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iamrealdeji:
Who told you your parents were virgins before marriage? Don't let them deceive you o,den bad that time too o,by the time you're a man and have your family too,i'm pretty sure you would tell your children the same for them not to be wayward like you. As for abstaining,you can't abstain forever. You'll marry some day and how can you be sure your spouse is not cheating on you and she could bring home STD to you if you don't use condom. Folk. Condom is very important. I hope you don't abstain through out your bachelorhood and marry a green snake that acts saint meanwhile she is going somewhere to bring home all sorts of stds‎

abbey621:
I don't think an addiction to cigarette counts as stupidity, an addiction is a mental defect and has nothing to do with intellect. Based on your example, we might as well say doctors who are fat are stupid because they should know the consequences of obesity. I'm not debating the positive effects of having a good moral system, I'm just saying removal of ignorance via proper education should not be forgotten. What do you call two virgin couples that waited till after their wedding to consummate and their sex life resulting in more problems than they ever anticipated because the woman knew nothing about the art of love making and the man was equally as clueless? What do you call a reverend's daughter after years of careful moral guidance and religious dedication that ended up being a victim of a bad marriage due to sexuality issues which ultimately resulted in a divorce. Morality without education is pointless and at the same time education without moral values leads to a degenerate society.

amtaken:
You need to go acquire some education and manners before commenting on my post.

abbey621:
Which country is more developed? The U.S.A or Nigeria? Which country is less morally corrupt? Nigeria or USA? An honest answer to these two questions is enough to debunk your value theory. A wise man once told me, it's possible to be honest and ignorant but it's practically impossible to be well educated and stupid! You can teach abstinence all you want but you can't force it on teenagers or young adults, they will make the decision themselves rather you can try to be realistic and provide them with proper sex education in order for them to become more informed and less ignorant!

plendil:
Absolute, unmitigated trash.

So married couples who intend to prevent pregnancy shouldn't use condoms? ur just a disgrace

amtaken:
Your cursrs will go back to you. I hope when you get married you will never use any form of contraceptive. Condoms can be used by married couples for pregnancy prevention OK.

abbey621:
No knowledge is ever wasted, things like this should be discussed openly as it ensures a more educated populace. Just because your point of view is abstinence does not mean it's the only correct way. People who use condoms have nothing to be ashamed of, in fact I applaud them for they are wiser than those that see condoms as a negative barrier and would rather skinny dip when having coitus. While abstinence is great, it isn't for everyone. We are humans with different tolerance and sexual desires, some people choose to hide those feelings till after marriage while some chose to explore them as early and frequently possible. Judge not my friend!

soberdrunk:
So because you win ordinary "scrabble" you now feel you have diplomatic passport to enter any country?? ! If you like be champion of all board games, if you do not prove to the immigration officer that you are qualified to enter and you intend to exit when due, you are not getting visa! Nigerians and sentiment eh!!! PS- for dat last picture, na only 2 people carry face like who go come back, d rest be like who go loss from airport!!

Forwetinnah:
Hian!! So if they had collected the money secretly without all the rouse, what would have happened? Illuminati wouldn't have known he had given them the money ?
Chai!! Some Nigerians!! For starters the Nigerian team wasn't all that, they went through a lot of stress and didn't have enough time to train so I really don't see how your theory comes into play here

Gracito:
Manufacturers of fake drugs deserve horrible treatment when Caught. No-one has been Caught, yet people are screaming "flat heads ", Nigeria, which way?

Charlesdock:
Bronze. I hope we get that and they shouldn't underestimate Honduras.

donGotze:
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finalboss1:
how them take reach day stage self ??

afronews1211:
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On Sunday August 12th, Joys, the last daughter of the founder of Winners Chapel Overseer, Bishop David Oyedepo, shared this photo along with a post where she described herself as "crazy".


"Those who know me know that I'm crazy. I don't blend in. I'm the one who's yingin' when everyone else is yangin'. I've been called an outcast by many outsiders. But the more I tried to fit in, the more I stood out. My differences wouldn't let me stay the same. Everyday, I've come to let the differences that make me, shine through.

Tired of the need to stay the same, I've come to accept the real me. I'm not the same. And as long as I stay rare, there'd always be a need for all of me. For there would always be room for rarity. I have decided not to let the miracle of my birth be the sole miracle of my existence. The proof, is in my crazy"

However, it seems the post didn't go down well with some people as she has been receiving messages from critics. Moments ago, she took to her Facebook page to clarify what she meant by "crazy" Read her post below:

[b]"I 've recieved way too many personal messages about this post below and so for the honest few, I have chosen to make a few things clear.
It seems that many of us have misunderstood things too easily. You all have seen my posts for a while now, some of you have seen them for years on end, and you know that I absolutely adore my family.
That cannot, has not, and will not ever change. Anyone who tries to insinuate any different is purely looking for loopholes that just don't exist.
To that group, you may need to find more profitable work because that, already is a failed venture. Then, there is this other group that expects me to be EXACTLY like my mother or sister, who are role models to many including myself. especially myself.
Thing is, you also may need to edit your expectation because that too, will not be happening.
I'm me and will never be anyone else. can never be anyone else. and will not even try to.
I love that my sister and I are not walking replicas of my mother. she teaches us not to be. she teaches that we are who God has called us to be, and that, with all sincerity. our differences make us unique, and that makes us an epic loving family. that, we are grateful to God for.
Ps, "crazy" purely means/meant different. This, you would understand if you read through the post honestly, completely and some of us, without negative intent.
So, to those who honestly were confused on the original post, I hope you have recieved the needed clarity. But to those still looking for loopholes, sorry. failed venture.
Be you. Be who God created you to be. Yes, have role models (& you always can start with my mother and sister--right here on facebook even if you have nowhere else to turn). But don't ever try to dim your uniqueness to fit in with the "world's" definition of perfect.
God bless y'all[/b]

WELL, IN MY OWN BOOKS, CRAZY MEANS NOT FITTING TO THE GOOD GIRL IMAGE OF YOUR FATHER..IT MEANS WORLDLY.
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FrancisTony:
I attend "Harvest House Christian Center" not Pst Chris's denomination.