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Romance / Re: How Can I Marry Oyibo Woman? by lecturer50(m): 4:30pm On Nov 12, 2021
Beebah2000:
Somebody's son go find oyibo woman one day grin cheesy

grin

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Romance / Re: How Can I Marry Oyibo Woman? by lecturer50(m): 4:28pm On Nov 12, 2021
Botking:
Hope you have money to relocate and be with her in her country, because she won't considing coming and live with you in 9ja

You should also consider that in your quest

Meanwhile, good luck

If you have reason well my above statement, then i can link you up with young single Chinese ladies, who are very interested in interracial relationship, but have it in mind that you must come to live in china, that's the only way it will work.


I am working with the Federal government.

It means I have to resign.


I know an airforce personnel who married a white woman and both are living in Nigeria.


It is easier for him to go abroad because of the wife.

They have 2 houses one in Nigeria and one abroad.


I even heard that there are some white ladies who have money, but no husbands and they are willing to come to Africa to marry because to marry African seems a great idea to them.


It is not that they rate or respect Africans better than their people. They rate their people higher.


It is just that they consider marrying people from another race a great idea.


They want to experience what it could feel like marrying a black person.


Just like those British ladies who went and join Talibans in Afghanistan to fight just for the thrill of it.

Though their country is far better than Afghanistan, but they decided to go to Afghanistan.
Romance / Re: Can a graduate like me marry a financially stable illiterate woman? Please help by lecturer50(m): 3:41pm On Nov 12, 2021
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Romance / How Can I Marry Oyibo Woman? by lecturer50(m): 3:31pm On Nov 12, 2021
Please can someone put me through how I can go about finding an Oyibo woman to marry.

I mean a young lady not an old fool.

No insult abeg.

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Travel / Re: Share Your Experiences Inside Long Distance Luxurious Buses. by lecturer50(m): 1:10pm On Nov 01, 2021
The worst kind of experiences include entering a bus which is completely filled with good with attachment.


If the bus happens to be old without AC and is not moving fast,it could be very saddening.


This is mainly the case during Christmas period because of the operator's desire to make quick profit.


They will bring out all the old and malfunctioning buses to carry unsuspecting passengers, because there are so much passengers and the good buses are already booked.
Travel / Re: Share Your Experiences Inside Long Distance Luxurious Buses. by lecturer50(m): 12:57pm On Nov 01, 2021
You know I have observed something:

Young women used to be very happy when embarking on long distance journey particularly if the bus is new, with AC, and television.

Somebody's joy can affect you, making you happy and joyful also.

I was caught up in the joy of some ladies who sat near me, when suddenly we came to a location near the bush, and far from the town.



The driver packed saying he received a call that armed robbers were around.


Soon we heard a sound and everyone ran into the bush.


It was later discovered that it was not robbers that came.

We all entered the bus laughing and continued the journey.


If you travel in those big buses, you may experience this kind of situation whereby you think you are running into robbers or kidnappers, but it turns out not to be so.
Travel / Share Your Experiences Inside Long Distance Luxurious Buses. by lecturer50(m): 12:25pm On Nov 01, 2021
We are now in November and next month, some people will embark on a long distance journey to their states to celebrate Christmas.



You will most likely come across drugs sellers and other kind of people marketing products particularly inside a long distance luxurious bus.


My experience happened some few years back.


I entered a bus which was going from north to south.


At a point one man came onboard.Soon he started praying, and we joined him.


He later started marketing what he called "black stones" and other drugs.

Finally he brought out a "magic black oil" and showed us how to invoke the spirit in it.

I asked him how he could just finished praying as a Christian, but decided to sell drugs which included magic.


Some people were not happy with me, believing I was spoiling market for the man.

The man was not happy.A look at his face revealed that he could have killed me if he had the chance because one man who wanted to buy the magic didn't buy it after hearing what I said.


Most of the time,it is the passengers who encourage this people.


At one time, one man came in and was selling petrol.He said we should buy and drink.


Share your experiences, both good and bad.
Education / Re: Why Do I Commit Crimes In My Dreams? by lecturer50(m): 12:12pm On Oct 29, 2021
josh123:
God did not create man with good and evil nature, God only created man with a good nature.

