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Romance / Re: Has Any Of You Taken A Break And Come Back For The Better? Pls Share by Lacrissa: 4:20pm On May 20, 2010 |
SA Lady: 2 years?? That's a very long time to wait. I don't think I can even wait for a year except of course if he is the one God has for me. And the mommy thing, are you said you got pregnant and have a child for him? 28Schweet: That's how I feel too. The essence of a break but like you all have said. I would start moving on with my life though he would still keep in touch. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 4:16pm On May 20, 2010 |
Please moderators or this spambot stop deleting the solution, I haven't seen his solution. clintwine: I get what you are saying but how can I do all these? We are already on a break. |
Romance / Has Any Of You Taken A Break And Come Back For The Better? Pls Share by Lacrissa: 3:41pm On May 20, 2010 |
Please would like to hear stories, experiences of some of you that have or know people that took breaks in their relationships and came back and it worked. Share. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 3:39pm On May 20, 2010 |
minute: He is a very busy man. I doubt it's because of seeing other women. He even told me, it wasn't like he's talking to other women or tring to, as I saw, he is very busy and rarely has time. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 3:37pm On May 20, 2010 |
SA Lady: Thanks, that's what I've decided to do. You cannot beg someone to stay with you. ursa:Thanks Ursa. I am not too young and in the beginning, he was taking me everywhere, showing me off and introduced his friends to me. I wish I could post my pic but oh well. That should not be the problem and at 22 soon 23 as we know time waits for no one, I don't think I'm too young. As for choking him, looking back, i feel I might have shown him too much love already and it's not even up to 6 months. andromida: Yes in as much as it hurts, I know life must go on. Thanks. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 3:31pm On May 20, 2010 |
jay bee: Thanks Jaybee. Yes the height was a problem before I got deeper and got to know him and his other qualities. The age difference was what he mentioned as a concern because according to him, he had never done it, but seeing I'm different and the chemistry was willing to work with it and with time, would completely erase the concern, that's what he told me. I don't really believe in breaks. What's difficult in having someone and also concentrating on your future and all but I guess like you said, let everything else fall naturally into place. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 3:28pm On May 20, 2010 |
clintwine: I would have to admit, it's like you've been around me in person seeing everything. I'm not 21. I know I am young but is there any crime in wanting to settle early which I mus admit again, I feel like you said I have been showing signals of wanting to settle down and marry maybe should not have been the case. For what he stands to gain, I have a lot to offer, It doesn't have to be money but genuine love, companionship and all those though not saying I'm perfect. He hasn't met my family yet. Maybe my showing desperation of wanting to settle down was not to lose him because of the age difference and his concern that I might not want to settle down, I was only showing him, I am willing to settle down. Age is just a number after all I am very mature for my age. Yes his height was a problem but as you get to know someone and see other qualities, I was willing to work through it. I never said he was ugly and rich. For your last question, yes I have been a little touchy because I felt since I admitted my feelings to him, I'm scared of being taken for granted so most times, I've been too judgemental of what he says which he also said is the reason of the break which also made him remember the age difference he once mentioned was a concern. Yes I said some hurtful words like sometimes he behaves insensitive so I ask why he's behaving cold and things like maybe that's why his ex left him and all. That he should be more sensitive. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 9:48pm On May 19, 2010 |
Thank you all for all your advice(s). I would do as said though it hurts so bad. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 4:59pm On May 19, 2010 |
andromida: I already asked him even if he is indirectly telling me he's walking away he said break is break, that he wants to know if this is what he wants or not with the misunderstandings we've been having. That there is no time frame it could be sooner or longer and sometimes during that period, it's a make or break it. That he can't really tell. That's what he texted me back. Gosh this hurts! |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 2:46pm On May 19, 2010 |
Onchedu: Onchedu: You don't know my age neither am I a kid. What is there using my head or being 6 years older. I only asked a simple question and opinions so I don't make any mistake this moment. He sent me a text, is it wise to reply or not and also use that opportunity to ask him how long he wants the break. Is that difficult? |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 2:10pm On May 19, 2010 |
Onchedu: Relax please, this is not the best time to start criticizing me. Take it easy. I said he already sent me a text saying "he's sorry how things are going. He's sure I'm not thinking the best of him". |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 2:06pm On May 19, 2010 |
28Schweet: Why are you emphasizing so much on the sex part? @Ujujoan and Ochendu, He sent me a text now saying "he's sorry how things are going and he's sure I'm not thinking the best of him right now." I don't know if I need to reply this or ignore and If I should reply, what to say? If it's also a good time to ask him how long. I'm asking all these because of the state of my mind right now. Don't wanna make a silly mistake. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 2:00pm On May 19, 2010 |
Onchedu: I'm at his place right now, maybe I should wait for him to return though I wanted to leave early so I could see him in person, ask him, then I could leave and somewhat move on. 28Schweet: |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 1:57pm On May 19, 2010 |
Ujujoan: Thanks Ujujoan for understanding. I'm at his place right now, he's at work, wanted to leave before he gets back but I'm also considering waiting for him to get back from work then I can see him in person and ask him, then I leave immediately. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 1:51pm On May 19, 2010 |
Onchedu: wow! ok I'll take your word for this, if this is the best thing at this point. I don't want to screw up. 28Schweet: Is it only sex that makes one find it hard to let go? |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 1:37pm On May 19, 2010 |
