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The truth is that every reality TV plans for both the contents of the show and how they want the show to go including who should win the show.

It's a known fact that you have to plan these things because you cannot leave it to chance because leaving it to chance may ruin your show.

All over the world, people who organize a show always have an appointed winner before the show begins. They will do everything possible to make people notice and vote for the person they have anointed. It is a known fact in the world of reality TV shows.

Whitemoney once said before he came the second time, he heard that they wanted a woman to win the All star season and it was so.

Last year,it was Imisi and Dede who stood on the stage according to the plan and even Kola knew Imisi will win and Kola was promised a final.

Recently, many reality TV shows believe that it is better for women to be the top two. Even the next titan last year and MasterChef Nigeria last year had the top 2 as women.

This year's own, Sheba and Temi were promised that they may likely be the two people standing on the stage on the last day. But because Aikou was voted so much that there's no way he would not be top 2, they decided that 3 people would stand on the stage because of what they promised Sheba.

But they were also told that the money was not guaranteed to anyone including them. Even Temi and Sheba statements show that they knew they were going to be the top 2 and Sheba was surprised that Aikou was still among the people not evicted because that was not the plan. Infact Temi said to big brother that ever since Aikou and Flora were ungambit, she was worried about her chance of winning.

This is because before she came, she was told that the organizers would put someone that is strong as a Gambit in order to cage the person and allow her to gather votes. She did not know that the plan was to ungambit the person later when it's observed that she (Temi) has gathered enough fans. She was worrying too much not knowing the plans the organizers had with her was still in effect because even though the person is no longer a Gambit, he cannot meet up with Temi.

She was schooled on how to show herself and she did it perfectly and I am happy she won. She deserved it.

Organizers of reality TV cannot just allow everyone to come into their show without first of all grooming some of them so that the show will go as expected and be interesting.

Also some people would be told they will make it to the final. Someone like Ricky and Nomy, although Nomy later misbehaved and was disqualified.

For example, all the projected finalists who were groomed by BBNaija, namely Ricky, Nomy, Neche were involved in a quarrel against Ricky in the first week in order to Kickstart the show and draw more attention to the show.

But the organizers will tell you that although you have been promised a final or a win, it may not happen if you do not also work hard and play your part well. This keeps them on their toes and while they are a little bit afraid, they still hold unto the promise they had before the show begins.

Nkl4u:
Oyin has been flirting with the guys lately. Barry, tram now Aikou

The one with Aikou is different. In the other ones, it was Barry and Tram that met her and started talking about how they wanted her.

But in Aikou's case, she deliberately sought him out and started talking to him.

That makes it sweeter because I enjoy it more when a woman makes conscious efforts to talk to/flirt with or get a man without waiting for the man to come to her first.

I know she secretly likes Ricky also. I can see it even though many people may not believe me.

Ricky also secretly likes her for her cuteness, bluntness, and funny nature.

Oyin said she likes Aikou. She is flirting around Aikou. I like her.

kpankpangolo:
There likely was. The final weekday is when they stop then talk to the trainers on a personal level.

Ok thank you. That's even why I wanted to see how they will react after the final workout and the joy that they will not have to wake up so early again for the workout.

Please someone should tell me whether there was workout today. I wanted to watch their last workout which normally takes place from 7am to 8am, but I overslept. When I woke up they had just finished the 7:56am to 8am advert and I saw some of them in the kitchen. So I wondered whether there was workout.

Anniemae:
In their convo they mention how Sheba performs well at everything she puts her mind to. Then they say she's extremely focused and how it could be a problem in the long run. Aikou says he doesn't like extremes.

Me I'm wondering how being extremely focused is a bad thing

Ok. Thank you very much

Anniemae:
I was enjoying Aikou and barry's convo tch

Please share few of the things they said.

I switched off my solar inverter and slept off when the camera left both of them.

Before the camera left them, they were discussing Sheba and how motherly and caring she is.

Ibukzy:
Honestly, this season was a lot, it has everything

1 VE
5 Attempted VE
1 Revocation
1 Disqualification
No ship
Ninja fainting
Multiple fights
Multiple owners of Lagos
Strategy for strategy

Please did ninja faint and when did that happen?

Since innoson motor is not sponsoring this season, I do not think there will be a game to win a car this week and the winner of the show will not receive any car.

During today's diary session, Oyin said she came into the house looking beautiful, she does not want to go out looking lackadaisical if she is evicted tonight. She used the word Ugly for Lackadaisical LOL

She also said she believed her village people were responsible for her not winning tasks for some time before she won 3 tasks this week.

Very funny girl.