Alright
Education / Re: Why Do I Commit Crimes In My Dreams? by lecturer50(m): 12:11pm On Oct 29, 2021
7victor:



Ok.

Thank you.

That is what they believe.
Education / Re: Why Do I Commit Crimes In My Dreams? by lecturer50(m): 8:51am On Oct 29, 2021
7victor:



One man told me that we all have the good and evil side.

That if in reality you are only showing your good side, while trying to repress the bad side, the bad side will also want to express itself.

If it cannot express itself during your waking hours,it will do so in your dreams.

But is it true?

It is one of the mystic religions teaching.

They believe we are on Earth to learn what it is like to be good and bad.

They believe if God wanted man to do good only,he wouldn't have created man with an evil nature also.

Man had been in a state of complete perfection in heaven and in order to learn what evil looks like,he came to the Earth as a sojourner with good and bad nature.

According to the reasoning,if a person is not willing to express his bad nature, the bad nature may force itself to be expressed.


Because that is why we are here in the first place (ie to experience and give out evil which cannot be experienced in heaven where we were before coming to the Earth)

According to them, the grand purpose of all these is to go back to heaven and appreciate it more than we ever appreciated it before coming to the Earth.

It takes evil and hardship to appreciate good, peace and prosperity.


If someone has never experienced bad things before,he cannot appreciate good things.

That is why God created the Earth to make us experience evil which will cause us to enjoy and appreciate heaven.


I use to read their books before.

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Education / Re: Mention English Words Which Are The Same As Your Native Words. by lecturer50(m): 6:20pm On Oct 16, 2021
Since human beings originated from one single man,it is expected that they should have some words that are the same, because when you migrate to another place, you will lose some of your original language although some words will still remain the same.

That explains why some words are the same.

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Education / Re: Mention English Words Which Are The Same As Your Native Words. by lecturer50(m): 6:14pm On Oct 16, 2021
beauty7:

3. DOOR:

English: Close the DOOR.
Annang/Ibibio: Kuk u[b]DOOR[/b]
So DOOR has the same pronunciation and meaning in English and in Annang/Ibibio.

Kifi and fish look alike
Romance / Re: Men, Share 3 Words You Like To Hear More Than "I Love You" by lecturer50(m): 1:06pm On Sep 22, 2021
I like a girl to bend down, touch her toes and said:

"Please can you beat my buttocks"

And when I beat her, her clitoris will get big due to sexual pleasure.

She would shout"Beat me harder"

I can pay a girl any amount if she can do this.
NYSC / Re: NYSC Camp Punishment : Share Your Experiences by lecturer50(m): 9:56am On Sep 22, 2021
The corpers who just left camp yesterday have much to share.
NYSC / Re: Why Corpers Always Feel Happy And Free, Think About Doing Masters. by lecturer50(m): 7:24pm On Sep 21, 2021
7victor:

When you finish your program and you are posted to serve.

The relief you get because you are no longer a student, the weight of reading and the stress of schooling being lifted from you,

it naturally brings joy, the joy that comes with freedom from schooling.

That is why you are so happy when you are inside a vehicle from your state to the state you are posted: The journey of freedom.

But during your NYSC, you begin to consider going back for a Masters, either in Nigeria or abroad.

This is because you feel that you have become a graduate and doing Masters is just going to be fun,

afterall you are not doing it to be educated, since your first degree already makes you educated.



I know so many people who thought this way. I equally thought that way and I always pictured myself doing Masters in BUK, Kano.



You want to feel like:
"Okay I am already a graduate, but I am now a post-graduate student."

You want to see those undergraduate students while you yourself are higher than them as a Masters student.

You want to feel that you are not doing it under the compulsive desire to get a degree (which is common during your undergraduate days), but voluntarily.

You are only speaking of University graduates.

What of Polytechnic graduates?
Crime / Re: I Sleep With Her In The Kitchen - 13 Years Old Boy Confesses Sleeping With House by lecturer50(m): 2:14pm On Sep 21, 2021
The ladies in my office said they are going to stone her (the house help).

I showed my colleagues this news and i was very surprised when all the ladies here said they would stone that housemaid for defiling a young boy.

Na wa o.

