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That's why having spiritual powers is very good.

Because many people, especially many black african males, they don't tend to know their right from their left.

Just imagine you have some spiritual powers to command thunder.


As they are trying to lynch you, you command thunder and it comes and destroy all of them.


That's why it's good to have some spiritual powers to protect yourself.

Many men are so useless that if a woman were to be the one who paid for the marriage, they would start looking down on her.

I met a woman who loves and respect men and would not hesitate to give her man all her money to please him.

But men being what they are, started hating and shunning her.

I begin to wonder how the male gender use to reason.


Is it such a woman that a man suppose to hate?


No wonder so many men end up marrying monsters as wives.


God is not mocked.

You see a good girl who loves you and respect you and you see that as a problem.


Why won't an evil woman be given you as a wife?

But when they meet their match in an evil woman, they would start complaining.

Yet when God brought a good woman his way, he thought she was cheap.

I don't hate men.

That's why even when I was a senior student in a school, I was the only male student who never beat or punish junior students because I don't like hurting a male like myself.

Even as a teacher in those days, students said I was afraid of flogging students. I didn't flog students because if I did, mostly it's males I would flog because most offenders were males. Can you imagine that for 9 years as a teacher, I was the only teacher who never flogged or punished students?

Outside the school setting, no matter what a man did, I was always the only man who would not support that he should be punished or jailed. My mother was always surprised that there was always a man I was trying to save from trouble.

But I soon discovered that I was their target for evil. Because I was not evil, they started targeting me. It is like wild animals(like hyenas) which like targeting tame animals(like zebra).




Maybe if I was also raping, stealing, robbing, doing wickedness, I would not have seen clearly what males really are. Also I would not have been their direct target.


You can only see something clearly when you are observing it outside.


So that is how I was able to see what men really are.




Males therefore hate me because I am not like them. They hate me because I am not a rapist, murderer and a criminal


God will help the male gender.


Bye all.

If both of them agree to marry, what is bad about it.

Most males rape, steal, hate and commit violence, yet their fellow males are not ashamed.

But when it comes to innocent thing like marrying an older woman, many males would be condemning it with so much energy.

If they can use that same energy to condemn rape, hatred, robbery and violence, other males would change and the world would be better.

I saw a post on groom shower on the front page and so many men are so angry about it.

Sometimes you buy food and eat and some men are very angry and ashamed that you are eating food.

Men are ashamed of all things except when it involves sex and violence.

A man who is ashamed that he is eating good food will surprisingly not be ashamed when he is trying to rape someone's child or wife.


He would not be ashamed when he is trying to poison someone just because he is doing better than him.


In my University days, I used to walk fast and men would be having problems with me walking fast. Some would call me and complained that they like seeing me walk fast. That they don't like it. One man was arrested when he used knife to kill someone. When he was released, the men around were not ashamed of him. Yet they were ashamed that I liked drinking coke and walking fast. I was their problem.


Someone received a loan which he didn't apply for from a bank. He asked on our WhatsApp platform whether anyone else had received such loan. No one answered him.

The next day some men called him and began to get angry that why must he post his personal problem. I was wondering the way men reason.

Men have problem with everything except sex, violence and wickedness.

A man who is openly bragging about sleeping with someone's wife may be very ashamed to speak about how he went on vacation.


But women are the opposite.


A woman does not have problem with anything she or another person does. She is not ashamed to buy herself good food.

She is only ashamed of someone who is wicked or evil. She is also ashamed of herself sometimes if she engages in sexual stuff.


But men would be more ashamed of a man who buys cake and drinks than a man who was caught in armed robbery.


Is it that men have subconsciously link manliness to doing daring things like robbery, wickedness and rape?

Is it that they have unconsciously link every other thing to femininity, that is why even to watch a good movie is a problem to men except the movie involves violence, wickedness and shedding of blood?

I wonder: Who did this to men? How did this kind of attitude find itself into men? How did it start?

God who created me knows that in my heart, so many times I use to be very angry and sad about how men are behaving.

I am fully persuaded that the problem of this world is the male gender.

I am speaking this because when your heart is full, you will sometimes find yourself emptying it by your statements.

I am writing this from the abundance of my heart.

I read books and I analyse things. Because of this, I have come to conclude that the male gender is the cause of how evil the world has become.

Does it not surprise you that so many laws abroad are against the male gender?


The reason is that so many people have known that men must be tamed if this world is to get better.

That is why they said it is even an offence for a strange man to touch a woman's body.


I read in a book that in some schools abroad, it's an offence to display manly attributes.


The book made us to know that men's manly attributes have so much destroy things that even some men believe that manliness is equal to criminality. Hence so many schools in the western world have laws that prevent male students from showing courage, confidence, being open minded and etc.

