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HealthRe: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by lecturer50(m):
Let him not kill himself.
Let me tell you something about myself:

When I was 14 years old, people use to think I was above 40 years.

Everywhere I went, they use to call me sir,oga, daddy, etc.

When I got to SS1, people in SS3 were so surprised that a papa could come to school and one of them was asking me why I chose not to go to school when my mates were going to school in those days.

But I was only 15 years.

But surprisingly,by the time I entered University at the age of 22, all those things reversed itself.

I suddenly started looking like a 10 year old boy at the age of 22.

I don't know how to explain it or make people to believe me.

But I am speaking the truth.

In University, some JSS3 boys that use to sell something inside the school, would be saying that I was their age mate. That how come I am in the University.

In my department, everyone said I was the youngest.

I think I was being compensated for those days when I looked way older than my age.

At the age of 24, while still in the University,I applied for a security guard job at Hamilton.

They were looking for security guard to protect globacom mask that was in my compound.

I thought it would be best for me to do the job, since I was living inside the compound where the mask was.

But I was denied the job because they said I was too young to be a security man.

They said I was lying when I said I was 24.

During my NYSC, some girls were teasing me that how come my mom allowed me to go for NYSC, since I was very small.

Now, I have returned to normal.

I no longer look like a small boy, neither do I look old.

I now look my age.

So the person should not kill himself.

God will make it up to him one day.
TravelRe: Narrative Of A Journey From Sokoto To Akwa Ibom by lecturer50(m): 7:22pm On May 06, 2021
Post more pictures if you can.
RomanceRe: Why Do Females Lose Their Sweethearted Nature When They Grow Older? by lecturer50(op): 10:16pm On Apr 18, 2021
vanvickie:
After so many break ups and relationships where she felt cheated. She'll change her nature because she will feel being sweet equals been vulnerable. But in reality it's just her relationship experiences messing with her psychology and perception of things...
That's why younger ladies 19-24 tend to be "more sweethearted" than the older ones 25 and above.
My take though...
That is exactly what I was thinking.
RomanceRe: I Am Attracted To Women Who Like Teasing Me, by lecturer50(op): 9:06pm On Apr 18, 2021
Cholls:
My brother your diick is hard now
What I am saying has nothing to do with what you are saying.
RomanceWhy Do Females Lose Their Sweethearted Nature When They Grow Older? by lecturer50(op): 8:52pm On Apr 18, 2021
I went for an interview in a private school when I was still searching for job.

A female teacher of the school was asked to supervise the written exams before the interview.

She was very gracious and was somehow shy.

Since there were so many applicants around, she would be touching her head because she was somehow shy.

She brought paper for us to write our names and was very conscious of her actions so that people would not feel offended.

Even when one man wrongly wrote his name, she said something like "please write it here" in such a gentle and low voice so as not to offend the man, even though the man was at fault.

Her gentleness, soft spoken nature and wanting to please us was easily noticed by all people.




But surprisingly some people started attacking her because they thought she was vulnerable.

I was ready to defend her from everyone there who was trying to take out their frustration due to joblessness on her(we were over 150, and the school needed about 20 people, so everyone was angry and saw her as their target)

Another person in the girl's shoes would have been proud and insulting since she is already a staff, but we are trying to get in.

But she was so humble and kind.

I really loved her and she is among the amazing girls who are the lights in a dark world of pride and hatred, where everyone is trying to offend every other person.

She could not have been up to 25 years.

She was really a sweethearted girl.

But I am sure that after some years, she would change.

Why do ladies lose their sweethearted nature when they start growing older?
RomanceRe: I Am Attracted To Women Who Like Teasing Me, by lecturer50(op): 8:11pm On Apr 18, 2021
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RomanceRe: I Am Attracted To Women Who Like Teasing Me, by lecturer50(op): 7:56pm On Apr 18, 2021
It seems also that I only love women who are wild in nature, but managed to focus their attention on me, teasing me.

There was a girl in our primary school days who liked finding me trouble.

She was wild and liked attacking people.

But she soon started putting her attention on me.

Somehow I saw her attitude towards me as love.

That was when I first discovered that I love such females.
RomanceI Am Attracted To Women Who Like Teasing Me, by lecturer50(op): 7:54pm On Apr 18, 2021
I observed that I easily fall in love with women who like teasing me.

There was a woman who liked saying to me in our local dialet "Someone's husband" whenever I was passing.

Very soon I find myself being in love with her.

I observed that all through my life, I only fall for women who like teasing me in one way or another.


Even if the teasing involves abuses, I love it.


Like a girl who likes to slap my back when I was in the University.

I was greatly in love with her.


I even thought I would marry her.

The summary is that I love women who like to act stronger than me and like teasing me always.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Are They Always Very Angry During Fasting? by lecturer50(m): 11:49pm On Apr 14, 2021
iboboyswag:
Good afternoon... Please I saw you said you had TRCN past questions, can you share them with me. Please.
I bought it N2000 from someone who sent it to me via WhatsApp.
After sometime, the thing is not opening again.
There is the message that the file is missing.
I am trying to see if the guy would resend it this time to my email.
I have been pleading with him to resend it since it seems as if there was a time frame for which it would open.
It seems as if the previous one has expired.
I don't know how they do it.

