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Family / Re: My Husband Doesn't Blv I Lost My Virginity To Him.it's Hurtful by kunlejazz(m): 2:44am On Mar 25, 2015 |
Platnum1: This is what happens when you rub your virginity so hard in a man's face. Even if he had seen a couple of blood drops, he would still have complained. He probably would be expecting a 'bucket-full'. You painted your virginity so loftily that the man began to nurture unreasonable expectations. I'm happy for you though. The experience has sure made you a better person 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Does My Dream Mean? by kunlejazz(m): 10:30pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
missjenna: Not when you dream witches are feeding you, and you wake up with a morsel of eba in your mouth...lol My dear, dreams are more than 'reflections of the subconscious' o |
Family / Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by kunlejazz(m): 12:17pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
changes1: OK. That puts you between 25 and 30 and Mr B between 18 and 24...hope I'm right. My point is, you guys are young and belong to the same age group so there shouldn't be any fear of confrontation whatsoever. Report to the girl's parents and brother (after getting proof- voice or video recording of some sort) and let the right thing be done. The young girl's life is on the path of destruction...trust me. She will most likely grow into a needy and low 'self-esteemed' woman. I know people who have been there Please save her. Damn the consequences. You'll be grateful you did. God help you. 1 Like |
Career / Re: Tell Us About Your Experience As A Contract Staff Member (Outsourcing) by kunlejazz(m): 12:48pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
In standardised work environment, contract staff generally earn more. I am referring to European and American multinationals, even in Nigeria. This however does not happen at all levels and in all sectors. My sincere opinion is, working as contract staff is a very good platform to build technical competence. In the process of doing the dirty work, one garners experience and grooming for the dream place. The major and perhaps, only shortfall is the second-class, mediocre feeling many contract staff develop. No thanks to the full-term employees. Yet, you only have yourself to blame if you indulge in this. It is the only thing that can keep you down. Cheers! 10 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Don't I Have A Boyfriend by kunlejazz(m): 6:36pm On Feb 19, 2015 |
kristiana888: No offense but...How old are you? I believe you'll get over all these when you grow up. |
Politics / Re: Jonathan Bribed Pastors With N7bn, Not N6bn – Musa Dikwa by kunlejazz(m): 5:23pm On Feb 19, 2015 |
sincerenigerian: Oh! Na so e easy to convince you?? OK. I am Dangote. Look, about 50% of the stories we here these days are nothing but lies and propaganda! And that applies to both sides the divide - APC or PDP. God help us. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: She Broke My Heart, And Now She Is Back by kunlejazz(m): 4:12pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
OliverQuinny: I have said it before and I am saying it again: Never marry someone because he/she has a 'hold' (e.g. Pregnancy) on you. Please don't! It's OK if you want to marry her because you are convinced she's a changed person, and want to live with and love her having totally put the past behind you. But please, DO NOT marry her out of compulsion or a feeling of 'strandedness'. If you do, you'll regret it. People who do ALWAYS regret. Ask those that have been there. 3 Likes |
Crime / Re: Man Kills Self By Jumping Into Lagos Lagoon(Pictured) by kunlejazz(m): 12:49am On Feb 13, 2015 |
kowema: I'm sure you did. |
Crime / Re: Woman Sends Robber To Attack Her Ex For Dumping Her After Abortions - Pictured by kunlejazz(m): 12:45am On Feb 13, 2015 |
edwife: @ highlighted: This is very untrue. I don't know how old you are but I doubt you will say this if you have even the minutest idea what you're talking about, no offense please. Husband hunting in business meetings and dinners with business men? Where most of the men are either already married or in relationships and are just looking for flings? Where the average man in attendance is a die-hard 'flexer' and will stop at nothing to get 'that young lady' in bed? Are you kidding? I see these things happen everyday! Please stop this if it's a joke. Well, maybe one in fifty cases will turn out in the woman's favour. What can't God do? |
Crime / Re: Woman Sends Robber To Attack Her Ex For Dumping Her After Abortions - Pictured by kunlejazz(m): 4:11pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
edwife: @ highlighted My dear, this is so untrue. When you do that, only gold diggers - the likes of Murphy, will come your way. No matter how old you are - Male or Female, you need to be willing to invest time and energy into meeting and staying with the right person. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: PDP Buying PVCs For 10,000 Naira Each - Says APC by kunlejazz(m): 3:39am On Feb 11, 2015 |