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Education / Re: Have You Ever Seen/Spoken With Beings From Other Planets/Universes by lecturer50(m): 7:33am On Sep 18, 2021
7victor:

Yes.There are conditions somewhere that support life.


There is no way that the Universe will be so vast and the Earth happens to be the only place with intelligent beings.

No way.

The same way that the Earth is positioned in the right place in our solar system,

there are planets in other solar systems that are also positioned in the right place.


There are billions of solar systems in one Milky Way.

And there are millions of Milky Ways each with billions of solar systems, and each of the solar system has many planets.


That supposed to tell someone that there are millions of planets situated in positions that will support life and intelligent beings.

Also because we do not see other beings on this Earth does not mean that they are not here.

They could be seeing us, just like we are seeing plants but plants do not see us.

The problem with human beings is that we define everything according to our own realities.


What we see and hear around us is not all that are to be seen and heard.


We only see/hear what our eyes/ears allow us to see and hear.

Our eyes are too big to see bacteria, but too small to see higher beings.

Maybe ants can see bacteria because their eyes are at that level, but their eyes are too small to see human beings.

The eyes can only see something at a certain level.



There are higher beings with better eyes than our own which are seeing us, but we cannot see them.


Hearing and seeing is level by level.

A plant may be blind to us, the same way we are blind to some higher beings.


I remember one woman who claimed that one day, her interior eyes got opened and she saw beings who were moving around on the Earth.

Their heights reached the sky.


That is what an ant would say if their eyes were opened and they see human beings.

So everything should not be defined based on our own realities, because we are only a small part of multi realities.


Even scientists are beginning to think in this direction:We are only a small part of multi realities and existences.

Some insects cannot see us as we are but may see a part of us like our hands.But they see themselves like the male insects chasing the female insects.
If they perch on us, they may think they are perching on big mountains.
Mosquitoes feeding on someone may think they are feeding from a rock.
But insects can feel us.If you get close enough to kill them,they will sense it and fly away.
Education / Re: Have You Ever Seen/Spoken With Beings From Other Planets/Universes by lecturer50(m): 12:38am On Sep 18, 2021
Even scientists are beginning to say there is more to this life than science can explain.

I saw online a report of an object moving with such speed and manoeuvre that even scientists concluded it cannot be from this earth.

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Crime / Re: Solomon Oboh Commits Suicide, Wills Mobile Phone To Girlfriend by lecturer50(m): 1:20pm On Sep 12, 2021
7victor:
The truth is that in this world,no one is truly happy.

Some people commit suicide because they believe that others are happy except themselves.

But the truth is that no one is happy.

We may do somethings and get some momentary joy.

Things like going out for a drink, eating, dating, traveling, going for a vacation,watching football,or even having sex.


Human beings do all these to try and get some happiness and joy.

Without these things, people would be truly sad and depressed, because there is no joy in the Earth.



If you think you are joyous or happy,it is because there is something you are doing or expecting. Maybe you are expecting your boy/girl friend, that is why you are happy.

It shows that joy/happiness does not come from within you,it is a result of external things.


It is only when we get to heaven that we will be truly happy/joyous.

That is when joy,happiness and peace will truly come from within us and will not only be because of some external things, expectations,or activities.

Because there,in the presence of God we will have fullness of joy as the Bible says.

We are not happy here because we are strangers here on Earth.

We can only be happy when we get back home to where we were before being born on the Earth.

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Education / Re: School Headmaster Mercilessly Bruises Female Student Back With Cane (Photos) by lecturer50(m): 5:05pm On Sep 08, 2021
From my reading on human sexuality, beating a girl on the back can lead to situation whereby,at puberty/adulthood, she would have sexual pleasure anytime someone beat her on her back.

This is because the breasts are close to the back, and continuous beatings on the back can cause the brain to associate the beating to pleasure that comes whenever breasts are being sucked


It can lead to the woman having pleasure in her breasts whenever someone hit her on the back

Infact,I read that the reason women like hitting men on the back is because it gives the women so sort of sexual pleasure

How much more if the only place she received caning as a child was on her back

Continuous beating on the buttocks does the same.

It mostly affect males than females because the males brains would associate the beating on the buttocks to pleasure in the penis that comes from sex/masturbation.



