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Well said.
However, sabotage has eaten deep into the Nigerian army and all other security institutions in Nigeria.
"You cannot wake someone who is pretending to be sleeping"

Dogalmighty17:
Let us be brutally honest with ourselves now. Nigerian army is beginning to border on incompetent. These needless loss of lives can very well be avoided. Why is the army still fighting as if it is in the 90s? Why is it using incredibly outdated tactics?

I watch steadily the theatre of war that is Ukraine I see how simple cheap drones have become a game changer, stopping Russia in its paths. Drones have changed the game effectively stopping the advance of any attacking force from any direction.

This reason is why the United States last week made it mandatory that every division of the US army will be equipped with thousands of drones going forward.

Why sit and wait for an attack when drones gives you eyes in the sky, heads-up ability to spot the mass of the enemy as they advance and send attacking drones at them to disorient and dislodge them. The moment you are exchanging gunfire with an adversary it is already late.

That's why you will not see large scale infantry and mechanised attacks in Ukraine anymore. Drones have rendered those tactics obsolete.

These drones cost less than 5000 dollars. It is willful malice that every Nigerian FOB should not have tens or more of these deployed. The stand-off ability drones offer makes them an asset to any theatre.

Let's not forget the reconnaissance ability drones give. ISWAP and Boko Haram have camps they amass in and advance from. Drones give huge abilities to take the fight to these elements. Hearing news of the army always being on defense is becoming irritating. This is over 15 years of Boko Haram and ISWAP now. Have we not gathered enough intel to know the location of these camps? Why is it that we never read that Nigerian army has attacked the camp of the insurgents? Why is it always that the army has to be on the defensive against them?

The ultimate sacrifice men of the army have paid is inestimable and is deeply appreciated. But it is time to change tactics. The old ways don't work anymore.

galserv:
Who pass you pass you

Slavery mentality

PerfectStranger:
But men take care of the bills often times. She could have ordered for 2 instead.

Why should she order for the two?
It would rub on some men's ego the wrong way.
Besides, based on his whining about not being given food online, I have a feeling she already knows he is a stingy man

LordReed:
She just taught him how not to be an insensitive dullard. He spoke for 1 whole hour at an eatery and did not order anything, that is a giant red flag. Glad she had sense.

I like such cerebrally strong ladies. To hold a conversation for more than an hour without ordering for Hennessy and Shawarma on the guy's head. She was looking for content. She didn't order something expensive showing prudence and not wanting to destabilize the man especially if he doesn't have money (from her assessment).
The guy might lose her if he ruminates too much on such flimsy things.
As she communicated mental strength, he should have complemented with emotional strength by apologizing for not asking what she will take, as her if she will take more than the meat pie (even if you don't mean it), and offer to pay.

Don't be offended dear.
E no too get sense like that.

Magnoliaa:
I marvel at the level of your comprehension on topics.


Or does misogyny really rots brain like this?


Did you read the post at all?

"Man with the balls of steel" but he was complaining about about the girl not ordering food for him?

"Hungry Nigerian bannies must be taught lessons" but she literally was eating the food she paid for with her own money? And then paid for her transportation and dress before going for the date.


What's the correlation of your comment to the narration above??

By the way, I like that kind of girl.
For over an hour and nothing to wet the mouth, and e get mind to call it a date. Smh! I didn't know there are some 'good' ladies like this out there. You're independent, complain. You're dependent, complain. Na wá for some men.
She seems balanced though. She is her own person while at the same time, she could sacrifice her precious time to go out with one low budget inferiority complex man.

Oga you are part of Nigeria's problem even if I feel for what you went through.
What is this syndrome that I see everywhere that the oppressed and victims would always seek to protect the name of their oppressor? What slave mindset is this?
Or is it a made up story?
Evil persists because we fail to name and shame oppressors.
I am beginning to suspect a kind of wickedness in it to keep silent. You want others to also experience it also?
There's definitely something wrong with our psyche as Africans and Nigerians which always push is to always indirectly or subconsciously respect, protect, rever and defend abusers.
SMH!

