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FamilyRe: I Handle My Responsibility As A Man by kponkedenge(m): 9:06am On Nov 11, 2025
Nazgul:
Honestly, you’re not doing anything wrong. Marriage isn’t a competition of who does what. It’s a partnership. If your wife’s job keeps her busy and someone has to handle things at home, then you’re just stepping up to fill that gap, and that’s perfectly fine.

Doing house chores doesn’t make you less of a man; it shows maturity and responsibility. Many men in your position would rather argue or abandon those duties, but you chose peace and understanding. That’s commendable.

However, I also think you should find a balance. If it’s starting to affect you mentally or emotionally, talk to your wife again. Maybe both of you can agree on getting a part-time helper or finding another way to share the load. You’re human, and you deserve rest too.

Marriage works best when both partners are comfortable. Not when one person carries all the weight.
Na so wuna go de form perfect husband online meanwhile na una type go use work kee your wife.
PoliticsRe: Cross River Govt Threatens To Revoke Ownership Of Saraki’s Oil Palm Estate by kponkedenge(m): 9:51am On Apr 23, 2025
Cromagnon:
new governor can
He won't do anything.
RomanceRe: Top 10 Honeymoon Destinations In Nigeria by kponkedenge(m): 9:47am On Apr 23, 2025
Ogbomosho should be on that list.
PoliticsRe: Cross River Govt Threatens To Revoke Ownership Of Saraki’s Oil Palm Estate by kponkedenge(m): 10:51am On Apr 18, 2025
Why didn't he invest in Kwara state. At least no one would threaten the investment.
RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Hate It When Older Men Date Younger Women? by kponkedenge(m): 11:08am On Apr 16, 2025
They're just jealous because the older men skipped them to go for younger blood.
RomanceWhat Advice Would You Give Someone Relocating Back To Nigeria. by kponkedenge(op): 7:34pm On Feb 06, 2025
A friend of mine in the US told me that he's planning to relocate permanently back to Nigeria by Easter. I brought it here to see opinions.
HealthRe: Is This Normal? by kponkedenge(m): 1:28pm On Dec 15, 2024
It's definitely a medical issue. Go to the nearest hospital and seek help before things gets out of hand.
BusinessRe: How Lucrative Is Dry Cleaning Business? by kponkedenge(m): 7:03pm On Oct 20, 2024
Your location would matter a lot. Because dry cleaning business are usually targeted at areas with high working class people. Those are the people who can afford to keep you in business. So if you can get a shop in a densely populated working class environment, you're good to go.
Car TalkRe: My Corolla With Venza Engine Gulping Up Fuel Like Water (details Inside) by kponkedenge(m): 10:40am On Sep 21, 2024
Georgry:
I drive the same car, what is your car Economy like? I think my car started consuming more fuel immediately the check symbol came out, I don't know if I'm being paranoid.
I think it’s the same thing with mine. I have thinking of taking it for proper checking to stop the high fuel consumption, just that I’ve not had the chance.
Car TalkRe: My Corolla With Venza Engine Gulping Up Fuel Like Water (details Inside) by kponkedenge(m): 10:38am On Sep 21, 2024
Carparts888:
They look verymuch alike thats why local mechanics call it venza engine.
The difference is in capacity.
Venza is 2.7 liters in capacity( same with 09 highlander 4cyl and hilux 4cy)
Camry is 2.5 liters in capacity.
Your camry definitely isn't a 2.7 liters capacity.
So how do you explain my gearbox of 22 pin, same with the Venza?
Car TalkRe: My Corolla With Venza Engine Gulping Up Fuel Like Water (details Inside) by kponkedenge(m): 10:35pm On Sep 19, 2024
jay0:
Impossible.
Only highlander and venza can share engine.
Plus maybe hilux and fortuner.
No corolla will be able to use a venza engine.
You don’t know what you’re saying. I use a Camry 2010 and it uses a Venza engine.
RomanceRe: How Did U Meet Ur Spouse/partner? by kponkedenge(m): 10:57pm On Apr 22, 2024
We met in the church and the rest is history.
RomanceRe: Seun What Happened To The Mod Position You Advertised? by kponkedenge(m): 11:21am On Jan 28, 2024
Seun way don forget say una write application sef.
PropertiesRe: Rent Issue! by kponkedenge(m): 12:14pm On Jan 23, 2024
Sirebrightlight:
September October November December January February March April may June July August..... Count and tell me how many months are listed here 🤐🤐🤐🤔👀👀
So if he pays in August, that means the following year he'll pay in July abi.
PropertiesRe: Rent Issue! by kponkedenge(m): 12:13pm On Jan 23, 2024
PrinceofSarcasm:
It's September to August
So the following year, it would be July then?

