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RomanceRe: Guys: Have You Ever Cried Over A Girl by kokoye(m): 3:43pm On Feb 09, 2010
spikedcylinder:
Awww. . . . . .my sweet egbon. kiss kiss kiss kiss
Aburo mi ti o bad.

Orekelewa, eyinfunjowo, adumaradan, ibadiaran, etc

I'm really tripping  cheesy I don truly miss correct yoruba words o
RomanceRe: Guys: Have You Ever Cried Over A Girl by kokoye(m): 3:35pm On Feb 09, 2010
unclebros:
@Kokoye

I feel you bro, take heart God will provide another one
Oh, HE has already. We have a wonderful boy, almost 3yrs - he is my best friend.
RomanceRe: Guys: Have You Ever Cried Over A Girl by kokoye(m): 3:32pm On Feb 09, 2010
javalove:
men me i be cry cry baby o o o. . .i still cried not long ago sha. . .over my gal in d uk. . she got dere and dumped me for som1 else. . .i nearly faint. . .
Pls avoid long distance relationships - there is no good in it. It leaves too much room for unwanted things to creep in.

I can understand if you are married or already have kids.
RomanceRe: Guys: Have You Ever Cried Over A Girl by kokoye(m): 3:25pm On Feb 09, 2010
People make it a big deal when men cry, and this is why a lot of guys are forced to put up a front while they suffer in silence.

It is normal to cry when you have a heart.


I cried when we lost a pregnancy after 6months and my wife was stuck in the intensive care unit for weeks with wires running all over her body. That was not anything I was used to - she has always been my superwoman.
FamilyRe: Infidelity - I’m Still In Pain by kokoye(m): 9:59pm On Feb 08, 2010
Cyberfreak:
Why are people attacking the woman? Is her foolish husband not the reason why she is thinking like this?
Inpain, dont commit infidelity. He is not worth it. One day he will get tired and return to his family.
Me sef I don tire for men. Is intimacy all that they think about?
Why is this now being brought up 13 yrs later? why did the poster not break the relationship right away when he cheated?

Like the poster said, she's not been given any reason to think he's cheating since then . .means she's been holding a grudge all along and this is certainly not good for any relationship. Even now that there are kids involved.

When your man cheats and you cannot take it, let him go right away. Dont stay with him so you can get back at him cos you'll only be hurting yourself more n more.  Same goes for the guys too.
RomanceRe: Mixed Messages From A Man I Like by kokoye(m): 8:27pm On Feb 08, 2010
Ebonyeyes:
I think its the latter wink wink
both really. I wanted to be noticed and was childish about it.

Guess what? it actually used to work for me back then . . remember we were all young and naive
CrimeChurch Tells Man His Mother Is A Witch by kokoye(op): 8:11pm On Feb 08, 2010
Abigail Nwajei whose son, Nnamdi, tried to murder two days to 2010 on an allegation that a church revealed that she was behind his misfortune, has left hospital.

Although Mrs. Abigail Nwajei, whose son, Nnamdi,attempted to murder by slicing off her throat two days to 2010, has left hospital, the scars of that near tragic experience may never leave her.

At 50, four of her front teeth are gone - knocked off with her son's hammer - and the scars of the attack, though healed, run rings round her neck.

Nnamdi, 22, a 2006/2007 Accountancy graduate of Ladoke Akintola University of Technology, Ogbomoso, Oyo State, had allegedly attempted to murder his mother with a hammer and a knife on December 30 last year, accusing her of being behind the misfortunes of her children.

http://odili.net/news/source/2010/feb/8/831.html

RomanceRe: Mixed Messages From A Man I Like by kokoye(m): 8:01pm On Feb 08, 2010
I remeber when I used to pick on this girl that was new in school. Of course everyone else was chasing her so I deviced another method:

- Kept a straight face when we greeted each other.

- While in a group, I would not laugh at anything she said that was funny.

- I was extremely polite in my conversations with other people while she was around.

I treated her differently to get her to notice me since everyone else was trying to impress her. Of course we eventually became good friends and I told her what I did back then.

Now that I think about it, I really did not like her like that - she was just the newest girl in town and I wanted to be noticed. Or maybe I was just being childish.
RomanceRe: There Are More Lonely Men Than Women In Nigeria by kokoye(m): 7:51pm On Feb 08, 2010
Funny but very true.

No romance without at least a li'l bit of finance.

