ngwababe:


Same thing he jusy said, you don dey accuse him too. Must everyone approach issues same way as yours? The lady simply lied against him, and it's not good.

nenyewrites:


I laughed when he was happy he bought bed for 95000 naira. He is definitely living among low lives. That's why they reason in such low way. I'm sure they're lots of illiterates amongst them.

KingOfTheDamned:


Thank you for your kind words and for sharing this with us comrade

Munzy14:

Relocate from the place you are living now...Their is envy and hatred brewing against you..Do that fast before you get caught up in a mess...

Those low fools have marked you as a cash cow...Imagine a foolish guy sending a fool he is banging to come and borrow from you and they conspired to blackmail you...Damn! Which kind public yard you dey so..

Number one rule of the life, never bleep anyone in that environment. E go finish your respect.

Don't borrow.

Then, your neighbours are working hard to spoil your reputation which matters most in your existence..

By confronting the lady, you have turned her dirty plans for you against her, hehehehe she is deadlier now than a king cobra.

kingsceedon:


Op don't bother yourself anymore, if nobody believes you, I do believe you, those holes are nothing but a traitors, keep your precious DICK in one place ooo if you want to live longer, a word is a enough for the wise

Dizzyyish:
Cc lecturer50 KingOfTheDamned

KingOfTheDamned:
This thread really touched alot of us men. Bless you comrade lecturer50 for being brave enough to share your story with us. You inspired me to share mine and I hope it inspires others to share theirs too.

Comrades we have been silent too long. NIGERIAN women have really dealt with us and unfortunately it's fellow men who fail us in our time of need.

Several years ago I worked in one of the top companies in Lagos in VICTORIA ISLAND to be precise.

I was the team lead, amongst my team was a young lady , who just joined the company . She was the sort who dresses very seductively and such .

Okay one evening after closing hours I was still in the office and she walks in and says she wants to have a chat with me. I asked her to sit , she then proceeds to tell me how she is very secretive, she is someone who can keep a secret and no matter what if she has anything to do with her superior no staff with hear.

I smiled and said thank you for the information but I am not about that life.

She left. Fast forward 3 months later to the end of the quarter, her appraisal was so poor because frankly she was terrible at the job.

She storms into my office later that day angry asked why I rated her a D.. (Appraisals are scored A to F based on performance) I immediately cautioned her not to raise her voice and sit down. She sat down reluctantly and I went over all the work areas I had been telling her through out the quarter where she needed improvement and yet she had made no effort to improve. She left angrily and slammed the door.

Now there was a report she was due to submit , the next day being a Friday she didn't and she left rhe office .. so I sent her a query . On Saturday she called me at home saying saying she saw the email query I gave her that she won't respond to it.

Comrades I got to work on Monday as usual , then around 12 noon I got an email from the human resources manager that I have been invited to a disciplinary panel for gross misconduct of sexual harassment . That same Monday by 3 pm in the conference room. I thought it was a joke, I immediately went to the HRMs office she was with the CEO they were having a meeting and I noticed that lady was in the office too.

I decided not to talk with anyone else so it doesn't seem like I am trying to use my relationship with the CEO to get favor which I felt would make me look guilty.

So comrades I went before the panel... of 5 and the lady was called in and she started crying recounting how I have been asking her to sleep with me since she joined the company but she has been refusing. As a result I have sworn to frustrate her out of the company !!! I nearly fainted in my seat.

She said she had witnesses , I was feeling dizzy with shock and disbelief!! I was asked to speak, my people I lost it. I told them I was innocent that she should call her witnesses, I couldn't hold it in I started shouting ..

Eventually they called in their witnesses who only said they saw her enter my office on several occasions o!! which is those times she comes for work or to discuss her weaknesses on the job.

My people... I was summoned back and told they didn't find sufficient evidence what she said was true but I will have to step down as unit head for fear that I will want to get revenge on her for attempting 5o slander me. I refused and demanded her sack to which they objected .

I rejected that and told them I would resign instead. The HRM begged me not to, the CEO who was a personal friend to me. I went atraight tobsee him, my Comrades I was crying like a baby... not for the job no, but because I was innocent and I know he knew I asked him why didn't you stand up for me? .. he said , guy I know you are innocent , everyone on the panel knows you are innocent but as you know this is a multi national , all the foreign board members are white women and this girl cried to one of them and they want justice for her so they want me to move to manage another department while the lady will be suspended.

I resigned and till tomorrow this affected my relationship with that comrade.

