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There is this testimony I heard of a woman who had a heart attack and found herself in heaven. She met all her relatives at the gate of heaven waiving at her. They were all filled with immeasurable joy, peace and love. She heard music which blew over her as air so much so that she felt so much peace, love and joy. It was like the air was music.Music of love, peace and joy. She saw beautiful valleys, mountains and rivers. She saw her son whom she miscarriage,40 years before then. He was a very small boy in heaven.If he were on the Earth,he would have been a 40 years old man. He was still an infant in heaven because heaven's time is different than the Earth's time. I read this today on the internet and I feel the need to share. |
Ynix:She may not even accept you. That she is running after the other man does not mean she would accept you. This is the mistake men make. A lady might be very cheap to one man, throw herself at his feet, love him because of some reason only known to her. Another man would not respect himself and allow her be. He thinks she is cheap. He would go to her and she would reject him. That she is cheap to one man does not mean she is cheap to all men. Most ladies have 2 sides. She would be very cheap to Mr A but very difficult to Mr B. That is why men must learn to respect themselves. That you ask the op to give you her number shows how desperate you are. Will exposing your desperation make a woman come to you or accept you? Some statements are not necessary because it would not even guarantee you a woman. If you know that saying "I need a girl friend" will not make a girl to come to you or accept you, but will rather make girls to run away thinking you are desperate, why not just pretend as if you don't need any woman,at least that will give you some dignity. Girls wants a man who already has a girlfriend or at least is not desperate. A person who is always saying he needs a girlfriend is interpreted as a person who has problem that is why he is lonely. That is why women don't need such a person. So men must learn to respect themselves afterall saying that you need a girl or that you should be given a girl's number, that will not make you have a girl. It only makes you look cheap and desperate and further disgraces the male gender. Ask any man that comes to nairaland and says he needs a girlfriend and they will tell you. No girl has ever contacted them. Why can't men stop all this shame and also show women that they themselves are not cheap. Like I said, coming online to disgrace ourselves does not make girls to accept us. It even pushes girls away. If we really want girls,we must learn to show them that we don't need them. That is when girls would be desperate to get our attention. So we can then get them. But in our desperation,we are even driving them away The wise is enough for a word |
beauty7:Interesting. Where can I read more on this? |
beauty7:What is planetary winnowing? |
technicallyrich: |
JaneYave:The same way men don't see you good and beautiful enough to marry you. |
Men say that women cannot approach men because they are shy, they don't want to be turned down or insulted, etc etc But woman would only be shy to do so if you are not rich or influential. Ask Babangida what happened after his wife died. That lady that is claiming shyness when she sees you because you are not rich, she could be there boldly asking a rich musician to marry her. That girl that boldly held Vice president Osinbajo's hand, is the same girl that will be too shy to hold a man's hands or to approach a man if he is not rich and influential. Ask Davido, Wizkid, Obasanjo and other rich people and they will tell you their experiences. Women are bolder than men in approaching the opposite gender but they claim shyness and fear when you are not rich. |
Womanizer:There are these American magazines I use to buy. I saw a story from a man who said he went into the interior village of one of these Arab countries. He said he saw the stoned bodies of women lying in a straight line. These women were stoned for adultery but the men who committed with them were spared. He said the stoned bodies were arranged in a row from the shortest woman to the tallest. Their bodies were all mangled. He said he later found out that the stoning of women for adultery is always approved by the women leaders in the area. Men leaders do not have a hand in the whole thing. He said he was shocked. Maybe the American journalist that wrote it was just writing it to paint the Arab countries black. Maybe the story is true, because there are so many things that are happening around the world that we in Nigeria don't hear. |
Kelvin3476:There are these American magazines I use to buy. I saw a story from a man who said he went into the interior village of one of these Arab countries. He said he saw the stoned bodies of women lying in a straight line. These women were stoned for adultery but the men who committed with them were spared. He said the stoned bodies were arranged in a row from the shortest woman to the tallest. Their bodies were all mangled. He said he later found out that the stoning of women for adultery is always approved by the women leaders in the area. Men leaders do not have a hand in the whole thing. He said he was shocked. Maybe the American journalist that wrote it was just writing it to paint the Arab countries black. Maybe the story is true, because there are so many things that are happening around the world that we in Nigeria don't hear. |
If it is some countries, they would stone her. They stone women caught in adultery but they forgive the men. |
