Religion / Re: Chioma Ifemeludike: "I Slept With Apostle Suleman Twice For Money” (Video) by Ladylawyer(f): 2:51pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Lovenorth:
Because the pastor is hypocrite, he claimed to be Godly, he is using that opportunity to scam gullible human beings that is why she revealed his true color for all to see, remember she is also Christian I do not support what the man did but girl, she knew what she was going to the hotel for and believe me this girl did not repent of anything. She is just after fame and tarnishing the man's image forgetting she has her own name to protect. The way people make use of social media is quite heart breaking. |
Religion / Re: Chioma Ifemeludike: "I Slept With Apostle Suleman Twice For Money” (Video) by Ladylawyer(f): 2:25pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Girl you just dented your name. Do you not have shame? Why are you doing this? Why not mention the name of every guy you slept with since it is all about restitution? For christ sakes you were not forced.
And for the records, i am not in support of the pastor but the truth is she knew what she went for but now it is looking like a cheap blackmail. 28 Likes 4 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Comedian AY Celebrates His 50th Birthday (Photos, Video) by Ladylawyer(f): 4:16pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Happy birthday ay, you sure look younger than your age |
Celebrities / Re: Comedian AY Celebrates His 50th Birthday (Photos, Video) by Ladylawyer(f): 4:15pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Shedrack777: wetin concern us? when i celebrated my own, seun no post am. therefore, this must not get 15 comments Lol I love your sense of humour |
Romance / Re: Black Men's Penis Still Remains The Best In The World by Ladylawyer(f): 7:51pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: Black Men's Penis Still Remains The Best In The World by Ladylawyer(f): 7:37pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: Myth Or Fact : Majority Of Naija Babes Are "Walking Dead"? by Ladylawyer(f): 7:32pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
Las las a good number of you will still end up with Nigerian women ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Myth Or Fact : Majority Of Naija Babes Are "Walking Dead"? by Ladylawyer(f): 7:31pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: Myth Or Fact : Majority Of Naija Babes Are "Walking Dead"? by Ladylawyer(f): 6:51pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
DONFRANSKID: NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE USELESS SEE THEY ARE LEECHES HOES ON THE LOSE TRYING TO FIND A MAN THEY MANIPULATE AND TURN THEM INTO A BLOODY SIMP. THATS WHY THEY END UP IN YAHOO BOYS NET Like your mother, sisters, wife and unborn daughter's. Pardon my french. 1 Like |
Family / Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Ladylawyer(f): 6:58am On Aug 16, 2021 |
ityP:
Nowhere is it stated that a man or woman must get married. Before someone gets married, he or she must be emotionally, physically and financially ready to bear the responsibility of marriage. If at 50, a man still struggles to feed himself and cannot assist his relatives once in a while when they ask for help, he should die a single man. If he is also emotionally or physically not ready, he also needs to take a chill pill. Marriage is not for everyone. And no one is saying be Dangote before getting married. But to be struggling financially and still contemplating marriage is something I find very foolish. That's how boko haram started. Children given birth to by foolish parents who knew they don't have the resources to cater for them, only to send these children out at tender ages to fend for themselves If you say so |
Religion / Re: Should Restitution Be Preached? by Ladylawyer(f): 6:34am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Vision101: @Ladylawyer Restitution is very good but please know that certain things are better left in secret. If it will break hearts and cause more trouble, please pray to God and change your ways without having to voice out your offences especially to the offended. I have warned you.
@me Very correct. The ordinary meaning of restitution is to bring back to the original position. Zacheaus' statement was the clearest in the new testament.
Scripturally you don't have proceeds of sin, enjoying them and you say that you have repented. If you forsake sin you must forsake it's proceeds.
In demonology (study of demons), you can't cast out demons and you still retain what they gave you. Those things will attract them back. In fact the vocal demons will challenge you openly.
Caveat: some restitutions are either impossible, unnecessary and/or should be handled with care. Counseling by an experience pastor will be required.
