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paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

If she put security on that small phone...that's her trap phone. Trust me. You're not the only dick

devilmaycry:
Can she pay 2m ?

Be reasonable broski

emperor4love


867077F
Sportybet

emperor4love:
U try bro but next game drop for me,I even cashout my game because of goaless of this bayern first half...but pls pls drop today game abeg for me to play

I will.mention you on a dead thread

What's the point of privacy when transport will eat 60% of her salary? Staying at Ikeja keeps her at 30% of salary cos she will get free rides to but not fro. Plus shes Ajebo can't survive in the trenches

If no be juju be this, I dunno what is.

Ezmans:
is 17 years old a kid?

As far as the law is concerned 17 is underaged. Better give yourself sense

Hey peeps. I've got a female friend looking for a shared mini flat. Preferably with another lady. Rent is through the roof so I understand her plight. If you're an agent and you can bring such an arrangement, pls mention me. Location is Ikeja. Pls treat this as urgent.


Thanks!

Holy Shit!

You lost your virginity to a Nigerian prostitute.



Sorry in advance

Illegal1:
omoh...........every were dn stew for u,as it stands ooh

Unfortunately we don't win all but I'm optimistic

Johnholt909:
You don't place a bet like that. You could have contacted me instead of wasting your money.

Lol bro. I don't contact anybody to gamble. What do you take me for? I bin dey vex cos like 12 guys follow play this game different stakes. From Thursday my WhatsApp dey full with 'Bro send me game na', 'Bro run me 5 odds', 'Bro you don book?', so I hope you understand why I probably won't ever contact you even if you win 80m every weekend. Me sef na king for my lane. Football and Basketball...na me be over/under undisputed King! If I too loud myself here na beggi beggi go dey track me up and down.

Therealx24:
Sorry man another day is coming.

Today very still could be the day. Na why I no dey carry 1X2. I based my gambling on goals. Over and under. Just imagine this useless club on a norms, na Dem suppose give me the second goal. Na why my fellow gunners dey always call them Chelshit.

English FA should issue apology to Roman Abrahamovic.

iwaeda:
Sepeteri as usual.

Tears dey my eyes bro. 65k gone just like that. I for just use 30k collect service studio apartment and invite one of the girls on my list and use the 35k for miscellaneous stuff. My heart is burning with anger

Haba! No Chelsea fan for this thread? I wan do collective curse for una from owner to board members down to fans.


65k with 20 sweet odds. Una shit club na the first game. Ordinary over 1.5. E ni ku re seh!!!!

Did you just wake up from a coma or what?

SweetCunt97:
It's not a scam. He should collect and process and go over there. The op lacks sense of survival.

He lacks any sense whatsoever. Obviously this post is a lie

bigiyaro:
it's working isn't it?

Not on me it isnt

Unfortunately, it won't ever happen. We depend on them for almost everything and they keep improving themselves scientifically and technologically. Black man won't colonize another planet not even in 1000 years. Colonization of other planets will ensure the continuation of the human species and the whites are at the top of that food chain.

Take.ot or leave it

Pharaohny:
see this one justifying wicked act

I always skip his comments. He likes attention and is all round unintelligent

They will never ever tag this guy a terrorist. They will use words like mass shooter or just shooter like say we no know the dictionary meaning of terrorism. They will avoid the word like a plague because as far as their mind control propaganda machine is concerned only Muslims and Arabs can be terrorists.


They use their narrative to brainwash most people. Check Hollywood movies from the 1920s the bad guys are either Arab or Russian or any Soviet ally. E get why. Like I said before, na America Devil dey stay.

Fiscus105:
I believe you read what you wrote up there before you posted for public to read, what is different between you and ladies you are accusing? Infact, they even better than you.

For your own, not only that the content of your write up is watery, the grammatical blunders are something else. Infact, it's unreadable.