Enoch07:I think it has to do with the corruption case with the EFCC. He wants these top Nigerians to intervene and save him. He is also trying to gain favor with APC by working for them so that the corruption charges would be dropped. That is why he is trying to bring people like the River state governor to APC. |
What of those women that have sex with corpse. If a male dies, they would go to where the corpse is, lock the door behind them, bring out his prick and either put it in their hoes or just rub his manhood and chest for their sexual pleasure. There are so many women like that in Nigeria today. They would say men are rapists but they would not hesitate to have sex with a corpse. Maybe they feel they have more power than the corpse, just like men who rape feel they have more power than the victims. Anywhere every gender has its own weakness. |
beauty7:Your children will surely enjoy stories. |
Starzo:She said it. She said that she did it because she was in love with the boy and did not want to lose him. She said that she was naive. She was being interviewed together with 4 other female prisoners on a live TV. |
Some men who are condemning this have done more than that for women because of love. When you are in love with the opposite gender, you will do things that ordinarily you won't do. But it is good to love with some sense because sometimes it could lead to imprisonment. A lover out of love, gave her account number to her lover to be transferring money into.She suspected the guy was into shady activities but her love for him blinded her. The boyfriend was involved in online scamming and Yahoo and the account was traced to the girl who was then sentenced to 5 years in prison. I have the video with me. I think it happened in South Africa.The girl is from South Africa and the boyfriend is a Nigerian. If you see the girl, very fine girl. So we should love with our brains intact. |
If women are ready to sponsor the marriage, some men would agree to marry them. As in,if she is willing to give the man money to pay for the marriage stuffs, many men would agree. I speak from my interactions with men. |
faithfull18:Yes. I wish you well. |
[quote author=Powerfly post=99325346][/quote]If you are actually saying the truth, there is something I have observed: I know some women that claim to be lesbians. They are only lesbians in name. They say that they don't have feelings for men. But if they are with other women and a handsome man walks in, you will see the admiration and lust in their faces towards the man. You wonder if they are not the women who claimed to be lesbians. So this lesbian of a thing I don't understand. I know a self acclaimed lesbian who told me that men are more sexually attractive than women although she had been a lesbian from secondary school. Sometimes,a woman who hates men so much can start claiming to be a lesbian. In the midst of her lesbianism, she sees a man and feels sexually attractive to him. It also happens to those who claimed to be lesbian from birth. It is as if they can switch between men and women. And sometimes, after enjoying women, they would say that men are more sexually attractive than women. So I cannot understand the whole thing. |
faithfull18:Na so all women talk. But everywhere you go women are fighting over men. These are the ones that are reported and they are so many. What about the fights that are not reported? I am telling you,it is happening daily. If all women are telling the truth that they cannot fight over a man,why is it happening every where? Or is it ghosts that are fighting? The truth is always very bitter. Even in the market the other day, I saw it. The young woman went to the old woman and started calling her "Husband thief", claiming that the old woman stole her man from her. The old woman told her "I have won.If as old as I am,I am able to take your young boyfriend from you,then I have won.You can go to hell.That your boyfriend is now the one who makes me feel great in bed." People gathered and were all laughing as they were about to fight. They were then separated. The thing happens every where and I can assure you that soon you will also fight another woman over a man. It does not have to be a physical fight. It could be verbal or showing her attitude. But the ultimate thing is that you will always get into conflict with another woman over a man. Sometimes, women allow emotions to becloud the truth. According to psychologist,a woman's emotions can make her blind to the reality on ground. A woman who sees a stone on the ground, but is so angry that the stone is there, can be so emotional to the extent that the stone appears as if it is no longer there. She may believe that the stone is not there, just to feel relieved. But that doesn't mean the stone is not there. It is her pride that blinded her from seeing the truth that the stone is still on the floor. No matter how angry you get over a situation,it doesn't change the fact that the situation has happened. So no matter how angry and hateful you get,it doesn't change the truth that women will always fight each other over a man. |