To the extent that a man can have sexual pleasure whenever you hit his buttocks

These things happen always, according to some books on human sexuality

As for that teacher who flogged that girl,I have this to say:

People are becoming more and more wicked.

If you want to know how horrible people are, just go outside and approach someone, pretending as if you are looking for a direction to somewhere.

He/she would most likely do the following:

1) Abuse you or treat you with so much disdain.

2) Look for a means of duping you,stealing from you,or doing you harm.

3) Show you a wrong direction, just for the joy of seeing you suffer.


You cannot even relate with someone well.

Everyone is just waiting for someone to walk into his or her trap,in order to show the horribleness/wickedness that he/she carries.

Everyone is lying in wait as a wild animal, waiting for who would mistakenly try to get close to him or her.

It is so horrible that the only thing one can hope of is a new world where love reigns.

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Education / Re: Police Arrest Fake NYSC Corp Member With Forged Certificate by lecturer50(m): 5:03pm On Sep 08, 2021
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Education / Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by lecturer50(m): 10:14am On Aug 22, 2021
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At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by lecturer50(m): 12:59pm On Aug 21
When I was teaching in secondary school, there was an elderly teacher who told me he does not trust or believe anyone.

He said that one day, I would come to a point where I will truly discover that human beings cannot be trusted.

One day, I wanted to buy a goat, and a fellow teacher asked me to give him the money for the goat, so that in the evening he would bring me his goat.

I wanted to give him the money, but the elderly teacher asked me not to give because no one can be trusted.

I asked the man to take me to where his goat was. But it turned out that there was no goat.The man just wanted to dupe me.

So the elderly teacher was right concerning the man.

I discovered that anything someone said, anything someone did, the elderly teacher always said it was false/fake, and I always discovered that he was always right.


It seems that at a certain age,a person always comes to the point where he or she can no longer trust people.

I have discovered also that whatever elderly people say concerning people is always true.

Elderly people always doubt people's statement and actions and it always turned out that they were right.



During the US-Iraqi war,when Sadaam Hussein told his country he was leaving Iraq to prepare and get more support for his army,all the elderly men who were in my area said he wanted to run away, but the young men said he actually wanted to go and get more support for his army.

Later events showed the elders were right.

At what age did you stop trusting people?
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by Macsjebs(m): 1:04pm On Aug 21
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by lecturer50(m): 1:13pm On Aug 21
I decided to bring this topic up because sometimes it is when someone has been seriously duped/cheated, that is when he or she will stop trusting people.

My uncle is a case study.

He was the manager of a bank.

He so much trusted women because he believed that women cannot lie,cheat,or do evil.

Women were observing him.

Anything you do, people are observing you, people are weighing you to see your weakness so that they can cheat you

One day,a woman went to get loan from my uncle's bank.

The loan was in millions of naira.

Because of the trust he had for women,he gave it to her without collateral.

The woman ran away with the money.

Till today, the woman is no where to be seen.


There was no collateral that the bank could take in place of the money.

Now, the case is in court.

If found guilty, my uncle could spend some years in jail.

He has also lost his job, and it is affecting us all because he used to give my mother money when he was still the bank manager.

Now he can no longer trust people, even women.

Our prayer is that what will make you stop trusting people would not be as bad as my uncle's case.
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by iamyemiakins(m): 1:14pm On Aug 21
Immediately after I got outta the womb I stopped trusting people.
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by punisha: 1:28pm On Aug 21
You all still trust people? shocked
I got trust wallet only.
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by airminem(f): 1:32pm On Aug 21
NEVER TRUST A 'WOMAN'
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by yanabasee2: 1:38pm On Aug 21
iamyemiakins:
Immediately after I got outta the womb I stopped trusting people.


When I was running as a sperm...
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by Bombastically00(m): 1:39pm On Aug 21
I swear for myself say i no go enter bet9ja shop again, d next day i found myself inside d shop, shouting away do goal goal na...only gamblers can relate...i dnt trust myself to d extent of me trusting someone..
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by lecturer50(m): 1:42pm On Aug 21
lecturer50:
I decided to bring this topic up because sometimes it is when someone has been seriously duped/cheated, that is when he or she will stop trusting people.

My uncle is a case study.

He was the manager of a bank.

He so much trusted women because he believed that women cannot lie,cheat,or do evil.

Women were observing him.

