Dreadlock69:



You've already watched the movie

yes, I did.

Dreadlock69:



I'll be waiting for your review

So if she is like Carrie , I don't see any problem.

But then again,it boils down to you .

Dreadlock69:



Sharp mouth like she never run out of reply to give you


She's this kind of girl in the movie night school if you've watched it.

At the end of the day only you can decide if you can cope with it or not. Traits are usually hard to change as compared to habits.

Anyway make I go download the movie.

Their ambition to become vice president trumps the interest of the entire region and it's people. I didn't really take them serious through all that zoning drums they were beating and I am glad I didn't.lol

One thing with southerners is they are feel they are too enlightened because they can speak big grammar. This was a perfect check mate and the southern governors were the pawns to the last move made by the northerners.


You just have to give it to northerners ,they sure do know how to stick together regardless and think of the over all interest of their region but southerners ,errrm not so much, just offer the right price they will give up the entire region for their pockets.


A divided south is the reason Nigeria is still held hostage by redundant northerners who currently head all parastals in the country.

Maynman:

Lol

ok o

Maynman:


You said same thing lol

K.

Maynman:


What’s the difference between both?

sharp mouth ; they are like earthworm is to salt when it comes to letting things slide, no o dem must say their own mind , before you talk one dem don talk 10. They must let you know they too have mouth. Because of their nature ,they are fond of getting into arguments and quarrels . Mind you when e reach fight most of them nor get hand,na just that bird mouth dem get.


Bad mouth; They are unprovoking , sometimes quiet but have bad words prepared. They can tell a person things that will make dem commit suicide. Though they may sometimes seem reserved and not truoblesome yet have the most calculated meanest words ready.

Maynman:


But this her flaw is even the worse, if you have a good character you won’t be abusing everyone.
I don’t think there’s any flag as red as that.

That one sef join. But then again sharp mouth and bad mouth are two different things

I guess I am the one who doesn't get the one the op is referring to.

seanwilliam:


Hmm. Well no one is perfect including MEN , but anything you know you can’t put up with as a man or woman , that’s red flag.

So if I were in his shoes, honestly I can’t marry her. She’s disrespectful and not submissive.


Those are the biggest flaws/flags I can’t over look no matter how you put it…



But if she’s making effort to change for real , I can still manage. Mind you , there’s different between pretending to change and changing for real. I can figure the bolded out easily .. but to be frank, some characters no fit change ..

I have anger issues too, and I’ve been making efforts day and night to change for better , so marrying a woman who gets sharp mouth might send me to jail .

Cos I will be tempted to uproot her 36 teeth..

Again this is your personal opinion.

Being submissive is subject to your opinion because the op already stated that she respects him enough to coordinate herself in his presence.


Then again, on the bolded ,I like the fact that you are in tune with your personality and will seek out a match that will sooth your type of person.
This is what I always advocate ,man know thyself and seek out a partner that will better compliment your flaws and not aggravate or trigger it.


Like someone said ,to some a trait can be a flaw while to another it can be a red flag. We all have our deal breakers and where we draw the line on tolerance and after that line it turns into toture and abuse.

Therefore the op has to decide if he sees it as a flaw or a red flag. As he has stated he sees no other fault in her traits and habits.

Brainjotting:

You can regard it as flaws if it's something you can manage. But it's a red flag if it's something you know you can't manage.

Noted.
Easy explanation.

I hope the op gets it.The question now is op ,do you see it as a flaw or a red flag?.

Cc dreadlock69

God1000:
Don't ignore the red flags, she's a disrespectful chatterbox, look for another well polished giri if she refuses to change.

I can't put up with someone that embarrasses me every now and then, she's a naff

At what point do we draw the line between flaw and a red flag though?

Can we continue to use them interchangeably simply because we are on the prowl for the "perfect"?


At what point do we realize we have our own flaws too( our own dey our body) and compromise?.

BRATISLAVA:


Don't mind that idiot. He crawls around looking for my posts, drops his diagnoses of himself, and then tries to act suavely.

Such a boring, idiotic fellow. The red pill has truly made fools out of the boys like him on this forum.

Watch him return with his other moniker.

lol ,you sef get their time, I hail you.

If there is an issue and he wanted to let you know he would have relayed it to you by now.

Some things are what it is ,he doesn't want you around him , simple, your relative is the one supposed to invite you. What if you didn't know about his fiancee that means you wouldn't have known about his wedding.



Don't go, but if your coconut head nor wan hear ,I hope say he nor go tell people wey dey share food make dem nor share food and drink give you before your body go rest.