Sunnycliff: I dey tell you! Propaganda everywhere! Strategy upon strategy, just to ascend to power. To think that Nigerian politicians have this much skill in strategy and implementation, and Nigeria is still one of the most under-developed states in the world is indeed appalling. If half as much energy, focus and innovation as have been put in this campaign by our politicians had been vested in the Nigerian state, then we all will have an Eldorado of a country. God help us. |
Romance / Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by kunlejazz(m): 3:39pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Hmm...I think I should share my experience. ********************Modification********************* I really appreciate your sincerity on this matter. I have been with a couple of women that belong in this category and i must say your points are 100% correct. However, i will like to lend a masculine perspective to two of the points you've highlighted. Essentially, these are things you have stated in your other thread: 1. Many women in this category are hardly able to give their all: They usually have a lot of baggage from past (failed) relationships which consequently makes them keep a lot of 'friends' - the guy she dated in final year, the one with whom she once did introduction, some dude that proposed marriage whom she turned down because she was in a relationship she believed would end in marriage (and later did not...and now she's hoping the guy would propose again), the ones that trilled her the most in bed... It takes a awful lot for them to not keep 'options/reserves' This lack of focus (many even see it as unfaithfulness), i must say almost always adversely affect their relationships. Very few serious men (if any at all) will tie the knot with this kind of woman. 2. Undue/Unfair Pressure: You are a 30-year old Nigerian female and there's much pressure on you from society to get married. Remember, your 31 - 35 year old boyfriend is under much less pressure and will want to do all the knowing he needs before proposing to you. A few weeks down the line, you're beginning to re-evaluate your other options, thinking your time is being wasted. Now, i think that is unfair on the man. It is almost like the man is expected to not think before getting married to you. The guy needs to take his time! Simple! Maturity in age does not guarantee a good marriage. Hence, regardless of age, you both need to properly consider what you're getting into. I understand the lady does not have time to waste so i will suggest she properly and prayerfully considers the guy before accepting to date him in the first place. You need to be sure it is a relationship you can invest time in. That's the only way to not waste time and also take your time I have seen cases where the lady breaks up with her guy and in a matter of weeks, takes one of the other 'benchers' to her parents as the 'new' guy...and what results from the 'new' relationship? Your guess is as good as mine...(I'm talking about ladies in their 30s here) Summarily, in a bid to save time, ladies in this age category end up wasting more time. The guy soon begins to think he is been pressured into marriage and starts getting a lot of crazy ideas. These two points are in my own opinion/experience the most pertinent. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Pastor Adeboye Changes Profile Picture To Jonathan, Cover Photo To Osinbajo by kunlejazz(m): 2:51pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
jerseyboy: That is what matured people call 'Not taking sides'. Got it? |
Politics / Re: Lagos APGA Candidate Asked To Speak Yoruba.(Video) by kunlejazz(m): 9:17am On Feb 06, 2015 |
emiye: Simply put, majority of igbos in Lagos only STAY in Lagos. They don't LIVE in Lagos. You're from anambra, you live in Mazamaza, attend Assemblies of God, have a shop in Alaba, have no single Yoruba/non-igbo acquaintance...You're no Lagosian my dear. Note: This concept applies everywhere in the world. Many immigrants merely stay in their host countries, they don't live there. This largely explains why after more than 2 decades in Lagos/Ekiti/Ijebu-igbo, an igbo/Hausa/Edo person still can't communicate in their host community's language. 16 Likes |
Politics / Re: Why Is Buhari Rising In Popularity?---Punch Newspaper by kunlejazz(m): 1:54am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Politics / Re: Why Is Buhari Rising In Popularity?---Punch Newspaper by kunlejazz(m): 5:37pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
itetemi: Finally, it's getting obvious you're a paid APC media person. Registered this handle in Dec. 16, 2014 and have been doing valiantly for your employers. I just hope you're doing it out of conviction and not just for the money. Long live Nigeria! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Oga Interviewer, Don’t Ever Call Me Beautiful! (A Letter To Hr’s In Nigeria) by kunlejazz(m): 4:48pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
Naijasinglegirl: I could marry your brain. Or better still, you. |
Romance / Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant by kunlejazz(m): 9:29am On Dec 31, 2014 |