Na wa o. Someone gave a fantastic reply meaning he understood. You wey be English Nazi no get anything to contribute. Shame on your grey matter.

speedy0420:
When young girls develop into their teenage years, they begin to realize more and more how easy it is for them to get their way with the things of life just because of their LOOKS

And when they finally realize how powerful that tool at their disposal truly is, they rely on it full force because
1. It's easy and
2. Their parents (most especially the mothers) encourage it and even gives them fine tuned instructions on how they can use it to get their way with daddy and the boys in her area/school. This will even make her mastery of her craft even faster and easier

However, this comes at a cost
Her total investment into mastering the power of her looks will make her (almost always intentionally) neglect the other more difficult but more rewarding and long lasting ways of getting the things you want in life e.g. becoming smarter and more analytical in solving problems

Why should she strive to become the top dog in her class and win the Scholarship money so that she can buy that dress/purse she's being eyeing for a long time when she can just latch onto one mumu boy that will give her all the money she wants just necause she's pretty and he doesn't wanna lose her? (Whereas he never had her in the first place)

Hence her higher faculties degrade and she gradually loses the ability to critically think.
She will increase in her mastery of craftiness in confusing men, but she will lose intelligence in other fields.
That is why you always see them around topics on sex, relationships.and so on. That's the only place they know whats up

This trend continues through their teenage years into their 20s and it blooms into the way they like to use SM nowadays to advertise their wares and seek attention

When they clock 27-30 and their looks start winding down, they will revert back to their original settings (since the power of their looks are gone now) and they immediately adopt a new facade to get their way, Religion.

A religious mask if well worn will make people not judge her and also trust and like her more, and that is a good thing because a person who trusts you will want to do favours for you e.g. suggesting marriage to the unsuspecting man who thinks he has finally found a gem whereas it's a game she's been playing since she was 13.

The only way to halt this Trainwreck of a situation from developing is if a strong external force (aka a highly disciplined father/father figure) forces her to stop depending on her looks to get her way and actually make her develop her mental faculties. This is why the geeky girls in medicine and engineering tend to be way less slutty than their counterparts studying fine art and music in the university (no offence to the artists and musicians out there)

One bottle of Glenfiddich for you

Musty112:
Here we go again. 22 people dead and not a single tag of terrorism!

How can they use that word on home soil? You think they don't know what their doing? They used mainstream media to ensure that word is synonymous with Arab people. Fear USA. Na there devil dey stay

Lmao!

Gotta get your hands very dirty or bloody to enjoy the good life in this country. Of all those who can say money ain't a pro'lem, less than 5% have clean hands.

No matter how you want to decorate a house with faulty foundations, it is still primed to collapse.


Most of the people to blame for where we are today are dead. They wrecked us in the 60s, 70s and 80s. That's why Fela was crying out at the time because the foundation was crooked. Even if you bring Obama to be president of Nigeria, things will still be abnormal and the prices of commodities will still continue to climb. No single president can give us immediate relief. They can only help implement policies that future Nigerians in 100-200 years will enjoy. As it stands, unless we just want to lie to ourselves all the political parties in Nigeria are the same. None of them can save us. Na human beings dey the parties. After complaining about PDP for 16 years and APC came into power, many of them switched sides and na so Dem go dey do forever. So even if you feel cursing APC gives you some relief, remember that many of its members are the same people in the PDP you now like in hindsight . It is only in hindsight that we praise our leaders. I've never seen any sitting president who satisfied the majority of Nigeria's citizens. Obasanjo was only praised and appreciated after his administration ended. Nobody gave him accolades when he was in Aso Rock. I never believed Jonathan would be praised after Google told us he was the most cursed president at the time. Bihari is also now being praised as being better than Tinubu. Buhari that literally everyone except his children cursed his administration. Same thing will happen after BAT's administration. I'm 100% sure of it. That's how you know Nigerians are the problem of Nigeria not necessarily the #1 citizen.
Our political parties don't have an ideology like they do in other countries. Just greedy men wanting to stay on power and Mr Murray Bruce isn't innocent either.

In the end, who dey commit massacre and war crimes?

chieveboy:
The thing is, indeed at one time of the history of earth, some beings who came to earth and modified man to look like them were addressed as "Lord God" , "God", "My Lord" and "Angels".

From the look of things, they are not the almighty and all-loving God, this fact is evident for all to see.

Their channels had indeed been the Elijahs, Mohammed, and Abrahams, that they have favorite tribes and favorite people speaks about the imperfection of their Love.

Their space crafts had been recorded as "Chariots of fire", "Flying Horse" and whatnots.

These "Gods" had a beef among themselves and it spills over the Israel/Palestine event...

My guy. You've just discovered the greatest cover up of all time. I've been watching ancient aliens on Discovery since I was in secondary school.

iReddington:
Peak fooling, the council was created almost 20years ago, and Nigeria has never been a member, so how's that Tinubu's fault that has barely used 6months as President. You're just an hateful bigoted ignorant villager with internet.

Pls don't reply them otherwise you would look more stupid than they do. Do you think they don't know? Most of them didn't even read the article or any article for that matter