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First of all, you need to learn to love yourself above all others.

Only then can you give true love and appreciate the love others give you as well.

The lady may truly love you but you feel you deserve more at all times. That would be called 'greedy' if we were talking about money.

Kinda like you are the one putthing urself in bondage.

Take things easy and goodluck.

tpiah!:
i tend to take statements like the bolded with a grain of salt, because we all know how easily that changes.

everybody may not think or act the same, but that doesnt make the minority opinion any less valid. Everyone is entitled to theirs, finito.

Well, that's your opinion - and I have no control over that as well.

Yes, I said I am a 100% faithful to my wife.

I intend to stick with it. You know why? because it is my best interest and for my own good. So it is not only about the lip service called love.

that's life unfortunately.

learn from it, suck it up and move on.

tpiah!:
^while that's true, i must say the lack of even an attempt at trying, is very disheartening.

my original comment was meant as a joke by the way.

I am a 100% faithful to my wife but I surely know not everyone is - I only speak for myself. We CAN ONLY the other person does the same . . right?

And with anonymous posts and comments on blogs and websites such as this (NL), I am more open minded and realise that everyone will not think or act the way I do.

^^^

Unfortunately, Yes.

Even while we can, we cannot control what the other party does.

Solution number 1:

Everyone should break up all relationships and do self-service.

Abi now, Mandela did it for 27 years!

Blazay:
That is why married peeps should only "do" married peeps!
Hiding wedding rings is for novices.
BIG boyzzzzzz and gurlzzzzz need not hide ke!!!
Like when I go for my "fellowship" in hotels around the world, no one can tell we are "chopping" someone else's "prop-Ty"!

Every where is shining. . .wedding ring to wedding ring. Everyone thinks you are a good, old-fashioned, romantic couple married to each other. . .not knowing you both are doing "omo-jeje".

The joys of not being a Christian are numerous I tellya!

Sweeeeeeeeeeeet!!!!!!!

. . .Yup, I guess.

The same way someone else is "chopping" your "prop-Ty"!

is this a trick question

I hear you bros.

some yansh too big  . . person go dey find im sugar stick sef.

yansh wey dey swallow both pant and stick 

wait o . . .wetin be sugar stick? 

^^^
to the side of course

we call it 'kolobi'

I tried it 15yrs ago with a naija babe and all I got was a laugh in my face.

I begin dey lie for am and that was actually when I got what I wanted.

some naija girls even think youre referring to them as sluts when you pull out a condom

Next.

kay-kudi owo,

wetin I do wrong again this time

make I no talk again?

Back then - if you want to see the yansh, you had to pull down the pant.

Now - if you want to see the pant, you have to open the yansh.

ZIM DRILL:
pain cant be shared you only imagined what she was going through

have you ever heard of this joke scientist developed a machine that can transfer labour pains to the husband, lady in labour husband by her side the machine is tuned on a 1/4 level and the hubby didnt feel anything then went to half still nothing finally to full still nothing across the road the milk man was screaming --- moral of the joke, pain can be shared

That is according to you and your joke.

According to me, If you show genuine concern for me and offer a helping hand, you are sharing my pain, no matter how little.

ZIM DRILL:
explain that

was the pain half shared

D-sense:
Kokoye,Being there doesn't interpret you are sharing her pain . .  .That's the fact most pple ignore.
You can simply share the pain by stying outdoor ''labour room '' praying for her. . . . . . .The ultimate stand!!!
I'm not against being there pending the delievery but the excuses some of you guys frame up are just too skeptic.

Are you guys married and do you have kids? I think not though I may be wrong. Dont not force your opinions or thoughts on me cos I wont force mine on you . . .remember??

It is possible to feel and share someone's pain and that is my opinion.

When my wife or child is in pain, believe it or not - I am in pain as well. whatever affects them will surely affect me.

Back to the labour room, yes I felt her pain, held her hands, calmed her down, prayed and talked to her while she went thru it. Do u think that made her feel a little better? Sure it did!!  According to me and her, that is pain shared.

But then, that is my wife not yours. I dont know how yours will take it.

I am not against any man who does not want to be in the room. I am just speaking for myself and my wife . .not urs pls.

So please do not tell me about me.

According to me, If you show genuine concern for me and offer a helping hand, you are sharing my pain, no matter how little and I will appreciate it.

Get busy.

Let her miss you.

I was there because I wanted to, not only because she wanted me to be there.

- I wanted to be there to see my child come into the world and have his first cry.

- I wanted to share her pain and be there for her.

- I wanted to re-assure her that all was well . . she stared at me as the baby came out. The strenght of a woman.


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This is just me. I dont have any problems with any man who does not want to do it.

Nowadays ke??

it's been on and on since Genesis was written

who is queeneve

dayokanu:
In 2 weeks.

cool, what part of town? my house is in katy

dayokanu:
280miles. Was in Houston for the weekend, Now in Irving.

Aminalib, We need to launch this bed I just bought. So when is the launching date?

Let me know when next ur coming to Houston.

^^^

^^^
How far is irving from Houston?

Arinka nja flip flops

^^^

abi ojare.

I cant understand if you had a serious relationship before you left naija.

but going there to search for a bride . . . .no no no.

That said, I have a friend in jersey who's leaving in a few wks to do just that - they don organize village bride for him. . cool dude o!

I don talk tire, the guy no gree. Unfortuately he's not met a lot of people here so the only thing on his mind right now is the lady in from Ughelli who frequents lagos once in a while. And I can tell he's full and the lady dey show am toto on skype and facebook - so he's Hot as hell

I don give up. The taste of the banga soup is in the eating.

works for some.

go to the house of assembly and watch their proceedings and vocabularies

is this poster male or female . . or am I the one going nuts

I give up.

Mrs.Chima:
Leave me alone.

Yup. you have.

You just proved it - cranky, irritable, hungry, etc.

Her username is about to change y'all, from Mrs. to _mammy

happy for you sweetie

does the phrase 'love is blind' still hold?

You cant change a person. The may pretend that they have change but it is only for a while.

It is up to them to change.

Yup.

knocked up yet?