Anything you do, people are observing you, people are weighing you to see your weakness so that they can cheat you

One day,a woman went to get loan from my uncle's bank.

The loan was in millions of naira.

Because of the trust he had for women,he gave it to her without collateral.

The woman ran away with the money.

Till today, the woman is no where to be seen.


There was no collateral that the bank could take in place of the money.

Now, the case is in court.

If found guilty, my uncle could spend some years in jail.

He has also lost his job, and it is affecting us all because he used to give my mother money when he was still the bank manager.

Now he can no longer trust people, even women.

Our prayer is that what will make you stop trusting people would not be as bad as my uncle's case.

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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by McStoic(m): 3:24pm On Aug 21
lecturer50:
When I was teaching in secondary school, there was an elderly teacher who told me he does not trust or believe anyone.

He said that one day, I would come to a point where I will truly discover that human beings cannot be trusted.

One day, I wanted to buy a goat, and a fellow teacher asked me to give him the money for the goat, so that in the evening he would bring me his goat.

I wanted to give him the money, but the elderly teacher asked me not to give because no one can be trusted.

I asked the man to take me to where the goat was. But it turned out that there was no goat.The man just wanted to dupe me.


I discovered that anything someone said, anything someone did, the elderly teacher always said it was false/fake, and I always discovered that he was always right.


It seems that at a certain age,a person always comes to the point where he or she can no longer trust people.

I have discovered also that whatever elderly people say concerning people is always true.

Elderly people always doubt people's statement and actions and it always turns out that they were right.



During the US-Iraqi war,when Sadaam Hussein told his country he was leaving Iraq to prepare and get more support for his army,all the elderly men who were in the place I was staying, said he wanted to run away, but the young men said he actually wanted to go and get more support for his army.

Later events, showed the elders were right.

At what age did you stop trusting people?

12 years. It's a long story sha
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by TalkTalkTwins(m): 3:49pm On Aug 21
Before I was born
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by HenryDion(m): 4:13pm On Aug 21
Everyone deserves respect, but not trust. Trust is not given, it's earned. Understand this, and you'll play well with humans!!!
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by Cerebellum: 4:25pm On Aug 21
Many years ago when I stole meat in the pot and my mom was saying "it's alright" with innocent face not until pops man came back from work and did this to me.. cry
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by Jamesbiodun(m): 4:32pm On Aug 21
Since I was born cheesy
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by CharisEleos(f): 6:05pm On Aug 21
At age 16, in SS 1.

It was our assistant class captain. She was my close friend then. A very gentle and quiet fellow. I used to think we are all the same until one day, something dropped from her bag. It was a pack of pills. I didn't know what it was. So the just covered it up with some likes.

Later, someone brought it out of her bag and we checked, it was pregnancy prevention pills. shocked..

Another time, this same girl went and disclosed something we discussed about someone to the person. Since then, I cut off from her and stopped trusting people.

Now, I don't trust any body. no matter who you are.
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by Bunmhi(f): 6:29pm On Aug 21
I pray I have the spirit not to trust, I don trust people wey don Bleep up too much
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by Drizzy5001(m): 6:32pm On Aug 21
After mum, collects all the money that visitors used to dash me as a kid, claiming to save it for me, and when you demand for it, she go remind you say u dey chop free food everyday. cheesy
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by lecturer50(m): 6:52pm On Aug 21
McStoic:


12 years. It's a long story sha

Ok.
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by Trustnoman4life: 7:35pm On Aug 21
lecturer50:
When I was teaching in secondary school, there was an elderly teacher who told me he does not trust or believe anyone.

He said that one day, I would come to a point where I will truly discover that human beings cannot be trusted.

One day, I wanted to buy a goat, and a fellow teacher asked me to give him the money for the goat, so that in the evening he would bring me his goat.

I wanted to give him the money, but the elderly teacher asked me not to give because no one can be trusted.

I asked the man to take me to where his goat was. But it turned out that there was no goat.The man just wanted to dupe me.

So the elderly teacher was right concerning the man.

I discovered that anything someone said, anything someone did, the elderly teacher always said it was false/fake, and I always discovered that he was always right.


It seems that at a certain age,a person always comes to the point where he or she can no longer trust people.

