Cinderella5:
you mean I have to offer money to be a real woman? For real?

The question is straight forward. What do u have to offer?

Cinderella5:
yes.

So what do u have to offer to the man as a real woman?

Cinderella5:
I saw a thread where a lady advocated for allowance for boyfriends, in response, I said a man who collects allowance from a girl is not a real man, and I was attacked by 'men'

When did we get here?
How the mighty has fallen
Our men now want allowance from women
What's the world turning to?
Men pls be like our fathers, don't beg girls for money, it's shameful

What of women who collect from men? Are they real Women?

sgtponzihater1:
Few month back I got a job of a little close to 150k and I came to nairaland rejoicing, few weeks from then I had rejected a job of 100k. This job promised to raise my amount by about nearly 30k if I stay a full year, then promote me every 2years afterwards. I however don't feel I am earning enough and I'm always at the verge of quitting and facing my many innovations, as I currently run several side stuffs to keep my self afloat. I however get home at times 10pm (though close 3pm, at most 4pm) and I mostly have to be at work by 8am

How much money is enough money for a married man with one kid. I was discussing with a colleague today and he kept complaining how he can hardly get by. I also told him I only remained because the job gives a steady source of income and also helps me pursue what I studied in school. It also helps me learn the experience of being able to sustain a private business, as the company has survived for over a decade.

Give ur views as to what a good pay in the current economy.

Sgt Ponzi Hater

What's the side business that you run?

Trustworthiness:
So, someone like me residing in ikorodu and working close to Ajah, living my home between 6:20am and 6:30am everyday and getting to work before 8 am is not safe and lost my job?

I think you have a big problem. You are proberbly living and have your business in Lekki and Ajah axis. Ladies living in area like that sees others living in other areas of Lagos as second class human being.

It is even much easier if you truely own you business yourself.

U are lying. U can't leave Ikorodu by 6:30am and get to Ajah axis by 8am. It's not possible, unless u use a powerbike.

Aso Rock demons at work.

This man keeps tormenting his haters with continuous success and elevation.
Best way to shut haters up.

Be forming oyinbo animal lover. Until you catch Lassa Fever ur eyes go open.

Stupidity everywhere. Opening dirty boobs with ugly sweaty face. Seems like any woman who doesn't display boobs these days isn't human.

Ur jacket and glasses are on point.

Every other thing is off, especially the shoes and bag that is torn.

One idiot they're following from the village may just decide to push you and you're gone

obiaguna:
Dear Op. Listen carefully. An MBA from Unilag is worthless. A total waste of time and it wont open any doors for you. MBA's are supposed to allow you network with great minds for great jobs post school and also for the contents. I feel a hustling Nigerian should take an MBA for these two reasons. 1) If you have big dreams of working at the best firms and startups in Europe and North América and 2) If you are looking to migrate and you need something valuable to get good jobs abroad. The first optipn also goes for those that have the plum jobs here and are looking to go higher.Harvard, Insead and all.
I would encourage you to face your work, save money, and rack up experience cos its the most important thing in the corperate world. Take online courses via cousera and the likes or do professional exams. The only Nigerian MBA that can make a difference in your fortunes might be from Lagos Business school. No employer would bat an eyelid for an MBA from Unilag so aim higher and work really hard. All the best dear and congrats on securing your job.

I don't agree with you that no employer values a Nigerian MBA. Do you know how much executive MBA in LBS costs? How long can she save that?

Brown14:
seems this guy is nursing a political ambition.
the other day it was Linda Ikeji.....

Yap!
He already has a party. Young Democratic Party.

The person is actually knowledgeable. He/she is creative, many sex starved men will fall victim. How I wish he can channel it into something legitimate.

Epic shade.. .Hush puppi abi nah pussycat where u dey?

That's dumb.

So Jay-Z and Beyonce will now be like "Come here Sir".
For their own child o.

But someone said she paid her brideprice herself. All these media noise women always put up to gather public pity.

This is the trend now. Nudity even in marriage.

Guys, if you wanna make money, do so because you want to have the good life. Don't aim to impress any useless leech of a girl.

Everyday I see guys, guys who are still managing to survive spend recklessly on stupid girls who probably just hug and rub their heads. Yesterday I saw one very haggard looking guy buy the biggest sharwama for a girl. Few minutes after they left, they came back with another girl, obviously a friend to the first one.

He foolishly still packed a bag full of snacks for this second girl. I was just boiling inside. This guy looks so hungry himself yet he's willing to spend so much on girls.

All for what? Hope of getting the cookie.

jhudit:
Remove sex and 90% of men won't see a need to be in that relationship too. You all fit each other...going into relationships for wrong and selfish reasons.

In other words, u demand for money as payment for sex? And u know what people who do that are called abi?

Stop objectifying women. They're humans just like yourself. The big ass is just a result of female hormones just like beards in men. Nothing special about it.

I think there is something that fathers are not doing right, or rather many things.
Just check the popularity of Mother's Day and that of Father's Day.

damola1:
If a hear say 9ja posh girl marry uber driver!... I go turn yellow!

They NEVER EVER MARRY DOWN. They always f**king marry up!

The koko of the story is. he met the owner of the car who also studied in the UK... and only drove the car that day. the guy no be uber driver o!

Women!.. Gosh!... no point wasting time or money on them. just make your money.. and guys.. live your dream life... if you want 2 girls on same day, marry dem. if you want 3reesome everyday.. do it.. women are f**king selfish.. and only marry up... they got no love for broke ass!


Stop misleading people. he's not a uber driver!...

Nothing but the truth. They all want "a man who can take care of me". Notice the lady only became interested after the guy said he's been to the UK. That's women for you, they're always goal oriented.
Can we say the same about men?

simongreat591@gmail.com

If Nigeria was a human being, she'd probably be bedridden or seriously sick. Corruption has become a normal way of life in this country, people are praying to be in government so they can at least "chop their own".
Very pathetic!

careytommy7:
The usual stuff
Nothing new

What were you expecting?
Fasting and prayer?

You don't need a pickup line to woo a mature lady.

Was he sick or something?

A beautiful lady with a welcoming and friendly attitude will always have men around her, infact she'll be confused as to who to choose.

When you feel that men should bow and worship you because you're beautiful, that's where the problem starts. They will bow just to take u to bed and flaunt you around, but never have any serious relationship with you.

Ladies work on your attitudes, forget about all the Mary Kay. You rub all the Mary Kay with a very poor attitude and lack of basic human relationships skills and u think ur shining face will get u a man.

Career kor profession nii

MTN sounds like that guy behind EFCC handle, throwing deadly shades.



But MTN are erious thieves, no matter the location.

MrBrownJay1:
@LaurelP
I sincerely suggest you 1st have sex before you can come here and talk about what you would do after sex ba bla bla. Turning these women down after having mounted them is not an easy task... because you are emotionally and physically weak after busting a nut, and thats when they make their puppy eyes and strike.
Only an ALPHA male can look into the eyes of the beast and say:"NO" while turning her around and try to mount her again.

If you have been allowing girls to extort money from you in the name of "giving you sex", then you need to grow up. Girls enjoy sex as much as or even more than you do, so why should they demand for money from you if she's your girlfriend.

But then again, I've come to find out that most times the problem is not from the ladies, most guys have this mindset that they have to pay after having sex with their girlfriends. Very wrong mentality!
If you want to give money to your girlfriend, do so because you want to, not because she "gave you sex so u must compensate her".