PapaNnamdi:
I worked for a very popular MD in a renowned oil company.
He is retired now, we worked under his own business.

The man is a devil's advocate.

I was happy I worked under him and experienced all the employee abuse,
No public holidays
No December bonus,
Nothing
You get a promotion, your job role and duties will be tripled but your salary gets a 2k5 top up.
Capitalism at its peak,

I was happy because the experience made me swear never to work for anyone ever in my life again, I almost tore my certificates
He made his staff work on Saturdays without pay, but if u miss a day due to illness you are deducted twice wat your daily ay calculation was.

There was a Muslim holiday for 2days I had to stay home to be sure I wasn't imagining things,

End of month my salary was deducted times 4, oh wow, this one na die. Had to get rid of all my certificates, and went into street hustling,

If I post the man name here , you do Google search and see him, you will not believe such a person that enjoyed so much employee welfare in a foreign oil company in Nigeria will subject people to slavery under his own company,.

Ppl wicked for this Nigeria oo

Oga if you are a womanizer and you're called so, that's not a big deal and cannot be compared to being called a barren person. The fault may even be from the husband. What is wrong is wrong please.

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo



Women take things too serious, I still wonder how they live longer than men?


I have overheard my employees calling me Ashawo oga, Womanizer, Wifi-Pen!s, Abuja People Cork (APC) and so on, behind my back. (To be frank they are telling the truth)

Did I sack them NO!
Did I query them NO!
Did I treat them badly NO!

They are hard working and are giving me good returns, I will accept all those name as far as my business is growing with their help.
Their December Bonuses are still intact and their salary increments will be starting hopefully March next year.

Even in school we gave our teachers, lecturers etc funny names too
Insult changes nothing, ignore and move on

It is quite unfortunate and sad many times I read about these so called gen-Z's and the younger generation who are informed so much, but are less knowledgeable and intelligent.
Firstly, you come to a 'market square" to ask questions about what you should have discussed with your gynaecologist who is informed about your own unique body chemistry and the developing child. That doesn't show much intelligence.
Secondly, you should have known, if you're truly informed, that there's a unique chemistry between a particular baby, the womb and the particular mother. Artificial inducement of this separation could have side effects on the baby in future. You haven't even reached 40 weeks, the pregnancy is still in order. Why the panic and the unnecessary worry?
Thirdly, if you were really informed, you should have known the difference between a having labour pains (child wants to come out, but hindered by something) and child kicking (still taking in what it needs before coming out). Let CS be for only when the labour pains come and the baby is hindered. Avoid it as much as possible, only when the child and mother's life/health is threatened.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10008265/
Finally, always stick to natural remedies and not artificial ones. Sex is an artificial remedy. It is like saying you will start drinking sperm up and down because it has zinc in it that is good for health! Do you know of other things that are not healthy for you or the baby in it? No wonder this generation like sex too much. Too much sperm on the head when about being born!
Wishing you safe delivery regardless!

garriAndsugar:
Nigerian women suppose take the first, second and third place

😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

According to a Twitter user, who claims to have based his conclusions on a wide range of research that has been carried out by different organizations, came up with this list.

8th Position: United States of America
14% of married women said they have cheated on their partners once or more than once.

7th Position: France
16% of married women in France say they have cheated on their partners once or more than once.

6th Position: Singapore
19% of married women have said they have cheated on their partners once or more than once.

5th Position: Russia
33% of married women have said they have cheated on their partners once or more than once.

4th Position: Malaysia
39% of married women have said they have cheated on their partners once or more than once.

3rd Position: United Kingdom
42% of married women have said they have cheated on their partners once or more than once.

2nd Position: Thailand
59% of married women have said they have cheated on their partners once or more than once.

1st Position: Nigeria
62% of married women have said they have cheated on their partners once or more than once.

In as much as there is no perfect research anywhere, the news and daily reports show this percentages (not just for Nigeria), could be higher than this.

