Bro you seem to have low self esteem. if an ordinary word from someone can bring you down like this, the u need to watch out before u commit suicide.
STOP CARING TOO MUCH WHAT PEOPLE SAY OR THINK ABOUT YOU. What will be will be and u cant satisfy human beings. Just do what u think and know is right and leave the rest to God.

That's the way to go.... handsome man marrying an average lady.

After winning Best man of the year, he wants to have a quiet wedding... We will not take it!!!

davide470:
Your points won't be complete without saying: They should learn how to use a condom or better still meet Dbanj for "Pull-Out" tutorials.

Irresponsible baby daddies.. Mtcheew.

Hmmm Egbon Dave, u sure say na u be dis? Abi dem don hack ur account?

That dog is the animal version of Bobby Lashley.

Crime is bound to skyrocket. In this perilous economic realities.

Eating and walking on the road. Uncultured.

Christians are Believers, that is what makes them Christians.
Christianity is built on Faith.
Without faith it is impossible to please God Heb. 11:6.

SurewayBookings:


Well this will come in place when you want it to. Doing this will actually give you an upper edge to be recognized. But that is not necessarily needed for a start looking at the budget involved. Also know that when you start branding it you will also require a NAFDAC registration.

Yeah.
But where can one source from?

SurewayBookings:


I think one major business line people haven't been looking into which is very lucrative and require small capital to start is snail packaging.

You can source snail from markets or farmers at bargain prices since you will be buying in bulk, just hire one or two workers who will be doing the cleaning and washing of the snails, then package them in an attractive for either with sealable nylon packs or plastic packs.

Distribute to eateries, hotels, supermarkets, even to friends and neighbors.

You will be surprised how much you will be making being that you have done the main work which people that like eating snail find difficult to do, washing the slimy body.

I hope you find this interesting because I will definitely get involved when I raise up to the capital you have.

Very nice idea I must say but it will require keeping in a frozen state to avoid damage. Also, one may need a machine to seal the nylon or packs and probably brand them. Am I right?

I won't eat the cake, I will swallow it. For your info, people eat cockroaches in some parts of Nigeria.

You are yet to understand how women think. Those girls are already seeing you as their bf, while you're waiting for a Yes.
That would work in the 20th century not this century.
Basically, any girl who voluntarily gave you her digits and is happy to pick your calls sees you as a potential bf.

All these aspiring "media celebrities", always doing their best to be relevant. And people are even helping them by giving them cheap publicity.

It can be very difficult to catch a cheating woman, you're even lucky she's so careless, or shud I say she's indifferent about it cos she's justifying her keeping male friends.
Op, pls whatever decision you wanna take, do so quickly to avoid stories that touch. Its either you really talk to her or you call it quits.
Remember you have no family to support you, don't be an easy prey in the hands of a desperate woman.
But you acted too fast, you shud have closely monitored her until u catch her red handed. Now she's denying it and u don't really have concrete evidence.

Nawah for women o. Always pushing a man to the very limits. Tommorow they will say the man abused her, nobody will ask what really led to it.

emmayodata:
Op, let me tell u something u propably don't know, there are so many women (married ones) who are sexually imprisoned by another guy. This is not because you didn't do ur duty or she doesn't love you, its even beyond her. I knew a lady who was about to wed and was having an affair with my friend. She's elderly so we call her anty. It all started when my friend was broke, he would go to her place to beg her for food, and anty nice, she will just say 'go to the kitchen and serve ur self'. so it was obvious she had no lustful intention. A day came, she returned from work and started complaining to the guy about stress, the guy offered a kinda massage, she accepted and that was it. The thing got so serious that the lady told the guy that his absence made her sick and his presence turned her on. My point exactly is that the lady loves her fiancee, that am sure of, cos she would cry sometimes after the s3x and call the guy's name ( her fiance) and ask for forgiveness. There was a time she send a text to my guy to stop coming to her place, but after 2 weeks she went to him herself.
She told him she would always come to him even after wedding. Now my point exactly is that ur wife surpossed friend made a statement 'if I catch u' , which to me is a language you use to when you are capable of handly a person in a unique way.

This is deep!!



And scary too!!

Op does your wife have someone she holds in high regard, like a clergy? Does she have elderly ones, like an elder brother or sister?
You might consider talking to the person about it.

Do you pray together? Believe me this is one of the easiest ways of enjoying marital bliss.

divineappo:
I may be wrong, but i strongly believe she is not HIV positive. She wants to test you to ascertain if you truly love her. My advise is, tell her u will take her to hospital for medical confirmation. But If she is positive, Whether u truly love her to still marry her, that is what me i dont know.

Oga he said they've both gone for test. The girl is +ve while he's -ve.

Op do you even know that in some countries, it is criminal for a person with a deadly disease like HIV to knowingly have sex with another negative person?
She could be jailed for that.
Better use you're head, love get expiry date o.

Odunharry:

Lol..not be boring..

Guy where have you been?? It been long I saw you on the teaching thread

Been quite busy bro. I do more of reading these days than commenting. Hope the thread is still booming. Lol.

How can you say a lady should be fun to be with? Don't you know that's the duty of the guy?
The guy must always be "gentlemanly romantic". Lol!

Ambode has really surprised me. He isn't Dumb'ode afterall lol.
My only wish is that he continues this way.

This girl is the female version of Denrele, madness puts food on their table.
Mad but rich and famous.

jurjes:
I am a professional female compere( m.c)
Talkademy trained
P.H based

I also know how to mix and match colours giving you beautiful bedsheet, duvet, curtain and throw pillow designs!!.

My innate skill is teaching/ educating!!!

Nice.
hope you're getting contracts.

swtdrms:
Just one and one talent/skill/profession. I eat code, drink code, sniff code, sleep code. I am a programmer. Over 8 after grad, never thot of serious paid employment, not easy at first, but now glory to Allah. Lots of projects i can't even handle alone.

Are u in Lagos?
Can u train me on this?

People always see the glory but not the story behind it.

abtywo:
PLS THOSE THAT GOT D MESSAGES WC POSITION DO U APPLIED FOR

Did you apply for?

This country is practically being run from abroad.

obiorathesubtle:
sometimes it's auto correct..

Stop putting the blame on innocent Autocorrect. That is clearly a grammatical disaster.

I'd do that number 1 over and over again. I can't pretend to be happy when am not.
Call it childish I don't care.
Its much better than beating or making noise wit her.

This must be a joke.

Op let me Tell you the truth. You made avery big mistake which many guys are guilty of.
Telling a girl to date you is nonsense, it hardly ever works. You will only succeed in making her form for you.
What you should have done is to SHOW her your ROMANTIC side, not your FRIENDLY side. Once she sees you as a potential datable guy, she will become yours, you won't need to ask her out.

Our artists and foreign girls sha...