly calling you pet love names and you're justifying it why? And still have romantic chat with your ex! flirt with so many girl if you wife state doing all of the above what will you term it,in fact you're heartless to be claiming right, you go out and come back anyhow you want,are even OK! Stay away from these friends that deceives you and focus on the well being of your family,don't be self-centered too don't mock your wife because she is trying to carry u alone as the head by asking you what to cook,what to wear and to purchase is BC she regard you bcs some women will do what ever they want without putting you in consideration, so appreciate your wife, train your children stop wanting to see what your wife will do,correct if you're the one that see them doing wrong eg pressing your wife phone from there your wife will learn,pick up the dirty clothes when they lither around and put them where it suppose to be you wife will learn too,a leader live by example and not with critics. Atmost learn how to be a father not as a juvenile and look for work to do even thou menial and keep your self very busy.

The question you will ask is
1) Did your father have mutually agreement with your mom before adopting his sis child and your mum accepted and not by force[color=#006600][/color]?
2) on what basis is the adoption is it inform of helping the girls mom or total so that one will not be deceived, no one will adopt a child which has automatically become hers and want to kill him/her aferall you and your siblings are guys she is only girl.
3)if it is helping the girl and d mom,did her mom appreciate your mom for accepting her child with good gestures or is she taking it for granted and always go through your dad and he is now forcing your mum because it won't work so far they are not in good term before, she must not be going through your dad alone otherwise that girl will suffer there.
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Honestly this is devastating,men and women do it but you re now a victim,divorcing her is not the solution because you don't know what the next person will be! So is better you keep it secret and live your life may this is as a result of a mistake, since 2004 you have just 2 children minus this boy it will be one so divorce is not worth it,change is constant she might even enjoy herself more with her son and daughter if she stop staying with you and you will start afresh, remember you are not getting younger if I guess you are above forties now so act wisely [color=#550000][/color]

Indefinite,it doesn't worth it

Don't abort the child take care of all of them, she even have fibroid and God is blessing you with another child you should be very happy what if you abort and another baby no come again, otherwise you for control your prom.

Mum-99.5k and dad N. 5

The earlier people sit up in marriage the better for them, The truth of the matter is that men will like to emulate our fore father's way and will fail in their own part, children now go to school, people also have slot of things to maintain with finances which a man no matter how rich can't foot alone, but men of nowadays will like woman to assist them in their own parts and will now know they are men that dey dont suppose to do any chores, a woman went out in the morning to hustle with u and both of you come back and you expect to do all chores and cook for the family to while you the Oga will relax and watch TV, some like commanding their wifes as their maids,why won't there be divorces if you want the way of our forefathers be like them because they respect, cherish and adore their wives despite they will be merry more than one, they fend for their family well too not expecting any assistance,.[color=#990000][/color]

Hmmmmm, you have already make mistake and this is height of wickedness to human kind,my dear pick your self together first! To be frank you don't need that marriage again,the mistake you made is that you would have take those documents, come back and be smiling and hurry your actions but no p, my opinion is that you pretend with smiles without disclosing this to any relatives or friends to avoid leaking your plans, hurry and find accommodation and pack everything pin you have in the house including his that you need both cars and valuable things if any if there is any land documents take it too but doing this always smile to avoid him knowing, pack your things when he is not around, then move to embassy and stop him tell them about the forged death certificate so that the visa will be denied, then get to court and seek for divorce so that you will officially divorce,because you don't need that marriage if you insist u might die in it by him or that woman kill u and your children,so be wise and act very fast.

Call him and tell him how you don't like the way he comes back very late in the night that he is no more a teenager rather a married man,take the bull by the horn if he didn't agree because if you continue keeping quiet he may infect you and you die untimely there is nothing like praying frequently for him because he knows what he is doing as an adult.