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When they talk of women being used for rituals, people think it is men who are the perpetrators.

But from discoveries so far, even women who want to use someone would most likely use another woman.

She most times would not use a man.

How do you explain a case where a bus was taking innocent people on the road.

Unknown to those innocent people, they were being taken for slaughter.

When they reached a point, one of the female ritualist inside the bus announced that the few males inside the bus should be allowed to go free.


Only the females were then taken for the slaughter.

The female ritualists also say that their rituals need mostly women.





We need to rise up against all ritualists and destroy them from this Earth.

Those people are demonic and must be destroyed.

drightguy:
They have seen it all. It's now beyond sex.

Exactly.

yusluvad:
As more responsibilities begin to creep in, drive for sexual urges, will began to shrink/reduce drastically...

Alright.

Mrkumareze:
Like the guy above me said, at 35 to 40, any sensible man ll reason things that re more important. Sex drive reduces when you have more responsibilities

Ok.

Thanks.

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culf:
Maturity, better self control, being responsible etc.

Ok.

Thanks.

I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.

Tunisia must make sure they carry that cup or else....

They cannot just stop Nigeria for nothing.

It is like a child always crying for food. One day, the mum fill the pot with food and threaten to whip the child if he doesn't finish the food.

Of course, the child could not finish the food and was severely beaten.

So Tunisia must carry this cup if they don't want trouble.

Rinoxy:
Can't say in terms of percentage but it's always about 3k yearly.

I think so because I saw 3k increment in last January's salary.

Every January, we are one step higher that is why there is 3k increment.

mustyy:
it depends on your level, some 3k, 6k, or even morethan that.

Ok. Thanks.

Rinoxy:
It may be the yearly increment calculation that's causing the delay. Just may be.

Please do you know what percent of the total salary is the yearly increment.

An outsider crying more than the bereaved.

Nigerians have nothing to lose.

It is only the players who have something to lose because by winning, they could have increased their market value and maybe their finances.


If they had won, ordinary Nigerians would have had nothing to gain except feeling good over a win that would only have favoured the players.

Yet you will see someone killing himself, losing sleep, losing happiness, etc, over this.

Some people are crying more than the players themselves.

Some will resort to fighting and wounding themselves while the players themselves are in their comfortable houses relaxing.

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ngwababe:
Same thing he jusy said, you don dey accuse him too. Must everyone approach issues same way as yours? The lady simply lied against him, and it's not good.

Thanks.

nenyewrites:
I laughed when he was happy he bought bed for 95000 naira. He is definitely living among low lives. That's why they reason in such low way. I'm sure they're lots of illiterates amongst them.

Yes. I bought it and I am happy about it.

It was actually sold for N120,000 and I bought it at the last price for N95,000.


I don't pretend to be what I am not.

Go and buy your own if you can.

I don't pretend to be what I am not online.

It is people like you who abuse others to make it appear you are better financially or otherwise, when actually you are nothing.

You can continue your pretence.

KingOfTheDamned:
Thank you for your kind words and for sharing this with us comrade

You are welcome.

Munzy14:
Relocate from the place you are living now...Their is envy and hatred brewing against you..Do that fast before you get caught up in a mess...

Those low fools have marked you as a cash cow...Imagine a foolish guy sending a fool he is banging to come and borrow from you and they conspired to blackmail you...Damn! Which kind public yard you dey so..

Number one rule of the life, never bleep anyone in that environment. E go finish your respect.

Don't borrow.

Then, your neighbours are working hard to spoil your reputation which matters most in your existence..

By confronting the lady, you have turned her dirty plans for you against her, hehehehe she is deadlier now than a king cobra.

Ok.

Thanks. I will soon relocate when my rent is due.

kingsceedon:
Op don't bother yourself anymore, if nobody believes you, I do believe you, those holes are nothing but a traitors, keep your precious DICK in one place ooo if you want to live longer, a word is a enough for the wise

Thanks.

That is a good advice.

Dizzyyish:
Cc lecturer50 KingOfTheDamned

Ok.

KingOfTheDamned:
This thread really touched alot of us men. Bless you comrade lecturer50 for being brave enough to share your story with us. You inspired me to share mine and I hope it inspires others to share theirs too.

Comrades we have been silent too long. NIGERIAN women have really dealt with us and unfortunately it's fellow men who fail us in our time of need.

Several years ago I worked in one of the top companies in Lagos in VICTORIA ISLAND to be precise.

I was the team lead, amongst my team was a young lady , who just joined the company . She was the sort who dresses very seductively and such .

Okay one evening after closing hours I was still in the office and she walks in and says she wants to have a chat with me. I asked her to sit , she then proceeds to tell me how she is very secretive, she is someone who can keep a secret and no matter what if she has anything to do with her superior no staff with hear.

I smiled and said thank you for the information but I am not about that life.

She left. Fast forward 3 months later to the end of the quarter, her appraisal was so poor because frankly she was terrible at the job.

She storms into my office later that day angry asked why I rated her a D.. (Appraisals are scored A to F based on performance) I immediately cautioned her not to raise her voice and sit down. She sat down reluctantly and I went over all the work areas I had been telling her through out the quarter where she needed improvement and yet she had made no effort to improve. She left angrily and slammed the door.

Now there was a report she was due to submit , the next day being a Friday she didn't and she left rhe office .. so I sent her a query . On Saturday she called me at home saying saying she saw the email query I gave her that she won't respond to it.

