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What is she feeling like?
African Kim Kardashian? Abegi!

plaindealer: lol...And this is the best to lead the people of Anambra?


Anambra people don suffer sha....

Ph.d.
Pull him down syndrome.

Sam from Ebutta Metta
Barrister Ubani
Suzzane, perhaps from Ikoyi
And others.

The govt has seen the need to give the people avenue to talk because they know all we can do is talk talk, action na zero.
More like media -radio and tv- activists.

UNIILORIN Season 2.

Information and fun. Thanks for the answer to my question.

The answer was so simple you need not to have involved simple maths!

Since this is not coming from SEUN
Is there any "specific" reason from ur end why the pix should be added to one's profile other than the "reward" of airtime??

Your friend is happily married?
Pause/stop button is the only thing that readily comes to mind here.
If your friend was single, I would advise she kparolo with the groove; but she is married for pete sake.

veraponpo: You seem to know much about marriage. Your points are real and helpful for a ready mind. You said the truth.

@ Op, Marriage is a decision and not just a desire. From your words, you said you insulted him first, was angry , etc..... Ma, you started the whole problem. As a psychologist, I sensed you have been unfaithful to the man but he was just keeping it to himself and tolerating your immorality believing you would change but with your outburst he became surprised and perturbed hence the reason for his reaction.

Madam pls swallow your pride, explain your bad behaviours and inaction to your parents, tell them how your anger and temperance made you to insult him when you could have discussed it and settle it once. They will call him and his parents and the scuff will be settled except he doesn't want to marry you.

Why you should do this:
1. You did not catch him read-handed in the act of immorality but from your words " he knows of your clients having stuffs with you and your past"

2. You only read what the lady said of you and not what the guy did wrong.

3. He respects you enough not to receive the ladies call nor reply her messages, neither did he fix any meeting with her, in fact you confirmed that she said she has lost him to you because you said she called you naughty girl who snatched her husband, so... what else do you want the man to do?

In your own interest apologize and involve the two parents especially the man's parent if you are close to them, they are in the best posistion to help you. And pls dont lie, because two wrongs cannot make a right rather dont talk much to avoid compounding your problems... wish you luck.

Thanks for the compliments bros/madam.
I pour my heart out on things of this nature and again I have realised that the best advice one can give on things like like are ppl who have gone through the road. I wish the op sees that as enjoyment is featured in the dictionary, so is endurance and tolerance. Sometimes, advice on taking the next available exit is always in hundreds but life is not like that. I wish she see the light before long, whatever the light means to her.

The guy that was given a long list of bride price things, infact, he even borrowed at the marriage ground from his friends to satisfy his in-laws, would have worked away from the marriage there and then, but he stayed back.

The guy that caught his wife with her ex -boyfy after marriage would have divorced her there and then but he restrained.

There are so many women living with their husbands and vice versa today for years yet they are not "relating as husband and wife if u know what i mean" but they did nt break up.

The point am making is marriage requires a whole lot of tolerance and patience.
The pix the op painted is just about the first real test of her will to commit to the man and she is taking off already?
What exactly is our meaning of marriage?

If dey break up, for how long will she choose to run away just at her point of celebration?
Both parties needs to make subtle peace moves that will culminate in reconciliation and marriage.

The guy was "managing" the whole scene until you provoked this episode.
The existence of the girl was not in doubt but he had already settled for u instead of the other girl.
My advice is for you to initiate the peace move, because apparently the drum beat of war weda we admit it or not, was initiated by u.
As at now, the guy, being egostist like most men are, would be waiting for your call to make a truce and move on with the plan.
Again, in things of marriage, your interest should superceed your parents interests.
Worry less about ur parents and worry more about how sad/happy you d be if the marriage is called off, if you trully love/despise the guy.

All the women you ve met cant cook.
Get a maid, you said you cant trust a maid with such "sensitive" issues.

My advice- Lower your expectation. I do not see the women as the one's having issue here. Your expectation might just be too high.
You are gifted/talented in kicthen affairs does not mean that every woman that comes your way should cook more than you do.

How about settling for one of them and "schooling" her to meet your taste bud needs kitchen wise?
If they dont have it, anything wrong in you teaching them for your stomach sake?

