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I love you Imisi. As a man, I love women that go for a guy if they want him. That made me love Imisi more. It's unfortunate that her advances were being rebuffed by Dr Faith. I wished it did not turned out like this because it discourages women from making a move even if they like the guy. I pray many men will wise up to realize that if a woman wants you sexually and makes the first move, it really shows she desires you to the point of letting go of her pride, unlike we men who may not even like a woman but want to sleep with her. A woman who wants you sexually and makes the first move really likes you and should be treated as a treasure because she also sees you as a treasure. It's said that if a woman wants you to the point of letting down her guard, then her interest is real and genuine. Because in a society where women do not make the first move, it will take a woman who treasures you so much to make the first move.

Drforsuiciders:
Since na battalions of eve u wan bring, go ahead na

Since na battalion of troublesome stupid boys you want born, go ahead and born please.

Drforsuiciders:
Why are u guys taken dis whole ting too personal. Husband made his opinion well known to a friend and business partner. Why not allow husband to be na. If u like go born 12 disciples of eve na u sabi

If you like born many evil minded and stupid boys, na you sabi.

cococandy:
nothing to add.

Nigerians and their misplaced priorities focused on how women use their bodies while their sons are literally massacring the country will never cease to amaze me.

My sister you have spoken my mind. I am always sad when I see men committing all kinds of attrocities yet parents don't see fit to come out with a model that will train the male child to grow up into a better person.

They are more concerned on how to control the daughter's behavior. Yet as a man, I cannot even travel to some states because of kidnapping, banditry and murders perpetuated by my gender. It is not a woman that will kidnap or kill anyone, it's the man. But the society believes a woman's sexual behavior is the priority.

It's very sad. If all women decide to stay as virgins, how will they be able to get women to sleep with, they that are always chasing women. They will not allow women to rest from sex, yet they will not stop condemning women for sex.

I pray that their eyes are opened because as a man, I interact more with men and it saddens me when I see their behaviors and hear their talk.

I pray that in the near future, the society will rise up and bring out a model that will tame the male child. One day there will be a shift in the collective consciousness of the male gender which will bring peace and reasoning to our world

I like women who lust after me, who look at me and communicate their intentions with their eyes. Intentions such as I want to have s3x with you. I want women to desire me, I want them to be open up to me and not be ashamed or afraid to tell me that they want to have s3x with me. I love women with big lustful eyes who will look at me from time to time with her eyes full of desire for sex. I want to be kissed, I want to be loved. I want to be desired.

(0+0+0+0+0)/0 = (5×0)/0 = 5
Therefore 0+0+0+0+0 divided by 0 is equal to 5

Why Imisi may not win

I would love Imisi to win but I believe she may not win for the following reasons:

1) The production may not want the band wagon to continue highjacking the show and determine a winner because most reality TV always have a predetermined winner who is someone they believe should be their face.

2) The disqualification of Faith shows that the organizers do not want to go with the people's choice. Although Faith would not have won, the organizers would have allowed him to stay in respect of the people who had already voted Faith.

Disqualification of Faith shows that this year, the organizers are not ready to go with any favorite be it Faith, Imisi, Koyin etc

3) The absence of the evicted housemates in yesterday's party is another indication. Millions of people wanted to see the evicted housemates yesterday as is usual in previous seasons. But the organizers did not follow that line this year. In the psychology of the human behavior, such an act shows that the organizers are not ready to follow the crowd this year.

It's a veiled attempt to show to the people that their expectations may not materialize this time around. It helps to prepare people's minds against a shock later today.

4) The first and tenth season comparison.

In the first season of the show, Ebuka and Joe were those projected to win the show. But Katung later won to the surprise of everyone.

It is possible that at the tenth and final season, someone like Sultana or Isabella may win to the surprise of everyone.

5) In every show, there are always 2 ways to win. Some seasons votes will count and in some seasons, the organizers will give it to who they believe should win. If a person from a particular tribe/religion/gender has rarely won, they may decide to give it to someone from that tribe, religion or gender.


All in all, I congratulate the winner.