He should have stood as the Nigerian CEO and said no!! This man is innocent and sacked the lady ...

So to add to what our dear comrade said pls, We need to start standing for each other as men. LIKE A COMRADE said if they Come for your fellow man and you keep silent when they come for you no one with speak


I dedicate this post to my fellow comrades FanOfMyself , jditimiya and others

DroppingLiquid:


We know people like him. They talk tough outside, but they worship pussy like no tomorrow.

angelfallz:
God bless you for that quote.

noisy45:



You see one good rule I have kept in life is I don't borrow women money I rather dash them the minimum I dash any woman which is 2k and it will never exceed 5k. See I have learnt a terrible lesson borrowing women money and trying to get them to pay back the money it's in there DNA to outsmart you with every moves either to pay that money with there body, or favour they have done to you in the past or slander you so that you can forget about collecting the money.

Perfecttouchade:
wow , I'm speechless reading this because these type of women are very much out there ...it is well bro, I understand that feeling, understand that truth always prevail..it is well with u bro ...

FreeStuffsNG:

Ghosh!!! Which kind of folks do you surround yourself with like this
In life, 2 things make you: books you read and the kind of people who surround you. You need to get out of that place or just limit your interaction to the least possible.
God!!!

money121:


The future is female that's how one of them scam me of my hard earned money 2m+

SEE FACE OF SERIAL FRAUDSTER ON Nairaland SEE HERE >> https://www.nairaland.com/1173970/scam-alert-omowunmi-allen-pre-order/87

AlphaAlex:
I would advise you to stop talking to all the men and women in that compound if possible move out , that dude you call your neighbour can kill you because of that smelling woman he is having sex with, Look at the way he believed her without A word of doubt my guy try move out of that place before she go lie another lie out for your head , some women are terrible and it is simps like those men in your compound that encourage their foolish behaviour better leave that place or Quit talking to them . God has opened your eyes to what is coming in the future... some women are just terrible people walllahi

Bubblewitch:
Never ever allow your female neighbor to enter your apartment. Secondly, let your dealing be made public or better still through texts so that you can have receipts

DroppingLiquid:
That your neighbor is a big simp for believing that woman, and for giving you attitude based on the opinion of a woman. THAT YOUR NEIGHBOUR IS NOT A MAN AND YOU SHOULD NOT ASSOCIATE WITH HIM.

Aaron12:
Alaye don't give her that money before she will accuse you of what you didn't do.

davicto:



Chairman abeg which area you dey stay, our own here na like 2500 them they charge...


That's on the lighter one..sincerely men need protection

ashawopikin:
anybody wey abuse u head no correct, you are on point

obyrich:
The woman wants to lure you into sex with her.

Badadvisor:

You're the Jesus Christ in your neighborhood really. You'd learn the hard way

Semaj77:



I hope you didn't give her the money ?

Okhuadams:
oga move out of that face me I face you yard cos I perceive in my spirit that your fellow yard pple are planning you. Face me I face you na so their matter be

chioma134:


@OP, your story reminds me of another story I know of. A certain widow frequently visited a divorced male relative of mine. When she comes, she packs food items from his house. Her children attended schools where school fees were like 150k per term. She wasn't working. It was suspicious, but we didn't talk. Then one day, she came to complain to a relative that she can't sell her body for money. She had asked him for school fees for one of her kids and apparently, he asked for sex in return.

I didn't buy her story one bit. My response was, Madam, why are you always coming here? Did he force you to come? Is he responsible for your children now? You know he is in a relationship, so why do you come when his girlfriend is not around? If he asked for sex, you can say no, afterall, he didn't force you. And why leave your kids in schools you can't afford, only to turn around to blame others for your inability to pay school fees?

Seriously, I was pissed. Some men dey suffer, sha

Fazeman25:

Well said bro, but at the end of the day did u still give her the money?

mcdreeezy:
I agree with everything you have said. Men need to stand up for men.

KelvinCoaster:

Most Federal Universities in Nigeria,depending on the department would prefer to admit an applicant into Ph.D who has at least 1 publication from an MSc.
However,progressing from proposal to first seminar does not compulsorily demand that you publish an article.Your Supervisor is a major determinant here,his/her views matter!

On the question of order of names on a published work: This greatly depends on the Journal. Read the Author's Guide to understand how each Journal stipulates 'name arrangement'.
In support of Wip7's earlier submission, all the names on a published work are all considered as Authors of such work!


Good luck to you!