Hello

Sad. I watched their documentary

Kadexkadijat:
Am a first time mum, which one is better
Mixing nan1 with hot water immediately then cool it OR mixing with cold water then warm with hot water a little bit.

I firstly mix my hot and cold water to the desired temperature abi what's the name, before adding the milk.

kokaiye:
lol... Let me laugh small... E don reach ur side too... My son was like dt too at dt age.... Bcs he cant sleep i must not sleep too else he use cryin to finish my mentality... But tnk God we good now... Dont worry it will pass.

I can't wait for it to pass o.

Mama kokaye I miss you ooo, This time last year we were all in the other thread. How time flies

Hello mamas, my 10 month old baby just doesn't sleep like that at night again, he just toss and turn and toss and turn, let's say every two hours, it's been a week he started doing that now.

I read there's something called '9months sleep regression' . Is it real? Did other mamas experience it cos I'm getting frustrated and worried at the same time if everything is okay with him. But he is perfectly okay during the day o

kokaiye:
and @Layormiii do you guys know dt babies lose weight wen u start introducing solid to them because at first d body will have to adjust to d introduction of d new food by gettin use to it and baby start adding weight later on... Sm mamas r lucky deirbaby accept any food dey r introduced to so dey hv no problem with deir baby addin more weight while mamas like me had trouble wit my baby accepting solid food... E lose weight but later gained it bk wen e finally accepted taking solid.... Three things actually comtibuted with him losing his weight then. 1) he was teething 2) so e refused all food but formula and solid altogether. 3) he started walking at d stage at which i was introducing solid food 4 him wen e was 7months plus... D excitement was part of d reasons he wasnt interested in food too.... We r past dt now, he eat all food n weight bk to normal.

thanks mama for always, sorry for late reply nah Nigeria election carry me go where I no know ooo
Thanks for the info. My baby don add up sef, I think it was the result of crawling and going up and down and he was teething too.. I might be wrong tho. He eats well now and he's okay.

Did u say ur LO started walking at 7 months? Oh wow

Please o is it true that I cannot braid my hair if I want to go for my capturing.

Omakraid:

@Layormiii https://www.nairaland.com/4758545/baby-foods-recipes-weaning-solids

wow this thread is too good. Thanks ooo

exclusiveoloori:
. I’m in the same boat with you. Mine stopped at 5 months he never really took breast milk though cos I wasn’t really lactating, just formula. Now I’m really worried about his weight, 5.1kg at 6months. He’s healthy though and has been achieving all milestones for his age but when I see babies of his age, they are usually double his size. Now that I’m about to start solid I just want suggestions that can help my baby grow chubby abeg . Emphasis on “Chubby” pls house. Tired of people around me saying “omo e ti kere ju” meaning your “baby is too small” and I just imagine how I buy a tin of SMA gold every 4 days chai! Izz paining me jor!!! Brestmilk true true is not over rated

oh wow, so sorry ma'am. About his weight please check the thread kokaiiiye shared, lots of baby food options for weight gain. please don't beat yourself too much about it just try them out and see the one he likes

At six month my baby takes pap (millet, guinea corn and corn ) , nutribom but I later changed it to cerelac. I usually smash boiled egg and give him too tho he eats just little of it. And fruits puree that people do, please try it and find out the one your baby likes, my baby likes banana puree. Mine loves food very well so he eats alot

And don't stop the Nan. Financially it's draining cos mine drinks two agolo every week lol. He finishes one in three or four days too but what can we do? Only him takes about 30k monthly only on food and pampers. Ko funny.


At the hospital the doctor was counseling me, she said what of babies that didn't take bressmilk atall due to maybe loosing of the mother, or the mother developed medical issues after giving birth and couldn't breastfeed etc and they turn out fine . So with or without it babies will be okay jare last last.

Just calm urself my love he will be fine

Ok

OrganicSoup:
So nobody has eaten today?

Enugbe

My baby don't like people throwing him up atall. I thought babies love that and usually laugh when thrown up? This one just freezes, get really scared and start shaking, if u don't stop he starts crying.. at 7months fah.

Plus he gets frightened easily, like if u shout suddenly she shakes and start crying sometimes.
People ask me , ddidnt you throw him up when he was a baby? Why is he always so frightened.

Should I be worried

Washing a crawling baby clothes no be small thing o. You will wash and wash Especially those ones mixed with pap again . Thinking of soaking them at night lol so it will be easier to wash In the morning .

Happy new year Mamas how are we all doing this new year and how is our babies
It shall be a beautiful year for us all ijn

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https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2023/01/actor-alexx-ekubos-ex-fiancee-fancy.html?m=1

Interview was conducted by Stella dimoko. It is a must read interview..

STELLA -Hello Fancy.. Can we talk? I am a journalist

FANCY - Hey Stella, Happy new year. Sure, what would you like to discuss? Please Let me know

STELLA - About all these stuff going on: do you wanna grant me an interview?
i was really excited and looking forward to you and Alexx' reconciliation but it looks like that's not happening anytime soon what went wrong?
I will understand if you dont wanna talk but i would advice you do.