debbydams:Na so all women talk. But everywhere you go women are fighting over men. These are the ones that are reported and they are so many. What about the fights that are not reported? If all women are telling the truth that they cannot fight over a man, why is it happening every where and everyday? Or is it ghosts that are fighting? The truth is always very bitter. I am telling you,it is happening daily. Even in the market the other day, I saw it. The young woman went to the old woman and started calling her "Husband thief", claiming that the old woman stole her man from her. The old woman told her "I have won.If as old as I am,I am able to take your young boyfriend from you,then I have won.You can go to hell.That your boyfriend is now the one who makes me feel great in bed." People gathered and were all laughing as they were about to fight. They were then separated. The thing happens every where and I can assure you that soon you will also fight another woman over a man. It does not have to be a physical fight. It could be verbal or showing her attitude. But the ultimate thing is that you will always get into conflict with another woman over a man. Sometimes, women allow emotions to becloud the truth. According to psychologist,a woman's emotions can make her blind to the reality on ground. A woman who sees a stone on the ground, but is so angry that the stone is there, can be so emotional to the extent that the stone appears as if it is no longer there. She may believe that the stone is not there, just to feel relieved. But that doesn't mean the stone is not there. It is her pride that blinded her from seeing the truth that the stone is still on the floor. No matter how angry you get over a situation,it doesn't change the fact that the situation has happened. So no matter how angry and hateful you get,it doesn't change the truth that women will always fight each other over a man. THE TRUTH IS ALWAYS VERY BITTER. SO I DON'T BLAME YOU IF THIS IS BITTER TO YOU. |
Powerfly:The truth is that there is nothing you can say that will stop women from fighting over men. Every time there is a news of women fighting over a man, other women would condemn it. But it does not stop. It is even increasing. The person who condemns it today will still be the one fighting another woman tommorow over a man. I know you will argue that you cannot fight over a man since men have not finished in the world. But the truth is that when you see your man with another woman, you would not want to just walk away and leave him for her. It will look like you have been defeated by the other lady. You would want to show her that you cannot back down without a fight, particularly if you feel that you are stronger or better than her. It would be too much for you to just walk away and let it seems like she had the upper hand. The thing is just natural. I know you might abuse me for writing this. But what I have written is true, even if you strongly deny it. You can even mention instances where you just walked away and leave the man for the woman. But I know it didn't happen.You are just saying it to win the argument. |
faithfull18:The truth is that there is nothing you can say that will stop women from fighting over men. Every time there is a news of women fighting over a man, other women would condemn it. But it does not stop. It is even increasing. The person who condemns it today will still be the one fighting another woman tommorow over a man. I know you will argue that you cannot fight over a man since men have not finished in the world. But the truth is that when you see your man with another woman, you would not want to just walk away and leave him for her. It will look like you have been defeated by the other lady. You would want to show her that you cannot back down without a fight, particularly if you feel that you are stronger or better than her. It would be too much for you to just walk away and let it seems like she had the upper hand. The thing is just natural. I know you might abuse me for writing this. But what I have written is true, even if you strongly deny it. You can even mention instances where you just walked away and leave the man for the woman. But I know it didn't happen.You are just saying it to win the argument. |
7victor:When there are only males in a place and a female join them, they tend to focus all their love on her. They would not want her to suffer. It happens because she is bold enough to join the males and males would love her for that. It happens more often than we think. Some males would say they cannot do that. But when the time comes, they are the ones that would even love the girl more than other males. The thing is in-built in us and denying it cannot stop us from behaving like those males in the engineering department. Even among the women, things like this happens when they have only one male in their group. It doesn't have to be about giving the man money. But in some way, they would give him special considerations. The thing would just happen naturally. You would just find yourself loving the person and treating the person with love and care. It doesn't matter whether you are a person who denies that you can't do such. |
theFilmtric:I believe it is possible. When there are only males in a place and a female also join them, they tend to focus all their love on her. It happens more often than you think. I have seen it several times. |
How can they kill them when I heard that they are using charms to protect themselves. I heard that Fulani herdsmen have charms that help them disappear any time they want. They also say guns cannot penetrate their bodies. |
Fulani herdsmen. |
daddymummy:This is so true. |
Chai! Fulani herdsmen. They are always in the news for one evil or other. |
Fulani herdsmen. They are always in the news for one evil or other. Fulani that cannot speak English well, how will he manage to write the exams for the wife. |
bigfish3k:Always blaming men for everything. For your mind, women are never at fault in issues like this? If it is a man now that always blame women for everything, you would say he is not man enough. Are you woman enough? Why can't you face your own gender and leave men alone. If a woman is always having issues with men, what kind of a woman is that? How do you relate with your sons with such mentality? |