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See how most people on this thread have turned into health experts.

Bossjakande:
I just pray she see a man to marry her

Lol, you people are funny oh! Of course a man would find her and marry her if she wants, not all men are like you or think like you.

But where's this boy's biological mother?

So African Union still dey active?

foi59:
Thanks for replying however i didn't study French education just pure French. [b]Also, i'm not sure i stand d chance of teaching French to the Canadian. [/b]What do u think?

Are you for real?

Some morons would come out now to blame the lady victim. People wey God go punish!

I'm just curious, please is the General Paper section the same for everyone irrespective of one's field? I can see physics, chemistry and ICT which is outside my scope. I already know Maths/Quantitative Reasoning would be for everyone, I'm just concerned about the General Paper section. Does anyone have any idea on this?

Christian22aa:
No recent landing gist?

I tire oh, make una come ginger us na!
Signed: a member of the sister thread.

Nigerians and bad mouth. It's why things are not going well for us because we can't celebrate our own. Oversabi people, leave her physical appearance alone and just congratulate her!

How does it affect you?

The truth is that the only reason the OP shared this was to convince himself that he didn't in any way and on any level cheat on his wife. He's simply trying to clear his conscience, however, he's living in denial because he cheated a bit by encouraging the temptation even after sensing same. You don't have to fvck another person before you know you've cheated.

"It's the same blood" (in Mama George's voice).

joo2018:
Hmm.

The context is not clear.

Are you applying after you are married or you are planning to add your spouse after the wedding?

You must choose your current status as at when you are doing the medicals

If you applying after you are married, you upfront medical status is single.

If you are planning to add your spouse after the wedding, I think it will be simpler for the accompanying would-be spouse to do medicals separately. He/she can do his/her upfront medicals after the wedding.

Thanks a lot.

LadyJasper:
Please guys, how do engaged couples apply for upfront medicals prior to their wedding especially because I'm sure the medical form would come with a provision for marital status.

Do they apply for the medicals as single or married?

1. Single because they're not yet married, but wouldn't it raise eyebrows when they eventually apply for invitation as married?

2. Married because they would eventually get married before applying for invitation, is this a wrong approach to it?

I hope this question makes sense enough to elicit any helpful advice. Thanks in anticipation.

Please help oh, don't waka pass.

Please guys, how do engaged couples apply for upfront medicals prior to their wedding especially because I'm sure the medical form would come with a provision for marital status.

Do they apply for the medicals as single or married?

1. Single because they're not yet married, but wouldn't it raise eyebrows when they eventually apply for invitation as married?

2. Married because they would eventually get married before applying for invitation, is this a wrong approach to it?

I hope this question makes sense enough to elicit any helpful advice. Thanks in anticipation.

Since you don't want us to tell you to move on because moving on is easier said than done, what do you want to do now?

EmmaTisah:
Sex just once.... And a son came, are you smelling what I smell... I think a DNA would tell us what I smell..... And 500k for monthly maintenance, has the pikin started working with NNPC?

Nawao....madam kuku add your own maintenance too biko

Does it take "2 or more sex" to produce a son?

Pavore9:
Children are likely to bond with fathers who are emotionally available to them, it is beyond paying the bills. Laugh and play with your children, such are what sticks to the heart even in adulthood.

You've said it all! This is what a lot of men fail to understand and it's what explains a lot of insecurities in most of the comments here.

pansophist:
In other words, I can only say the truth about Ukraine only when its palatable, but not when it's not? I'm comparing Ukraine to other EU countries, typical naija girl, dumb and lack any strain of logic. And how does saying Ukraine is nice negates the fact that its broke too? Same Ukraine that 1.5 million of its citizens works in Poland, and about a million leave annually? A country its citizens are leaving in mass you're moving to, alpha female wey no get sense.

If entering EU is your aim and Ukraine was a bridge for you, you go old. Just the bitter truth. Even in the next 10 years, Ukraine wont make it to the EU, not hard to see if you know a thing about geo-politics. Countries far better than Ukraine (e.g Serbia, Turkey) are not accepted yet, talk less of broke and corrupt Ukraine. Ukraine is the second poorest country in Europe (after Moldova), entering EU is like joining naija to UK, it will never happen. Better find your own route and leave that place instead of waiting for it to join EU, and also schengen zone afterwards.

You have serious anger issues which has left you totally insensitive. What is your business with her life choices? Were you in her shoes to know why she made the decision to school in this particular country? Do you know her future plans of what to do after her schooling in the country? Are you God to foresee her future and even that of the country? You don't know either of this yet you felt so right and entitled to rubbish her decision. You're mentally sick and need psychological help because you obviously don't know how to relate with people.

Teewhy2:
This is the result when you use your 10 years savings to buy a car, or when you collect cooperative money to buy car.

Any way na way, e no easy.

jetson06:
men she has a nice body

There's always this guy................

Forreellinc:
she no even fine sef

Like right here and right now?

quincyshakur:
E be lik say na small pekin dem toto dey swet now ooooh

This isn't funny at all!

Na dis wan our Naija guys go like! Thank God they're not God.

COPR:
This is my personal opinion based on the experience of people I'm coaching, MOD hardly grades 8 in Writing. They score people between 6-7.5.

If you master Ryan's method, you're likely to get 7.5 with MOD instead of 8 or 8.5 with BC. With Liz you can get 6.5 or 7, Chris' method is 7 and Jay's is 6 or 6.5. That is MOD for you. Like I said before, it's my personal opinion.

