₦airaland Forum

luminouz:
You and your fat mouth!!!!

I don't support evil and I know it's genderless. So the blame game is not my thing

So as I was saying ladies.


It's scary outside, becareful out there. That so called hardworking guy you think you are dating can be fed up one day and also want to chill with the big boys. Dem nor dey write ritualist for forehead.


Be safe ladies!!!.

luminouz:
And how did you know the lady was not greedy?

Not excusing the guy's behaviour.

A man with some fear of God in him, won't do such

Lol.


It's funny how you lots start with " I am not excusing the guys behavior" ,lol .

Everyone knows you have to be evil to directly excuse murder and mutilation of a human being , but then how else will you indirectly support if not trying to blame the victim.



Anyway the issue at hand now is that, even your so called serious boyfriend can just mark you for his ritual victim. A boyfriend and his mother killed his pregnant girlfriend and ate her heart.


Be safe out there Ladies, dem nor dey write am for face, that so called responsible hardworking guy can be fed up with being legit and want to chill with the big boys too and you might just be the victim his resolve.


There are monsters lurking in the dark hunting for the next victim to kill for ritual. It's scary outside.

It's scary , thought I was the only one having phobia for dating .


A guy killed his girlfriend of two years for ritual,so it's not even a thing of how the long you have known the person or how wealthy they are. It's not even about you being greedy as lady, anyone can fall prey to these monster who can be lurking in the shadows waiting to strike.


It's just scary outside for single ladies.

If I am unfortunate to marry a snoring man like this my neighbor who causes earth quake every night from upstairs with his snore, then a separate room will be like getting freed from bondage.

wetin you dey eat? See as you come fat.

Na wah, dem nor dey do party carry first. You get two yards but na agbada style dey your eye . Why not cut your cloth according to the yards of material you have ,last time I checked there was provision for simple indoor wedding.

Smh.

SmartyPants:
Lol I'm far from an Einstein and I hated those people in school too.

Lol.

SmartyPants:
There arent. Its roughly 51:49

Einstein ,na you dem dey talk about for the other thread. Awon " continue sir,we have free period".

Edipet:
True caller cannot provide you with identity of a new number/sim,....it gives you the a name that was stored by other people,.....I think it would be better if NCC can give them permission to access data/privacy of every registered Sim

. Did you sit down that type the bolded?like seriously?

Wow, just wow . , like seriously?

Oga use flight do half of journey , continue from there. If this is enough to call off your relationship with a so called " good girl" .
Or

Use police escort.


Guy you sure say you go fit even make your marriage work so? Seems you are not ready to inconvenience yourself or make compromises for anyone not even for this "good girl". .

Painful sex is an issue for the gynaecologist.

If she is not willing to see a gynaecologist ,she is not ready for a solution. It's that simple.It could be endometriosis or worse, but we can't be guessing what the problem is,until proper diagnosis by a gynaecologist.

Even though married people claim they don't have sex that much in marriage ,sexual compatibility is an integral part of marriage. Fix this issue before anything.Let her find her way to the office of a gynaecologist asap.

teeshet:
can you allow your hubby take a second wife

You can't control a grown man. If a man wants to take a second wife, I have no say in it. You only "allow" what you can control.


But what I do have a say in is whether I want to be a vessel to his polygamous lifestyle or not. If I stay he becomes a man with two wives, if I leave he becomes a man with an ex wife ,or Maybe he goes ahead and takes a third wife sef.

The voice of wokeness will say ; don't marry the corpse ,this is 2022 , such traditions are babaric and should be done away with.


But then again, I can understand the angle the tradition is coming from.This is a deterrent to babymamaism and live- in lovers .

There are certain things beyound our control as humans and it's uncessary to probe why you didn't marry her when she was alive instead of cohabiting. But the best you can do now is relay the message to your family members and kins men.Even if you want to refuse,you need a support system especially from the elders in your family. And don't prove stubborn should your kins men decide you go ahead and pay the bride price.

Goodluck.

illuminutty:
The woman is free to file for a divorce. Them no use chain hold her hands and legs in the marriage. She should get out of the kitchen if she can't take the heat.

True.

There is no right or wrong way for her to react.


If she stays she won't be wrong, if she leaves she won't be wrong either.Its that simple,in the end only her has the right to determine if she wants to be a vessel of polygamy .

franchasofficia:
LadyTara baby, I de look for wives oh, does you had big bomboms?

No I don't. Try somewhere else.


Have a nice day.

franchasofficia:
Even this thing weh you type, no be juju be this

Lol.


Just tell me say I correct, ground nor go swallow you.

illuminutty:
Yul is old enough to take a decision on how many wives he wants to have.

That's a fact

But another fact is that a woman has the right to decide if she wants to be a vessel of polygamy to a man.


Many men determine their success by how many women they have access to.Being the center of attention among women gives them a sense of importance, However, every woman has the right to decide if she wants to be accessible to such men.


If you want many wives, go for women who don't mind such a lifestyle.


Where I have a problem is when you use religion or traditions to corner a woman into such a lifestyle for your own need. That's outright selfishness

Kobojunkie:
Welcome to Nigeria, the land where foolishness thrives.

It's just nuseating.

It's the biggest scam of the century to say a philandering man is under the influence of the supernatural,it makes no sense but I wonder how over time this even became a thing. Even educated people, next thing now they will tell the wife to go fast and pray to loose a grown philandering man from the demons of philandering that has possessed him. .


There is no difference between this and people who use insanity to escape being punished by the law.

franchasofficia:
My anger is that the first wife is still prettier than the second wife even after giving birth to four grown up kids.