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The issue of Tram saying something about ibos has made me remember Thelma Lawson statements about short men.

I remember when Thelma Lawson said many times that she does not associate with or date short men. One of my neighbors who loved her so much and was always voting for her stopped doing so. My neighbor is not short but is not as tall as Thelma.

Making such comments can make you lose many fans and I am sure she lost many fans because many men are not as tall as Thelma and it is such men that will even like her because she is taller.

She knew most men are not up to her height and she came to national TV to insult them.

When I told one lady that Thelma would not reach the final because she liked saying she did not like short men and many men shorter than her who were voting her would stop voting her, the lady did not believe me.

I told the lady that as a tall guy, both short and tall women like me because I keep my options open.

But tall girls do not have such a privilege because they always give the impression that they do not like men shorter than they.

It turns out as a disadvantage to tall girls because most short men find tall girls very attractive but quickly kill their admiration for the tall girls because the short men realized tall girls do not like men shorter than they.

I have seen men deliberately doing things against tall women, like being her secret enemy because they believe tall women hold them in disdain. The last time it happened, I was close to the guy. When I asked him why he secretly hated the woman, he said because he knew that the woman held him with contempt. The woman later found out what the guy was doing against her at her back. She was crying.


But here's the thing: If a man is very tall, women will like him and it may bring him favour from women. He will not go about insulting all short women.

But if a woman is tall, many short men and tall men will like her. The woman suppose to leverage on the love to achieve something great. But most tall women like insulting short men.

Because of this, many men may hate the sight of a taller woman because they believe they are being held with contempt by taller woman.

So a tall man is admired by tall and short women but a tall women is only loved by a man her height or taller than her.

Why can't women reason this thing out?

As a woman, if you are tall, all men shorter than you may hate you because they believe you hate them. That will be to your disadvantage if it comes to getting favour from men, like getting votes in bbnaija.

As a man if you are taller than a woman, she may like you.


So women who are tall should try and leverage on their height to get love from tall and short men the same way tall men do because men are wiser when it comes to things like this.

Geezeem:
Lol... something has really changed between these two...why Oyin no gree shout like when they fought with Temi ?

Because Oyin told big brother that if she was once someone's friend and she and the person fall apart, she does not like exchanging words with the person because it will pain her more than the person.

She said it always pained her anytime she lost friendship with someone and anytime she exchanged words with the person, it will pain her because of the loss of the friendship.

She has said this many times.

It's funny that people believe that Goddessa refused to accept Barry's invitation to the lodge because she is faithful to her man Araga. It's not because of faithfulness because if she had been faithful she would not have asked Barry to chase her. She would not have flirted with him and spoken about how she is not wearing a wedding ring and all.

The real reason is that she fear women and what women will say. This is one of my greatest trouble with women. She likes Barry but choose to reject him because a woman/some women in the house or outside the house may not like her for being close to Barry.

The decision does not come from the so called dignity but from fear of fellow woman.


Just imagine it's a man that reject a woman because he's afraid of another man/men, women will not find it commendable. They will think he is a weakling

Nothing concerns me whether she accepted or rejected Barry. What concerns me is that women continue displaying this character but men believe it is dignity not knowing it is spite against the male gender.

It's like a man is not valuable enough for you to stand by him so you are ready to run away at the sight of a woman who does not like your closeness to the man.


I know these things because I do research on the mindset of male and female. More than 70 percent of the books I read in the library is always about women and men interaction and mind.

That's why I say I am not voting for Goddessa anymore. Last week I voted for her and Oyin. But some men will think that she is faithful and even go ahead to vote her.


It's believed that the universe does not allow men to know the true nature of women because if men know, they will not be able to live with the knowledge, that is why some bad character of women is being portrayed in the minds of men as virtue.

My question to women is that why do you people allow the fear of another woman to affect your relationship with a man?

I mean a man likes a lady and the lady likes him back, but another woman speaks evil about their relationship, or another woman quarrels with the lady because the man likes her, or another woman looks at the lady aggressively, the lady then abandons the man and runs away, she refused to continue the relationship because another woman does not like her for being in a relationship with the man.

I don't mean the man's girlfriend or ex girlfriend, I mean a woman that is not in any way connected to the man but does not believe the man should date the lady.

I mean this is what happens always and men are not talking about/ dragging women for this kind of behavior.

If a man abandons a woman and runs away at the sight of another man who does not like him, won't women refuse to associate with such a man? Won't women call the man all kinds of names? Won't the man feel ashamed of himself?

How comes that women do not feel ashamed when they run away from their lovers because of a mere look from another woman?

How comes that men have refused to speak or condemn women for this act?

