₦airaland Forum

They are still cleaning the 16yrs of PDP mess. Has anyone notice that you no longer hear "say baba" again hunger and insecurity has driven them back to the cave they crawl out from. Bunch of lazy, parochial and archaic politicians.

That one in calabar deflected to APC because of a super highway which they never honoured any agreement with him.

Does an hungry man feed the poor ?
So if you buy rice for #30,000 and your salary is #45,000 and you have children, you will also transport yourself. Where will the poor come in ? desperately deceptive with delibrate denial

Kobojunkie:
1. Marriage is an agreement/a contract even between a man and woman even, and and that contract is broken, it means the union has failed. Some ofcourse continue even after that supposing they can revive that which has failed but so long as that problem continues in existence, it remains a failed union under the original contract/agreement.

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You mention prayer, well even God who we are told hates divorce concedes to cheating in marriage being a sign of failure this since even He permits divorce only under those circumstances.

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Why again is a man born from the same womb as woman born to stray? Since they both come from the same loins and womb then we should also claim a woman is also born to stray, right?,

2. So what you are saying is so long as a man only catches his wife sexting other men, he should be wise and patient with her this since paradise is also not sure for him where he is going, right?

3. I agree with balance but what do you pray for in a case where you refuse to accept the failure of the union in ignorance? Does God really answer prayers offered Him in ignorance or feigning of it?,

Well am taking from experience and whatever it is that happens in any marriage is not new anywhere under the sun. A man's promiscuous lifestyle in early marriage should not lead to divorce. Likewise foe the woman. Women naturally may not cheat but may be carried away with fantacies and attention given to them by an outside which may lead to other things if care is not taken.

Equality in marriage is the bedrock of divorce. A women is mean to be submissive to her husband's authority while a man is mean to be reasonable, responsible and care for the same family which includes respect for you wife and children.

Majority of the anomalies witnessed in families today is largely caused by inability of both parties to move away from being single to married lifestyle. Yes I said men are naturally polygamous , which is true. Do you think men don't know that other men make advances to their wives? They do, but cannot complain in all situations. However no matter how promiscuous a man is he will never allow any man be it rich or old , young or poor to tamper with his wife.
They are both polygamous band envious.

The earlier a man knows that he is married and such responsibility of married man is to first respect himself and respect his family and his wife , he has crossed the first bridge of marriage.

However, we are in a world of fantacies and also where youthful exuberance goes with many till old age. Most don't know what takes to be a married person.

Culturally, it doesn't favour a woman to keep hoping from one man to the other and sleeping around in revenge in the name of equality. The children will be affected and the lady will end up being a laughing stock in the society. It will soon be clear to our dear lady actress who left her husband and later got her sext video circulated showing all her rivates . Psychological warfare may await the child when he grows up to aspire foe moral positions in life. So a lady needs to be extremely careful and patient in her marriage.

I made bold to tell you that I have no experience in managing marital issues but the ones I have solved myself is more than 5 which also keeps me on my toes that marriage is not like a bed to roses. I sometimes tell them that I also quarrel with my wife and we trash it out almost immediately. However I notice that her prayers did the magic because I couldn't imagine me , but well am enjoying peace of mind now in my marriage. We are not growing younger everyday and before you know the kids will start asking questions.

If our parents tells us what they went through in marriage , you will shiver to your pines. It's only an abusive marriage that I will not tolerate. Once it's getting to beating, hitting , violence, I don't want to be part of that. The man needs to reset his brain. Other things are redeemable. Those that are telling you not to accept those things in your marriage are the first to connect your husband and replace you within a week when you leave. So stay where you are cos no guarantee from the other side you may intends to run to.

It's a normal thing when animals are in authority or positions. Critical suicide attempt

kazma1010:
y can't they do pay per view

When the regulators here in Nigeria only interested in money money and money

Kobojunkie:
I understand that looking at her husband's phone will not get her back the happy marriage she thought she had, but also looking will not do the same, neither will it make the elephant in the room disappear. That problem will remain an irritant whether she sees it again or not, so let's stop making things up. There is no way ot erasing what she already knows of.

What men does can be categorized while that done by women can be stereotyped? I don't follow.

She feels, rightly her marriage has failed, and wonders what to do next about it. Why should she be burdened with thoughts about society and stereotypes?

My dear, that marriage has not failed. There are bound to be issues in marriage and the party ability to mange it is the key to the success here. Wise ladies end up enjoying their marriage. A man is born to stray and eventually go home but if wisdom and patience is not applied by the woman she will be the greatest loser.