iseleiyanu: Very simple! Put the introduction on hold till she gives birth. Then conduct a paternity test. Many people will say a lot of things to dissuade you from doing this but please, put down your feet. They'll say things like what if the child is yours, how would the relationship continue? Won't it result in bitterness? Bros, those are all sentiments! You're the man around here and although you have your own faults, do what you have to! |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: should I retain or take this new job - pls advice by kunlejazz(m): 11:52pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
domwas2: I sent you a PM. |
Family / Re: Wife Needed - Anyone Around The Corner - Seriously Searching by kunlejazz(m): 11:35pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
coogar: Lol. Na only God big o! I'm hoping cisco will have mobile lab sessions next year in Nigeria. If not, I'll consider going wherever... So, do you still work with Networks? |
Family / Re: Wife Needed - Anyone Around The Corner - Seriously Searching by kunlejazz(m): 11:13pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
baby124: Money nor dey talk na. |
Family / Re: Wife Needed - Anyone Around The Corner - Seriously Searching by kunlejazz(m): 11:11pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
coogar: Yes...been a while tho. Not easy combining with other stuff. |
Family / Re: Wife Needed - Anyone Around The Corner - Seriously Searching by kunlejazz(m): 10:31pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
coogar: Just stumbled on this thread. Good to have an old timer like you talk about the CCIE A lot have since changed though. It's getting tougher by the day and recently, with the upgrade to version 5 (CCIE R&S v5), it just added a lot more value than ever. And the attention span thing, I think it's something all CCIEs have had to overcome during their respective journeys. Cheers bros. |
Politics / Re: Major SK Umaru: Another Brave Hero Killed By Boko Haram Bullets [photos] by kunlejazz(m): 9:38pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
babyfun: Rather rare and, commendable. Especially coming from a woman...if you really are |
Religion / Re: HELP! My Prayers Work On People Than Myself... by kunlejazz(m): 12:58am On Dec 17, 2014 |
mogadet: Deep one there. More grace! 1 Like |
Religion / Re: HELP! My Prayers Work On People Than Myself... by kunlejazz(m): 12:54am On Dec 17, 2014 |
koife: Many times, we pray for opportunities that we are not ripe for. I'm convinced one of the reasons you don't get answers to your prayers is because you are not yet matured enough for the things you ask for. Most of the time, what we need isn't more prayer but 'more growing'. Seek advancement in your chosen profession, learn to do things better, seek relevant information, build relationships, then prayerfully 'grow into the answers' I perceive that the reason those people you pray for get quick answers is because they have done all the growing they should in the process of toiling and, your prayers just causes their heavens to open and breaks the barriers (diabolical forces) holding what has been rightfully theirs. Life is more spiritual than physical and should be treated as such. Deep calls unto deep. Cheers bro. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: If You're In Lagos, Unemployed And You Have Nothing Doing, Then You're Lazy. by kunlejazz(m): 12:33am On Dec 17, 2014 |
I've also said this same thing many times before and I get a lot of criticisms whenever I do (that only reflects how unprincipled and unrealistic many Nigerians are) but truth is, there are only two reasons people are jobless in Lagos- Laziness and Ignorance (Lack of the right information). It had never taken me more than 10 minutes to diagnose why any particular person is jobless in Lagos, and advise on a way forward if they're willing to listen. |
Politics / Re: Obasanjo Finished Atiku In His Book (if True, Atiku's Political Career Is Over!) by kunlejazz(m): 10:42am On Dec 09, 2014 |
femidejulius: Baba Femo has spoken! In due course, you should give an account of the intricacies of Nigerian politics. I'll be at the launching. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Robbers In Abuja Shoot Widow In The Mouth For Resisting Rape [photo] by kunlejazz(m): 11:06am On Dec 08, 2014 |
My prayers are with you. Get well soon sister. |
NYSC / Re: NYSC BATCH B14 (delta) Lets Meet Here by kunlejazz(m): 10:48pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Prettypreshy: Happy birthday! 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Full Text Of Apostle Suleman's Prophesies For 2014 by kunlejazz(m): 10:22am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Seems like no 22 has just been fulfilled. RIP Dr. Myles Munroe 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Myles Munroe, His Wife & Daughter Are Dead (Plane Crash) by kunlejazz(m): 9:48am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Reiyvinn: Although painful, we know they have gone to be with the Lord. The world will miss you! @OP: It's 'MUNROE' not Monroe Please correct. |
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