Example: someone was a cultist before. Killed the only child of a couple that cannot have another one. Upon repentance and being a born again, you then go to the couple to restitute. If you say so 1 Like |
Family / Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by Ladylawyer(f): 7:09pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
I have a question for those against the poster. What if you never make money and you are approaching 50 what should a man do? Wait a little further or get married and have a family? My point is this, you must not be wealthy before you get married. Also wealth is relative. But a man should have skill or a certificate anything that can actually fetch him something from time to time and also your partner should also have a skill or a job. Hope i made sense. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: How Do You Feel When You Don't Have Offering To Give In Church? by Ladylawyer(f): 10:30am On Aug 15, 2021 |
YouandiAllofus:
Pls stop! Do not make it look like giving to the church or pastor is giving to God. The Almighty does not require any form of monetary appreciation for his grace and kindness to mankind... What he wants of us is simply to follow his ten commandments. Once you understand this, you'd know that helping someone up when they fall is far more required than donations to church or pastors whom you have 'no authority to question' its expeditions. Do not be deceived! What you said is very true 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Should Restitution Be Preached? by Ladylawyer(f): 10:04am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Restitution is very good but please know that certain things are better left in secret. If it will break hearts and cause more trouble, please pray to God and change your ways without having to voice out your offences especially to the offended. I have warned you. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: How Do You Feel When You Don't Have Offering To Give In Church? by Ladylawyer(f): 9:59am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Felt embarrassed 1 Like |
Religion / Re: How Do You Feel When You Don't Have Offering To Give In Church? by Ladylawyer(f): 9:59am On Aug 15, 2021 |
tobechi74: Congratulations, you will not go home with less Lol, what does that mean? |
Romance / Re: What's The Best Way End A Relationship Without Hurting Your Partner? by Ladylawyer(f): 9:38am On Aug 15, 2021 |
BadRadio: Is there a perfect approach to end a relationship without hurting a partner?
Maybe the relationship gets too boring often or perhaps u both are not compatible in anyway or perhaps u both want desame thing but in different ways and style.
Maybe u care about this person but u dont want to hurt their feeling and you know it is best that u both parted ways. People need closure when a relationship that they have invested their emotions and time into break. Please respectfully call him or her and make them understand that you no long want to continue with the relationship and also make them understand that it is not their fault and as such there is nothing they can do to change your mind cause it is already made up. At first the person might not be able to assimilate it but with time they will do. And please desist from tarnishing their image when inqusitive mutual friends try to find out what happened.
How do u go about it? |
Romance / Re: Not All Ladies Are Cheat! by Ladylawyer(f): 3:41pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
grossintel: She told you this and you believed just like that. You be Mumu! Women never do you anything. He is not a mumu. There are so many women that are very chaste like that. Take it from me, so many women are scared of having lots of body counts, of damaging their wombs and reputation. |
Family / Re: Most Touching Experience I've Had In A While. by Ladylawyer(f): 10:58pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
This story broke my heart. Sometimes i wish every human could just be comfortable. May poverty never take us into the streets of begging. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Ladylawyer(f): 5:56pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
In our society when ever a lady is trying to exert her right as a woman she is tagged a "feminist". Feminism a word that is associated with everything evil. Take a good look at this woman "mrs okonkwo". Just one look at her and you will see that she is loved and respected by her husband. Now that is the magic, once a woman is loved and respected by her husband, there will be no need to fight for equality. What brings feminism in a home is mostly your inability as a man to " love" and "respect " your woman. I have listened to mrs okonkwo's story. She was once a no nonsense woman but what changed? She once beat a tailor up for not sowing her clothes and so many other unlady like things she did. My guess is that her husband changed her by making it easy for her to submit to him. Young man do not listen to people that will only tell you about how a woman should submit to you, forgetting the other rule which is " love your wife as christ loved the church" On your own learn to love and respect your woman and God willing you marry a sensible lady, your will live a " SWEET LIFE" 6 Likes 1 Share |