Their hope is that in the next few years, men would be so tamed that crimes and violence would be almost extinct.


So many white people have come to conclude that violence and manliness is one and the same thing.

God who created me knows that in my heart, so many times I use to be very angry and sad about how men are behaving.

I am fully persuaded that the problem of this world is the male gender.

I am speaking this because when your heart is full, you will sometimes find yourself emptying it by your statements.

I am writing this from the abundance of my heart.

I read books and I analyse things. Because of this, I have come to conclude that the male gender is the cause of how evil the world has become.

Does it not surprise you that so many laws abroad are against the male gender?


The reason is that so many people have known that men must be tamed if this world is to get better.

That is why they said it is even an offence for a strange man to touch a woman's body.


I read in a book that in some schools abroad, it's an offence to display manly attributes.


The book made us to know that men's manly attributes have so much destroy things that even some men believe that manliness is equal to criminality. Hence so many schools in the western world have laws that prevent male students from showing courage, confidence, being open minded and etc.

Their hope is that in the next few years, men would be so tamed that crimes and violence would be almost extinct.


So many white people have come to conclude that violence and manliness is one and the same thing.

I saw a post on groom shower on the front page and so many men are so angry about it.

Sometimes you buy food and eat and some men are very angry and ashamed that you are eating food.

Men are ashamed of everything except when it involves sex and violence.

A man who is ashamed that he is eating good food will surprisingly not be ashamed when he is trying to rape someone's child or wife.


He would not be ashamed when he is trying to poison someone just because he is doing better than him.


In my University days, I used to walk fast and men would be having problems with me walking fast. Some would call me and complained that they like seeing me walk fast. That they don't like it. One man was arrested when he used knife to kill someone. When he was released, the men around were not ashamed of him. Yet they were ashamed that I liked drinking coke and walking fast. I was their problem.


Someone received a loan which he didn't apply for from a bank. He asked on our WhatsApp platform whether anyone else had received such loan. No one answered him.

The next day some men called him and began to get angry that why must he post his personal problem. I was wondering the way men reason.

Men have problem with everything except sex, violence and wickedness.

A man who is openly bragging about sleeping with someone's wife may be very ashamed to speak about how he went on vacation.


But women are the opposite.


A woman does not have problem with anything she or another person does. She is not ashamed to buy herself good food.

She is only ashamed of someone who is wicked or evil. She is also ashamed of herself sometimes if she engages in sexual stuff.


But men would be more ashamed of a man who buys cake and drinks than a man who was caught in armed robbery.


Is it that men have subconsciously link manliness to doing daring things like robbery, wickedness and rape?

Is it that they have unconsciously link every other thing to femininity, that is why even to watch a good movie is a problem to men except the movie involves violence, wickedness and shedding of blood?

I wonder: Who did this to men? How did this kind of attitude find itself into men? How did it start?

Because someone wrote that:

If you talk to people about your problems, either they are happy that you are having problems or they don't care.

Also someone wrote:

Talk to someone about yourself or your problems, he would not really be interested.


But talk to him about himself, and he will listen to you for hours.


So everyone wants to hear something about him/herself, and not about someone else.

5. Initially, when they packed into the compound, her brother used to wash her clothes, and cook food for her to eat.


When she finished using the toilet, it's her brother who would come and flush it.

She spent her time watching films and playing noisy music.

She said she wanted to make enough money so that men would be serving her.

But some women in the adjacent neighborhood were not happy because of her pride.


So she stopped greeting them.


When her brother had a new job that required going out very early and coming back very late, she started washing her clothes and cooking.

But she refused to flush the toilet after use despite repeated warning.

Everyone just let her be, because the males around didn't want to start getting issue with a female over toilet. She was the only female around.


That's why it's good to train your child well so that when he or she grows, he or she will never be found wanting.

Good night.

When I had a federal government job in a new state, I rented one room because I couldn't see 1, 2 or 3 bedroom apartment at the moment.

3 rooms shared one toilet.

I lived near a 17 years old girl who was living with her "brother"


I heard that she rarely visit her mother in Abuja because she didn't like the way her mother and other females around were telling her to behave properly. Infact she hated seeing women around her because she thought women don't like the way she was behaving.


My experience in the compound were as follows:


1. She didn't use to flush the toilet after use because she believed it was an insult for her to flush the toilet.


2. Whenever I bought a new item like chair or mattress, she would be so sad and angry that she would be banging things and shouting at people. She would be very angry with me.



3. She was so lousy that so many times, she would put on songs that disturb the whole neighborhood. If someone talked, she would not listen.


4. She liked insulting her "brother" who would beat her. She would spend a long time crying and disturbing my peace since I lived directly opposite her. I heard that she and her "brother" were actually lovers, although they were cousins. But they told people they were brother and sister. The boy was working to feed himself and her, yet she had no respect for the boy.

