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Playboy3030:
There is this girl that we have being dating since two years ago, but recently she seems to flirt alot, never caught her in any cheating act though but the way she hangs out with guys this days makes me wonder wether, "she is cheating on me" but I can't get any evidence yet, when I confront her, 'she denied and keeps saying "she truly loves me and can never leaves me for no reason but deep down I felt like she is cheating on me and am confuse right now, your advice is needed please, "dear nairalanders love doctor and relationship advisers"..

We didn't advice you to date her, so why should we be involved now.

You made your choice then it goes sour and you come online to ask for help, what kind of generation is this?

You didn't read books on relationship so that you can shine your eyes well before you enter, you didn't pray, you are not even ready for marriage, you are just some Hot bros thinking with his deek when you chose a lady that appeals more to your eyes than your future.

You are playing a game with her too, since you are a playboy were you thinking you will get a anything better than a playgirl?

The game is meant for only two people, so don't come here to call crowd of strangers into it. Sleep with her as you like and move on after all that's all you can see about a relationship.

Oya haters come at me...

Bacteriologist:
No, actually it's just a website where the flawed reasoning of indoctrinated people has been documented.

So you might want to check it out. Oh wait never mind you're indoctrinated.

See I can't be here wasting time with you, when you have questions that your atheistic mindset can't answer, then you will know that wiki was created by a confused person just like you and angry that so many people believe in what they do not understand.


Did you even try to find out if there are diabolical powers, or things science can't explain?

I have exhausted wiki and am still on dark web, none of them can actually answer all questions to prove that God does not exist.

Pls have peace in your confusion if it works for you.

At the afterlife we will know.


There is no punishment for believing in God. So I won't waste my time not believing

Bacteriologist:
God of the gaps fallacy


"Oh we don't know what happens after death therefore heaven MUST exist."

"I don't know where sense is kept in the body therefore god must exist."


"I don't understand X therefore y must be true."


Read about why your reasoning is flawed and is a nonsensical way of arguing.

https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/God_of_the_gaps

Wiki is your God abi, pls sit and find answers o.

You have so much free time on your hands that you are here to ask about wallpaper.. M who does that anymore these days.


Oga see, download a good theme and let the theme take care of the rest.


Don't come here to be talking wall paper when your mates are making money with their phones and data.

Khriztarl:
i disengage u 4rm anything that connects u with naira marley ijn

Amen mummy, I am not a marlian ma

LordOfNaira:
The truth is that none of you Christians have any proofs of God.

As for déjà vu, many scientific explanations have been made for it.

Science, unlike religion, does not brag in ignorance. Science believes in testing and retesting, as well as in falsifying claims. But religion is quick to attribute every strange occurrences to some god in the sky.

The difference between a religionist and a scientist is that a religionist always looks for the easy way out. As long as they can't explain something, they attribute it to a daddy in the sky.

But a scientist will begin asking questions upon questions and then make a tentative conclusion (hypothesis) which he then tries to test using experiments or further observations. This can take years.

There were so many things that we could not explain but with science, we have been able to get explanations. According to your Bible, the sun and the moon hang in the sky. This picture does not explain how we have changes in seasons, and it doesn't explain how the sun can be shining in America while some part of the world is in total darkness. But science has helped us understand these things which used to be mysteries.

As smart as you try to articulate your ignorance am just here using you to catch fun with my friends.


Do you know frank Edwards, that young boy who sings soul trendy gospel songs?

I was there when God healed him, he came to Lagos sick like every other asthmatic child, it was prayer that healed him.... He is still healed.


Do you know Steve crown? He was mentally challenged on a very high level and fetish voodoo powers did not save him. He had a major encounter with God and the miracles that occur when he sings is proof.... I may not know him but I have seen people get healed.


You biggots who do all you can to claim there is no God are even a amusement to the devil, because he even didn't make such silly mistake.

If it's proof you want, I have proof, I have seen proof and I am proof.

So before you come here spewing expired shet, be wise for once in your little span of life and go meet anyone who is truly claiming to serve God then ask for proof.

Ask all your atheist questions and the persons you meet if they are true Christians will be able to answer. Millions of years Christianity has grown with too many infallible proofs then someone like you with MB still can't find proof, na WA o