A man goes to meet a woman, begs her and she plays hard to get before accepting him. He then start taking deadly enhancers to satisfy her sexual urges, gives her money and all.

No be juju be that? If the woman wanted sex so much, why isn't she the one who approach the man, beg him and give him money?

Why beg someone to give her pleasure and money?


Why do men not come to the understanding that a woman is the one who suppose to beg men and pay him to satisfy her because men use more energy and women have deeper orgasm than men.


You are sexually starved and I come and beg you, pay you and then take drugs to satisfy you.

Is that not a great exploitation of the male gender?

Why can't all men come to this realization?



God will open men's eyes soon

My aunt said that in her childhood days, there were some villages where all girls went about naked but all boys wore clothes.

The understanding was that a male has something (penis) that needs to be covered and respected but the females had nothing down there (she doesn't have penis but she is flat down there) so she needed not be covered.

In those villages, men don't see women as sex objects because from childhood, the men had been brought up to believe that the bodies of the females were not sexually desirable because they saw naked girls always and unclothedness was an integral part of punishment for a girl.

One would think that it was sexual abuse of girls but according to what I heard, this only made the males not to see women as sexually desirable. But it helped the men to love women. There was no lust for women's bodies, there were no rape cases, there were no attempt to stop her from achieving something great, there were no barriers to women. Infact women were great business people, they were outspoken and men did not feel threatened. Men did not feel that their ego has been threatened by the power of a woman.

The concept that men are only comfortable with the sexual power of a woman but uncomfortable with every other power was not there.

It is because since women already have sexual power, men are not willing to allow women have another power over them

But in a society where women do not have sexual power, men will naturally want to give her every other power


Since women desire love more than sex, according to the law of natural selection, there should come a time where men that will be born will be more likely to give a woman love than sex.

There are no mistakes in creation. If God gives women the desire to be loved, how come that women seek love but find sex according to research?

God who gave her the desire for love cannot turn around and deny her.

The problem is that the natural love a man has for a woman has been corrupted by male lust for a female body.

That's why people who have sex with women so much and lust after women so much also tend to have hidden hatred for women according to research.

Some of these men even hate to see a woman being happy or achieving something great.

It is because their natural love for women has been replaced by lust that is why they end up hating women. They do not love women hence the hatred. The love has been replaced by lust.

In the villages I mentioned, there was nothing like rape because women's bodies were not seen as sex objects. The men in those villages were faithful in marriage(because most men who see woman as a sex object would want to test many women's bodies, so they cannot be faithful to their wives) and they love their women very much. There were no quarrels because the husbands were always willing to do anything to ensure the wives were happy and satisfied.


For as long as a woman's body remains a sex object, hatred of women will remain prominent.

Someone wrote that a woman cannot attain equality with men as long as she remains a sex object in his eyes.

You cannot be a sex object and a leader at the same time.

In the unconscious aspects of the male's brain, if he desires your body, you cannot wish to be greater than him. That's why they are not happy for your progress as a woman.

Therefore all hands must be on deck to make the future boys and girls not to behave like the present men and women.

Our boys and girls should be trained at a young age to know and believe that females are not sex objects and that males are not superior to females.

There is hope for the next generation if during their childhood, conscious efforts should be made by those in authority, parents and teachers to make sure boys grow up to see girls as human beings and not as sex objects.

You don't tell boys and girls these things verbally because it would not be proper and it won't achieve any results.

We can do this by different activities that centers on making a boy to believe he is the sexually desirable one while the girls should be taught otherwise.

Let the males believe that they are the prize and that they are the sexually desirable ones and the males would unconsciously cede every other power to the females.

I heard that federal ministries have been paid already. It's only lecturers who haven't been paid.

I don't know why Nigerian males like disgracing themselves when it comes to women.

It's said that all over the world, Nigerian males are looked upon as sexual predators who like harassing women.

It's said that if there is a sexual assault in any country, there's a 60% chance that the perpetrator is a Nigerian male.

It's said that Nigerian males are the greatest simps in the world. They believe in getting shame before they sleep with women and if the woman does not give him shame, he believes she is cheap.