All the fake promo nor do MTN again, na insurance "format" dem wan use now.

After dis, na Bet Arsenal Chelsea weekend scores for N20 to win N1m naim dem go use.

A "working class" lady once dangled this carrot before me not too long ago.

The fact is what happens in Yorubawood/Nollywood will always resurface with things like this.
I wish I could advise you to find true love and marry and keep the baby, the mother and the father and the baby
growing up knowing that the family is intact: but I cant because you mind might just be "fixiated" on your plan.
Goodluck on your "choice".

Keshi strikes me like someone who will resign if NFF or Sports Minister flies the Foreign Technical support kite.
Why are our politicians and sports administrators blinded by oyibo color.
It is either Keshi or no one.

I dont think u need deliverance, instead, you need to organise a big thankgiving in church that this happened before you tie the knots.

He is not urs. No need praying over it. Move on.

Fact is when he exits the bank, outstanding loan taken when he was a staff at lower interest rate- staff welfare loan rate- would be converted immediately at the prevailing commercial rate.
Another thing is, his new employer- Ministry- may not adopt the loan. Therefore they may not pay it off for him and take it in as staff loan in his new place because he wont have qualified for it since he needs to put in a minimum of 6months for his appointment to be confirmed to enable him benefit from staff loans in most places.

His best bet is to resign from the bank, obtain his calculated final entitlement; if it reads that he is indebted to the bank, he can issue the bank posted cheques to the bank, offsetting his indebtedness in piecemeal month by month. The Bank will agree to that because they know if he defaults, they wont grant favorable reference to his new employer at his pre confirmation appraisal stage.

"When did you came"?

naijacenter: According to the lawmakers, Princess Oduah forced the Nigerian Civil Aviation Authority to buy the bulletproof cars that cost N222m, contrary to the claim made by the minister.
“That spending public funds on unbudgeted projects attracts three years in jail and a fine of N100, 000 as stipulated by the ICPC Act.”
Read full article here: http://www.naijacenter.com/scandals/oduah-slammed-lawmakers-recommend-3year-jail-term-bulletproof-cars/

That is the dictates of a law that was enacted to fight corruption in high places right?
N100,000

Some of the tots here resembles d views shared by AMORC.
However, Hebrews 9. 27 says
" And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment"

Theben: Any team not capable of posing threat/harming my super Eagles should qualify.

Not intended to derail the thread but do you mean any team capable of harming super eagles as in u strongly believe eagles can win the trophy right?

CR7 all the way.
Viva Portugal

Good.
For crying out loud, the governor should be sued for manslaughter.
We watch the trial of spain train killer driver on tv.
Even in Italy, the Costa Concodia captain is being tried for manslaughter.
Why do we always hurry to bury the dead accident victims without charging the killers to court for proper compensation to serve as a deterrent to reckless and careless driving?

More reason to borrow more from world bank to embezzle in the name of housing for all.

What else is the motive for world bank report of this nature if not to grant more loans and aids?

Is It fiby as some opinion has suggested here? NO
Hormonal imbalance ? Yes
Infection related as well? Probable
Solution? See a gyny.

D best part
"ASUU, cest in dejavu, dejavu peret ologomabia."
Dis guy is simply talented.

He was d best prof in social science in uniben. One of d few lecturers u could nt associate sorting with.
His OB and Business Policy classes was always looked fwd to and he always had something meaningful to deliver in class.
Rip iyayi.

LONG OVER DUE

Elementary law of contract tells me that there is a difference between offer, acceptance and execution.

He may have offered N1b does not mean that he eventually paid them N1b.

While some "prophets" are foretelling the future asking people to pray fervently, some others are hobnobbing,globetrotting from Israel to Warri and frolicking with the presido still under the umbrella of religion.

Little wonder why the Bible says:
"Indeed God's mercy endures forever".

Gboliwe: There are two sides to every story.
I am afraid of believing that a 26yr old woman will steal such amount from her employers. My mind has refused to take it in

You can only speak for youself.
What has 26 years of age got to do with 24million stolen from d employer?
Are u implying dat d accused is too young to steal or dat the amount is too small for d lady to steal at her age?
I have seen a 42 years old man stole over 15million frm his employer.