OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?


The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

Sorry I have to say this, your family seems highly dysfunctional. Your mum is newly married and with a new man, you are married and with a baby…the issue isn’t just your relationship with your mum/family. Something is wrong…your mum’s younger sister being accused of husband snatching…your screenshot!! Who does that? Why would you screenshot your mum’s conversation with you and show to your aunty??

Madam, any reasonable person would avoid your family. You all display the RED FLAGS. Pls post your photo and details so we would all avoid you all. There’s so much acrimony, so much malice, so much gossiping, there’s just so much of all the negative vibes.

Put a huge sign in front of your house reading…AVOID THIS FAMILY FOR YOUR OWN GOOD.

Raskimonojendor:

Your mates would soon be here to call him Yoruba Muslim.

No Igbo man will call him Yoruba Muslim except you use your other moniker like Reno Omokri to instigate hatred.

Igbos don’t reason like you and your people. We recognise hardwork and we appreciate and show gratitude.

Don’t leave this world without having good sense, love and consideration for your fellow human being.

Ola9ja23:
Imagine if they arrest this one for defamation of character against the GCFR of Nigeria the useless IPOBidients that share him on won't be there to save his ass 🤣🤣😀😀🤣🤣

Share?? Speak your native language mister. It’s not compulsory to communicate in English language.

TheSourcerer:
Most Famous Dancers In History
”

Where did you copy this from? Did you research and compose the list or you copied from some blog site?


Not even a mention of Nicholas Brothers (Fayard and Harold). Nicholas brothers should be in the top 5 best dancers in any decade you’d want to compile the list from. I’m sure they influenced most of the people on that list.

.not even a mention of Mc Hammer or James Brown.

meum:
Una Dey ask prophet for sure odds, now wey hm drop am una Dey call am doomsday prophet/false prophet. Play am first if e no enter call am wetin you like. I no Dey defend am sha

Did Liverpool beat Luton fc ‘well well’??

I pity anyone who was influenced to bet on Liverpool today.
It would’ve been disastrous if not for Luis Diaz equaliser.

Donkogbe:
i have never pay tithe before in my life but i do listen to messages on how this is a way of attracting supernatural blessings from God. this year has been very hard on me and i decided to give tithing a chance which as at now i will never stop paying tithe.

i have a problem of having a track record of how much i make weekly and monthly because i am a freelancer so money can come in anytime, anyday.

tithing has helped me reaslise how much of money has been coming my way and how much i make weekly and monthly because once any money comes in now, i will have to jot down the 10% and by sunday i will transfer them to the church account.

Brothers and sisters my october tithe was 24k meaning i made 240k last month.. i am still amazed because i at the end of every month i usually dnt have any money saved in my account but now putting aside 10% of every income has opened my eyes and i just want to thank God for this great revelation.

Have you been paying you income tax? How much tax have you paid this year?

Ishilove:
After I got flogged for deliberately defaulting on my tithes, since them I don't play with tithing. Tithing is deeper than we realise o.

Got flogged for intentionally not paying your tithe?? ‘Flogging’ as in someone physically beat you with cane(koboko or aña) for not paying tithe!! Pls where was this and who did this?

stunnert:
of cos, that's why I'm never getting married

Don’t wish yourself that. Pray that you make multiple times what your wife makes. If she earns N500k/month, work towards earning about N2.5m per month.
Let her money be hers. If she saved N1m, give her another N500k to put away.

stunnert:
she could have just gave him the first time he asked

Why do you women lie so much ?

Why lie that she had no money on her in the first place ?

Yet this guy hustle day and night to take care of her and their little baby

Your friend isn’t mature and ready for relationship let alone marriage. Why making a mountain out of this mole hill? First, no matter how close you are to him, there are things he should deal with as a man in a relationship/marriage…this in my opinion isn’t one of such issues. He acted not just naive but petty and silly.

He shouldn’t have discussed this with you. You might be older than him but you are not married or experienced otherwise you should’ve advised him better. You didn’t but instead brought this to naira land to discuss and judge the woman.