Rank of countries with most unfaithful wives in the world pic.twitter.com/iJmYLz5ven

— GHPage (@ghpage_com) January 28, 2023

In another news, Nigeria ranks the second highest in the world (after Jamaica), for paternity fraud.
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/01/nigeria-ranks-2nd-highest-in-paternity-fraud-in-the-world/amp/

In as much as we would want to argue the veracity of the data used or the reasons that can be adduced to this trend, one thing stands true and clear:
MANY MEN ARE FATHERING CHILDREN THAT ARE NOT THEIRS!
One of the long term implications is you or your children could end up marrying their blood relations without knowing!

If you're a single man planning to get married, make plans for DNA test, like every other tests such as HIV, blood group, blood type, etc. It is common sense to the married ones to do the DNA test on all their children as a matter of urgency.
This matter is beyond the emotional sentiments of trust or faith (belief/confidence). The more you don't have anything to hide, the more you wouldn't be bothered if your husband does it without your consent. The more you trust your wife or believe the children are yours, the more you should get the evidence that corroborates your trust and confidence.
Who knows, you could even be married to or be planning to marry your sister!!

I rest my case.

For the mere fact that you are calling someone a fiancee (7months) without engagement, already tells me you are in a relationship with yourself, fooling yourself.
You are most likely having sex, she stays in your house, she cooks for you, etc. She don see you finish. Worst case scenario, you have been captured and caged. You hardly know anything about her, her friends, family, etc.
She has captured you as a simp, while she continues playing the field.
As a simp that you are, follow the advice of some above and confront her about it, while you allow her play the emotional blackmail card on you.
Don't be taken away by her body, beauty and acting. End the 'relationship' now. Stop sleeping with her, stop her from visiting you at your place. Free yourself for you to see clearly. Don't settle for what will kill your peace of mind. You have made her get all she wants within 7months, so why should she be committed to you/your feelings as a coded olosho, who isn't planning to retire soon?
Be wise!

Let those who want to be fooled by empty statements be fooled. He will achieve nothing in the war against terrorism. Can he go against his fulani masters that have filled all the security outfits with their foot soldiers and sponsors, who are also part of his party bigwigs who brought him to power?

haslaw:
This is exactly how apartheid protagonists spoke about Nelson Mandela. Mandela was hates just because he spoke against the racial discrimination of blacks in South Africa


Professor Ishak Akintola is hated just because he spoke against the persecution of Muslims in Nigeria.

Oga is own was more than just speaking for the rights of muslims. He is a terrorist defender and islamization promoter!

God wey bless you with sense go bless you complete for anywhere for your life the blessing never reach.

Bigkoko:
Anyone following the legal fireworks at the PEPT, within the past few weeks can predict with some high degree of certainty that Mr. Asiwaju Govt would be thrown out, permanently or at least temporarily.

The reasons are quite clear; they could not articulate a grand response to the accusations of electoral heists, qualification questions, perjury, frauds and INEC non adherence to guidelines. The three respondence; Asiwaju, APC & INEC could not respond appropriately. To compound their woes, EU, a major financier of Nigerian elections have released a damning report; in summary, INEC under Prof Yaks cheated for the ruling party!

Even if the judges want to help them, I'm pretty sure their hands are now tied because the whole world can see how shallow, myopic and stupid their legal response was. Witnesses were simply indicting Asiwaju faster than you can drink fanta! The only option they gat was to hurriedly closed their response before more witnesses further compound their woes!

This is not to talk of the embarrassment their legal team led by Oga Wole Olanipku faced when without warning all three witnesses refused to show up in court at the same time! The only witness who agreed to come; a fake pastor who refused to even touch the Bible he plies his trade with, and some other lewd fellow; a so called senator with background in Law. This senator called Bamidele, who I believe had some up bringing in the States, not only destroyed the little doubt left, but also confirmed what is public knowledge. That indeed Asiwaju is a convict whether civil or criminal, that's not the issue. He's a convict. Whole hwa!!!.
So much for Jagaban of Bourdilion! The end is truly near for this mercurial politician who held Lagos in a vice like grip since 1999!