FANCY -I have seen your blog before, it’s positive, especially when you speak of Alexx and I. 
So this is all very devastating. I feel like speaking up makes me look bad but so does my silence...
I’ve never done an interview about this, I chose silence but Alexx continues to want me to make public apologies and it’s hurting me in so many ways. I have never even shared reasons why I left. I know he has an image to protect for him to look cool. But this last apology statement we wrote together broke me and it was just all for revenge from him to clear his image and ruin mine.

STELLA - Why did you break off your engagement Fancy?

FANCY - There are so many reasons I ended it. It’s very personal. I don’t want to embarrass him or myself further. If I say why, people will say well how obvious was that and you ignored the red flags. We tried to reconcile, I asked for us to do it privately, get counseling , he disagreed. Even his family and friends said privately would be better but he needed the grand gesture apology so he can have the grand wedding he wants again. Not caring the issues were still there. 

Everything is about social media for him, and somehow it’s now looking like I want the attention when this is the WORST attention I’ve ever had in my life. I have a full time job, clients, family businesses etc this was what I wanted to avoid. He ruined every chance of us being back together by thinking humiliating me will make me still love him.

Now I’m hearing my break up text has leaked. I sent it to my close people at the time of the break up. They’re so upset with Alexx and how he treats me that I know they leaked it. We would have married quietly and moved on. Now everyone is in our business so here comes the sabotage because they feel he’s bad for me based on everything they know.


STELLA - So there is no chance of a reconciliation?

FANCY -No

STELLA -Now let me ask you straight up.. There has been so much talk going round since you broke up with Alexx... They say you found out that he swings both ways? if its not true, at least correct that impression that your break up caused, it would only be fair to him...

FANCY -We can’t,  it’s too messy, i tried my best. He wanted to get back with me as much as I did. We’ve been at this for one year. But he felt since I broke up with him I should do more of the work. I was fine with that but his methods are cruel and constantly public
His s#xuality is not the reason I broke up with him. I’m very open minded so regardless of what he prefers, love is love for me. I loved him for his personality and heart nothing more. He didn’t want to be with me intimately which was confusing and difficult for me to understand especially for 5 years so it did affect my self esteem as I kept myself for him and when he would cheat with curvy women he wouldn’t perform with them either so I don’t know, I can’t confirm or deny his s#xuality but for me, I loved him despite all and he still found ways to hurt me.


STELLA - Dated five years and no intimacy? Did you confirm he was cheating? caught him or you were told?

FANCY -Yes, that is embarrassingly true. When I met him I didn’t have much experience so it was easy to convince me that his decision was because of religion. But as he would constantly cheat and yes I caught him, it would hurt me because that’s not part of the religious believe he made our celibacy to be. Honestly this whole thing has been complicated beyond words so it’s unhealthy for me to continue this relationship. I guess I needed this post he begged me to dp so that i can see his intention was just to clean up his image. I am truly sorry I ever posted a break up message, it’s a guilt that has haunted me and he plays on that. I can’t fix the past, but his constant punishment even though my live in their truth statement has truth to it, this embarrassment is not something I deserve.


STELLA -And from the break up text, it looks like you were the one to pay for the wedding both of you were to have..?

FANCY -You have seen it?

STELLA -Yes i have

STELLA -Yes i have

FANCY - I’m so embarrassed, but everything in that message is true. At that time I was angry and sent it to close peoples and when they saw it they were shocked. It’s bad because with all that I still wanted to go back to him because I loved him. But it being so public has made it impossible to repair this.

STELLA - Do you think too many outsiders are involved in this? Have both families intervened?

FANCY - Way too many, My family does not want him anymore in our family. They know too much. They were In support of a reconciliation if it was private. But his tit for tat was concerning. That August statement not being enough was concerning. He only focused on my reactions; never on his actions.

STELLA - One last thing. Say something to Alexx through this interview

FANCY - Honestly I don’t know what to say to him. This has to be the most devastating thing I’ve ever been through, and for it to be so public; I pray we both find healing and peace because it won’t be an easy journey. One breakup statement shouldn’t have led to all this. I wish I never said anything but I am human; I was fed up with good reasons. I pray he doesn’t only focus on people’s reactions but evaluate his actions too. I also pray he learns to be real and more f
orgiving with his next person and not be so consumed with having the perfect image because it’s draining to keep that up. My mental health can’t tolerate our relationship anymore.

STELLA - Wow. Catch a hug from me Sissy!
Thank you for opening up to me, I pray you both find closure from this.

FANCY - No problem. There’s been reports that he blocked me on the social media; that’s not true, that would be really bad on him. I don’t want people to think that. He just revealed himself to me after the post very quickly. I genuinely feel bad all this is happening, I was hoping for a different outcome but God knows best . Thank you for your hug and prayers for us:..

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Hamzashaf99:

We are doing fine oh. How's our baby?

Bc means birth control

my boy is fine

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