It's said that the idea that a woman is cheap originated in Nigeria. The idea (that a woman who immediately agrees to sleep with a man without giving him tough time is cheap) originated in Nigeria and such idea is also sustained by Nigerian males.

In terms of online scam, Nigeria is number one.

In terms of sexual predation, Nigeria is number one.

How did we get here?

How did we have it this evil?

I mean, it's very painful and evil.

Who will save us from this mentality?

In the far future, the following is going to happen

(1) The sight of naked women on the streets will be very common.

(2) The desire by men to have sex will be greatly reduced.

(3) It will be easier for women to marry a faithful and loving husband who does not believe that having sex with many women is what life is all about.

(4) Many women who have money, good character or good qualities(such as leadership qualities, bravery, talent, etc) will be hot cakes.

(5) There will be many confident and brave women on Earth.

(6) Rape will cease all over the world

(7) Men will be more accepting of goodness and kindness.

( Good men will be hot cakes.

(9) Male sexuality will be greatly honored all over the world.

(10) There will be far more women on Earth than men.

(11) Undeveloped nations of today will be like the US of today and the developed nations of today will be 10 times better than today.

(12) sixty percent of leaders in the world will be women.

Girls cry.

I remember when we were young, sometimes girls would be flogged in front of the whole school and they will cry in front of everyone in the assembly.

Some boys were always very happy when girls cry.

Instead of me to be a woman, I would rather come back as a famous man like Ronaldo or Messi and women would be running after me.

There's nothing sweeter than females running after a man.

I can't come back as a woman because I am close to many girls and I can assure you that women have their own world, and it is not pleasant to most of them.


Females have their own unique experience which is unknown to the males.



Also there are so many women who are without males and they are love and sex starved. So many women use masturbation to quench their sexual desire.


So many males believe that women can always have sex when they want.

Yes, it is true. But with who? Many times it's with all these street boys and it's the same as males having sex with all these street girls (prostitutes)

But those women would still crave for a real, rich and loving man the same way a man who has sex with prostitutes would still want to be in a relationship with a real, caring and beautiful woman.




If you are a man and you need female attention, you can actually put ego aside and approach the woman of your choice.

But a woman cannot do that but would rather wait for a man to come to her.

That's why it's usual to see so many women who are not satisfied with their sex and relationship life because a loving, caring and handsome man is not in relationship with them. There are so many women without males in their lives.

Also among the females, there's a preference for males over females.

So if you come back as a woman, you will have women to contend with.

Women terrorize themselves and men don't know it because a woman may not want to terrorize a man so men believe women's world is safe.

Do you know why that girl suddenly refuse to accept your friendship after initially willing to accept it?



Chances are that she has been threatened either physically, psychically, or in the sub physical realm by another woman who believes you should rather seek for her friendship.

I have witnessed it on several occasions. But most males don't know what is happening in the background. You may stay close to 2 women and one of them is threatening the other to leave you alone that you belong to her, but you will not hear it. I tell you the truth, I have witnessed it but 99 percent of males in my position would not be able to perceive what's happening.

There was a time I made sure I interacted with ladies every day for like 3 years. I made sure that I must meet a woman or women everyday for interactions, friendship, etc.

I have to say this from what I learnt from this interactions:


The female world is harder than men think. The interactions between women is such that it would only take a man with heart to experience the friction that exists between women.


So coming as a woman won't solve anything. You will still have women to contend with.


During my interactions with women, I heard a lot from women which shows how women look at their gender.

Things like:

(1) I only have male friends and I don't want a female friends

(2) Don't behave like women.


(3) Women behave improperly.


(4) Why must a woman call my line?. I will rather an unknown man call me than a woman call me.


(5) After suffering for 9 month, I don't want to give birth to a girl.


(6) I will rather stay in the midst of males than in the midst of females.


There have been some occasions when a woman showed me favour first before attending to a woman, because I am a male. This is common among women in the middle age, like 40 years and above.

I went to do something once and a woman in charge ask the females to stand behind the males, so that she could attend to the males first.