Yeye.
RomanceRe: Is This Guy's Opinion About Moses Bliss Too Extreme? by kponkedenge(m): 11:48am On Jan 22, 2024
You people should stop giving this yeye boy publicity.
CelebritiesRe: Portable Attacked In His House In Lagos (Photos, Video) by kponkedenge(m): 10:44am On Jan 22, 2024
Brenn594:
He who price must pay, so he paid for what he was paid for😁
Forgiveness is a sin.
BusinessRe: Unilever Nigeria Stops Production, Sales Of Omo, Lux by kponkedenge(m): 7:53am On Jan 20, 2024
davit:
No wonder sunlight is no longer in the market.
I still have sunlight at home, the one I've been using since December last year.
SportsRe: How Many AFCONs Have You Watched Since 1957? by kponkedenge(m): 7:38pm On Jan 13, 2024
1994 till date.
PoliticsRe: Seun, Stop Holding Nairalanders Hostage. by kponkedenge(m): 6:53pm On Jan 07, 2024
Beverlyjean:
@Omenka ...so u still exist here... no one missed u... so please u can go back to that cave that u were exiled to .... u are one of those that started this tribal bigotry on NL
That guy basically doesn't have a life outside Nairaland. He's the worst of the worst tribalist.

Most of Seun's mods are either afraid or too weak to do anything about him.

He has multiple monika's that he uses to spread hate.

That guy is something else.
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Should Be Allowed To Carry Guns - Senator Nwoko by kponkedenge(m): 7:06pm On Jan 04, 2024
I agree. People need to take back their communities stolen by terrorists who are on a steady supply of ammunition.
FoodRe: 11k Well Spent.. by kponkedenge(m): 12:47pm On Dec 26, 2023
Sijo01:
You mean you bought old layer for 7k 😁 🤣 🤣. As it gotten to this?
To be honest, I don't even know which is old or new layer..... For people like us that don't go to the market.

I learnt something from you today.

Thanks.
PoliticsRe: ‘Only God Will Stop Nigeria From Breaking Up In 2035’ – Primate Ayodele by kponkedenge(m): 8:20am On Dec 23, 2023
nairalanda1:
The date of Nigeria's breakup is always being pushed forward.

Fact is, Nigeria is going to exist in 2123, because at the end, most people benefit more from a united Nigeria than a disunited Nigeria.

Biafra is a pipe dream. No, it is, and it is because eastern minorites are still annoyed with the Igbos. Most minority tribes are invested more in one Nigeria than in division, where they would be at the mercy of the big tribes , as it was before the British came. Hausas and Yorubas too, as well as Fulanis. Even the Igbo elite.

Yes, no one likes the idea of one Nigeria. But it is unfortunately the least bad of a large set of bad options.

The problem with Nigeria is that we are trying to run a supposedly large economy on a tiny financial base that is decimated by corruption and stealing, which everyone does. And we don't want to do industries because it means a long period of suffering, and that's not what independence was sold to us as...no, independence meant more kudy in our pocket. Did not happen, because it was not possible. But we still believe the lie...somewhat.


Anyway, most of the secessionists know how to do protests. Actual political agitation for secession, they know not. Once it is election, they all line up behind PDP and APC. Am yet to see a party formed that would at the very least promise restructuring now...which could lead to secession. Na to play revolution they all know.
All this your epistle is jargons..... We know people like you, even if a party comes out today to campaign on restructuring and all what you've mentioned, people like you would try to dig out one issue or the other to discredit that person..... particularly if he/she is not from you region.

You all will line up behind APC so they can continue looting the country dry.

So please just spare us all this talk.
RomanceRe: Nairaland Personality Of The Year by kponkedenge(m): 2:04pm On Dec 22, 2023
I love Nazgul's posts. Dude is very realistic

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