Money is even the vespa of the gospel grin
InvestmentRe: How Do I Get My Shares' Certificate? by kokoye(op): 7:36pm On Feb 08, 2010
Could anyone with Knowledge pls respond? thanks
RomanceRe: Would You Attend An Ex's Wedding? by kokoye(m): 7:34pm On Feb 08, 2010
violent:
Exactly why i will have a sniper in position. . . any hand tht goes up will be forced down with bullets

And hey, i enjoy attending ex's wedding, u need to see the guilty conscience on her face when she knows that you know that her husband does not know but you know that she isn't going to be a virgin that wedding night, and of all the 1000 guest present, you are one of the lucky bastards who know what she offers beneath the white gown and "innocent virgin look"
tbaba83:
what is mature about seeing another man kissing a gal u used to hump sillyhuh?
Very childish.

________________________


@ post.

Depends on the way we parted and if I was invited. I have even given cash gifts to some of these ladies. The husbands-to-be do not need to know anything about it since it's a thing of the past.
RomanceRe: Shall I Tell Him In A Valentines Card I Like Him? by kokoye(m): 9:51pm On Feb 05, 2010
I'm still at work but getting ready to leave - taking my son to a Sesame Street Live with Elmo event . . . he's really looking forward to it.

Have a nice wkd.
RomanceRe: Do You Snoop Through Your Mans Things? by kokoye(m): 9:49pm On Feb 05, 2010
adolfe bad:
There's nuttin i love more than privacy!
Sorry man.

You lost it the minute she got access.

hard but true. I fought very hard for my privacy but gave up when I realised it was a freaking waste of time.
FamilyRe: My Dad Is Having An Affair:Do I Talk To Him Politely? by kokoye(m): 9:47pm On Feb 05, 2010
Outstrip:
Point is as long as people keep blaming Jazz there will never be accountability. People simply need to learn to say "It is my fault" or "I was wrong" or "I admit it and I will never do it again". The it was the devil defense is very irresponsible.
The ones who were actually jazzed never really come around to blame it on the devil. they just appear dazed and are happy to be back home.

The ones who blame it on the devil are the devil themselves.
RomanceRe: Do You Snoop Through Your Mans Things? by kokoye(m): 9:41pm On Feb 05, 2010
Ujujoan:
^^^ What else is new huh undecided
cheesy
RomanceRe: Shall I Tell Him In A Valentines Card I Like Him? by kokoye(m): 9:40pm On Feb 05, 2010
Ujujoan:
Well, I guess people and circumstances are different! I hate lying to myself, which is what I'll be doing if I called him a jerk, but I still wish he handled things a little bit differently.

I wouldn't know if he's still available dou, dude had me singing Brandy's 'Have you ever . . ' for 24 hours of my days back then, I had to delete him from my life. cheesy cheesy

But if he's with someone now, I hope she makes him happy, he deserves it! cool
True, there are ways to go about saying no to a woman. Hell hath no fury!!  cheesy

I can proudly point at two married ladies that I hooked up with their men - these ladies made passes at me. The only thing is the guys never knew anything about us.  I also have a friend I slept with, hooked up with another friend and they are surely married - husband doctor wife nurse in this america!

We are better friends now and they all were at my wedding.
FamilyRe: Don't Show Her Too Much Love Cos She Might Disrespect You: by kokoye(m): 9:31pm On Feb 05, 2010
response to the thread title:

Childish.
FamilyRe: My Dad Is Having An Affair:Do I Talk To Him Politely? by kokoye(m): 9:30pm On Feb 05, 2010
bawomolo:
i love nigerians, a man cheats and he might have been charmed?
excuses galore
Yes, Some have in the past. not just in nollywood.

Do you believe there's jazz?

I ask because I do. I have seen it with my eyes.
RomanceRe: As And As: How Do I Say Goodbye To Her by kokoye(m): 9:27pm On Feb 05, 2010
You mean in these times some poeple dont know what the repercussions (sp) are??

I have to roll over and die b4 you get the fact that I am trying to prevent a sorrowfull future for us both and the unborn kids?

cry
RomanceRe: Shall I Tell Him In A Valentines Card I Like Him? by kokoye(m): 9:18pm On Feb 05, 2010
Ujujoan:
lol grin grin

Anyway, I tried to tell myself that but it just doesnt ring true. He's a wonderful and decent guy and I truly did see us together for a long time. I've always beleived I ruined it when I made that move! undecided
Much respect.

