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Oh dear is all I can say, I hope if she reads this she doesnt get too upset its only words. Shes brave to allow her picture is that state to be posted.

If you are IN LOVE you wont cheat. Because at that time you are obsessed with that person. But when IN LOVE changes to love then you will cheat because you are no longer obsessed and something else may catch your attention. For exmple there is no way you will be in a relationship and not find others attractive its whether or not you do something about your attraction to that other person. Personally its too much headache for me. Stick with one person at a time. When I've had enough move on

Everyday there is a stupid topic on Nairaland. This is one,

We all get on so well on nairaland LOL

Why does he have to give her money can't she work?
The guy isnt swimming in money and being tight fisted. This kind of attitude stinks. We females need to wise up you shouldnt have to wait for any man!

Bloody hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!

I dont get it why guys take crap from a bad girlfriend and when they get a good one they dont know how to treat her!

Just shut it Somze,

Just dump the money grabbing hussy, stupid cow

Somze is a mans man.  Even if a female is riding him hes still in control ( and I mean that literally)
Somze is the head of his household no questions.
Somze's wife will shut up and Know Somze is god.

But does Somze accept that some of his sex are pure b@stards?
Just like some females are just useless bimbos.

You are so full of yourself Somze!
I bet your sexy tall and everything a woman dreams, *rolls eyes*

Stop blowing your own trumpet Somze!

Pahtahkee you dare attempt to devour anything and you will get banned,

Somze you cannot deny that some of your sex are responsible for the views Funmi may have.
Stop acting like you men are attacked for no reason.  

You have a massive ego@Somze *sigh*

Just make sure she ugly and crossed eyed we all know what happens when the husband is left alone with the maid

Women work as well.

Its unfair for a woman to slave away all day at work and then slave away when she gets home. A man should help out where he can. Whether its looking after the children while she cooks. Ironing or whatever. Its a partnership not slave and mastership.

I still feel that at 13 shes way too young to be leading her own life and making such decisions. I mean what next? If the mother didnt feel it was a problem she wouldnt post it here. No one is a good parent. A good parent is a parent who tries. I think its the hardet job in the world to raise another decent human being. But when it comes to children lets stop this free thinking nonesense the modern soceity has good mad. A child is a child end of story.

Omotola,

No way in hell am I going to be a fat pregnant bride.
Its a stupid new fashion trend I cant tell you the number of weddings I have been too involving Nigerians and the wife to be looks like shes going to give birth any second.

Theres no need for it. When did it become tradition anyway?

@ Debo

Sweet T I have no problem whats wrong with you this man?  My mistake is I was always too trusting.  Not no more.  If you mess up it don't suprise me

I think Funmis getting way too much heat here.  At the end of the day rape does happen within marriage it is part of domestic violence.  Why any man would want to force himself on his wife while she screams is beyond me but then again it doesnt some men beat the living hell out of their wives.  Domestic violence has many forms the physical, mental and emotional.

If Hotfunmi sounds like shes mad at men maybe she is lets be honest here!!!

The mind games men and women play are disgusting.  A guy will tell lies to impress, attract, and steal a female.
A woman will do the same, if you are on the recieving end of these lies you end up getting pissed and not trusting anyone.

I will use myself as an example I dont have much trust in men period.  I wont lie it causes problems in my current relationship but thats the way I have been formed by past bastards and believe me it doenst take much.  You just have to be hurt by one person to screw you up for life.

And you African men are among the worst heartbreakers out there

Sweet T  darling this is not my topic I am just discussing the topic which is Marital rape,  *rolls eyes*
Are you understanding it yet? God help me


Dalby how is holding someone down while them scream stop seduction,

Im not really 500lbs for Gods sake you crazy man@Sweet T

I think there is a need for better understanding between men and women.  We women are not pieces of meat! You African men often fail to see this.  

Sex is important but is it so important you need to rape your wife the woman you love?
And not getting sex everytime you ask for it is NOT the basis of getting it from outside.  You expose your wife to STD's and heartbreak.  

There are different situations that are not so clear cut.  But please no raping!

LOL@Sweet T you are such a cheesy guy! And you cant seem to read!!!

I'm discussing the topic I never said I was pestered for sex I am in a happy and healthy relationship.  But I am saying I'm not ALWAYS in the mood!  Therefore no man should rape his wife if she says no.

Its a lie@Sweet T SEX is the most important thing to you guys.  You cant help yourself.  Its all you think talk eat and sleep.  You all claim you are these sex machines that can go on for hours.  When in reality its in and out Oh my God is over!  Im not suprised women say no it may not be worth the hassle of getting undressed!

Honestly Hotfunmi these guys all talk!

@Sweet T Im ejebu/Ijesha

Sweet T from all you have said I'm 99% sure you are one of the guys who wont take no for an answer from his wife God save her and her vagina 

Sweet T =Sex mad

Just stop all your nonesene

And its all fake Sweet T when you get started like your really going to do something 5mins ( if we are lucky) Its all over!

Sweet T:
@Lady T

Seriously, I like your face and the shape of your head. I think you are very pretty eventhough i have not seen your lower part. The way you keep mentioning " Don't touch my breat". Your nipples must be very sensitive, i bet it turns on all the lights. It's like a switch.

*sigh*  Men one track mind.  Look at you almost having an orgasm are you on drugs  Dont worry yourself I'm weigh 500lbs, I'm glad you like the shape of my head its round like a football,