I have discovered also that whatever elderly people say concerning people is always true.

Elderly people always doubt people's statement and actions and it always turned out that they were right.



During the US-Iraqi war,when Sadaam Hussein told his country he was leaving Iraq to prepare and get more support for his army,all the elderly men who were in my area said he wanted to run away, but the young men said he actually wanted to go and get more support for his army.

Later events showed the elders were right.

At what age did you stop trusting people?
My Monika says it all , the fhuckin Bible also says trust no modafhucka .
Religion is however a big scam.
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:52pm On Aug 21
I read it from books since junior high never to trust anybody.

My parents even. You see humans are basically helpless in this life like you can't really blame humans here. We want to get out of an uncomfortable situation fast and we are limited for choice and time is not on our side so we will find the easiest means to get out of it.

So the thing is I take it as it comes sometimes I might try to prove myself wrong by trusting someone a lil bit, most times they fail, sometimes it works out.

Just that humans can't really surprise me in anyway.

My advice for everyone. There is no free thing in this life, ever! No unconditional love, no free meal and no free affection. Humans wouldn't come to you if you have nothing.

So work hard to be successful and learn to be happy on your own.
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by Sacredness: 9:27pm On Aug 21
you no trust anybody and nobody trust you angry no be juju be that?
The day I reduce the level of trust I have for Mary (that was claiming she is a virgin ) it was when she serve me like this, and she was just smiling uncontrollably..me no quick code ,na my guy just come dey tell me say baba make you observe watin them bring give you na undecided
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Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by samuelchimmy(m): 11:18pm On Aug 21
lecturer50:
When I was teaching in secondary school, there was an elderly teacher who told me he does not trust or believe anyone.

He said that one day, I would come to a point where I will truly discover that human beings cannot be trusted.

One day, I wanted to buy a goat, and a fellow teacher asked me to give him the money for the goat, so that in the evening he would bring me his goat.

I wanted to give him the money, but the elderly teacher asked me not to give because no one can be trusted.

I asked the man to take me to where his goat was. But it turned out that there was no goat.The man just wanted to dupe me.

So the elderly teacher was right concerning the man.

I discovered that anything someone said, anything someone did, the elderly teacher always said it was false/fake, and I always discovered that he was always right.


It seems that at a certain age,a person always comes to the point where he or she can no longer trust people.

I have discovered also that whatever elderly people say concerning people is always true.

Elderly people always doubt people's statement and actions and it always turned out that they were right.



During the US-Iraqi war,when Sadaam Hussein told his country he was leaving Iraq to prepare and get more support for his army,all the elderly men who were in my area said he wanted to run away, but the young men said he actually wanted to go and get more support for his army.

Later events showed the elders were right.

At what age did you stop trusting people?
i dont believe in ulter no trust stance.. How the hell are you going to make money with that kind of stance.. There will come a time where you will have no option than to trust, wether you like it or not.
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Education / Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by lecturer50(m): 6:52pm On Aug 21, 2021
McStoic:


12 years. It's a long story sha

Ok.
Education / Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by lecturer50(m): 1:42pm On Aug 21, 2021
lecturer50:
I decided to bring this topic up because sometimes it is when someone has been seriously duped/cheated, that is when he or she will stop trusting people.

My uncle is a case study.

He was the manager of a bank.

He so much trusted women because he believed that women cannot lie,cheat,or do evil.

Women were observing him.

Anything you do, people are observing you, people are weighing you to see your weakness so that they can cheat you

One day,a woman went to get loan from my uncle's bank.

The loan was in millions of naira.

Because of the trust he had for women,he gave it to her without collateral.

The woman ran away with the money.

Till today, the woman is no where to be seen.


There was no collateral that the bank could take in place of the money.

Now, the case is in court.

If found guilty, my uncle could spend some years in jail.

He has also lost his job, and it is affecting us all because he used to give my mother money when he was still the bank manager.

Now he can no longer trust people, even women.

Our prayer is that what will make you stop trusting people would not be as bad as my uncle's case.

Education / Re: At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by lecturer50(m): 1:13pm On Aug 21, 2021
I decided to bring this topic up because sometimes it is when someone has been seriously duped/cheated, that is when he or she will stop trusting people.

My uncle is a case study.

He was the manager of a bank.