On the other part,
Obidients should Start Preparing for a possible Rerun: Asiwaju knows this! This is the best he can get from the honorable judges!

LP & HE Peter Obi have proved their case beyond reasonable doubt, and APC, INEC and Asiwaju could not even acquire 3 willing, sane witnesses each against the PDP & LP.... So much for the paper tiger of Bourdilion.

All Lovers of democracy worldwide wish there won't be a rerun, but rather a declaration that HE Peter Obi indeed won the election fair & square!

So what are we to do?
Firstly we must retrospect and understand that obidients have achieved what we call "Critical Mass" in physics. This Mass is formidable in enforcement of the Right way of doing things.

What is the right way? A credible INEC, with an unbiased posture, and a guideline everyone must strictly adhere to. Elections must be collate, announced under video at PU and upload real time for anyone to view, 20 minutes after close of elections. Simple.

With this set up, a crooked, highly dishonest Prof like Mahmud INEC chairman won't have the time to manipulate the figures or if another crook is sneaked in, the figures won't add up. Imagine after months elections was conducted they couldn't upload all results because the figures refused to add up!

Next, we must exert pressure on INEC. The campaign should be, Prof Yaks should go! Mr. Okoye should go! All top management that allowed this broad day light heist should go. They should be made to face prosecution, at least for derelict of duty! All of them. That way a msg would be passed to the new INEC chairman, eat corn, go to jail.

A credible team from ethnic minority should be assembled and the election entrusted to them. Don't forget the ethnic minorities are the most oppressed in Nigeria. Think of what is going on in North Central & far North. Time to allow these folks determine the leaders of Nigeria. Igbo, Fulani, Yoruba don try.

No Yoruba, no Hausa-fulani, no Igbo as INEC chairman in the coming fresh elections. An election guideline should be issued. A date announced and let the party begin. Anyone who tries to induce voters with money, or cart away ballot box should be lynched on the spot & feed to hungry lions at the zoo. Even if he's a soldier or policeman. If suffer no dey tired am, make he continue am for lion belle, heaven or hell or anywhere he see himself.

Any result that is not uploaded real time after close of voting should be collected from the PU officer, announced and the PU officer made to announce his name, rank and the results before giving it back to him to take to the collation center.

If you dey do charm, make sure you load your with it, as guns are not allowed.
There's a reason why the West allows individuals to own guns..... Since guns are allowed, charms, amulet, are a veritable option!
Anyone who disrupt the election whether uniform man or not, after the election, make sure to do a follow-up on the fool!

Nigeria must be reset by 🔥, by force.

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

I empathize with you. However, you have entered already. I will never advice you to leave, but you must now get ready for real spiritual war! Be gentle, kind, loving and caring physically, but be brutal, fierce, violent and confrontational in prayers and on your knees.
Your husband is being controlled diabolically by your sister-in-law. A jezebel spirit is what you're dealing with. They cannot be reasoned with or argued with. Pray for/with your husband seriously. NEVER pray certain prayers directed towards your in-laws in the presence of your husband. Break the ungodly ties your husband has with them (this is not mere family bond), but destiny control and manipulation. Pray over your daughter always. There's a pattern already on ground, which energizes the spirit you are at war with. The goal is to kill you and make your daughter suffer in the hands of a stepmother, just like the way you did.
Please locate a serious prayer partner or/and a serious church. Stay strong SPIRITUALLY. Don't be too busy with job hunting and job matters. There's a "fight" you must do, so that in a worse case scenario, especially if your husband refuses to take God serious in his life, he goes for it, not you. You must be determined to break the pattern. Always pray against the spirit of death too. I am not just talking about attending church services and programmes. Go to where they truly pray and teach how to fight warfare, while living holy. May God help you.

I like this your scope o!
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BleedTears:
For Hookup Contact this beauty.

09123798917

She is on WhatsApp too.

Don't pay her upfront, I repeat don't pay her without meeting her first.

