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Newbreed2018:
For me I don't. Though a mansion is wasting there but what can man do when there are so many obligations and responsibilities one has to meet up in the city?

Secondly I just don't feel the vibe there. Too much envy and evil.

Lastly my kids are comfortable spending holidays with my parents in the city cos my parents live in the city too so what's the point of going to the village I ask?

Do you think staying in the city will protect you from their wickedness? You are just lucky that they are not interested in your case, because if they are interested in you. Even if you travel to abroad they will still get hold of you.

I just like this guy naturally

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.

Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.

I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.

I've two issues that are bugging me;

First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.

Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.

I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.

Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.

P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.

Please moderators, help move this to front page for more contributions.

You are a man, take charge. Don't be a weak man. To achieve ultimate victory you must be ruthless

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You deserve a big python snake for dinner

Why is it that the female nollywood actress are more rich compared to their male counterparts

DMerciful:
I had this same stereotypes until I was posted to Jigawa State long ago. It was fabulous. In all honesty, the disunity is caused by our leaders for their selfish gains! Keep the masses divided so they will not unite and dislodge us

most nairalanders also caused the disunity

ceeroh:
A perfect example of first born responsibilities in Africa. Especially first son.

Bro, not all first son, I am the second son but the responsibility no be here ooo!

Ninja turtle

EvilPOTATO:
Since yesterday, Thursday, I have been down with severe backache, runny nose and malaria.

Although I am trying to treat it with lemon juice but it isn't helping.
I have nothing on me to even afford ordinary amala tablets. Please house Help me

Mix sodium metabisulphite with fermented urine. You will be alright

Guy, you fall my hand big time. The very first day I start dating any girl, that means the pu*ssy will smell pepper. I am a real pu*ssy slayer.

Who fart for here now

In a sane clime, but if its in the evil forest, that man no go reach there

philo04:
Can somebody summarize it pls

Wow...first to comment...lemme behave like other idiotz
(Grab mic....clear throat) I want to thank my fada n Moda for bringing me to this world

I also want to know if Buhari is eating Nigeria rice cos the amount of stone inside should have kill him by now( not hate speech just thinking)

Also want to thank airtel 4G thunder will not fire u like mtn

And finally my wife and son staring at me as if am madt...I want to say God bless u


Note....dear our second child will not be born in Nigeria op thank you for posting at the right tym.

Mad nigger

Major general

Rivers state is something else

rentAcock:
I really get turned off when reading a post or news article in which the author deliberately uses big words just to pass a simple point across. Honestly it doesn't make you appear intelligent to the reader, instead, it looks like you are trying so hard to sound smart. Even the Brits who invented English don't write with such verbiage, but our people think using silly big words intimidate and command the respect of their readers. Utter rubbish.

You are using strange words here oga

Innosson motor make just be like bubu govt

There's something about river state and Kogi state which I don't know how to explain

silentEXPLOSION:
summarise.

Your write up is too long.

Don't carry this habit into 2020

savage

Daviestunech:



Celibating for the pass 4yrs,and I thank God for his grace from that moment till now.... though the reasons are also best knwn to me too.... But pple won't believe because of how erotic I talk and how fresh and handsome I look...even a girl in my department recently offered me free sex..but I use style turn down the offer... because I know wat I want I don't reason with my d**ck like most NL GUYS

shut up

[quote author=visijo post=84775376]A man can work for 10yrs with unemployed wife and still be happy, But a woman will work 5dys and the whole community will know about the unemployed husband.�[/quote
But, why is it like that

[quote author=Lastmankc post=84749147]you are so rude

Preciousgirl:
Slowpoke

you so rude

Preciousgirl:
Why? Is it so strange to give someone your picture?

married woman, sending her picture to a guy. I rest my case

And that old prostitute was saying something else

Nigeria is a evil forest

Nice one

This prostitute again?