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Right now that the poster's brain is set, he is lying.

what do you think will happen after your suggested bumps and his brain becomes topsy-turvy

asko, siko siko

oro abiya nsomi . . . . .

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double punks

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the evil that women do.

could it be that lying is your talent?

dont bury your talent. 


On a serious note, it takes a conscious effort. Think before you utter any word.

Ujujoan:
However I'm humbly inviting you yo my wedding . . I've decided to marry myself!

You took to my advice!

way to go, obedient girl

Onchedu:
That's not perfection. His behavior might be a clear sign he goes out of his way to hide something he's lacking. He might need to see a professional for help. . . .

Here we go.

You may not be, but some people are that 'prim and proper' and they are not lacking anything.

They are just used to being very organized in their ways and it'll take a strong woman to invade that lifestyle.

You are welcome Susan. God bless.

chickalo:
Dr. Sleek, I am no pro-Jessica. Her mistakes cannot be excused, we all make mistakes, It could happened to anyone.

She shouldve owned up to those mistakes though. She should have stayed - precious lives were lost.

The best thing she can do now is to return of her own will.

^^^ no need for a rebuttal then

will virtue alone by them a LV bag?

^^^ that's what happens when the media gets on your case . . unfortunately.

You wont even be able to defend yourself.

@ post.

Exercise 'persistence' in saying no.

wow

I used to feel i was the only one who had his privacy invaded by a woman . . but now I'm used to it and Ive given up

This guy's case is serious though - are you sure he can live with someone else?

Keeping doing your thing . . .hopefully he will relax and accept your 'changes; to his perfect world.

If not, your call.

funny though.

You can do whatever you want honey. It is your day.

Dont get influenced by peoples' thoughts or influences on your day of joy.

It is about you and your partner - be as tacky as can be if you want to.

. . and make sure you have fun.

DONT LIVE THAT DAY FOR OTHER PEOPLE.

good luck and congratulations in advance.

Ujujoan:
Your stand on this issue is clear . . . the lady has to ignore the wishes of her family and follow the man in to to! Like say no be family she from dey come! And they are yet to get married . . . what will happen if they marry eh?

If the only reason she wants the wedding to be in june is because of her sister coming home, then sorry.

I believe the fiancee has more weight than the sister in the relationship . . what do you think?

Her parents and siblings are in Houston and they have been co-operating with the authorities.

She will be found in Nigeria and be brought back to face the music.

I think she may even return of her own will cos it is in her own best interest.

She practically grew up in America so she cannot survive in Nigeria.  She is more American than Nigerian but the Nigerian factor is always more
prominent when negativity is involved of course.

Ujujoan,

did you see my first post on this thread . .where did I encourage him to be dictatorial and difficult?


. .and who the heck is armyofone . . who died and made you king??

I just got my own text message

'mo fe gba kondo o . .kondo o kondo o, mo fe wo commando o . . . mo ti ra burantashi o o o . . . ma worry nipa rubber o o o o'

kaycrystal:
there is this general opinion that it is humanly impossible for a man to be faithful!!!

keyword here is opinion.

It is a choice you make after weighing all other options. The people who are unfaithful think it will last only a few mins and they wont get caught. They never think of the downsides. Love aside, if you truly consider what you stand to lose, it aint worth it honey.

I'd rather stay single than be unfaithful to my wife and kids. So it aint about the wife alone.

My parents are enjoying life now because of their sacrifice to their kids.

tpiah!:
not even that men cant be faithful, but the speed at which many of the ones who insist they want to be faithful, discard that at will, is alarming.

A lot of men fall because they believe they can resist temptation.

No you cant. You run or avoid it completely.

I have been faithful for 8 good years (5 married) and I intend to keep it that way. That that from a guy that used to hop around.

It aint easy but I have my eyes on the prize and I know what I stand to lose.

Again, my choice.

Ujujoan:
I don't know why men always think they have to decide when and how the wedding will be!

I'm not surprised by this comment . . based on who posted it

Go marry urself.

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poster could be 16 yrs old in the very first relationship

is this about your sister . . or you and your man?

cant your sister come in november?

It really shouldnt be about family but the two of you.

If you guys cannot handle this simple test, how are you gonna cope when the real stuff comes along??

get together and sort it out.

Again, it is about you two, not a siter or anyone else.

I blame the girl for telling you. . . . .couldnt she see you're not matured enough to handle such?

You said she's no longer with your boss. . .and she loves you.

grow up. get her a new job and move apartments if you cant handle seeing him.

You dont have to . . but it is what it is.

Most people, if not all have exes. Only some choose not to talk about it.