Nawa o!
I noticed the balance of the account keeps reducing bit by bit everyday.
Only God knows the real owner of the account.

Hello house.
Yesterday, someone sent the username and password of someone's account on the platform: web.usdtvalue.com.
I was actually able to login to the account, which has a huge amount there.
I called the fellow, when I saw my WhatsApp message didn't deliver, only for him to say he didn't send anything to me.
Please has anyone any idea about this type of thing?

I received this message twice this afternoon:

THIS IS YOUR INVITATION FOR AN INTERVIEW WITH GM-LTD ON 4th OF September 2O20 BY 8aM @ 8A,BISI OGABI STREET OFF BALOGUN be B/STOP IKEJA LAGOS.ENQ JASMINE

I am guessing it is fake.

SavageResponse:
Where is the land located?

For the 500k cap, we have at Isiwo and Ofada, Owode in Ogun state

There's a legit opportunity I can give to you straight up and for anyone else who is also interested.
You can actually buy a standard plot of land (648sqm) for less than #500,000 (Since we are working with your budget. There are other lands in other places whose prices are more than 500k budget)
Secondly, you will be paid 5% of the amount you used to buy the land, for the next 6months monthly.
It means after 6 months, you would be having a plot of land with your name and some money to do other things with. No referral needed. No hidden charges involved.
Note: This offer is valid till August 31st, 2020, but that doesn't mean you should wait until last minute o!
Contact me on 0-8-1-3-1-1-8-2-7-3-5

We are still waiting o.......six years later

No reply?

Dgraphix:
Deeper life high school in abuja 70 are not membere!!! So far u r born again! U wiLl be employed as a staff!!! Am a witness

Hope you saw what you typed: Deeper Life High School in Abuja. We are referring to Anchor University here.

angelEmade:
you love my poem...the rain maker. how can i contact you bro?

0-8-1-3-1-1-8-2-7-3-5

unikazzy:
Go and get a driving sch certificate then go to VIO or road safety office and do ur drivers license

Without the certificate below ...u can't get a "GENUINE" DRIVERS LICENSE in Nigeria

I don't know why people who come online can't go the extra mile to open frsc website. It is clearly stated there in the process of getting a driver's license: You must be introduced by a driving school with the certificate they issue. Thanks jare for educating some ignorant people here.

Beurself1:
It is more than that, you have to get driving school certificate first which varies from 10k-15k, and takes between a month to two months before it comes out, therafter you make payment for driver's licence

I delibrately did not add that because thats between you and the driving school.

Most times, the awardees get hints before the awards who will take it. I feel Ronaldo especially, finds out first before attending.He has a bigger ego than Messi

LOGOBELT:
Hmmm why did he skip the award in Paris Scared of Messi??

Yeah. This is close to the 'official' amount. I spent 14,000 (transport to/fro road safety office from Idimu inclusive). Forget the useless official amounts up there. To do change of ownership, new number plate, registration, insurance, hackney permit, and so on, you will spend nothing less than 50k. This is Nigeria

princejones:
I paid 15500k for driver's license renewal (5years)

Its more than this o! Both official and unofficial together, might make you spend at least 14k. This is Nigeria

sanmtiago:
Please I need a license
Is that the price to get a new drivers license for real ? 6k??

See talent o! Contact me asap

angelEmade:
I see some hays...upon a place.
I see some baits inside the plate.
I see the rakes behind the brace
I see the lace upon her waist
I see the ways that leads to lakes
I see the cakes including the breaks
I think out loud, who made them all?
I watched into the sky
thinking and looking high
beyond the plains, above the greats
the gates, the crates, who made them all?
Upon some days, I saw his face
With many rays
he spake with haste and yes some braids..
"the cloud and storm..I made them all
the lights and blights...I made them all
the rights and plights...I made them all
the high and rise....I made them all
the breads and reds...I made them all
the recks and kegs ....I made them all
How would you not know?
that I am the brain, behind the rain!"
.
...the rainmaker by angel cee. (Angelemade)