He so much trusted women because he believed that women cannot lie,cheat,or do evil.

Women were observing him.

Anything you do, people are observing you, people are weighing you to see your weakness so that they can cheat you

One day,a woman went to get loan from my uncle's bank.

The loan was in millions of naira.

Because of the trust he had for women,he gave it to her without collateral.

The woman ran away with the money.

Till today, the woman is no where to be seen.


There was no collateral that the bank could take in place of the money.

Now, the case is in court.

If found guilty, my uncle could spend some years in jail.

He has also lost his job, and it is affecting us all because he used to give my mother money when he was still the bank manager.

Now he can no longer trust people, even women.

Our prayer is that what will make you stop trusting people would not be as bad as my uncle's case.

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Education / At What Age Did You Stop Trusting People? by lecturer50(m): 12:59pm On Aug 21, 2021
When I was teaching in secondary school, there was an elderly teacher who told me he does not trust or believe anyone.

He said that one day, I would come to a point where I will truly discover that human beings cannot be trusted.

One day, I wanted to buy a goat, and a fellow teacher asked me to give him the money for the goat, so that in the evening he would bring me his goat.

I wanted to give him the money, but the elderly teacher asked me not to give because no one can be trusted.

I asked the man to take me to where his goat was. But it turned out that there was no goat.The man just wanted to dupe me.

So the elderly teacher was right concerning the man.

I discovered that anything someone said, anything someone did, the elderly teacher always said it was false/fake, and I always discovered that he was always right.


It seems that at a certain age,a person always comes to the point where he or she can no longer trust people.

I have discovered also that whatever elderly people say concerning people is always true.

Elderly people always doubt people's statement and actions and it always turned out that they were right.



During the US-Iraqi war,when Sadaam Hussein told his country he was leaving Iraq to prepare and get more support for his army,all the elderly men who were in my area said he wanted to run away, but the young men said he actually wanted to go and get more support for his army.

Later events showed the elders were right.

At what age did you stop trusting people?
Education / Please How Can Someone Post Videos On Nairaland? by lecturer50(m): 5:25pm On Aug 04, 2021
I discover that many people post information together with videos here in Nairaland.

But anytime I want to post some useful videos here,it is not working.

Please, how do you people do it?
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by lecturer50(m): 12:00pm On Jul 23, 2021
Faber:


My brother that's why I rarely give relationship advice on Nairaland. Most are fake, made up by some less busy folks just to catch cruise.
@NgoziLovelyn is fond of that grin

Ok Sir.
Romance / Re: Lady Proposes To Her Boyfriend Inside Shoprite And This Happended by lecturer50(m): 10:39am On Jul 23, 2021
CharisEleos:
Good for them but let her not start complaining tomorrow when the guy begins to take her for granted.

I wish them well.

But if a man proposed to a woman,why doesn't she take him for granted because he was the one who proposed?

If a woman does not take the man for granted because he proposed,why are you so sure that the man would take her for granted because she was the one who proposed?

The truth is that everyone is different. You cannot use one person's attitude to judge everyone.

For instance I know so many women that would playfully slap a man on the back, maybe because they enjoy doing so.

But I met one lady who likes slapping a man's buttocks.

She so much like such and trust men na, they also like doing so to her as well.

I don't know how she came to like such a thing, but that is what she likes doing.


We cannot use few people to generalize all people.

That is the truth.
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Is Boring: Am I Crazy For Wanting To Dump Him? by lecturer50(m): 10:15am On Jul 23, 2021
Most things you hear on Nairaland are not true.

Sometimes a man would pretend to be a woman and sometimes a woman would pretend to be a man and would bring a complete fake story to see how people would react.

Some people would lose their mood and start vexing over a completely false and fake story.

I pity those who believe everything they hear in Nairaland.

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Nairaland / General / Re: If Kuda Bank Locked Your Account Come In Here by lecturer50(m): 9:44pm On Jul 16, 2021
IamDavid:

I dunno if you're yoruba, but shora o

I'm not Yoruba.

From the south south.
Nairaland / General / Re: If Kuda Bank Locked Your Account Come In Here by lecturer50(m): 6:29pm On Jul 16, 2021
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It is cheaper, faster and safer to use

Chat me on 07064550358 for more info
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