yorke:

Lacrissa u again? No comment.

what did I do?

apoti:

I wonder why people don't want to date their friends
The best relationship u can have is to go out with your close friend, cos you would have known each other very well.
U guys were not pretending or forming for each other b4, nothing compares to that.

just talking from experienc,

I was one of those people but as I grew older and at this point, I don't think there's anything wrong in dating your close friend, maybe a little weird i guess.

jacobscros:

make a move on him and just tell him your feelings with a note

Na, might be too much and freak him out.

sista-jay:

@ Poster

Spend all you time here on Nairaland, will help get him off your mind. . . . . . hehehehe!

Then be prepared to see posts about him only

Mrs, Eve:

Don't you think she haven't giving him some punny? HE IS STILL NOT OVER HIS EX! Men!

I have not!

viruz007:

*walks into the class*

@ Poster: mayb a lil real estate i.e space may help, show him love. try and help him do tinz that will not make him remember her. sha wish u luck.

*hibernating at the backseat*

Right

iice:

Be friends. Till the point the hurt is past

Word!

Do you mind dating and possibly getting married to one?

Would you still want to date him? make him your boyfriend and possibly even husband?

Madukaele:

sis if is tru lov den u can do anything about it. move on with d flow nd pray u dont crash. if u do crash wear helment

I don't know what kind of mad love is this but all i'm thinking about is him and if he calls me or not. Initially i wasn't interested only as my good friend he was but now I think i might be falling love. I don;t want that to happen, what do i do?

aminalib:

umhhm u want him to be happy, well maybe when him and his girl get back together he will be happy, why do u not encourage him to work things out with the ex,

U r wicked o lol, u see me saying i like him well the truth about his ex, I doubt they can get back. she is actually even going out with his friend.

aminalib:

you want him to be happy, meaning u just want him to be with u

Leave me joo lol

aminalib:

sorry love but you do sound DESPERATE, that's how your title sounds, anyhow i would suggest you back off from this guy, being with someone for seven years is a long time to just get over them like that, do not let someone use u as a rebound, there was a guy i once liked alot, however he had just broke off an engagement with his girlfriend and of course he still loved her, i just backed out of that situation easily because it's not battle you will win, let someone like you on their own term, not by force,

I guess I agree with you to let him be. We are friends regardless but he was the one that made his intentions known to me that he does like me and i found out i have fallen for him too. But i guess the best thing to do now whether as friends is to give him space. Just that i do care and want him to be happy.

Mrs, Eve:

The hell? Why would you force a guy to forget his ex? Please tell me you are not that desperate!

How do I sound desperate? I just care about him and hate seeing him sad. I have been in a situation like that too. i just feel helpless for him and maybe also because i do like him.

ok i made a post about my close male friend claiming he likes me and which I also like however he is still missing his ex girlfriend. When we met as friends, he poured out his heart to me about his past relationship. It was for 7 years but has been over for a year. He claims he likes me but today, I noticed he was distant and I asked him why. He didn't want to tell me before but later told me, he is still mourning the loss of his ex girlfriend.

I have tried talking to him. I don't know what else to do for him. i just want him to be happy.

What would you do if your close friend male/female likes you and you also like him/her too but they are still healing from a past relationship in which they still miss their ex. What do you do in this case?

I recently opened a post about one of my close male friends declaring his feelings for me and how likes and is attracted to me. I just smiled and didn't say much. I realized he became a bit distant even when I came few days later and told him I did like him too. I was not even all that serious when I told him. i told him in a way to make him comfortable and regardless we are still friends. He is still somewhat distant.

What could possibly be wrong?

i recently made a post about my close male friend claiming he likes me and attracted to me and recently I told him, I did like him. I don't know if I was wrong in telling him or what next for the both of us. I think we do like each other but scared to make a commitment or I really don't know. What do I do next?


Girls What Would You Do In This Case?
« on: December 26, 2010, 03:55 PM »

There is this friend of mine a guy who got out of a long term relationship so when he met/approached me, he was trying to holla. But as we got closer and hung out more as friends, he kept emphasizing on the fact, he was just dating, no relationship, he wants to take his time and all that. I told him that was fine with me because I was not even interested in a relationship yet so we got closer, you know friends.
Then one day, he asked me if I liked him, of course I laughed like it was a joke especially when everyday he would be emphasizing to me "we are just friends" which I fought with him on numerous occasions because I wasn't even doing anything with him to suggest other wise, we were just friends.
He later admitted to me, he has started to have feelings for me and is very attracted to me and even one day sent me a message "I love you".

I don't know what to do now because I love our friendship, closeness, maybe like him too but am i really ready for a relationship, I am not sure yet. Was just enjoying the way we were. What do I do in this case, in order not to lose him totally in this case?

People/Nairalanders answer please,

I have already told him and I REALIZED i am falling more for him but I still have to play it cool. Remember in the beginning, he was the one emphasizing friends which was what I only wanted by the way before he started initiating making out and his feelings for me. Right now , we both are still playing it cool but like each other. He is in a way not mentioning it again, maybe I should keep my distance or what?

HELP ALL lol

Odunnu:

My dear, go for him. There's a whole lot of rubbish out there that go by the gender 'male', if ths guy is a man in every letter,then you are good to go. Go for him

I just told him how i felt too that i did like him. phew was so hard but I think we both have feelings but don't know the next step to take as we have been friends close friends and tease each other a lot.

Ijele-igbo:




Love doctors everywhere
Infact, i'm quite impressed at the comments here.
Poster, you have a wealth of choices. Choose wid care!

I have already told him how i feel about him too and guess would let nature take its course.

For those that are already married, how did you know the one amongst several other good men/women. I have few guys I can testify are good and want a relationship but it really seems difficult to know who to choose.

Maybe I feel we are already too close for comfort as in friends that tease each other and share almost everything so I don't know how the intimate part would be though we have made out (kissed) on few occasions.

Odunnu:

Is anything wrong if you take it a step higher now?

Nothing wrong at all. Just confused.