If I may ask, how can a man wake up as you put it without a single cash in his pockets? Did the bundles in his pockets disappear while he was sleeping?? Just joking…but he should’ve discussed his situation the previous night with his wife…you don’t just wake up, feel frustrated and start begging for Tfare.

For the money in the shoe…..most of you are already judging the woman but what if this woman belongs to a group that runs ‘ISUSU’? What if she’s their treasurer? What if when this man asked for Tfare, she had gone to a group member to discuss that she wants to borrow some money off their contributions??

My mum was a treasurer for such group when I was 15. Things were hard for us but she was never tempted to touch their contribution, I once needed some money for something urgent, she didn’t have the money but she borrowed from their pot but she discussed this with two of her friends. She did put the money back in before it was needed.

Your friend coming to you because of this little thing isn’t right. He should be very happy that he’s got a wife that saves or trusted enough by her friends to keep their money.

When I saw the title of this thread, I thought your friend was a sissy man who was beaten up by the wife or she cheated on him with another man.

These fools should be arrested for endangering their lives and that of other people.

I’m sure they know the road and that route very well but a mistake would be very unpleasant and orthopaedic hospital Enugu might not be able to sort them out.

This dangerous and stupid.

Afamed:
Way to go.

Mistakes have been made

Correction has taken place.


Only Gbajue, Ipob and children of confusion will not be happy here

You have problem processing information. How do you enjoy wearing stupidity like a badge. You’ve been on other threads hyperventilating.

Ask someone to explain what the thread is all about and what Fubara meant.

D.R. Congo, Angola and Tanzania

Christistruth00:


Trade fair Land

Have you been to trade fair complex Lagos? Can you compare Igbos investment at the trade fair to those of the northerners at Lokpanta? Trade fair is well organised with solid buildings. Lokpanta generates billions to the Hausa/Fulani but they’ve failed to invest and build decent buildings there. The place is full of shanks, horrible sanitation and litters everywhere. They harbour criminals inside that market. They live there as well.
Igbos don’t sleep in the markets. They build their houses or pay rents to their hosts. Hausa/fulanis don’t live to pay rent or live in decent accommodation with other ethnicities.

Taylor93:



Na Adidas we go chop?


Your mothers sisters fathers and brothers are in Ogun state protesting against food price hike and hunger you dey here dey hype shoe and clothing


Shebi you dey share free stuffs why not share to your people in Ogun

Don’t derail this thread mister.

Perfectbeing:


"I will die in APGA."

This is not an Obi or APGA thread. You can’t derail this.

This is about Nigeria and the direction that it’s headed.

Wike is a student of Nigeria politics and he has learnt well. Instead of shouting APGA, you should be more concerned with what’s going to happen soon. It’ll unravel in a few years. May you be alive to witness it.

Tochj:
Godfatherism is Evil in Nigeria politics that should be scrapped for good of the people.
You have served your tenure
Give way for your successor
Demanding percentage from the money meant for the people is Evil.

Don’t blame Wike. He can’t do in FCT what he did in Port harcourt. FCT minister means nothing to him. It’s just so he’d remain relevant till it’s time for him to unseat whoever is at Aso rock. Going the way of Amaechi would be a disaster for him. Rivers state is the goose that lays the golden eggs same way Lagos laid the eggs for Tinubu. You’ll need money to clear the thorns, land mines and political snipers who are lurking and waiting to clear and neutralise you. You can criticise Tinubu whom I dislike as well but he is a genius. Not sure there’ll be any man in Nigeria who will talk rubbish and have educated people trying to explain his speeches and what they meant or wet his clothes and still have professors and medical doctors defending his conditions. Tinubu is one of a kind, he is the president and if he can do it, a drunk and wicked Wike can do it. You can’t threaten Wike, he’ll use corrupt military, police even creek boys and SS cult people to unleash mayhem on you.

Wike is visionary and to realise that dream, he needs money. Fubara will make the fund available whether he likes it or not. This is not about greed. It’s about the evil of Nigeria politics where politics disregard the vital aspects of governance to fight for power and hold onto it.
Buhari blamed PDP over the state of Aso rock medical centre. He spent 8 years not doing anything to remedy this but instead spent significant amount of his tenure on medical tourism.