Health / Re: My HIV Test Result - The Shock Of My Life by Ladylawyer(f): 5:38pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
EMILO2STAY: aids is a big hoax and I am not joking. the arv he took killed him not aids. and will kill his wife too if she does not stop that drug . do you think their is a gold standard of detecting aids? no! why , because the whole thing is a big scam just like covid19 . you can be positive in Nigeria but negative in America. why do you think it's like that, because they want reduce your population in the african continent and that is why they give out the drug freely. If HIV was real more than 50% of the entire world population would be dead buy now. think. People like you have led to so many death. How can you open your mouth and vomit things like this. If your theory is anything to go by, please be bold enough to come out in the open and lecturer the world on this theory of yours. 4 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Destiny Etiko Acquires New House To Celebrate Birthday - Pictures by Ladylawyer(f): 2:17pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: Newly married women shouldn't be giving out marriage counsel by Ladylawyer(f): 10:12pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
My dear the matter tire me. My friend that got married just three months ago is dishing advice about how to keep a man. Recently i noticed she has changed her Facebook status from married back to single. Nah real wah. I guess the excitement caused all that drama. |
Travel / Re: A Nairalander’s Road Trip To New York by Ladylawyer(f): 1:38pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
EASYGURU: any fulani herdsmen on the road yet or police stopping you to check the content of your phone? That is not naija |
Crime / Re: Unknown Gunmen Attack Another Police Station In Ebonyi, Kill Policeman by Ladylawyer(f): 1:34pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Let nobody rejoice over this in the guise of freedom fighting or whatever for once our security system is destroyed, insecurity will destroy the rest of us. |
Health / Re: COVID-19: Cloth Masks Won’t Protect You From Delta Variant – Michael Osterholm by Ladylawyer(f): 1:27pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
In the end we still wouldn't leave this world alive |
Romance / Re: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by Ladylawyer(f): 9:24am On Aug 06, 2021 |
nokspos: one good thing about them is that , they always do well in life, they are the best in their field. They could also fall in love for you from zero and rise to 100 within one day. They would give you all the support you want in life during that period they are loving you. I just love to take an advantage of them during that period, coz they get angry easily and the next thing their love is back to zero.
This is true to an extent but there are so many of them that are not successful in their field. Once you meet those ones , they will project their failures on you and make you loose yourself in the process. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by Ladylawyer(f): 6:59pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: What Was The Crazy Thing You Did After Breakup? by Ladylawyer(f): 6:44pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
chatinent:
Not that.
I do love them all. I have only learnt and configured my mentality that if it comes, let it come. If it will go, let it go. Zero expectations. I am one person who values my peace of mind than anything else.
If you say so 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by Ladylawyer(f): 6:43pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by Ladylawyer(f): 6:40pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
[quote author=IVORY2009 post=104464994] Are you really a lawyer? Or just a nickname ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) [/quote I am a lawyer dear 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Was The Crazy Thing You Did After Breakup? by Ladylawyer(f): 6:22pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
chatinent: Mine: I knew all along the girl was all Greeks bearing gifts. I was tired of playing games with her in return. I initiated the breakup. Now this didn't hurt me a bit cos I did it.
There was another one I dated. She walked up to me after chatting with my second number (the rich guy), and said the words. I was like, me wey don break up with you since last two years for my mind?
I had also dated a very beautiful lady. I remember we had a misunderstanding where she was wrong and wouldn't admit it. How dare you sit on a guy's laps in a poolside! and she was like.. “I cannot continue this relationship if you don't trust me.”
Lol. I said it's all right. She was so amazed and left. if I no finish four fufu that night, na five. Enough joy.
There were others during my school days, before I decided to give Ceasar’s thing to sb else since Ceasar no wan collect am.
I don't get all that melancholic during breakups. I move on that very moment. I know my value.
So ladies and gentlemen, what was that crazy thing you did? Did you shed tears begging, or contemplated suicide?
Let's discuss...
You didn't get emotional after the break up because you never truly loved your partners. If you ever loved someone and later breakup with them , even if that person was toxic, at some point the good memories you had will get you teary. 11 Likes |