Person wey even death nor move to call you, sometimes maturity is staying away. Nor be everytime you go dey wave white flag dey ask wetin you do , dey seek for closure upandan.

luminouz:

Tara... I'm hungry..lemme alone na...yellow witch

K.

luminouz:


You must really take things here that serious sha.

Relax....enjoy life...

Bye

Nah I don't , but I do take note of toxic people who come here to let off steam and don't allow them to use me as their virtual entertainment.

luminouz:

Who is your bro??
Can't even remember we ever clashed. Life is short. Live it.

Your body too hot sef!!!

who shit dey forget the smell ,who pack am nor dey forget.


Ok hermaphrodite , bye, since you nor be bro.

WHITELIGHTER:


Life's choices...its not always about govt, society and background

Life's choices doesn't apply to the kid. So who should we blame for the predicament of the kid?

luminouz:

When will you woman up and marry me?

Last time you told me to getat ,now this, pick a side and stay there bro.

CharleyBright:
You are angry with everyone except yourself.
Dude, what are u doing in a brothel? It is people like u that brought that child into the world thru the illicit sex u had with the Olosho type of his mother.
You are part of the problem

lol ,the path of this conversation is less traveled. Another angle.

Who is to blame?




Fate
God
The father
The mother
The government
The bar man

Who

Condolences to the family.

I see cosmetic surgery as every other high risk surgery, the chances are always dicy and one just have to make sure the person you are putting your life in their hands is capable and will do their best and leave the rest to chance.



Safe surgery is key, be willing to go all out ,don't do promo surgery or cheap surgery on your life. Same way some ladies died in the hands of the Dominican republic doctor and so many other under experienced doctors all because it was cheaper.

Please Ladies the goal is to buy the body and own it ,you can't own it in the grave ,be ready to spend on the best hands to increase your chances of coming back to "pepper dem".

Once again, my condolences to the family.RIP.

All victims of domestic violence deserve justice regardless of gender.


I am happy that he got justice. And I hope society learns from this as well not to teach our men to internalize their pain and tell them to "man up" instead of seeking for help. I hope that society learns that being vunerable as a man is not weakness but human. And there is nothing effeminate about seeking for help for being abused.

Awww, cute.

May your union be hidden from the eyes those who despise happy marriage.

jojothaiv:
Zimbabweans might have just found the perfect way to foot one bills.

foot bills

Favfables1:


While I growing up, it was a taboo for anyone (except babies) to sleep on the matrimonial bed of a married couple....

So I can't phantom how anyone would feel comfortable lying down on a matrimonial bed of another couple and would still go on to have sex on that same bed, what kind of disrespect is that!!!?!!

Please confront those people...
And if they refuse, report them to both your sister and her husband...

What nonsense!

The bolded part is what I have been trying to figure out,like how are they so comfortable sleeping on a couple's bed and even have sex there? .

Maybe I am old school or too conservative or something, I can't wrap my head around it.

The op, the bro in-law and his gf are all supposed to be in the parlour. The bedroom should be off limits and only accessible to the owners of the house .geez!

My people say "if road nor let you pass go front, pass am come back".


If it's all what she wrote ,let her come back let the people who want to go,find their way there. I get irritated when diasporans talk like this. Come back to Nigeria and stop whining.

It's not about illiteracy or poverty, it's not about fame or money;

Dregs will always be dregs.

I am not surprised at this.

Born again , godly, Christian ,these are just catchy phrases for a smoke screen to divert people's attention from putting their scrutiny glasses on.


I am glad the Ladies caught on to the act on time.

Angelfrost:


It's not just ignorance... It's deep seated misogyny!

I entered a pharmacy with some guys. There were 2 pharmacists on duty that day, a male and a female.

The guys kept addressing the lady as Nurse while calling the guy Pharmacist, even when both were clearly dressed alike in their ward coats with bold name tags. It clearly irritated the lady pharmacist who curtly corrected them.

Misogyny is the right word. And worse is they are the loudest of them all. Just imagine the commenters here as well fast fingers with no brain.

Angelfrost:


Most Nigerians actually believe Nurses are strictly and solely women!

Even the educated ones amongst them!

Ignorance is wide spread among people here even the so called literate ones . I was just laughing at the comments of so called people who can read and write making foolish assumptions especially out of bias for women and furstration in their lives .


Anything against women seems to be the only highlight of their miserable lives .

Havertz10:
I referenced the plate not because I was under the impression that Benz owners use gold plate but I was trying to say that if the OP was living a form of privileged life that warranted such behavior from traders, he wouldn’t be using a plate like that or complaining about spending 500 for mango, and the fact that you couldn’t make that connection shows that you don’t have taste

Taste?

Again I ask what Type of plate to do with a benz owners use , Mr Taste -full.Maybe I can learn from your taste and start having taste as well.