Comrades I got to work on Monday as usual , then around 12 noon I got an email from the human resources manager that I have been invited to a disciplinary panel for gross misconduct of sexual harassment . That same Monday by 3 pm in the conference room. I thought it was a joke, I immediately went to the HRMs office she was with the CEO they were having a meeting and I noticed that lady was in the office too.

I decided not to talk with anyone else so it doesn't seem like I am trying to use my relationship with the CEO to get favor which I felt would make me look guilty.

So comrades I went before the panel... of 5 and the lady was called in and she started crying recounting how I have been asking her to sleep with me since she joined the company but she has been refusing. As a result I have sworn to frustrate her out of the company !!! I nearly fainted in my seat.

She said she had witnesses , I was feeling dizzy with shock and disbelief!! I was asked to speak, my people I lost it. I told them I was innocent that she should call her witnesses, I couldn't hold it in I started shouting ..

Eventually they called in their witnesses who only said they saw her enter my office on several occasions o!! which is those times she comes for work or to discuss her weaknesses on the job.

My people... I was summoned back and told they didn't find sufficient evidence what she said was true but I will have to step down as unit head for fear that I will want to get revenge on her for attempting 5o slander me. I refused and demanded her sack to which they objected .

I rejected that and told them I would resign instead. The HRM begged me not to, the CEO who was a personal friend to me. I went atraight tobsee him, my Comrades I was crying like a baby... not for the job no, but because I was innocent and I know he knew I asked him why didn't you stand up for me? .. he said , guy I know you are innocent , everyone on the panel knows you are innocent but as you know this is a multi national , all the foreign board members are white women and this girl cried to one of them and they want justice for her so they want me to move to manage another department while the lady will be suspended.

I resigned and till tomorrow this affected my relationship with that comrade.

He should have stood as the Nigerian CEO and said no!! This man is innocent and sacked the lady ...

So to add to what our dear comrade said pls, We need to start standing for each other as men. LIKE A COMRADE said if they Come for your fellow man and you keep silent when they come for you no one with speak


I dedicate this post to my fellow comrades FanOfMyself , jditimiya and others

This is a very touching story Sir.

That is why I always pray for men occupying leadership positions.

I believe you will get a better leadership position somewhere else.


This is not the first time something like this is happening.

I remember when I was teaching in a private secondary school, the manager had similar experience when a lady accused him falsely and I am a witness that the lady was lying.

After the man cried and begged the lady to recant her accusation, she refused. She only recanted her allegations when the man threatened to solve the issue with a juju/charm/swearing of oath.

She recanted saying that the man was not disturbing him for sex, but the man liked touching her on the back which she interpreted to mean he wanted to sleep with her.

But I reminded everyone that even me as a man, the man liked touching my back.

He was tall and huge and like touching everyone who came close to him. Very friendly man. The proprietress wanted to sack the girl after she revealed she was lying, but the man intervened.



Thanks for sharing this Sir.

DroppingLiquid:
We know people like him. They talk tough outside, but they worship pussy like no tomorrow.

Ok.

angelfallz:
God bless you for that quote.

Amen.

Thanks.

noisy45:
You see one good rule I have kept in life is I don't borrow women money I rather dash them the minimum I dash any woman which is 2k and it will never exceed 5k. See I have learnt a terrible lesson borrowing women money and trying to get them to pay back the money it's in there DNA to outsmart you with every moves either to pay that money with there body, or favour they have done to you in the past or slander you so that you can forget about collecting the money.

This post is very educative.

Perfecttouchade:
wow , I'm speechless reading this because these type of women are very much out there ...it is well bro, I understand that feeling, understand that truth always prevail..it is well with u bro ...

Amen.

Thanks.

FreeStuffsNG:
Ghosh!!! Which kind of folks do you surround yourself with like this
In life, 2 things make you: books you read and the kind of people who surround you. You need to get out of that place or just limit your interaction to the least possible.
God!!!

Ok.

Thanks.

money121:
The future is female that's how one of them scam me of my hard earned money 2m+

SEE FACE OF SERIAL FRAUDSTER ON Nairaland SEE HERE >> https://www.nairaland.com/1173970/scam-alert-omowunmi-allen-pre-order/87

Sorry for your lost.

God will replenish everything for you.

AlphaAlex:
I would advise you to stop talking to all the men and women in that compound if possible move out , that dude you call your neighbour can kill you because of that smelling woman he is having sex with, Look at the way he believed her without A word of doubt my guy try move out of that place before she go lie another lie out for your head , some women are terrible and it is simps like those men in your compound that encourage their foolish behaviour better leave that place or Quit talking to them . God has opened your eyes to what is coming in the future... some women are just terrible people walllahi

Thanks Sir.

I need to be very careful with them before they think of doing me evil.

Bubblewitch:
Never ever allow your female neighbor to enter your apartment. Secondly, let your dealing be made public or better still through texts so that you can have receipts

Ok.

Thanks for the advice.

DroppingLiquid:
That your neighbor is a big simp for believing that woman, and for giving you attitude based on the opinion of a woman. THAT YOUR NEIGHBOUR IS NOT A MAN AND YOU SHOULD NOT ASSOCIATE WITH HIM.

My neighbor is someone who believes that a man should not condescend himself because of woman.

But he was quick to believe the woman.

Now he has denied that he was giving me attitude because of the woman.

He said I read meaning to his behavior but it is not what I thought it was.

Aaron12:
Alaye don't give her that money before she will accuse you of what you didn't do.

Ok.

davicto:
Chairman abeg which area you dey stay, our own here na like 2500 them they charge...


That's on the lighter one..sincerely men need protection

Ok.

Men need to be protected also.