So coming back as a female does not guarantee anything special.

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That's why having spiritual powers is very good.

Because many people, especially many black african males, they don't tend to know their right from their left.

Just imagine you have some spiritual powers to command thunder.


As they are trying to lynch you, you command thunder and it comes and destroy all of them.


That's why it's good to have some spiritual powers to protect yourself.

Many men are so useless that if a woman were to be the one who paid for the marriage, they would start looking down on her.

I met a woman who loves and respect men and would not hesitate to give her man all her money to please him.

But men being what they are, started hating and shunning her.

I begin to wonder how the male gender use to reason.


Is it such a woman that a man suppose to hate?


No wonder so many men end up marrying monsters as wives.


God is not mocked.

You see a good girl who loves you and respect you and you see that as a problem.


Why won't an evil woman be given you as a wife?

But when they meet their match in an evil woman, they would start complaining.

Yet when God brought a good woman his way, he thought she was cheap.

I don't hate men.

That's why even when I was a senior student in a school, I was the only male student who never beat or punish junior students because I don't like hurting a male like myself.

Even as a teacher in those days, students said I was afraid of flogging students. I didn't flog students because if I did, mostly it's males I would flog because most offenders were males. Can you imagine that for 9 years as a teacher, I was the only teacher who never flogged or punished students?

Outside the school setting, no matter what a man did, I was always the only man who would not support that he should be punished or jailed. My mother was always surprised that there was always a man I was trying to save from trouble.

But I soon discovered that I was their target for evil. Because I was not evil, they started targeting me. It is like wild animals(like hyenas) which like targeting tame animals(like zebra).




Maybe if I was also raping, stealing, robbing, doing wickedness, I would not have seen clearly what males really are. Also I would not have been their direct target.


You can only see something clearly when you are observing it outside.


So that is how I was able to see what men really are.




Males therefore hate me because I am not like them. They hate me because I am not a rapist, murderer and a criminal


God will help the male gender.


Bye all.

If both of them agree to marry, what is bad about it.

Most males rape, steal, hate and commit violence, yet their fellow males are not ashamed.

But when it comes to innocent thing like marrying an older woman, many males would be condemning it with so much energy.

If they can use that same energy to condemn rape, hatred, robbery and violence, other males would change and the world would be better.

I saw a post on groom shower on the front page and so many men are so angry about it.

Sometimes you buy food and eat and some men are very angry and ashamed that you are eating food.

Men are ashamed of all things except when it involves sex and violence.

A man who is ashamed that he is eating good food will surprisingly not be ashamed when he is trying to rape someone's child or wife.


He would not be ashamed when he is trying to poison someone just because he is doing better than him.


In my University days, I used to walk fast and men would be having problems with me walking fast. Some would call me and complained that they like seeing me walk fast. That they don't like it. One man was arrested when he used knife to kill someone. When he was released, the men around were not ashamed of him. Yet they were ashamed that I liked drinking coke and walking fast. I was their problem.


Someone received a loan which he didn't apply for from a bank. He asked on our WhatsApp platform whether anyone else had received such loan. No one answered him.

The next day some men called him and began to get angry that why must he post his personal problem. I was wondering the way men reason.

Men have problem with everything except sex, violence and wickedness.

A man who is openly bragging about sleeping with someone's wife may be very ashamed to speak about how he went on vacation.


But women are the opposite.


A woman does not have problem with anything she or another person does. She is not ashamed to buy herself good food.

She is only ashamed of someone who is wicked or evil. She is also ashamed of herself sometimes if she engages in sexual stuff.


But men would be more ashamed of a man who buys cake and drinks than a man who was caught in armed robbery.


Is it that men have subconsciously link manliness to doing daring things like robbery, wickedness and rape?

Is it that they have unconsciously link every other thing to femininity, that is why even to watch a good movie is a problem to men except the movie involves violence, wickedness and shedding of blood?

I wonder: Who did this to men? How did this kind of attitude find itself into men? How did it start?

God who created me knows that in my heart, so many times I use to be very angry and sad about how men are behaving.

