Politics › Re: Governor Matawalle Flies First Class (Photos) by Lastmankc(m): 8:27pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Make we fry stone? |
Politics › Re: Governor Sanwo-olu Visits Lagos Island General Hospital To Celebrate Christmas by Lastmankc(m): 8:20pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Pointus pilate. AKA point and kill Governor |
Politics › Re: FFK Replies Sultan: 'If Christians Had Taken Up Arms, Nigeria Would Have Burnt" by Lastmankc(m): 4:07pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Ibrahimmrfish: Typical donkey,when the bullet start flying he will be the first to fly out of the country,and the rest of you dead brain will be the one caught between the two beasts.Hate will take you people to your early graves,Nigeria is already a difficult country to live try to live in peace.Life is to short to be this angry all the time. Shut up. The truth is always bitter |
Properties › Re: Safety Tips When Renting A Property In Lagos| Cotenant.ng by Lastmankc(m): 6:33am On Dec 29, 2019 |
djbussy: Check utility bills. Confirm water is running Ask questions if house is affected by flooding Confirm how stable electricity is Get your landlord and tenant agreement before you move in. Confirm what kind of pople you will be living with. Living with married people and not house full of jobless boys. Make sure the main get is always locked. And make sure you are not living in a demonic house |
Politics › Re: Inuwa Yahaya Signs N130.83 Billion 2020 Budget by Lastmankc(m): 5:24am On Dec 28, 2019 |
Budget of looting |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid, Genevieve Nnaji, Omotola, Burna Boy In Lovely Pictures by Lastmankc(m): 10:25pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
So, if this guy reach 40yrs of age. He go still dey answer wizkid |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Buys Rolls Royce As Christmas Gift (Video) by Lastmankc(m): 10:00pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
Ok |
Politics › Re: Garba Shehu: Buhari’s Cabal Aren’t Hungry People, They Are Respectable Nigerians by Lastmankc(m): 9:31pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
Fools at the helm of affairs |
Crime › Re: Wire Fraud: Emmanuel Mong Arrested At Airport While Trying To Flee US by Lastmankc(m): 6:47pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
That name is confusing |
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Nairaland General › Re: What Did 2019 Teach You? by Lastmankc(m): 6:17pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
That I should beware of backstabbers and useless friends |
Sports › Re: Floyd Mayweather Acquires 2020 Bentley Continental And 2020 Rolls Royce Cullinan by Lastmankc(m): 6:13pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
DenreleDave: Which kind mumu law for this Buhari regime.. Even buhari goes against the law talk less of me You should have said any amount. Now, me make I get 1k make I no dey use no fit give you bc its not up to the 5k you requested |
Sports › Re: Floyd Mayweather Acquires 2020 Bentley Continental And 2020 Rolls Royce Cullinan by Lastmankc(m): 5:25pm On Dec 26, 2019 |
DenreleDave: Make person help me with 5k abeg
0162736994 Dare Michael Gtb Beggers are not choosers. You just went against that law. |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson And Her Family In Christmas Matching Outfits (photo) by Lastmankc(m): 2:43pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
This mercy husband they fu*ck like gorilla |
Events › Re: Nairlanders Having Fun During a Weekend hangout At Lekki Conservation Center by Lastmankc(m): 12:40pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
All these girls ugly oooo! Tufikwa. They we be forming posh on nairaland |
Crime › Re: Man Beats His Wife Into Coma In Yenagoa On Christmas Eve (Photos) by Lastmankc(m): 12:13pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
judedwriter: Nothing destroys the morale of a man than poverty and a nagging wife. you are right bro |
Travel › Re: For Those Traveling For Christmas, How Much Is Your Transport Fare? by Lastmankc(m): 12:07pm On Dec 25, 2019 |
Melodyz: How e go be? baba nah you go talk where we go meet. I dey come with two olosho |
Christianity Etc › Re: Merry Christmas Nairalanders by Lastmankc(m): 7:21am On Dec 25, 2019 |
internationalman: nothing special about it anymore unlike before
ordinary sunday is more fun than christmas na so |
Travel › Re: For Those Traveling For Christmas, How Much Is Your Transport Fare? by Lastmankc(m): 7:05am On Dec 25, 2019 |
Melodyz: If you're spending your Xmas in enugu, most especially at nsukka should let me know I dey 042 now must especially in obollo Afor |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Sambo Dasuki With Family Members After His Release From Detention by Lastmankc(m): 6:47am On Dec 25, 2019 |
This guy no be like person wey go prison. See as the guy fresh. |
Politics › Re: N30,000 Minimum Wage: Muhammadu Inuwa Yahaya Constitutes Negotiation Committee by Lastmankc(m): 10:38pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Fool |
Politics › Re: The Moment Sowore Was Released By DSS (Video) by Lastmankc(m): 10:29pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Fake news. This video has been doctored |
Politics › Re: Sambo Dasuki Released After Four Years In Detention by Lastmankc(m): 8:41pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Political agenda |
Politics › Re: Wike: Dickson And I Cannot Be Reconciled By PDP by Lastmankc(m): 8:39pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Old men, behaving like kids |
Crime › Re: Faith Aluko Goes Missing In MFM Church, Akure During Service by Lastmankc(m): 7:12pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
sureheaven: She didn't get lost, she went to collect Xmas and new year gift from her boyfriend. 
She will be back when she's done taking enough strokes. Girl make she they menstruate dey take stroke? |
Crime › Re: Faith Aluko Goes Missing In MFM Church, Akure During Service by Lastmankc(m): 7:09pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
TissuePaper: Check her boyfriend's house shut up. Does it mean that any lady that goes missing is in her boyfriend house? |
Celebrities › Re: I'm A Mummy's Boy - Yul Edochie Says, Shares Picture by Lastmankc(m): 5:40pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
I just love this Pete edochie |
Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife Ogunwusi Catwalks At Fashion Show In Lagos (photos) by Lastmankc(m): 5:30pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
I love this guy. He got class |
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Travel › Re: When Last Did You Travel To The Village? by Lastmankc(m): 12:19pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Newbreed2018: For me I don't. Though a mansion is wasting there but what can man do when there are so many obligations and responsibilities one has to meet up in the city?
Secondly I just don't feel the vibe there. Too much envy and evil.
Lastly my kids are comfortable spending holidays with my parents in the city cos my parents live in the city too so what's the point of going to the village I ask? Do you think staying in the city will protect you from their wickedness? You are just lucky that they are not interested in your case, because if they are interested in you. Even if you travel to abroad they will still get hold of you. |
Celebrities › Re: Naira Marley Advises Ladies To Shave Before Going On A First Date by Lastmankc(m): 10:14pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
I just like this guy naturally |
Romance › Re: Is My Girlfriend A Threat To Me? by Lastmankc(m): 2:06pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
JustMe407: Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.
Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.
I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.
I've two issues that are bugging me;
First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.
Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.
I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.
Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.
P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.
Please moderators, help move this to front page for more contributions. You are a man, take charge. Don't be a weak man. To achieve ultimate victory you must be ruthless |