So if writing is your problem, I suggest you dump MOD.

I actually got an 8 in Writing with MOD using Jays method. I don't believe there's any formula or a fixation with either BC or MOD as a good number of people like to paint it. Whichever it is, candidates should just work hard at it and be hopeful.

prince3009:
Quietly walk away when she is holding you firmly by the beltline of your trouser and dragging you front and back?

Talk is easy sha

You never jam!

Choi! Oga, you really don jam oh!

marshall69:
Again this write-up isn't for everybody, but I just thought it wise to share for those of you who might be in my shoes. Please excuse my typo, doing this with a bit of tiredness from work.

Unfortunately my Canada immigration pursuit has been truncated for now...NOT TRYING to DISCOURAGE anybody from immigrating to CANADA

I only started comtemplating to relocating out of the Nigeria on March 25th, 2016 after I had sensed in my spirit that God wanted me to leave Nigeria (again, I didn't say I heard God's voice oh!). Meanwhile I was working for a multi-national company in Lagos, salary was okay, bla bla but I never took any action towards relocating.

OK.

logan2:
i will,i wonder what 'moving on with life fully" is,

logan2:
i will,i wonder what 'moving on with life fully" is,

It means you no longer have the tag of shame/guilt hanging down your shoulders and the emotional turbulence it brings with it which affects your life in general. You need to cut it all off and enjoy true peace of mind and happiness

logan2:
i will,i wonder what 'moving on with life fully" is,

It means you no longer have the tag of shame/guilt hanging down your shoulders and the emotional turbulence it brings with it which affects your life in general. You need to cut it all off and enjoy true peace of mind and happiness

logan2:
honestly no,i usually hide the fact that something is wrong with me psychologically,

It's no use hiding it, and I'm not telling you to announce it to the public. Just find a professional as I suggested for a one-on-one counseling session. Another option is a group counseling if you're comfortable with it.
All I'm saying is that it's important you seek professional help so you can move on with your life fully.

Mankiso:
Mine is a sad tale. We used to live in a large extended family compound at the village. There were always intra-family fracas and wars, so this often repelled my emotions. There was this family, living right side of us whose children and their mother fought my mother constantly. One day, I was going out of the compound and I was met at the gate by one of their sons who was older than me. Suddenly, Aneke pulled me and dragged me by the hand into the bush. I was five and he was about thirteen. I got thrown to the ground and he lay on my body facing me, his rising dick touching my penis. He tore through my dirty and sweat soaked knicker and brought out my small dick. He began to lick it, and would move gently and forcefully up and down the length and breath of my full body, his penis rousing mine up. When he finished, he said I should suck his dick which was bigger. Afraid and shocked and my heart pumping fast, I licked his dirty and smelly penis. He would cloth himself and ask me to zip back my untidy knickers. I was dumbfounded by the whole act. I would not tell my mother because Aneke had warned me, saying we would be beaten if I exposed what he did. Since I couldn't talk, afraid of what could happen to us, for I was already tired of the constant wars and fights and afraid for my poor mother, I lived through my childhood and teenage and now as an adult emotionally and psychologically bruised, tormented and traumatized. I almost ended up a homosexual since I thought it was the norm, but my close relationship with God early in life had helped me to be able to control myself whenever the urge comes. I hardly keeps a relationship and my communication pattern is poor, if not none-existent. I always feel that people suspect me and I am impetuously angry and pained by my experience. However, I have not had anal sex with anyone and nobody has done that to me. I also have not had penetrative sex with the female. I will be thirty-nine soon. I am not married.

I am thinking all the time. I hate my village and I do not like to go there. I hate Aneke and I do not like to see him.

In the last recent years, I started experiencing a very troubling health challenge: a distressing mouth and body odours. I have gone to hospitals, clinics, and to herbal homes and others, all to no avail. A lab scientist kindly suggested I go to a neuropsychological hospital and I was referred. I was shocked to learn that the odours are psychologically functional, being the chemical and hormonal results of increased and unabated sexual identity tensions, fears and thoughts expressed by me through thinking and anger. I go to a prophetic church and I am often advised to stop being angry and to stop hating and avoiding people. I don't visit people at their home, I am afraid of re-experiencing my childhood rape and abuse. I have no friends and I worry constantly about who would be my best man during wedding. I am trying to settle down with the help of very nice medical psychologists and psychiatrists and it has not been easy. They advise that I should learn to forget and forgive, that my sexual abuse wasn't my fault. They say I should learn to move on with life. I get dragged in my dreams by handsome males and abused.

I am.learning to understand the horrors of life and why there are many homosexuals in Nigeria. When people say they should be killed and thrown into jail, I do not share this opinion as they may be victims of child sexual abuse. What they need is therapy to overcome the trauma of their violations. I am writing about my experience and how I nearly got disoriented sexually. It is a story of anger, apprehension, and self-hate. I constantly worry about how to publish such a controversial topic and where to get the money to do so. My therapists diagnosed that my experience affected every facets of my life: relationship, communication, career, thoughts, including physiological growth and maturity.

I.am shakened by my experience and my response to it is with a story of understanding of tragedies as this and how not to be a homosexual in Nigeria, in a letter to my friend who has run away from Nigeria.

Child sexual abuse is a crime. Your boy child who gets abused by a male could become a gay tomorrow. Watch out!

I pray you overcome all eventually, that you forgive both the perpetrator and yourself and you move on with your life as you ought to. You don't need all that heavy load hanging on your shoulders.