Maybe the past questions has duration after which it would expire so that you can rebuy it.

And you know the worst thing that can happen to you is to put yourself at someone's mercy.
He would surely deal with you.
The man has been showing me hell ever since I told him to resend the past questions since the other one he sent has expired.

It is just that people are waiting for opportunity to show the darkness that is in their hearts.
That is why the guy has been mocking me ever since I pleaded with him to help me resend it to my email since I know that one would not expire as the one sent to WhatsApp.

I have given him the opportunity which he has been looking for; opportunity to be mean and wicked.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Are They Always Very Angry During Fasting? by lecturer50(m): 8:15am On Apr 14, 2021
beauty7:
I am not talking about kindness sir.

There are kind people in every religion.

In Sokoto, I have met kind Hausa Muslims, just as I have met kind Christians down south.

Also during my stay in the core north,there was a Hausa man around whom I helped with money every time.

Hausa Muslims also help Christians from my experience.

I am only talking of anger during fasting.

If you are not careful during this Ramadan, you could be attacked in the north.

There is always the tendency to pick quarrels during this time and it is frequent to see 2 Hausa people exchanging blows during this period.

I was always very careful during this period, so that no one would blow this my big head.
If someone is fasting, the devil would want to tempt the person.That is the reason.
EducationRe: Trcn Examinations 2017-2020 Past Questions by lecturer50(m): 7:00am On Apr 08, 2021
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I have the questions and answers already.

I bought it for N2000 only.

But I don't know if your own is different.

If I can see only one page of your own so as to know if to buy it or not.

I don't want to buy the same thing two times.
EducationRe: Trcn Examinations 2017-2020 Past Questions by lecturer50(m): 6:59am On Apr 08, 2021
I have the questions and answers already.

I bought it for N2000 only.

But I don't know if your own is different.

If I can see only one page of your own so as to know if to buy it or not.

I don't want to buy the same thing two times.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 6:43pm On Apr 07, 2021
SimplyFacts:
I don't know why I find this post irritating, maybe it's due to culture differences anyway. OP & his siblings should just discuss on who (amongst the children) would take Mama in while OP takes care of her health. Don't be worried about what the family would say if possibly God calls Mama anytime soon,,,, na you be her children & God knows you have done your best. Tell any relative that wants to sound stupid to go to hell angry



It does not happen to every family, abeg.

May God grant those who experience such a total deliverance.
Amen.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 6:40pm On Apr 07, 2021
Coolcalmcollect:
lol no be must to associate with stupid family oh, block their line and delete dem from all sm, they owe you nothing, not even your mom. get that fact straight
Thanks for the advice.

The only person that I owe love is my mum with our nuclear family.

As long as I can,I will take care of her and my other siblings.

I will do it voluntarily, not under compulsion and not under entitlement mentality from my nuclear family.

But the other members of the extended family should not see themselves as my responsibility.

Thanks.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 6:35pm On Apr 07, 2021
Iseoluwani:
resign ke, no try am. are u the only child?
Be wary of ur uncle ooo

above all start praying oook


guy start to dey pray



Like some one said get a small provision for ur mum but let your extended family know u are not their responsibility. if u can bring ur mum to ur place. that will better.
Thank you so much.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 6:33pm On Apr 07, 2021
neutrotoba:
Bro, check that person wey talk say make you go resign.

Go evaluate am spiritually
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 6:32pm On Apr 07, 2021
Nzel:
Just follow the steps of your siblings. Provide for your mum as much as you can and whenever you want to call her, switch on your old love and use it after which you will switch it off. I guess she didn't die as your siblings are following that step but your uncle obviously wants to use your mum to run you down. Finally, don't even think of quitting your job. Similar thing happened to me so I repeat, don't think of quitting your job. You will still be mocked once you stop providing for them the moment you run dry while staying in the village.
Thank you ma.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 6:31pm On Apr 07, 2021
Fairbanks:
The devil that want to ruin ur destiny and bring u down to thrash is using ur mum to set trap for u and ur uncle that advised u to resign and come back to village is their agent and masterpiece. if u like fall in trap and go and experience d other side of life of total detection and humiliation in d village. ur only solution is to severe ur tie from all of them right now and make sure u send whatever u have in capacity to ur mum and not carry it totally in ur shoulder u are not the one she gave birth to. but if u despise this advice I will tell u my four years hellic experience of what u are planning to fall into. The worst part of it is that the team that brought u down to village will be ur worst nightmare when u fall. Be careful!
Thanks sir.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 6:30pm On Apr 07, 2021
frozen70:
Don't switch your phone

Don't resign, they want your downfall

Keep sending money and keep t NG e physical receipts

Come one weekend see your mum and go back very quickly that same weekend

Don't give any one cash, just send it so that there won't contact with your raw cash and them by hand

If God wants he keep your mum

If they want let them dis own you

Don't get intimidated
Thanks for the encouragement.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 6:29pm On Apr 07, 2021
Ceenacks:
Dump this belief. Its only imagined by you. There is no truth in this. Doesnt happen. Just be prayerful.