As for the women, how comes that what you hate so much is always what you do to the men?

Is it because men are not wise enough to see that what you are doing is not good?


I believe that the universe has a way of paying someone in her own coin.

I would have voted for Goddessa but I won't. I will allow my votes in my 2 DStv decoders to be wasted by not voting although I know it does not even matter whether I vote or not. What will happen will happen.

But my question to women is that why do you people allow the fear of another woman to affect your relationship with a man?

I mean a man likes a lady and the lady likes him back, but another woman speaks evil about their relationship, or another woman quarrels with the lady because the man likes her, or another woman looks at the lady aggressively, the lady then abandons the man and runs away, she refused to continue the relationship because another woman does not like her for being in a relationship with the man.

I don't mean the man's girlfriend or ex girlfriend, I mean a woman that is not in any way connected to the man but does not believe the man should date the lady.

I mean this is what happens always and men are not talking about/ dragging women for this kind of behavior.

If a man abandons a woman and runs away at the sight of another man who does not like him, won't women refuse to associate with such a man? Won't women call the man all kinds of names? Won't the man feel ashamed of himself?

How comes that women do not feel ashamed when they run away from their lovers because of a mere look from another woman?

How comes that men have refused to speak or condemn women for this act?

As for the women, how come that what you hate so much is always what you do to the men?

Is it because men are not wise enough to see that what you are doing is not good?


I believe that the universe has a way of paying someone in her own coin.

Please someone should tell me what Flora said in the dairy room that biggie said he will look into it.

Every time I listen to Oyin and Flora, I use to laugh and laugh. I will vote for Oyin this week. I need her in the show because of her funny talk.

I love you Imisi. As a man, I love women that go for a guy if they want him. That made me love Imisi more. It's unfortunate that her advances were being rebuffed by Dr Faith. I wished it did not turned out like this because it discourages women from making a move even if they like the guy. I pray many men will wise up to realize that if a woman wants you sexually and makes the first move, it really shows she desires you to the point of letting go of her pride, unlike we men who may not even like a woman but want to sleep with her. A woman who wants you sexually and makes the first move really likes you and should be treated as a treasure because she also sees you as a treasure. It's said that if a woman wants you to the point of letting down her guard, then her interest is real and genuine. Because in a society where women do not make the first move, it will take a woman who treasures you so much to make the first move.

Drforsuiciders:
Since na battalions of eve u wan bring, go ahead na

Since na battalion of troublesome stupid boys you want born, go ahead and born please.

Drforsuiciders:
Why are u guys taken dis whole ting too personal. Husband made his opinion well known to a friend and business partner. Why not allow husband to be na. If u like go born 12 disciples of eve na u sabi

If you like born many evil minded and stupid boys, na you sabi.

cococandy:
nothing to add.

Nigerians and their misplaced priorities focused on how women use their bodies while their sons are literally massacring the country will never cease to amaze me.

My sister you have spoken my mind. I am always sad when I see men committing all kinds of attrocities yet parents don't see fit to come out with a model that will train the male child to grow up into a better person.

They are more concerned on how to control the daughter's behavior. Yet as a man, I cannot even travel to some states because of kidnapping, banditry and murders perpetuated by my gender. It is not a woman that will kidnap or kill anyone, it's the man. But the society believes a woman's sexual behavior is the priority.

It's very sad. If all women decide to stay as virgins, how will they be able to get women to sleep with, they that are always chasing women. They will not allow women to rest from sex, yet they will not stop condemning women for sex.

I pray that their eyes are opened because as a man, I interact more with men and it saddens me when I see their behaviors and hear their talk.

I pray that in the near future, the society will rise up and bring out a model that will tame the male child. One day there will be a shift in the collective consciousness of the male gender which will bring peace and reasoning to our world

I like women who lust after me, who look at me and communicate their intentions with their eyes. Intentions such as I want to have s3x with you. I want women to desire me, I want them to be open up to me and not be ashamed or afraid to tell me that they want to have s3x with me. I love women with big lustful eyes who will look at me from time to time with her eyes full of desire for sex. I want to be kissed, I want to be loved. I want to be desired.

(0+0+0+0+0)/0 = (5×0)/0 = 5
Therefore 0+0+0+0+0 divided by 0 is equal to 5

Why Imisi may not win

I would love Imisi to win but I believe she may not win for the following reasons:

1) The production may not want the band wagon to continue highjacking the show and determine a winner because most reality TV always have a predetermined winner who is someone they believe should be their face.

2) The disqualification of Faith shows that the organizers do not want to go with the people's choice. Although Faith would not have won, the organizers would have allowed him to stay in respect of the people who had already voted Faith.

