czarr:
She put sex on the table bro
Take it and stop asking questions,before she reconsiders.

Sex can make a girl change her mind,good sex, so prepare for it

I tire o. Since he no ask himself.

Berlyn:
She's doing you a favor

I was once like this guy......but NOW I don't give a f**k.

Most Ladies don't appreciate nice guys!

MightyPee:


She is just too ashamed,

op so u don dey try chop this meat since 5years now abi?
continue........
anyway i like your HTC device

Omo d parting gift make sense oooo... Free Seexx wit no string attached yepa... Bt den ain't dis shiit suppose to be private Eehhh Peter.. Make jenny no c dis fin for Nairaland or else she go withdraw dat sweet parting gift..

bro collect your parting gift n move on.

czarr:
She put sex on the table bro
Take it and stop asking questions,before she reconsiders.

Sex can make a girl change her mind,good sex, so prepare for it

I swear
Wey e suppose go drink 10 Alomo f.cuk sense into her head

And why did you bring this to the social media? So you do not have 'physical' social network of friends to discuss such issues with? I know you blanked the so-called Jenny's face, but you insulted her by bringing a private issue to the public fore. Grow up dude! I think now I know why she wouldn't date you.

MightyPee:
so I was chatting with a long time friend of mine, we have been friends since 2L in the university, our friendship is 5years now. I have been asking her to date me but she has refused, giving excuses I don't think hold water.

What Do you think of her excuses?




Me? I think she was just complimenting me. our chat on Whatsapp today.

Sir you've entered the brotherzone. In this zone you can't get out. That sex she placed on the table try to consider it . That's the best you can get

That girl has no feelings for you mate, move the feck on.

Btw, the parting gift was brought up cos she knows you'll say no, try say yes and watch her change the whole thing to "so its just sex you wanted" some women are crazy like that.

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MightyPee take your time... you are in the shallow end of the friendzone but if you keep pushing her you will enter the deep end. She has offered you physical intimacy, your best bet is to show her a good time that would make her long for more, and then withdraw from her emotionally.

She is offering sex as a consolation prize but you can make her want it badly. From their she will develop the necessary feelings of lust that may propel you out of her friendzone.

That was my logical advice. Now my honest and sincere advice:

Truthfully, your best bet is to let her fly and avoid gambling with your soul through fornication.

sweetcocoa:
That girl has no feelings for you mate, move the feck on.

Btw, the parting gift was brought up cos she knows you'll say no, try say yes and watch her change the whole thing to "so its just sex you wanted" some women are crazy like that.

Not necessarily true. A woman might do that to test a guy she is unsure of but not to a close male friend.

I have been in this exact situation before, with a close female friend who adamantly said no but liked to make out with me until she fell in love with some other guy.

Mr op u sef think b4 u act...u knw d babe will soon move to abroad nd u are looking for a relationship with her, assuming she now accepted ur intentions nd u guyz started dating den some months later she moved abroad will u be comfortable having a long term relationship? Abi if u want s*x with her u'll be doing it via video chatting?.....guy d babe is trying to relieve u of having a heartbreak so leave it at dat.....if God says she'll be d one for u den calm down....u might even start to date oda girls nd 4get abt her so let her be *drops pen*

kinibigdeal:



You mean you were able to type all this with a Nokia 3310 classic?

You don't know nothing, but I'm goan tell you something

1. u re too predictable. ...happened to me too....
2. she wants sex......I can decipher ur scratched message
3. all u need is spice it up....go on an outing. ...mad outing I mean; something different from d norm or a combination of all

Just accept the parting gift and move on jooor.

To be honest with u bro, she's tired of dating, now Wat she wants is settling down with a serious guy for marriage. Did u see dat word "marriage " in her comment? She is telling u its either marriage or nothing n mind u her offering u sex was to see if actually u were just for her body.

Parting gift to gbayi...Omo leave trash for lawma and collect your gift. In fact why is the OP pretending as if he won't take the parting gift. I sure say you don dive the gift con dey give us superstory.

tosyne2much:
What I can deduce from the whole drama is that the girl doesn't want to date you but only heaping praises on you as a kind, gentle, intelligent, rich and loving person bla bla bla, so that you will not have the impression that she tampered with your self esteem by declining your proposition


So don't get so fly when a lady is heaping praises on you alongside stating reasons as to why she can't date you


Welcome to friendzone bro

Ma Nigga! You've said it all

Girls!!!!!
They go always Bleep up.

Make I no talk sha

MightyPee:
so I was chatting with a long time friend of mine, we have been friends since 2L in the university, our friendship is 5years now. I have been asking her to date me but she has refused, giving excuses I don't think hold water.

What Do you think of her excuses?




Me? I think she was just complimenting me. our chat on Whatsapp today.

Ma nigga that's just life, sometimes you guys might be perfect for each other doesn't mean you guys deserve to be with each other. that's one of the most complications of life, something so simple yet so complex to achieve.

*takes another hit of weed to gain more wisdom*

Op let me Tell you the truth. You made avery big mistake which many guys are guilty of.
Telling a girl to date you is nonsense, it hardly ever works. You will only succeed in making her form for you.
What you should have done is to SHOW her your ROMANTIC side, not your FRIENDLY side. Once she sees you as a potential datable guy, she will become yours, you won't need to ask her out.

She's not gonna date you, let things be the way they are

nancy4nast:


op so u don dey try chop this meat since 5years now abi? continue........ anyway i like your HTC device

how did you know my phone's make?

tosyne2much:
What I can deduce from the whole drama is that the girl doesn't want to date you but only heaping praises on you as a kind, gentle, intelligent, rich and loving person bla bla bla, so that you will not have the impression that she tampered with your self esteem by declining your proposition


So don't get so fly when a lady is heaping praises on you alongside stating reasons as to why she can't date you


Welcome to friendzone bro

Is this not more than friendzone. This is friends whit benefits she tabled sex before the guy as a party gift.

sweetcocoa:
That girl has no feelings for you mate, move the feck on.

Btw, the parting gift was brought up cos she knows you'll say no, try say yes and watch her change the whole thing to "so its just sex you wanted" some women are crazy like that.

u said it all......she is taking advantage of my guy.......she can never date him.

Cutehector:
Lool imediately I read the first reason from the babe, I lost interest




She is very wicked!

Lol. I thought I was the only one.

MightyPee:
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bros do yourself a favor and let go of the Barney she is even consolling you in advance for rejecting you forget those praises Jorr!

MightyPee:
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bros do yourself a favor and let go of the Barney, forget those praises Jorr! She is already consolling you in advance for rejecting you.

MightyPee:
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bros do yourself a favour and let go of the Barney, forget those praises Jorr! She is apparently already consolling you in advance for rejecting you.

After reading alot of comment....all i can say is......she has changed from been the good girl....to the open minded....reckless....flexing girl....like she has open a new book to enjoy her life to tbe fullest and she will end up cheating on you ....she wants you but shes pitying you...cos if she start you no fit stop her o...
Possible solution....get her back to her factory reset and try build a marryable relationship not a bf and gf plus bro dont be too nice/slack on her..you need to be able to be the frontliner cos it seems she panasharp pass you. Maybe a right or wrong who knows

abisolaarshow:
Why would a normal woman even offer xes as parting gift

na you stingy with your own na