I hate disrespect in marriage. Disrespect which includes the literal act, cheating. Then I don't want to just bear my future partner. Those are my fears.

The fear of her giving ALL d attention to the kids and leaving me on my own.
Lady who lack exercise sense.
Also fear of a lady who is not willing to improve on any dream or goal of hers, i like a wife in great places like Okonjo-iweala who will still stay faithful to d union.

And those talking about spiritual ladies up there, ur definition is pointing more to Religious ladies and not d spiritual ones

lavamaestro:
I hate disrespect in marriage. Disrespect which includes the literal act, cheating. Then I don't want to just bear my future partner. Those are my fears.

A lady told me this disrespect thing
Pls can u define what u mean by disrespect

I have similar fear for fat women. I married a slim girl. So far, so good. Avoid thick girls if you don't want a fat wife. Pregnancy does terrible things to the body of women.

BadRadio:
As for me, I can't stand the sight of a fat woman... sorry, no disrespect to all the beautiful fat ladies out there... its just that everyone has got their own spec...there's this thing between me and slim ladies.

My future wife has better not get fat with protruding belly, else I will personally introduce my slim side chick to her. I don't like what I hate


That's my biggest fear

Virusvetty:

A lady told me this disrespect thing
Pls can u define what u mean by disrespect

Talking down on me, complimenting a lady sexually in front of me and other people... shouting or cursing me in public...cheating.... touching my privates in public....and the list go on. Wetin go hurt your pride, no do for me. That's it

lavamaestro:


Talking down on me, complimenting a lady sexually in front of me and other people... shouting or cursing me in public...cheating.... touching my privates in public....and the list go on. Wetin go hurt your pride, no do for me. That's it

ok
I hope u won't do same

Are you a Solution to this World or are you a Problem? If you are not married, you should not be having Sex. If you do, you are bringing curses upon yourself and upon the World.

That my wife may not be able to give me anal without lube
That shit outta this world man

Marrying a lady whose mother is another Patient Ozuokwo.

BadRadio:
As for me, I can't stand the sight of a fat woman... sorry, no disrespect to all the beautiful fat ladies out there... its just that everyone has got their own spec...there's this thing between me and slim ladies.

My future wife has better not get fat with protruding belly, else I will personally introduce my slim side chick to her. I don't like what I hate


That's my biggest fear

If you think that marriage is a smooth sail, then you are a joker. Women are the same. If you see good shaped ones, they will have bad characters. To be frank, God must be involved to have one perfect or you start to endure what what you can't cure.

Tonyadie:
I can't stand a cheating wife...I will poison her gradually till she die

. W-A-I-T! Mr. Poisoner, is that what the Holy Bible tells you? Remember she‘s someone else‘s daughter. What if you are the one cheating? Wouldn‘t it be better to send her away than kill her? Are you her creator?

Hassanmaye:

If I find out I can destroy her

. As her creator that you are abi? So what if God decide to also destroy you for your sins? What happened to sent her packing instead? If it were my sister you destroy based on cheating instead of divorcing her, and I learn about it, then I wont hesitate to go price new casket cuz you will soon join her.

Being broke in marriage.
It's scary.

Moonie911:
I am scared of losing myself, my dreams
Like one of my age mate got married 4 years ago.... I remember when she use to tell me of her dream to be a fashion designer, even showed me designs of clothes and tell what to wear to match..... i saw her last month she was looking so tattered, a shadow of her former self.
She said she is teaching in one private school like that, i was scared to ask her about her fashion designing dream.
Getting married is good and wonderful but I am always scared whether I will wake at 40 and realised I haven't done anything with my life.......
I admire women in high positions in this country who make it regardless of been married but looking at most of them, they either comes from a wealthy background, married to a rich guy and some few are just damm lucky.

This is thought provoking for any woman with big dreams.

LadyD22:


My biggest fear is my husband spending more money on his side chick than me , I don't care if you want to have sex but don't bring disease , no bring belle , no go overspend , no go stay for one person hand

Exactly

No more good girl again yahoo boys don use most of them

BadRadio:
As for me, I can't stand the sight of a fat woman... sorry, no disrespect to all the beautiful fat ladies out there... its just that everyone has got their own spec...there's this thing between me and slim ladies.

My future wife has better not get fat with protruding belly, else I will personally introduce my slim side chick to her. I don't like what I hate


That's my biggest fear

Lol!Then make sure she doesn't eat too much and introduce her to regular morning exercises like jogging.

MeghaneMorgane:
I don’t know how many times this question will be asked within a month. Anyway, what I fear most is losing my freedom

Freedom to cheat

Chochovini:
. As her creator that you are abi? So what if God decide to also destroy you for your sins? What happened to sent her packing instead? If it were my sister you destroy based on cheating instead of divorcing her, and I learn about it, then I wont hesitate to go price new casket cuz you will soon join her.

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Haha you made me laugh,

Pumpumking:



getting Trap & becoming prisoner with one women...
too many lightskin n half cast chicks out there sir

Haha

Since there's no good job or reasonable savings, it's better Me avoid marriage for now in order not to meeting with marital challenges
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Homeboiy:
Getting Entangled with a woman that will not reason like me.

E de fear me

And that's how that gender think man, give them the whole world the moment your account turned green that gender will turn your name from honey boy to 'home'

Orgasmgiver123:


My rain boot is like a two edged sword, if i kick a fellow with it, they'll kick bucket

This is winter bro?

Children na him full Nairaland

MufasaLion:
Single man has got no problem.

A single man is a happy man.

I ain't gonna marry.

Haha How will you do if you age? Even us don't want it, but How man Go do with social pressure and family pressure

Fuckthamods:
She might kill me

Labadi69:
To discover the woman abuna dey smell of rotten yamayama fish. A man will have to live with that for life??

Haha

Hassanmaye:

Haha How will you do if you age? Even us don't want it, but How man Go do with social pressure and family pressure

So you wanna marry because of PRESSURE?

habsydiamond:
I hate to hear this phrase from my kids saying daddy, what were u doing when ur mates were working.. Response would be to keep silent ooo

Only ungrateful kids say such

BadRadio:
As for me, I can't stand the sight of a fat woman... sorry, no disrespect to all the beautiful fat ladies out there... its just that everyone has got their own spec...there's this thing between me and slim ladies.

My future wife has better not get fat with protruding belly, else I will personally introduce my slim side chick to her. I don't like what I hate


That's my biggest fear

I'm scared of everything

Truth is i just have to face it cos it isnt easy,people change after marriage