Disqualification of Faith shows that this year, the organizers are not ready to go with any favorite be it Faith, Imisi, Koyin etc

3) The absence of the evicted housemates in yesterday's party is another indication. Millions of people wanted to see the evicted housemates yesterday as is usual in previous seasons. But the organizers did not follow that line this year. In the psychology of the human behavior, such an act shows that the organizers are not ready to follow the crowd this year.

It's a veiled attempt to show to the people that their expectations may not materialize this time around. It helps to prepare people's minds against a shock later today.

4) The first and tenth season comparison.

In the first season of the show, Ebuka and Joe were those projected to win the show. But Katung later won to the surprise of everyone.

It is possible that at the tenth and final season, someone like Sultana or Isabella may win to the surprise of everyone.

5) In every show, there are always 2 ways to win. Some seasons votes will count and in some seasons, the organizers will give it to who they believe should win. If a person from a particular tribe/religion/gender has rarely won, they may decide to give it to someone from that tribe, religion or gender.


All in all, I congratulate the winner.

A man goes to meet a woman, begs her and she plays hard to get before accepting him. He then start taking deadly enhancers to satisfy her sexual urges, gives her money and all.

No be juju be that? If the woman wanted sex so much, why isn't she the one who approach the man, beg him and give him money?

Why beg someone to give her pleasure and money?


Why do men not come to the understanding that a woman is the one who suppose to beg men and pay him to satisfy her because men use more energy and women have deeper orgasm than men.


You are sexually starved and I come and beg you, pay you and then take drugs to satisfy you.

Is that not a great exploitation of the male gender?

Why can't all men come to this realization?



God will open men's eyes soon

My aunt said that in her childhood days, there were some villages where all girls went about naked but all boys wore clothes.

The understanding was that a male has something (penis) that needs to be covered and respected but the females had nothing down there (she doesn't have penis but she is flat down there) so she needed not be covered.

In those villages, men don't see women as sex objects because from childhood, the men had been brought up to believe that the bodies of the females were not sexually desirable because they saw naked girls always and unclothedness was an integral part of punishment for a girl.

One would think that it was sexual abuse of girls but according to what I heard, this only made the males not to see women as sexually desirable. But it helped the men to love women. There was no lust for women's bodies, there were no rape cases, there were no attempt to stop her from achieving something great, there were no barriers to women. Infact women were great business people, they were outspoken and men did not feel threatened. Men did not feel that their ego has been threatened by the power of a woman.

The concept that men are only comfortable with the sexual power of a woman but uncomfortable with every other power was not there.

It is because since women already have sexual power, men are not willing to allow women have another power over them

But in a society where women do not have sexual power, men will naturally want to give her every other power


Since women desire love more than sex, according to the law of natural selection, there should come a time where men that will be born will be more likely to give a woman love than sex.

There are no mistakes in creation. If God gives women the desire to be loved, how come that women seek love but find sex according to research?

God who gave her the desire for love cannot turn around and deny her.

The problem is that the natural love a man has for a woman has been corrupted by male lust for a female body.

That's why people who have sex with women so much and lust after women so much also tend to have hidden hatred for women according to research.

Some of these men even hate to see a woman being happy or achieving something great.

It is because their natural love for women has been replaced by lust that is why they end up hating women. They do not love women hence the hatred. The love has been replaced by lust.

In the villages I mentioned, there was nothing like rape because women's bodies were not seen as sex objects. The men in those villages were faithful in marriage(because most men who see woman as a sex object would want to test many women's bodies, so they cannot be faithful to their wives) and they love their women very much. There were no quarrels because the husbands were always willing to do anything to ensure the wives were happy and satisfied.


For as long as a woman's body remains a sex object, hatred of women will remain prominent.

Someone wrote that a woman cannot attain equality with men as long as she remains a sex object in his eyes.

You cannot be a sex object and a leader at the same time.

In the unconscious aspects of the male's brain, if he desires your body, you cannot wish to be greater than him. That's why they are not happy for your progress as a woman.

Therefore all hands must be on deck to make the future boys and girls not to behave like the present men and women.

Our boys and girls should be trained at a young age to know and believe that females are not sex objects and that males are not superior to females.

There is hope for the next generation if during their childhood, conscious efforts should be made by those in authority, parents and teachers to make sure boys grow up to see girls as human beings and not as sex objects.

You don't tell boys and girls these things verbally because it would not be proper and it won't achieve any results.

We can do this by different activities that centers on making a boy to believe he is the sexually desirable one while the girls should be taught otherwise.

