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He looked for trouble where there was none and found it.

good for him!!

^^^

The dead are dead - you cant see them and there's no chance for them to come back.

You will still see the ex most likely . . and you may harbor the little change that there may be a comeback.

That's the difference.

It's not goin to be easy, it'll take time but you'll get over it if you do these things.

Accept that person is gone
Keep yourself busy with what you enjoy . . and be productive . .dont quit in the middle.
Go out and mingle

good luck and stay strong

Some men sent their wives to school.

hope that helps

you, and the bride to be.

how will I know about your character without being attracted to you in the first place

M M M:
ordinary Womanliness he can just buy in a brothel from ashawo,

maybe he should just and do that then. The poster is not an ashawo.

blessin011:
I am 35 Years old of age and a virgin ,and my husband to be wants to taste it before the wedding day ,and am a christian, he told me either to do it ,or to go and marry my pastor, and i don't want to loss him,because i so much luv him .and my father ask me to do it ,that it does not matter.Please nairalanders help out in this case because am confused in this issue .

BTW, what is he tasting . . pls clarify  

I did not know 'christians' talked like that

He has given you a choice - the ball is now in your court.

Your choice.

dayokanu:
Bros dont mind spikey, When women trade themselves to the highest bidder like auction items later they come and ask to be respected.

BTW that her FB picture has been giving me a boner all week, Its like i O'Ded on Burantashi.

Egbe ni e o, Dayo . . make her bobo catch you. 

she dey maternity ward . . no be me tell y ou o

spikedcylinder:
LMAO!!! Egbon mi, kini mo se? Mi o paro nao.
It's western influence that makes a lot of Nigerian men begin to learn how to treat women. If you ponder, you'll realise I'm speaking the truth.

I still dey watch you all the same . . your profile picture for FB fine o . . omo to dun  

Maybe if some of those disrespected Nigerian ladies do not see themselves as commodities to be purchased, maybe men in Nigeria would be forced to respect and treat them right. . .and life would be better for all.  Go and see what's happening in Abuja now now now now

. . .and that's what I pondered  

You have made it clear that you can kill your sister . .so kuku finish the job and marry the man.

you need some gamalin 20?

spikedcylinder:
I disagree because Nigerian men generally tend to disrespect women a lot. In fact, they are mostly not aware that women are to be given certain types of respect. Only a few Nigerian men have I seen that are absolute gentlemen.

I dey watch you o

Kabikala:
This same piece was posted in a Kenyan website (designed just like nairaland) a few hours after it was posted on nairaland with a simple change of Nigeria(n) to Kenya(n).

http://www.semaniseme.com/forum/index.php?topic=3314.0

     

nice research Kabikala

I knew I was right all along . . somebody coming here to diss my beautiful naija sisters. I dont have to live in Nigeria to defend my own.

where are the 'defenders of universe' now??

Can you believe those girls (they know themselves) were having fun at other people's expense because they dont live in Nigeria . .so they did not care as long as the OP wasnt referring to them??  big shame.

J12:
No, he was actually insulting naija girls. He is like: "All you naija dirty girls, I just landed from the US. I know say una no dey brush una teeth, so y'all should please stay away from me."
That is bullshit.

Thank you.

I'm done.

ogugua88:
You can't be serious. So are you saying you're jealous?

I'm not jealous.  I live in the U.S and have lived here with my family for over 10yrs.  Like i said, i defended him at first but his last post pissed me off.  Plus I know he is lying. nuff said

BABE!:
HAHA!!! Jesus!!! Flossing is not that big of a deal to drag "less fortunateness" into this matter you know. You're taking it to a whole new level dear.  

I'm not referring to the flossing part sweetie. I'm referring to how he started the post.  That's what got poeple riled up. And he was insulting naija girls because he's been to America.

ogugua88:
I don't think he'd be chastised as severely if he didn't mention the "five years in US" part.

You are absolutely right.  And he deserved what he got.

Just because you count yourself priviledged does not mean you should rub stuff like that in . . it just aint fair.

BABE!:
Duh, not all ladies floss/brush. No one is arguing about that. The thing is I've seen worse generalization topics on Nairaland. E.G.

Why are Nigerians females so damn ugly?

Why are Nigerian women gold diggers?

Why are Nigerian woman so shameless? E.T.C

And trust me, I've not seen so much attacks on the OP like I've seen on this guy. It means this particular subject is close to heart for most people!

Criminals don't like it when people talk about their Crimes. ---LOL

Anyways, it's all good.

No one likes it when you talking down on 'less fortunate' people . . that's kind of like what he was trying to do

Well I guess I can talk about his crimes now as well . . since he's also guilty in a lotta ways . .and I have the proof.