In life, you can never solve everyone's problems. Choose how to help when and at the extent you can. And learn a deferral line to use, when you cant help. Relative A doesnt knw you just finished helping relative B, and would never remember nor care to know. Its natural. Everybody needs care when it calls on him or her. So you are at the pivot, you learn how to balance the scale while you stil remain standing.
Use wisdom
Thanks sir.
CareerRe: Do You Need To Earn Extra Income Without Quitting Your Job? by lecturer50(m): 4:30pm On Apr 04, 2021
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FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 3:40pm On Apr 04, 2021
I thank everyone for the comments.

They are very helpful.

If it were possible, I would have replied all the comments.

Thank you everyone who took out time to give an advice,or an encouragement.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 11:29pm On Apr 03, 2021
Oizee:
don't mind that guy, this your issue is synonymous to what's happening to me presently. I wish you well in making the right decisions.

most of the numbers on my blocked list are my family members.... I'm sick and tired of their never ending demands...
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 11:28pm On Apr 03, 2021
1F30M4:
Look dear, don't ever give in to the call to resign.. Even your ailing mum wouldn't urge you to do that, alwayss those onkuu agbayas ati awon ebi alainironu

You & your siblings should try and get a caregiver for mama, that way you're sure your mum is well taken care of.. Keep constant communication going.. Travel home anytime you can, same with your siblings, spend time with mama.. Orrr better still bring mama to yours, get a help that will assist mama all the time.. Mama can even be rotating from one of your siblings house to the another, whichever, y'all need to talk about it

Preferably, if mama can come stay with you or any of your siblings, you'd have taken away that power/right those relatives feel they have, they'll be sooo pissed haha I'll pay to see their reaction lol jk.. In the meantime, for you to have peace of mind, I suggest you change your line.. Only mama & her caregiver should know about it and make it clear that on no account should they give it out to anybody without your consent.
Ok.

Thank you.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 10:19pm On Apr 03, 2021
NoToPile:
Your siblings are smart, some relatives are better handled with this method.


Whatever you do don't resign your job, that's their way ooo.

At worse you will move mama to live with you or your siblings.
That is what I am looking at doing.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 10:18pm On Apr 03, 2021
Klass99:
Your siblings are interesting and funny, I don't blame them at all.

But, what happens in an emergency where they need to be reached for a valid reason?

Can you bring your mum to your base to stay with you for some time and find good help to cook/care for her, while you are at work? That's if none of your siblings can accompany her
I am considering that.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 10:16pm On Apr 03, 2021
NoToPile:
Your siblings are smart, some relatives are better handled with this method.


Whatever you do don't resign your job, that's their way ooo.

At worse you will move mama to live with you or your siblings.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 10:14pm On Apr 03, 2021
Mindlog:
Based on her age and health status, I would suggest you and your siblings see to it that you get someone to stay with her to help prepare her meals, do her laundry , general cleaning and most importantly make sure she religiously adheres to her medication.

You know the financial strength of each of your siblings, do encourage them to contribute accordingly to support your mum's assisted living as it would help you all have the peace of mind knowing your mum is not alone and being cared for.
Alright
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 10:12pm On Apr 03, 2021
ImaIma1:
Are you the only child?

If you resign to go and stay by her side, where will the money come from for the bills?

What have her relatives done for her except to drag you because you have a job?

Our African culture makes it frustrating for one family member to do well. He has to carry the weight of the whole family upon his shoulders and they won't appreciate it. Instead, they think it's their entitlement.

Someone is saying he should set up a provision store, another is saying he should send half of his salary. Is it that easy to set up a store like that? How will the sick mum run the store? When family members run it to the ground, they will come back and expect you to vomit out more money for another business.

Please keep helping your mum as much as you can. But quitting your job to go and take care of her is not a good move because money will be needed.
Ok
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 8:33pm On Apr 03, 2021
Richy4:
I don't want to read meanings into @ bold because it won't be in your favor buddy.... But the bottom line is do the best that you can for your mother if you have... because you don't have another mother... As for family members who felt that they have struck gold , Hit the ignore button... but your parents should not be neglected no matter what...
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 8:33pm On Apr 03, 2021
samyj2477:
good, just take care of ur mum. try to call her if possible daily until her mind is calm. You guys should just beware of that man. He doesn't have good plans for u. See, I am a Psychologist, I know what I am saying. Have a good evening.
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by lecturer50(op): 8:32pm On Apr 03, 2021
Mindlog:
Are you her only child? Who is presently her care giver in the villager?
She is living alone.

I am not the only child.

There are others trying to make ends meet at different places in Nigeria.

I am the only one whose phone is always on whenever they are calling me from the village.

Others have got new lines which they don't want the other relatives to know due to their disturbance.

Whenever they visit my mom, they would stay with her and then go back.

If any of my relatives ask for their numbers, they give their old lines which they only switch on when they are in the village,

claiming that where they are working, their lines do not go through, since they are in remote areas.

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