I am fully persuaded that the problem of this world is the male gender.

I am speaking this because when your heart is full, you will sometimes find yourself emptying it by your statements.

I am writing this from the abundance of my heart.

I read books and I analyse things. Because of this, I have come to conclude that the male gender is the cause of how evil the world has become.

Does it not surprise you that so many laws abroad are against the male gender?


The reason is that so many people have known that men must be tamed if this world is to get better.

That is why they said it is even an offence for a strange man to touch a woman's body.


I read in a book that in some schools abroad, it's an offence to display manly attributes.


The book made us to know that men's manly attributes have so much destroy things that even some men believe that manliness is equal to criminality. Hence so many schools in the western world have laws that prevent male students from showing courage, confidence, being open minded and etc.

Their hope is that in the next few years, men would be so tamed that crimes and violence would be almost extinct.


So many white people have come to conclude that violence and manliness is one and the same thing.

God who created me knows that in my heart, so many times I use to be very angry and sad about how men are behaving.

I am fully persuaded that the problem of this world is the male gender.

I am speaking this because when your heart is full, you will sometimes find yourself emptying it by your statements.

I am writing this from the abundance of my heart.

I read books and I analyse things. Because of this, I have come to conclude that the male gender is the cause of how evil the world has become.

Does it not surprise you that so many laws abroad are against the male gender?


The reason is that so many people have known that men must be tamed if this world is to get better.

That is why they said it is even an offence for a strange man to touch a woman's body.


I read in a book that in some schools abroad, it's an offence to display manly attributes.


The book made us to know that men's manly attributes have so much destroy things that even some men believe that manliness is equal to criminality. Hence so many schools in the western world have laws that prevent male students from showing courage, confidence, being open minded and etc.

Their hope is that in the next few years, men would be so tamed that crimes and violence would be almost extinct.


So many white people have come to conclude that violence and manliness is one and the same thing.

I saw a post on groom shower on the front page and so many men are so angry about it.

Sometimes you buy food and eat and some men are very angry and ashamed that you are eating food.

Men are ashamed of everything except when it involves sex and violence.

A man who is ashamed that he is eating good food will surprisingly not be ashamed when he is trying to rape someone's child or wife.


He would not be ashamed when he is trying to poison someone just because he is doing better than him.


In my University days, I used to walk fast and men would be having problems with me walking fast. Some would call me and complained that they like seeing me walk fast. That they don't like it. One man was arrested when he used knife to kill someone. When he was released, the men around were not ashamed of him. Yet they were ashamed that I liked drinking coke and walking fast. I was their problem.


Someone received a loan which he didn't apply for from a bank. He asked on our WhatsApp platform whether anyone else had received such loan. No one answered him.

The next day some men called him and began to get angry that why must he post his personal problem. I was wondering the way men reason.

Men have problem with everything except sex, violence and wickedness.

A man who is openly bragging about sleeping with someone's wife may be very ashamed to speak about how he went on vacation.


But women are the opposite.


A woman does not have problem with anything she or another person does. She is not ashamed to buy herself good food.

She is only ashamed of someone who is wicked or evil. She is also ashamed of herself sometimes if she engages in sexual stuff.


But men would be more ashamed of a man who buys cake and drinks than a man who was caught in armed robbery.


Is it that men have subconsciously link manliness to doing daring things like robbery, wickedness and rape?

Is it that they have unconsciously link every other thing to femininity, that is why even to watch a good movie is a problem to men except the movie involves violence, wickedness and shedding of blood?

I wonder: Who did this to men? How did this kind of attitude find itself into men? How did it start?

Because someone wrote that:

If you talk to people about your problems, either they are happy that you are having problems or they don't care.

Also someone wrote:

Talk to someone about yourself or your problems, he would not really be interested.


But talk to him about himself, and he will listen to you for hours.


So everyone wants to hear something about him/herself, and not about someone else.

5. Initially, when they packed into the compound, her brother used to wash her clothes, and cook food for her to eat.


When she finished using the toilet, it's her brother who would come and flush it.