healthserve:
No. You're wicked abeg


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PrincessJoyy:
Good day Nairalanders, pls I need your urgent advice on my present predicament. It is going to be a long read so pls be patient with me.
Been married for 11 years now and it was love at the beginning. My husband has been loving and caring but after some years the romance began to dwindle and the love I had for my husband began to drop. I complained to him but he came up with the excuses that he had so much in mind especially catering for the family. It continued that way till my love tank for him became empty so to speak. December last year something happened, my husband came to me in the night asking for my forgiveness for not showing me the much desired attention and care that I deserved that we should let the past slide to begin afresh, then we started dating again, taking me out and the joy and happiness that once eluded me was restored. He however, kept tabs on my conversation and chats with a childhood male friend without my knowledge and what he deduced is we still have feelings for each other and our chats was full of regrets for not marrying each other and we called each other first love. He confronted me with his findings which I initially denied till he brought facts. I never had intimacy with this said guy which my husband knows being that my husband is the one that deflowered me. We ironed it out and settled the issue. My husband expected me to end whatever it was with the guy though he didn't say so directly. My chats and calls with this guy continued without my husbands knowledge, until last night when my husband asked me what I have with this guy, I told him nothing. He said I should choose between him and the guy. I should severe/cut all ties with this guy if I choose to be with him, so I asked why, he said no arguments that I should do what he asked me to do. After much talk, I discovered he saw my chats with the guy (the one I forgot to delete). I got angry at him for monitoring me and told him in annoyance to take his phone (he bought it for me) and give me the sim, which he quietly did but refused to give me the sims. I dragged with him but he overpowered me, I also tried to seize his phone but failed he even threatened to vacate the house for me at that ungodly hour if I continue with my madness. After a while, I apologized to him, he accepted the apology but refused to give me the phone. I am using my laptop to send this. How do I handle the situation for peace to reign. I don't know what he feels about me now. Sorry for the long write up. NB I told him in annoyance that he is monitoring my chats because he bought the phone for me that I'll buy mine and he said not in his house that I shouldn't dare

Aunty joy,
Aunty joy,
Aunty joy,

How many times did I call you?

Ahn Ahn, please you too use your normal married mind to look at it, if your husband left ladies to focus 100% on you for sake of marriage and you are giving him 40% because of some old fling or flame, is that fair?

You may not be a Christian but whatever you are please tell us, didn't you take marital oaths, my own man will not even talk about it, once he sees such thing he will happily go and cheat and not bother hiding and if I confront him he will bring it up publicly. So I am even scared of cheating or not being totally faithful.

True love will not do to others what you can not bare for them to do to you.

Marriage means you no longer have privacy, everything you have is now for your husband, didn't your parents tell you? Please have some shame, after 11years, what are you looking for again.

Maybe you married at a very young age so you still feel youthful lusts for your old flame but your husband has proven to be truly in love with you and ready to even awaken it after everything had almost died, that's not easy.

Please ma, save your marriage, cut ties with your past else if you can't then divorce because you don't deserve such a man. I believe you have parents or elders and they will advise you to do same. You have a good thing please do not let feelings for another who has not proven himself as your husband has done, don't let it ruin you o.

Be wise

drmikeadams:
. There is no God,she is just on her own

The fact that you believe there is no God yet you do not have sure answers with proof of where you will be going when you die and you can not explain dejavu or near death experiences is proof that there are many many infinite concepts that your little experience on earth is yet to grasp.....


There is God oh.


Argue when you can explain where sense is kept in your body. Or where your consciousness goes when you sleep or die

Sanquine:
I said I need your opinion. But well, never mind.

Sorry bro, I value my privacy more than anything. Am not here to bond or get friendly, if your matter was urgent and my opinion was so ooooo important, then you would have created a thread or comment and mentioned me and I would have replied you accordingly.

Kylekent59:
I weep for tomorrow's leaders

Ekwensu ajoka

We are the last of those who were told many years ago that we would be the leaders of tomorrow....


The current kids are leading today so there is no tomorrow for many of them

Misleading topic and too long content that makes your point appear weak.

You are still a marlian though

Mymynd4u:
I don't want to do illegal G but it seems this country ehnnn, even people wey dey do G sef no get issue... Just get the money and Las Las nobody go ask u how u take get ur money like somone told me. He made me know that all these top artiste sef are into G and all is fine.
Is there any legal way i can do sumtin tangible with 10k in 2020 and watch it grow

Is it mutual fund, crypto currency or what?

Pls come to my my aid, I am tired of being broke in the life, I am tired

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L0ve:
So I had to create a new moniker because I am a popular face on nairaland and am so ashamed of my action but this is so real.
I meet this girl last year in my work place. I was just coming out of a broken relationship where I was hurt terribly, so I was not in a hurry to give my heart to anyone.

So let me call her sharon, so Sharon worked opposite my office and they use our light. So any time the generator has fault I wil go there to disturb her work in a funny manner. She would laugh so loudly. With the way my ex humiliated me I was happy someone finds me attractive. Truth be told I was not in love with her. So I started taking her out as a distraction.

Later I asked her out she said yes. I stay with some relatives she stays alone. She is my right height and ambitious those I love about her. so I take her out alot because I cant bring her to the house. I tried to make her see reason why we should be meeting at her place but she refused so I stop taking her out and I hardly call her. she wrote a long epistle and said she no longer doing. I did not feel to bad because I was really into my work because I got a new job and I was really enjoying it.(I do travel a lot) and I did not put my whole heart into the relationship
Since then I don't date any time konji is to much I enter club and have one night stand sometimes I pay if she ask for money. So there are guyss I club with, one of them that works in her office he told me he had a one night stand with sharon this was months after we date. Mind you Sharon and I agreed not to let anyone know we where dating. so anytime this my friend come in when we made video call she will hide the phone. That was then, we are no longer together so no big deal.