But hey, I'm not here to bash on other people just to prove a point so I'll keep my cool.

BABE!:
Sorry for "brosing" o, but pls how many people on here knew about the above information?. Probabaly only 2-5% of the people that replied on the topic. Fact still remains that people don't floss/brush. That's why they're all so defensive.  

Well, that's why I'm letting you know.

Yea, some people dont floss, hell, my parents do not!!

But the girl he was head over heel in love with has never flossed in her life . . and she still dumped him.

You know why some sound so defensive?  because he made it sound as if it is a Nigerian thing and that all the people in the U.S floss! pleaseeee

I have lived in the states for well over 10 years so I'm qualified to say not all the ladies here brush daily, talk less of floss.

Yea, I said it  

ogugua88:
Lying how?

We see his posts on another site - the guy just returned from Nigeria and fell in love with some town girl. You dont need to see the girl's pitures to know she does not know what a floss is. He's posted her pictures all over the place and says he might marry her.

Now he comes here to say he cannot kiss naija girls . . pleaseeee!!

I'm sure the girl dumped him or something.

Hope that makes sense . .


I'm not one to rat out on people but dont go about saying nasty things about my sisters. I actually supported him cos I thot he was only playing. but his last post showed he was on a mission.

ogugua88:
Bad belle. 10 pages of insults abi? Lol. For those of you saying he's forming after being in the US for five years, is five years not a long time? That's half a decade. I went to Italy for 11 days and came back speaking small Italian, so how can any of you be mad at this guy for picking up good habits from the US in those five years time and trying to apply it to Nigerians? How many threads do have we seen lately of Nigerian men going for oyinbo women, or vice versa? At least he's still interested in home. Na crime the guy wants a clean girlfriend? And someone has already mentioned reporting the OP? Na wa for una lol.

I don't know which is worse.

1. This thread making the front page.

OR

2. People attacking a man who's turned off by bad hygiene.

Serious oshelenge.

The issue is that some of us KNOW he is lying! . . and we have items / pictures to prove it.

scholes0:
^^ Does this God Forsaken place even have Moderators to begin with!!

I Doubt it!!!!!

Moderators who created a Tribalism section, to allow for Bashing of Ethnic groups abi Later People complain of White on Black racism, when we cant even keep our Backyards in order, Africans deserve no respect, if we keep on this path!!!!!!

They (the liberated media) choose to call it 'human rights' and 'freedom of speech'

But guess what? that's why sites like this and lindaikeji get flooded with visitors. Morally upright articles will get little or no hits, whether we like it or not. just sad but it is the reality.

we are our own enemy.

Like if Paddy lo created a thread to praise Naija women, no one would read it and it sure wont make the home page.

scholes0:
That is not even the Issue, my friends, What my mind ponders on the most is How Topics make it to the Front page!!
This website has over Half a Million users for God's sake, One might think this site is Wholly Nigerian, BUT THOUSANDS of Non Nigerians alike are watching actively!!!!

What does one expect  when crass Topics like this makes it to the Front page!!!,  One hardly see positive stuff on the Front pages anymore, That has now become a ''Once upon a time'' experience. The site is all disorganized and stuff, and the more Organized Naija sites out there hardly get any web traffic, because they arent Infested with Malignant tribalistic topics.!!!

The owner and moderators sure know how to pick them . . see how many pages this dumb thread has generated in so little time.

sad really

^^^

You know i'm not.

I was actually siding him before cos I thot he was just fooling around . .but he seems bent on messing up naija females with his last post.

Maybe his naija girlfriend broke up with him and he's looking for a way out of his misery.  He was all over skyscrapercity with the girl's picture,

saying he wants to marry her . .so why is he coming here to say nasty things??

If he is not careful, I will upload a pix of him and the girl. It's just not right.

But dont come here messing up my naija sisters

Mr, Cork:
Self Service!!

very good answer!

^^^^

exactly o!

All his pictures are on skyscrapercity and he is here clowning on naija females.

The way he was chatting here, you would think he looked like Prince Williams!

The poster is a copy cat.

jealous of paddy lo's mouth odor thread on the front page and decided to create a clone.

just foul. no class at all.

I could easily tell from that long face that there was something funny about the rest of the body

poster,

you're restricting this thread to females only . . . how are they really supposed to know why men cheat

zayhal:
They have no dignity.

Do not respect the marriage institution.

They're easily manipulated and lack the strong will to resist temptation.

Believe they're polygamous in nature and can't be satisfied by one woman.

Believe they're handsome or rich or whatever to make women fall for them.

And of course,

They're never satisfied with the good things they have in their reach and so go out to look for what will bring trouble into their lives.

You sound bitter.

breathe.