She spent her time watching films and playing noisy music.

She said she wanted to make enough money so that men would be serving her.

But some women in the adjacent neighborhood were not happy because of her pride.


So she stopped greeting them.


When her brother had a new job that required going out very early and coming back very late, she started washing her clothes and cooking.

But she refused to flush the toilet after use despite repeated warning.

Everyone just let her be, because the males around didn't want to start getting issue with a female over toilet. She was the only female around.


That's why it's good to train your child well so that when he or she grows, he or she will never be found wanting.

Good night.

When I had a federal government job in a new state, I rented one room because I couldn't see 1, 2 or 3 bedroom apartment at the moment.

3 rooms shared one toilet.

I lived near a 17 years old girl who was living with her "brother"


I heard that she rarely visit her mother in Abuja because she didn't like the way her mother and other females around were telling her to behave properly. Infact she hated seeing women around her because she thought women don't like the way she was behaving.


My experience in the compound were as follows:


1. She didn't use to flush the toilet after use because she believed it was an insult for her to flush the toilet.


2. Whenever I bought a new item like chair or mattress, she would be so sad and angry that she would be banging things and shouting at people. She would be very angry with me.



3. She was so lousy that so many times, she would put on songs that disturb the whole neighborhood. If someone talked, she would not listen.


4. She liked insulting her "brother" who would beat her. She would spend a long time crying and disturbing my peace since I lived directly opposite her. I heard that she and her "brother" were actually lovers, although they were cousins. But they told people they were brother and sister. The boy was working to feed himself and her, yet she had no respect for the boy.

What was your own experience?

Everything seems to get energy and destiny.

Throughout my primary school days, yellow house always came last in inter-house sports competitions.

No wonder scientists are speaking about dark matter.

This is an unseen energy which permeates and defines everything.

That's why things like repeating themselves because there is a force that defines and orders everything.

A man who is not handsome or rich may find that every where he goes, women are the ones asking him out.

But normally, such women don't ask men out but when they see him, they will just find themselves running after him.

That explains why things like repeating themselves to a particular person but not to other people.

Another thing that is surprising is that most men don't help a fellow man but would rather help women.

But when they have problem, it is a man they would run to for help.

Most men would not go to a woman to get help but they would rather seek help from a man.

But these are the people who like helping only women.

So if they have a need, why not go to women to seek help since it is only women you help?

Why go to a man?


If you are a man, and you help only women, why do you think another man should help you when you don't normally help a man?


I mean, it's very ironical.


Most males believe it is not proper for men to ask help from women.


They equally believe that as a man, they should help only women.


But when they have problem, they still expect a fellow man to help them.


Is it not totally ironical that you don't help another man but you expect another man to help you?


If you believe you must only help a woman, why not seek help from a woman when you also have problem?

I don't understand the irony that characterizes the life of men.

I had a misunderstanding with some motor park agberos and they gang up to beat me up.

Nobody cared to try and save me from them.

After I managed to escape, some people started blaming the agberos for "fighting with me".

I was wondering how people could call that "fighting" when I was not fighting them, but they were the ones who assaulted and beat me up.

Prior to this, a lady went to fight with one boy. She was even the one who was beating the boy while the boy was trying to cover herself from the blows.


Before you know it, many men around joined to beat up the boy. They accused the boy of beating the lady even when it was clear the lady was the one who beat the boy while he was covering himself and trying to escape.


What I observe is that even if it is a female who is assaulting a male, people tend to say it is the male who is the culprit and they'll be supporting the lady.

If a male is being assaulted by another male or males, people would say they are fighting, so that they won't feel the need to save the victim from his tormentors.

All these is done because men don't want to help a fellow man.

Maybe things like that happen often.

That's why the student is bold enough to do this.

It is possible that in the school curriculum, students are permitted to do anything that would make them happy or relaxed enough to understand the lectures.


It doesn't mean that everyone on Earth must act as a Nigerian.

There are different ways of doing things which are not known in Nigeria.

Buhari has been interacting with different world leaders, why didn't all of them lose?