SoNature:
So what Wike means by structure is appointing people for Fubara while he is "the governor of Abuja"? How many people did Tinubu apoint for you as the FCT minister?

Fubara should grow some balls and deal with Wike once and for all. Having such greedy people run this country is a disaster.

Fubara should grow some balls and deal with Wike?? What are you saying? I dislike Wike as a person and his politics. I think he is power drunk and evil but I’m not sorry for Fubara and his ordeals. Ask yourself…did Fubara really win Rivers state gubernatorial election? He didn’t. Wike put him on that seat. Except he is naive which isn’t the case here, he has known Wike for a long time and I’m sure he is aware how Wike would react when he ‘steps out of line’….Wike was in Fubara’s position not too long ago and we all witnessed his fight with Rotimi Amaechi. That’s the structure that he is talking about.
He is taking a cue from Tinubu. Tinubu held on to Lagos , built his ‘structure’ from state fund, appointed and removed governors, built his war chest and when he started his ‘emilokan’, the people that mattered couldn’t oppose him despite his embarrassing speeches and wet behinds.

Wike wants to maintain cash flow, his 20,000 aides, subdue Rivers state politicians and chiefs including the creek boys. He is still in his 50s and young. Don’t let his whiskey and alcohol look confuse you. When he is ready to go for the presidency, no one will stop him. He has no friends and people will discover this part of him soon. Not even Tinubu would stop him when the time comes. Tinubu would be the last person to advise him to relinquish his grip on Rivers.

Nigeria is in trouble. Things that are frown up yesterday are becoming habits and normal practices today. Evil have become culture. Some people need to die and their linages exterminated for Nigeria to move forward.

Possessedkid:



LMAO it's just people watching Big brothers Naija or WWE just for entertainment purposes or something to thrill yourself when you're bored

Last I watched WWE was more than 20years. I don’t watch big brother.

Possessedkid:
At times I wonder why people watch football


Just a group of men chasing a ball and at the end ball enters the net



Why not being a fan of a meaningful sport like volleyball, formula one or archery

So 2 or four people hitting a ball with their hands across a high net or fast cars speeding round a circuit and somebody standing at a distance and shooting arrows at a target are more interesting than the king of sports Football??

Football is more than a group of players chasing a ball and trying to get it into a net. You really don’t know what you’re missing.

Farid24224:


How can you say we are more adapting to it when we are punishing those indulge in it! It doesn't make sense ese!!!

Can you compare the rate at which gay is being normalize in the North with how they recklessly do it publicly in the South??

Hausa has a word for gay/homosexual people which has existed before Nigeria gained independence. True or false?
Gay culture/practice has existed in the north for a very long time.

Gays and people like these men have existed in the Hausa/fulani communities for hundreds of years.

It didn’t start today.

What was the body builder doing with a pair of scissors? What was he thinking when his wife was pulling him away?

Anger management…disrespect, I don’t care attitude by not limiting your noise to your flat, inconsiderate and stupidity all in that incident.

Nyesom Wike is a fool. Nigerians, we are in trouble. We are in a big mess.

Isn’t this admission or bragging embarrassing? Does this man Wike lack common sense and conscience.

People are saying that he funded those politicians from government purse. What if he paid from his own pocket ? So what? What audacity? Are we going to celebrate evil? This man is evil, corrupt and foolish.

Eselu Chris Uba did this Anambra state years ago and the devil wanted to ruin a whole state.

Are we going to allow these evil men to run our states like they are managing their personal businesses?

Where is the Nigeria Army, where is the Nigeria police force? Where is EFCC? Where’s DSS? What happened to our judiciary?

Wike agreed with those he funded!! What agreement was he talking about?

Nigerians WAKE UP. People like Wike has raped Nigeria. They should pay for their evil.

worksmart:
What does a master plan project mean?

So the project is to produce a rail masterplan?

And not to actually build anything?.

Soludo is practising governance by propaganda and eye-service meanwhile he builds nothing.

How can you build without a master plan?

izuch:
No light to run your factory here and diesel is almost 1500 per liter. They'll definitely shut down as quickly as they opened.

Hope bro, hope.