That second wife must have used either juju or money or both to tie Yul down.


See her oversized breast that is only sexy when on clothe, Yul you be mumu, why didn't you go for Destiny Etiko or that Yoruba Actress young daughter or even Regina Askia's daughter.



I am so disappointed in Yul, the second wife look so overbloated and ugly

Why do Nigerians always lack accountability?
Why do we always look for ways to shift blame?
The bolded gets me irritated every time. There is nothing like using juju to tie down a man.Its the greatest myth that needs to be done away with. This is 2022 abeg.

A grown up man has extra marital affair but in other to get a soft landing the next thing people claim the other woman tied him with juju. . Either way, a woman still gets to pay for the actions of the man. If it not the fault of his wife for not being enough for him,it's the fault of his side chick for using juju.


When will men be accountable with their full chest? If you can cheat atleast don't insult our intelligence and pass the blame on the supernatural, that's wickedness.

Interesting statistics. .

life is easy o ,na we humans dey complicate am. If a man wants a polygamous home, good for him, look for a woman that wants that as well.

No tradition or culture should have to force a woman to live a marital life she doesn't want.Thats coercion and it's not healthy for the mental health.


If Yul likes that kind of lifestyle because I know many men rate their success by how many women they have in their lives hence many stick to their wives in the beginning and when dem hammer na there dem go begin carry high maintenance chicks,infact that is the reason many married men have side chicks ,being the center of attention gives them some form of importance and makes them feel noticed and seen.

However, not all women are cut out for such,not all women want to have to share days of penis and attention and even resources going to your children. Some women don't mind being 20th wife, it's their choice, but making your decision to corner your partner just so you can have what you want regardless if it hurts the other party is crossing the line.All I see here is manipulation tactics to get a soft landing.


In the end I hope she makes the decision best for her own peace and sanity before putting anything else into consideration, life na per head.

pocohantas:
No she isn’t. She is an event manager. Someone posted it last year on Nairaland and people thought it was the usual fake story by bloggers.

https://www.nairaland.com/6627171/yul-edochie-abandons-wife-welcome

When I remember all the advice for feminists and praises for virtuous women like his first wife, at every point his family pictures came up in the past- I just laugh. You can never understand that gender…

With the way he was praising his wife who would have thought he will circle back and hurt her like this. Humans sha. Smh.


Well nothing new under the sun, some women don't mind staying in a polygamous marriage, while others can't,it's a matter of choice. If she can't stay, let her leave.

He made his choice, it's time for her to make hers.To stay with a co- wife or not to stay. The choice is hers to make.

You have to relocate the grave and do all the traditional rites if you are serious in selling that house.


Call your kins men and know the process of moving a grave.


But why UK though?

DanseMacabre:
It's crazy. The liberalism practised in the West has found its way here, without the attendant societal development. So imagine how worse our society could get. What is scarier is that it's only just begun.

The west to an extent have made cushion to manage to future effects of liberalism.

A third world overtaken by liberalism without basic development will be worse than the dark ages.Its like running without crawling.

DanseMacabre:
Hmmmm.

This is both alarming and sickening. Of all the positive we could learn from the first world/West, we choose only the harmful practices. We dey form woke, and our morality recedes like Shehu Sani's hairline as time goes on. And it's a vicious circle: children raised without parental care and guidance turn out morally bankrupt, and go on to raise their own kids the same way.

It's inconceivable to think that a fvcking ten-year old already knows truth or dare, and even 'riding'. Yet here we are. Naija 'elite' schools are dumping grounds for degenerate children of degenerate parents, and it's a no-brainer that they pass this behaviour to other kids who might be from saner homes, while their parents are forming woke on Twitter.

I weak wallahi. This woke culture we're imbibing might likely be the death of us all. As chaotic as nature might seem, it has its own rules and order. Humans wanna subvert that order and think they will escape the repercussions. The world's gone crazy...

I always say this that wokeness will be the bane and eventual destruction of this generation.

Such men are better locked away for the safety of kids in the society, obviously this is not his first victim.

His face should be plastered everywhere so parents can beware there is a predator around.Disgusting!!!

As for the girl, there is obviously a breakdown in communication in that family that she didn't see the need to tell her parents. This is a wake-up call to the parents to fix whatever is broken in that family.

It mocks and ridicules the ordeal of real victims, many victims have either lost their lives or been traumatized forever.


I hope this serves as a deterrent to others.There are somethings that out of human decency should not be used to joke around with.

pacespot:
Do you know that you can get killed for being a good guy in this country? I think the guy is seeing the writing on the wall. If too many people are taking advantage of your kindheartedness and you can't take sh*t no more, then you will end up making more enemies for yourself than the guy who has not done anything to help people's causes. Bottom line is, in anything you do in this country, just be wise. Don't commit yourself too much, at the same time don't be too distant from people. Know when to say NO and when you should take steps.

I second the bolded.

There is nothing wrong in setting healthy boundaries without having to explain yourself.

NewSoul:
The funny thing is that it is you ladies that are quick to devour a good man

Ah!


I apologize on behalf of the rest of us. We are sorry to all the good me that have been devoured .make una nor vex.

But remember say nor be gender thing.its a general thing,even guy to guy still dey devour each other.

Lol.


People are born with personality traits, usually people change from bad to good to be better but you wan change from good to bad. Inside life.


I know it can be annoying sometimes because your nature makes it easy to be walked on and taken for a ride ,but please don't let that dissuad you from being the best good version of yourself. We need people like you to balance up the energy of "evilness"flying around.

Stockholm I guess?