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MaarxisGlaiback:
Kukuma kill the man

With all these ur ten commandments
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...just because you are a low value man doesn't mean the next man would be. You can only attract love and respect with love and respect...I'm sure those words are strangers to your ears.

Starzo:
I should worship you to show you I'm a 'real man'

Thunder faya you and worship.

Go chop before you use hunger disgrace yourself

It's funny most men are shouting truth, truth when they are not even easy to submit to.
Bible said love your wife. A woman that is loved and pampered will find it easy to submit. Her feminity will shine because you show you are the man (when I mean a man, I don't mean because you have a prick). You are a man because you respect her, you pamper her, you worship her, you are faithful to her. A woman will submit naturally under these conditions.
When we have men cheating on their wives like it's their given right, they expect respect. How can you be respected when you don't respect yourself. When we have men whose main occupation in life is to frustrate a woman and belittle her, how do you expect her to submit to you. Men need to do better. See marriage as a partnership. You can't get what you don't sow. You sow love, you get the respect and submission you want.
Na husband wey loyal, dey committed to make me happy, love me like tomorrow no dey na im I go give all my money, body and time to.

Ganbite:
This one is looking for mr perfect

...why won't you say this? Cause you men have nothing more than money to offer

PUSSYHOE:
My life my rule if you don't like it stay out of my life.

Who is in your life? It's my opinion. If you dont like it, ignore me.

PUSSYHOE:
She knows it.

Knoah ko, ominiknowest ni.....you dey chop different food, you no want your babe to chop. . Cheating has no monopoly. Na you talk say you no fit marry your baby mama...na you talk say she still no fit cheat .. because you dey chop her raw no mean say na your property....wetin she dey gain from you to make her dense, may God remove it.

Virusvetty:
A lady told me this disrespect thing
Pls can u define what u mean by disrespect

Talking down on me, complimenting a lady sexually in front of me and other people... shouting or cursing me in public...cheating.... touching my privates in public....and the list go on. Wetin go hurt your pride, no do for me. That's it

Physical, verbal, emotional abuse
Disrespect ( cheating, downgrading me, cussing me out or raising voice at me in public, talking shit about me to friends and family ..)
Unforgiving spirit
Unambitious, narcissistic and manipulative. (Dated someone like this, his only aim was to live in his parent's house, turn me to a traditional woman, control me till I had no say and wanted me to worship his broke, unattractive ass (30+ )). This is the reason I refuse to date down. If you no fine, no come get bar, I no dey do. I once allowed intelligence and charm speak for me. It's better to be heartbroken by a fine, young and rich man than an ugly, short, skinny, unambitious, cocky 30+ man.

I hate disrespect in marriage. Disrespect which includes the literal act, cheating. Then I don't want to just bear my future partner. Those are my fears.

Nezzjnr:
How will someone follow you to Iyana Ipaja from Oshodi.

Hard to believe abeg

If you no believe, rest.

And if you know that route, you go know say na one bus dey run am.

God1000:
I hope you are good tonight?

I am, Yu?

juniorstar:
I hate seeing loyal ladies getting cheated on..cos they are usually the best kind of ladies to build a future with provided they have a good character..I wonder what could have gone wrong guess are the no sex before marriage kind of gal..na them dey suffer am pass.if a lady thinks she has seen a no sex before marriage kinda guy..its a big scam there is something great you possess his eyes are already out to take care of his other needs in most cases. The ladies then feel used. Hope this isn't your case?

If that was the case, I would have understood. It's funny how I went to YouTube to learn how to give bj and ride a guy properly. Oh ...

AroOkigbo:
Getting a fully natural lady is almost impossible nowadays.

If you see a fully natural woman, will you approach her? Even if you do, you will still tell her to look good for you else you look elsewhere...

Maybe it's just me but I don't like this making fun of the cause of someone's death all in the name of comedy

Rip in advance.

juniorstar:
How did it end in premium tears...no man leaves value except a foolish one..they know where the value really lies even though they follow the Asss and boobss

Cheated on me with a girl that had big ass and boobs...ironic...isn't it?
Left immediately because I felt humiliated and hurt. I was loyal to him even though I was under pressure to cheat on him.
Since I don't cheat, I don't stay with a cheating partner cause I would rather be single than be disrespected

Given him money when he didn't have to travel back home
Took him out on several dates just to show that I appreciated his efforts.
Bought little gifts as well.
I'm a student. I'm broke but out of the little I had, I gave.

Las las, it ended in hot premium tears.

I still don't get the narrative of beauty and waywardness.
And from what I have noticed, most Nigerian men wants a beautiful woman with curves and all but they are too egoistic when it comes to handling what comes with it. And it's mostly the ones that are rejected by the pretty ladies that play it off by saying they are slutty. Pretty people are people as well.

God1000:
Lol, he went through all that wahala because of you and later chickened out.

But you should have begged for him when he mistakenly poured a woman's wares na, did you just stand there watching the show and smiling or how the guy take handle d situation?
Anyway, thanks for sharing with us.

I didn't smile, it wasn't funny. I was embarrassed. I couldn't also apologize as I can't speak Yoruba but he can.

Followed me from oshodi to Iyana Ipaja. Poured a market woman's wares and paid double for it just to collect my number. Las las, the effort was useless as he just stopped talking to me after our first date. Said he can't deal with a woman that has a lot of male attention.