Show some optimism.

It’s a beautiful move by the federal government and I pray it works.

A bigot is a bigot. It’s worse when a bigot is also an idiot.

Xhuntra:


You must be an idiöt to bad mouth someone that was murdered.
Sometimes I wonder the kind of humans that birthed and raised you...

No one should be surprised at his mentality and intentions.
Here are some of his comments. He created this thread because of the name of the deceased.

Jostoman:
The final results of this fight can be compare to final result of nigeria presidential election. Mr francis won but they dont want the belt to ........ For just the way peter obi won nigeria election but those powerful people most especially from the north dont want the power to go to Southeast and this are some of the injustice that Nnamdi kanu and Simon Ekpa are fighting against.

Lets speak the truth and Let the truth to ourselves in this country called nigeria.

Don’t compare this to Nigeria presidential election. You sound like that idiot that complained about German Chancellor Olaf. You guys should stop embarrassing us here.

Ngannou scored a knockdown but he lost that fight. Tyson Fury won the fight. Go and rewatch it.

benuejosh:
Ever ask yourself why outsiders/non-Igbos NEVER go to invest in the East? They are too hostile to none indigenes even to their fellow Igbos. An Anambra man hates an Ebonyi man with passion.

How are we not sure that;
1. Those killed were the non-igbos?
2. That the area is not a cannibal (human eaters) zone? Because i hear stories that alot of those areas are in the East. Because cattle market and then dead bodies. Meat na meat abi?
3. That area is a dumping ground for the terrorist organisation called IPOB.

But If i talk now them go say na me hate East. Whereas i hate the cruel and hostile nature of the few who have made the East look horrible. Igbos are good people but...

You are very mischievous. The crimes reported in the story have been going in for more than 30 years before Orji Uzor Kalu decided to allocate that expanse of land for cattle business.
Fulani and Hausa people live and sleep in that market 24/7. They don’t build or rent decent accommodation. In the day time, they move with their cattle and there’s no nooks and crannies of Lokpanta that they don’t know.

Security forces know this but the governor and politicians never really cared. They know the people committing the crimes there and by crimes I mean, robberies, kidnappings for ransom and killings. Market leaders from early 2000s till present should be interrogated if DSS, police or military are serious.

It’s the countless number of kidnappings, missing people and the audacity of herdsmen when they invade farmlands that gave rise to IPOB and Nnamdi Kanu. Prior to this Nnamdi Kanu was an activist in London advocating for a better Nigeria.

Obaofaba:


I thought the Fulani headsmen in the whole of the East as you people made us believe.

Orji Uzor Kalu allocated that area of land in Lokpanta for cattle business. The market is controlled by northerners. For many years, locals have complained about robberies, kidnappings, prostitution within the market by middle belt and Hausa women and also drugs. Nothing was done about it. Every time there appear to be an effort to combat criminal activities within the market and lokpanta area, the Hausa/Fulani will react negatively and oppose that. Miyetti Alla will threaten and complain about tribalism.

Just like the mess around new artisan market in Enugu, Fulanis live and stay in that market 24/7. Hygiene and sanitation is horrible there. They live in shanks and it’s a hideout for criminals. Arms and ammunition are stored there.

Travellers have been kidnapped, robbed and never seen. These have been happening for more than 20 years for those who don’t know. Serious and horrible criminal activities have been going on there around 2004.
I remember this because there were robberies and kidnappings around Lokpanta when Enyimba won Caf…around 2003-2004.

There was nothing like Nnamdi Kanu and ipob during this time. Uwazurike wasn’t that popular then either.

Forensics should be able to give more insights about the bones and skeletons there.

Lokpanta crimes contributed to the Nnamdi Kanu emergence, Ipob and how many Igbos see herdsmen.

Police and the military are aware of all these.

HitlerWasRight:



They killed him.

Unless you want the President to give him a posthumous award.

You are a sick human. What happened in that video was bad, very foolish of the crowd and embarrassing but that man was not physically harmed. Most of those would probably sit and drink with him later. It’s unfortunate that this happened but people like you keep spreading hate and instigating evil in the name of ‘table shaking’.

Shame on you.