Onchedu: Ochendu I appreciate your words. I'm so hurt right now but not crying. I was thinking of sending him a text now he's at work to ask him how long. I don't know what to feel right now. Maybe if I have an idea on how long, it would be easier on me or follow what you said, asking how long when I see him again in person. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 1:26pm On May 19, 2010 |
Onchedu: I might not see him for some days now. I want to write a note and leave in his place, should I include in it asking how long he wants the break for or I should just text/ask him through the phone? |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 1:24pm On May 19, 2010 |
28Schweet: So breaks always mean that the other partner is looking for someone else? And what is the forbidden fruit? |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 1:03pm On May 19, 2010 |
Onchedu: Do I ask him how long immediately because we discussed about this last night? And how else do I ask him without acting desperate or needy? |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 12:50pm On May 19, 2010 |
Ujujoan: I would say the problems started when he talked about the age difference being a concern to him but we have been good. Just some misunderstandings in which I over react. How about during the course of this break, he finds someone else or his feelings completely diminish? |
Romance / What Do I Do Now I Am About Taking A Break? by Lacrissa: 12:22pm On May 19, 2010 |
I talked about the guy older than I am that wanted to walk away because of the age difference 12 years older, and I had to talk to him that age should not be a problem. He decided to stay. After some months, weeks, he said he is considering a break because of some misunderstandings we've had. I asked him if it was a way of walking out again, he said no he just wants a break to decide if it's something he could deal with or not. What am I supposed to do now or should do. I am hurt but you cannot force someone to stay when they don't want to. Please I need opinions on these and do you think he would want to come back or would he miss me? Should I continue to keep in touch? Should I ask him, how long this break would last so I know the outcome or just keep silent about the whole thing? Please I need answers P.s it's barely 3 months we've been dating. |
Romance / Re: Is It Ok For The Woman To Say "i Love You" First? And How Soon Is Too Soon? by Lacrissa: 1:52pm On May 08, 2010 |
Thanks guys, Though I expressed my feelings to him when he wanted to walk away because he said he wasn't sure what I was feeling for him and age so I told him I have feelings but never said "love". |
Romance / Is It Ok For The Woman To Say "i Love You" First? And How Soon Is Too Soon? by Lacrissa: 2:34am On May 08, 2010 |
Ok girls, you've been dating a guy for maybe like 2months,, and you know you have feelings for him, is it ok to say "I love you" first or wait for him even though you know he has feelings for you? And how soon or what time frame is good to say "i love you". Guys how would you react if a girl tells you under these conditions? |
Romance / Girls Which Would You Pick Or Choose? by Lacrissa: 3:35am On May 07, 2010 |
A very intelligent man you know would make a good family man, train your kids very well but you are not all that attracted to or a man who is also intelligent but less than the first and you are also attracted to him. Who would you choose for a long term relationship and possibly marriage? |
Celebrities / Halle Berry And Long Time Boyfriend Split. by Lacrissa: 11:42pm On May 01, 2010 |
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Romance / Re: How Do I Convince Him That Age Shouldn't Be A Problem? by Lacrissa: 12:09pm On Apr 30, 2010 |
Area_boy: why would you think I'm below 21? I'm not below 21. daduke2k: why do you think iy would not last? 1 Like |
Romance / How Do I Convince Him That Age Shouldn't Be A Problem? by Lacrissa: 6:15am On Apr 30, 2010 |
He's 12 years older than I am and we've been seeing for about 2months. He shared his concern with me about the age, that he has never done this young but he's really attracted and has feelings for me. I assured him that it is not a problem but he said it was for him, that could I cope with it, if he still has that concern at the back of his mind? Please people how do I relieve him from this concern? or what is best for me to do? 1 Like |
Family / Ladies How Did(do) You Know He's The One After Letting Go Of Other Good Men? by Lacrissa: 6:58am On Apr 28, 2010 |
Sometimes I sit back thinking of how many guys I've let go both good and bad but more especially the good ones. I know I can only marry one man but how about the other ones I let go that were good? Ladies, how did you finally know he was the one and decided to settle down even after meeting other good guys before him? |
Romance / Girls Which Would You Pick? An Ugly Rich Man Or A Poor Handsome Man? by Lacrissa: 3:04pm On Apr 21, 2010 |
If you were to choose one, which would you go for and why? |
Romance / Re: I Have Too Many Admirers And I Am Single, How Do I Fit My Time With Them All by Lacrissa: 4:32pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
All of you feeling sleepy, c'mon is it the computer you all come to yawn and fall asleep, My post is senseless, yes then simply ignore. It doesn't hurt. jennykadry: you are not my God woman, so go take a hike, only God can judge me! if this was meant to make me feel bad or guilty, try harder next time |
Religion / Re: I Am A Christian And Love God But I Still Keep Fornicating by Lacrissa: 12:59pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
Gabry: Thanks for understanding exactly where I was coming from, though I'm not saying or encouraging people, "yes it's very right". Some people are just making it seem like it's something extraordinary or out of this world which I bet, they struggle through the same thing. M.Nwankwo I read your post and it does make sense. |
Religion / Re: I Am A Christian And Love God But I Still Keep Fornicating by Lacrissa: 12:53pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
Super T: What do you mean by deliverance?? Most people are just hypocrites. How many of are having intimacy with our loved one and note I said loved "ONE" not "ONES" I am not in support saying intimacy before marriage with a loved one is good, I'm only saying how possible is it to love God, still do good but the weakness is just having intimacy with your loved one whether boyfriend or fiance, that I wish it was not the case because it isn't easy? What is the deliverance here for?? Also do I have to be from a polygamous family to be having sex For your info, I am from a God fearing, monogamous family. |
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