If she is dying of seeing dirty chats in the husband's phone what if she catches the husband nake*d on her matrimonial bed with another lady? Will she kill herself. Where she wants to go to is not a sure paradise. They may be worse with other stuffs she may not be able to cope with.

It's important we balance things up and support same in prayers. See I have a case in my hand now . The wife is just feed up cos the husband sold virtually everything he has and got himself grounded without carrying the lady along. We don't even know if he is gambling or so . Patience and prayer is the key

Kobojunkie:
Then can't it be said that women who also can cheat are naturally polyandrous by nature?

She is already aware or her husband's cheating on her. Will her no longer checking his phone erase that or the fact that she is aware the cheating most likely continues regardless of whether she checks or not?

I quite agree with you but she needs to settle her head down first. Her problem is not perculiar to her. Looking at her husband's phone will only make her see what she is not suppose to see. What you don't see doesn't irritate you.

While working on his other weaknesses by any methods she plans to use, she should also bear it in mind that marriage is not for revenge purposes. We live Ina society where what men does can be categorized while what women does can be stereotyped and could be turned into a stigma. Thanks patience and wisdom is required.

Where there is no law there is no SIN. multichoice can choose to remove the important channels form the regular price and create a new channel that will accommodate the new price regime. The issue is bad leadership . Once they can afford it shikena

Does he stay inside the bank, mama lay ambush for him and make sure you get him out of the vehicle that wants to convey him out of the bank by all means.

Or report same to the court of law and go and register that case under direct court complaint and see how the judiciary will deal with them there. If they anger the magistrate that will handled the case he may decide to jail their lawyer or who ever represent the bank. They won't sure play pranks with the court.

Alaigbonran , very heady, when you let racial hatred for those doing their legitimate business and creating jobs overshadow your sense of reasoning above some normads because of political affiliation with thieves who want to get to power by all means, forgetting that ALL POWERS BELONGS TO GOD

Madam eeeh , if I may advice you, sit down there and establish yourself in that house as a phenomenal that your husband cannot dare look in the face to tell such. Stop being a baby you're married , behave like a matter " anything that has life and occupy space" grow up and stop complaining.

If you ask your mum what her face saw with your daddy, you will just shake your head. Do not unravel what you cannot stop, rather work on the weaknesses he complained about. Madam kiss your husband while having s ex with him, you're still young and he is also full of energy and still young too, if I may guess. Stop being too spiritual with your love life in your matrimonial home.

Lastly men are naturally polygamous in nature, stop checking his phone and pray for God to make him grow responsible fast.

chukel:
brainless human, Incapable of reasoning.

You won't be able to shout "say baba" too like your bros. Hungry e-rat

chukel:
PDP is very useless for making that statement. This statement makes it look like PDP was behind the attack foe political gain. In a space of 3 weeks, there has been a total of 6 co-ordinated attacks at critical infrastructure built by this administration thereby weakening the economy and setting the country back. This is the type of thing PDP can do in other to see what to campaign with to get back to power. Evil party.

You need a check up asap

chatinent:
PDP should shut the f up! They are the same with APC!

The whole politics thing is for personal gains! They know the bandits and everyone who terrorizes. They are they.

Stop shutting down the truth. APC is a failure

Someone doesn't want election to hold in kaduna

Let me quickly appreciate the poster for a job well done. However may I chip in these. Young Ritualist are everywhere I mean it and have seen it before.

I lodged into a hotel in Ibadan and I noticed these strange faces of young guys who were at the lobby of the same floor I lodged, drinking and making a hell of a nuisance.

I called the reception only for them to say the are sorry and they will talk to them. I also noticed that I couldn't even browse with the wifi password I was given as the signal keep jamming , to the extent that even if I put off the wifi stuff it keep reappearing and disappearing ,so I decided to put off my phone.

The disturbance went on until the wee hours of the night, so the morning came and I saw a few of them starring at me and I checked out.

The next time I checked into the same hotel , I stylishly confronted the receptionist that I am a blogger and if that happens again I will expose this hotel, she apologized and on getting to my room I asked the portal that accompanied me to my room with my things that did he notice anything last two weeks and he said yes, that the same lady at the desk was almost used for rituals purpose by some guys who lodged in the hotel. I knew it was those guys.