You are a honest person.

True. maybe some guys freak out when theyre not yet ready and feel rushed or pressured.

In my case, I had just finished grad school and was ready . .just needed a little push from someone I also wanted and believed in me since I was jobless at the time.

So, is this guy still available?
RomanceRe: Shall I Tell Him In A Valentines Card I Like Him? by kokoye(m): 9:04pm On Feb 05, 2010
Ujujoan:
Oh, maybe there's something wrong with me then . . . undecided

I made the move on a guy for the very first time in my life sometime ago. With all the green light he was flashing my way and all, I still got 'dumped' . . . undecided

Oh and before you say I didn't so it right, I can tell you that I'm 'gifted' in that feild! cheesy
Wrong guy then.

Did not deserve you anyway. you - who knows how to calm your man down . .in some other thread wink
RomanceRe: Be Careful Of Your Type Of Gift To A Woman by kokoye(op): 9:02pm On Feb 05, 2010
Maga no dey pay . .shout Halleluyah ooooooooooooooooo

Ego na bia  grin whatever that means?
RomanceRe: Do You Snoop Through Your Mans Things? by kokoye(m): 9:01pm On Feb 05, 2010
Ujujoan:
Na today? He should get angry na . . . I know a little something that calms him down! wink cheesy
I love you!! grin grin
RomanceRe: As And As: How Do I Say Goodbye To Her by kokoye(m): 8:58pm On Feb 05, 2010
Ujujoan:
That's not cool. He needs to make her understand that it's not ever going to work. She has to see reasons with him. Trust me 'running' will only make him look bad!
At times it is hard to understand and it goes both ways . . sorry.

My first cousin was in a similar case. He even offered to continue paying the girl's college tution. The girl no gree o - she even took his case to a native doctor. Now they dont even talk at all.

Hopefully she will evetually see other cases and thank you for it.
RomanceRe: Shall I Tell Him In A Valentines Card I Like Him? by kokoye(m): 8:54pm On Feb 05, 2010
Ujujoan:
Don't do it. . . . wait for him to make a move. If he dosen't then just let him go. Trust me, you make a move on a man, even if he gave you green light, and you've lost that chance with him!
Wrong answer. I am happily married (5yrs plus) to one who made a move and was very stylish about it.  She knew I liked her but I did not make a move because there were things I was unsure of.

There are very smooth ways in which a lady can communicate. Abi you no be women again?
RomanceRe: As And As: How Do I Say Goodbye To Her by kokoye(m): 8:49pm On Feb 05, 2010
RUN . . .and dont ever look back.

There's no nice way about it.
RomanceRe: Do You Snoop Through Your Mans Things? by kokoye(m): 8:38pm On Feb 05, 2010
My wife can buy clothes and hide it from mehuh

Then she'll wear it to some romantic event and I'll act surprised . . or pissed that she never told me about it.

The dress wey I don see inside my son's closet siiiiiiince  cheesy
RomanceRe: Shall I Tell Him In A Valentines Card I Like Him? by kokoye(m): 8:35pm On Feb 05, 2010
Use other means to let him know you like him.

But avoid recorded media pls. anything you write or say you could be used against in the court of blackmail
RomanceRe: Do You Snoop Through Your Mans Things? by kokoye(m): 8:32pm On Feb 05, 2010
ayettymama:
[s]i seriously hope the men dont come in here![/s]
You think you are the only ones who snoop?  grin
RomanceRe: Is It Worth Taking? by kokoye(m): 8:27pm On Feb 05, 2010
Please dont. I know of someone who innocently took such an oath and the repercussions were unbelievable.

You would not believe what happened if I told you.

She eventually married the guy (because of the oath) and now they're divorced - now she is scared of being with someone else.
RomanceRe: Do You Snoop Through Your Mans Things? by kokoye(m): 8:18pm On Feb 05, 2010
Ujujoan:
@ Yetty,

You bet I did! I found a 'secret' stash of CDs . . . .

He didn't know I found them, so he kept on doing his thing. I used to count the number of packs left before I leave and re-count when next I visit. Needless to say, I always knew when he went extra-curricular . . cheesy

I bet he still thinks, till date, that I had supernatural powers . . . grin grin
At least you could tell when he practised safe cheating grin
RomanceRe: Be Careful Of Your Type Of Gift To A Woman by kokoye(op): 8:13pm On Feb 05, 2010
Open secret grin

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