On Christmas day I sent message to all my contacts including her. She called me and we joked about a lot of things. She said she did not prepare for Xmas so after church I went to see her and toke her out. We had a nice time. There was this day I visited her I saw her outside talking to a dude for long but I did not ask her. There was a time I was suppose to see her after church she never came and refuse to puke my call. Gave me an excuse that her family friend siezed her phone that should take her blessing home church.
Later we became close and started dating. I had 2 friends with benefits I cut them off sharp sharp . I started loving her for really. She allowed me to sleep over I did not touch her even when the signs where everywhere her kissing me and all, because I was not in a hurry. I wanted it to be perfect I was already shopping for Valentine gift.

Then yesterday I was supposed to see her, she was the one that asked me to come later she said said had to go do something for her aunty. After that I called but she refused to pick and I warned her this morning that I will not take any type of games from her. She reassured me.
We agree to meet today, I went to her house and there was this strange dude at her place. Claim to be her bf trying to push me to a fight at the gate. And will not let me see her. He had her phone in his hand. And he seems to know me. I pity him Sha because they no de carry woman matter for head. He said she told him to give her time to get rid of me, when she is the one really pushing for us to date but can't fight or died for what I don't understand. So I went home oo. I guess I will be single for a very long time. And even scared to call my friends with benefits because I don't want this type of embarrassement in my life.

Power of pvci is real, woman made a joke and mockery of you like this....

You need to own your game and make her know you are not in NEED of love or relationship.


Move on with your life and delete her contact.

You were never in a relationship, you were simply in an undefined excuse for sex.

It is mature to walk away but also don't always be available to her. People will always chase what is scarce, not what is readily available.

She even friend zoned you, that means you are completely a weak guy to her but she opens leg for rude guys who know what they want and go directly for it. You are just hanging around so why will you expect her to treat you with seriousness.

Leave her, get rich by minding your business and in less than a year she will be back begging.

Baron1V:
After a failed relationship with my tribal girl, I gave myself enough time to heal after which i decided to test the waters elsewhere, because it is said people find love in strange places.
I met this pretty lady whose physique is everything any man could ever think of in a woman.
I was already considering her as a life partner not minding the fact that she only completed her secondary school. Talks of convincing her to further fell on deaf ears hence she's only concerned about marriage.
She even discussed me with her parents and her mum and elder sister concluded that I cannot take care of her, that she should look for someone else. They developed hatred for me without even knowing who or what I looked like.
Fast forward, the unthinkable happened late last year when she visited. She had a nap and when she was up, I noticed the bed was wet
She thought I never knew so she covered it up. It happened again the second and third time and I couldn't take it. I confronted her and she was not happy about it. (just imagine the thought of bringing your mattress to sun it every time she visits. I endured that).
The worst of it, is that it happens during the day, not even at night. Medically, is there a solution to such a situation? Doctors in the house please help a brother. She's 24 and still bed wets. I told her she was not okay and she was mad!
Right now, "TO YOUR TENT OH ISREAL"
my flat is a mess, because it stinks despite all my efforts. Is it right to let her go which I know it is?

Some times it may be medical and other times spiritual.

Sadly you do not believe in spirituality.

Help her or leave her. There is no point treating her like a menace.

If you truly love her pls Help her by taking her to hospital and not coming here to talk about it.

Then find a true spiritual man to help her

Oya tesumole gbeseeee

Sanquine:
Education/Career

Am educated and I have a thriving career outside Nigeria.

I don't need it.

Sanquine:
Please I need your opinion on an issue. Are can I add you on facebook? Or you'll reply my email instead?

For what purpose exactly.

darling4real1:
Hello Nairalanders

This issue call for concern as I see people eating to stoop. A friend was recently hospitalized due to inability to control his gauge.

This has left me confuse.....expert in the house can you help me out.....

CAN A PERSON STOMACH BURSTS DUE TO EXCESSIVE EATING?

Health complications can occur... Terrible ones

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Thanks,

Lillian.

How much

This one will not trend neither will others like her learn.

God have mercy

proclinician:
Pls say yes i will consider it a just decision or no i won't consider it such.

You're always very loud and perpetually empty.

Perceptually.

Mumu

proclinician:
Let's keep it with you. You have a job in a firm where you get the wage u use in running your family then ur boss has a chit chat with his pastor and he mentioned his admiration to the pastor and the pastor requests that he fire u and that way u lose ur job. Will you take this as a just decision considering everything u know about Christianity and human relation.

So bosses who fire women who refuse to succumb to their sexual demands nko.... All because it's a pastor that spoke, you vampires are here trying to draw blood...



So are you a Christian, to what extent will you go to avoid sin. Pls check your own life

iswallker:
How many eyes have you seen being gorged out of their sockets lately..

Common sense is not common oooo...

Okpo u you have never heard of idioms? Or figurative speech? Go and buy brighter Grammer biko.


Jesus simply meant anything that will cause you to fall should be plucked out

This is too good. Wow.

Yet I refuse to be a single mum

These celebrities are bored with life, so Rhianna wants to have a man she can control and use. She isn't seeking love. She is just having fun as a feminist and using gullible wealthy males that fall prey to her charm.

She will break up with this one soon.

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