They requested for some bottled waters and on getting there as a room service he she was asked to come inside and deliver the water but lo and behold , they were all cladded in red attire on their waist and head singing and chanting all manners of stuffs and they didn't want her to go using all manners of delay tactics until she started screaming and they let her go.

However, they were booked for days but the management of the hotel insisted that they all check out and get their refund.

Please be careful , don't just check into any hotel, browse about it online, check the keys to the door, check the door, if it doesn't have a lock behind don't stay there. Always lock your room from behind when in the room.

Don't stay in isolated buildings. Check if the window has burglary if you're staying on the ground floor. Check the kitchen if any , check the wardrobe inside out, check under your bed, if necessary check for cameras too in your room by switching off the light in your room and putting on your phone camera you will notice a red tiny light. Search everywhere you can to ensure the room is free of bugs.

Be smart and use your instinct, let the room service come over to check your room before you take your leave don't be naive and don't recklessly leave the door open when checking out. Don't let anyone keep incriminating stuffs in your room such as a dead body or drugs in your room while you think you've gone.
You're a suspect a suspect in the face of the law.

Lastly do you know they remove some hotel television panels ? So if you're the reckless type you're a suspect. Remember to do the portals well, and ask questions from them , they will tell you alot. Don't be stingy.

Don't go to the swimming area, thr bar with your room keys , that's where they sight your room number and may trace you there or get robbed after leaving the hotel.

Stay careful and be guided.

Benue governor will be like .....let me check wetin dey foe kaduna paper today again,
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Read only articles or journals even newspaper editorials will help.

Tell your wife about it and send the money through her. Avoid suspicion and sudden death

Trust issues. If I do anything I want to impress God and satisfy myself. However I will makemit as transparent as possible but I you don't believe I give up forever

Be a man , if they harrass you and you notice foul play that they are not efcc or they are doing illegal call on your boys.

Slow poke gutter commisioner .Always distorting the truth. You have failed already. You this irredeemable betrayal.

You have no respect for the truth because of power and money. You can't do better than lying Mohammed. You and your cohort have been looting Lagos dry since 1999 and an end is coming to that.

Who has the caption when elrgai called Jonathan clueless. He said they just didn't want to rescue the girls because they are northerners. Can someone please ask him how the market is. If I were the president I will declare a state of emergency in Kaduna and allow for full millitary overhaul

Hypopo, had it been it was a PDP government that was in power, they would have said the govt is clueless, visionless and heartless. In fact a kindergarten govt bla bla bla

Excuse me sir, leave the rot and return us back to 2019. We love the rot and not this your deception that doesn't sell again

Troops secure train, where are the persengers ? Were they all completely Evacuated?
Road is not safe
Rail is not safe
Even air not safe

Omicron007:




A Tinubu/El-Rufai ticket would be the greatest disaster to befall this failed British experiment.

What is El-Rufai's scorecard on Security in Southern Kaduna?

Tinubu forced Buhari on Nigerians all for his own selfish interest. Back in 2015, he had already envisioned how he'd take over from Buhari in 2023.

What is most important for him is his life long ambition.
Tinubu is a great politician too desperate for the presidency.

Kaduna bandits
Tries to shoots down a Lagos board.
Stops train in the midst of nowhere

Oga your profession is not spiritual, rather legal, it will profit you to mind your business or better engage those who have the speciality is solving same. Being a lawyer doesn't protect you from the terresials. Your own faith is to protect you from evil, don't use it to look for trouble. No be everything lawyers dey poke nose ooo. A word is enough

ajailer:
Please don’t report him yet as even you sef don Dey confused on ur next line of action based on that you don’t want to complicate his life for him. If you report him on Monday and he gets sacked, you might end up feeling bad about your action.

Wetin me go do next b dis, I will call him and have a chat with him outside of the working premises. I will let him know I am doing him a favor by letting him go off the hook but it will be on the condition that he tells you about all the shady dealings going on there with other staffs too and how they do it( might be he is not the only one doing it). Buy his loyalty, make him see that honesty pays, block all the loopholes and you will see someone who will be loyal to you for life.

I have been down this road before, I reported the guy and got him arrested. I later started feeling bad that my decision was too hasty and even after that theft never reduced but the guys under me just got wiser.

I didn't not need to add a dime. Exactly what I wanted to type. Be careful not to walk into a trap , they may be in a clique and you get injured. Ask in to tell you every deal going on in that place and who and who is involved. Make him your errand boy and get the info to make a big move

lalasticlala:
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Werey man