What was your own experience?

Everything seems to get energy and destiny.

Throughout my primary school days, yellow house always came last in inter-house sports competitions.

No wonder scientists are speaking about dark matter.

This is an unseen energy which permeates and defines everything.

That's why things like repeating themselves because there is a force that defines and orders everything.

A man who is not handsome or rich may find that every where he goes, women are the ones asking him out.

But normally, such women don't ask men out but when they see him, they will just find themselves running after him.

That explains why things like repeating themselves to a particular person but not to other people.

Another thing that is surprising is that most men don't help a fellow man but would rather help women.

But when they have problem, it is a man they would run to for help.

Most men would not go to a woman to get help but they would rather seek help from a man.

But these are the people who like helping only women.

So if they have a need, why not go to women to seek help since it is only women you help?

Why go to a man?


If you are a man, and you help only women, why do you think another man should help you when you don't normally help a man?


I mean, it's very ironical.


Most males believe it is not proper for men to ask help from women.


They equally believe that as a man, they should help only women.


But when they have problem, they still expect a fellow man to help them.


Is it not totally ironical that you don't help another man but you expect another man to help you?


If you believe you must only help a woman, why not seek help from a woman when you also have problem?

I don't understand the irony that characterizes the life of men.

I had a misunderstanding with some motor park agberos and they gang up to beat me up.

Nobody cared to try and save me from them.

After I managed to escape, some people started blaming the agberos for "fighting with me".

I was wondering how people could call that "fighting" when I was not fighting them, but they were the ones who assaulted and beat me up.

Prior to this, a lady went to fight with one boy. She was even the one who was beating the boy while the boy was trying to cover herself from the blows.


Before you know it, many men around joined to beat up the boy. They accused the boy of beating the lady even when it was clear the lady was the one who beat the boy while he was covering himself and trying to escape.


What I observe is that even if it is a female who is assaulting a male, people tend to say it is the male who is the culprit and they'll be supporting the lady.

If a male is being assaulted by another male or males, people would say they are fighting, so that they won't feel the need to save the victim from his tormentors.

All these is done because men don't want to help a fellow man.

Maybe things like that happen often.

That's why the student is bold enough to do this.

It is possible that in the school curriculum, students are permitted to do anything that would make them happy or relaxed enough to understand the lectures.


It doesn't mean that everyone on Earth must act as a Nigerian.

There are different ways of doing things which are not known in Nigeria.

Buhari has been interacting with different world leaders, why didn't all of them lose?

When they talk of women being used for rituals, people think it is men who are the perpetrators.

But from discoveries so far, even women who want to use someone would most likely use another woman.

She most times would not use a man.

How do you explain a case where a bus was taking innocent people on the road.

Unknown to those innocent people, they were being taken for slaughter.

When they reached a point, one of the female ritualist inside the bus announced that the few males inside the bus should be allowed to go free.


Only the females were then taken for the slaughter.

The female ritualists also say that their rituals need mostly women.





We need to rise up against all ritualists and destroy them from this Earth.

Those people are demonic and must be destroyed.

drightguy:
They have seen it all. It's now beyond sex.

Exactly.

yusluvad:
As more responsibilities begin to creep in, drive for sexual urges, will began to shrink/reduce drastically...

Alright.

Mrkumareze:
Like the guy above me said, at 35 to 40, any sensible man ll reason things that re more important. Sex drive reduces when you have more responsibilities

Ok.

Thanks.

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culf:
Maturity, better self control, being responsible etc.

Ok.

Thanks.

I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.

Tunisia must make sure they carry that cup or else....

They cannot just stop Nigeria for nothing.

It is like a child always crying for food. One day, the mum fill the pot with food and threaten to whip the child if he doesn't finish the food.

Of course, the child could not finish the food and was severely beaten.

So Tunisia must carry this cup if they don't want trouble.

Rinoxy:
Can't say in terms of percentage but it's always about 3k yearly.

I think so because I saw 3k increment in last January's salary.

Every January, we are one step higher that is why there is 3k increment.

mustyy:
it depends on your level, some 3k, 6k, or even morethan that.

Ok. Thanks.

Rinoxy:
It may be the yearly increment calculation that's causing the delay. Just may be.

Please do you know what percent of the total salary is the yearly increment.

An outsider crying more than the bereaved.

Nigerians have nothing to lose.

It is only the players who have something to lose because by winning, they could have increased their market value and maybe their finances.


If they had won, ordinary Nigerians would have had nothing to gain except feeling good over a win that would only have favoured the players.

Yet you will see someone killing himself, losing sleep, losing happiness, etc, over this.

Some people are crying more than the players themselves.

Some will resort to fighting and wounding themselves while the players themselves are in their comfortable houses relaxing.

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