Let the males believe that they are the prize and that they are the sexually desirable ones and the males would unconsciously cede every other power to the females.

I heard that federal ministries have been paid already. It's only lecturers who haven't been paid.

I don't know why Nigerian males like disgracing themselves when it comes to women.

It's said that all over the world, Nigerian males are looked upon as sexual predators who like harassing women.

It's said that if there is a sexual assault in any country, there's a 60% chance that the perpetrator is a Nigerian male.

It's said that Nigerian males are the greatest simps in the world. They believe in getting shame before they sleep with women and if the woman does not give him shame, he believes she is cheap.

It's said that the idea that a woman is cheap originated in Nigeria. The idea (that a woman who immediately agrees to sleep with a man without giving him tough time is cheap) originated in Nigeria and such idea is also sustained by Nigerian males.

In terms of online scam, Nigeria is number one.

In terms of sexual predation, Nigeria is number one.

How did we get here?

How did we have it this evil?

I mean, it's very painful and evil.

Who will save us from this mentality?

In the far future, the following is going to happen

(1) The sight of naked women on the streets will be very common.

(2) The desire by men to have sex will be greatly reduced.

(3) It will be easier for women to marry a faithful and loving husband who does not believe that having sex with many women is what life is all about.

(4) Many women who have money, good character or good qualities(such as leadership qualities, bravery, talent, etc) will be hot cakes.

(5) There will be many confident and brave women on Earth.

(6) Rape will cease all over the world

(7) Men will be more accepting of goodness and kindness.

( Good men will be hot cakes.

(9) Male sexuality will be greatly honored all over the world.

(10) There will be far more women on Earth than men.

(11) Undeveloped nations of today will be like the US of today and the developed nations of today will be 10 times better than today.

(12) sixty percent of leaders in the world will be women.

Girls cry.

I remember when we were young, sometimes girls would be flogged in front of the whole school and they will cry in front of everyone in the assembly.

Some boys were always very happy when girls cry.

Instead of me to be a woman, I would rather come back as a famous man like Ronaldo or Messi and women would be running after me.

There's nothing sweeter than females running after a man.

I can't come back as a woman because I am close to many girls and I can assure you that women have their own world, and it is not pleasant to most of them.


Females have their own unique experience which is unknown to the males.



Also there are so many women who are without males and they are love and sex starved. So many women use masturbation to quench their sexual desire.


So many males believe that women can always have sex when they want.

Yes, it is true. But with who? Many times it's with all these street boys and it's the same as males having sex with all these street girls (prostitutes)

But those women would still crave for a real, rich and loving man the same way a man who has sex with prostitutes would still want to be in a relationship with a real, caring and beautiful woman.




If you are a man and you need female attention, you can actually put ego aside and approach the woman of your choice.

But a woman cannot do that but would rather wait for a man to come to her.

That's why it's usual to see so many women who are not satisfied with their sex and relationship life because a loving, caring and handsome man is not in relationship with them. There are so many women without males in their lives.

Also among the females, there's a preference for males over females.

So if you come back as a woman, you will have women to contend with.

Women terrorize themselves and men don't know it because a woman may not want to terrorize a man so men believe women's world is safe.

Do you know why that girl suddenly refuse to accept your friendship after initially willing to accept it?



Chances are that she has been threatened either physically, psychically, or in the sub physical realm by another woman who believes you should rather seek for her friendship.

I have witnessed it on several occasions. But most males don't know what is happening in the background. You may stay close to 2 women and one of them is threatening the other to leave you alone that you belong to her, but you will not hear it. I tell you the truth, I have witnessed it but 99 percent of males in my position would not be able to perceive what's happening.

There was a time I made sure I interacted with ladies every day for like 3 years. I made sure that I must meet a woman or women everyday for interactions, friendship, etc.

I have to say this from what I learnt from this interactions:


The female world is harder than men think. The interactions between women is such that it would only take a man with heart to experience the friction that exists between women.


So coming as a woman won't solve anything. You will still have women to contend with.


During my interactions with women, I heard a lot from women which shows how women look at their gender.

Things like:

(1) I only have male friends and I don't want a female friends

(2) Don't behave like women.


(3) Women behave improperly.


(4) Why must a woman call my line?. I will rather an unknown man call me than a woman call me.


(5) After suffering for 9 month, I don't want to give birth to a girl.


(6) I will rather stay in the midst of males than in the midst of females.


There have been some occasions when a woman showed me favour first before attending to a woman, because I am a male. This is common among women in the middle age, like 40 years and above.

I went to do something once and a woman in charge ask the females to stand behind the males, so that she could attend to the males first.


So coming back as a female does not guarantee anything special.