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Christianity Etc › Markets, Universities, Schools, Companies,Countries And Continents In Heaven. by lecturer50(op):
I have been reading accounts of people who died due to accidents,illness, etc.

When they reached heaven, they were told to come back to the earth that it was not yet their time to die.

Most of them are allowed to have a tour of heaven before coming back to the earth.

After coming back to the earth and being revived, they discribed heaven saying there are Universities, schools, markets, industries, companies,houses(with bedrooms, toilets, parlours, kitchens, etc), villages, towns, cities, countries,and continents in heaven.

There are also businesses and business centers in towns and cities of heaven where people engage in buying and selling as we do here on earth.

According to them, the only difference between heaven and earth is that in heaven there is no sorrow, illness, sadness, poverty, decay,hatred,evil and all things that are bad as experienced on this earth.

Instead there is immeasurable love,joy, happiness and peace in heaven, according to them.

Also in heaven, all buildings/structures are so beautiful and fine to the extent that nothing can be more beautiful than them.
Even in your wildest imagination, you cannot imagine anything more beautiful.

What do you have to say on this?
Romance › Re: Why I Pray To God Before I Sleep With Other People’s Wives - Male Ashawo by lecturer50(m): 11:18pm On Dec 24, 2020
generationz:
Lol, is it about looks or stamina?

For your info no man is ugly. If he doesn't have money at least he should be able to do the other one well.

You men are funny. You live in denial that your sweet wives and girlfriends might have very high libido and pay men who can perform the task for them.
My brother what you said is correct about men always living in denial.
That is one nature of men that I hate so much.
They like living in self delusion just to boost what they think is their ego.
Personally I know many men who are interested in women who could sleep with them and then give them (the men) money.
They are more than you can imagine.
If you have ever thought of sleeping with a woman for money and you start seeking for a wealthy woman,by the time you have located one rich woman who is willing to pay you to sleep with you, you will meet other men who are also interested in sleeping with her to get her money.
You will be shocked because you thought you were the only man on earth who is interested in sleeping with a woman to get her money.
You will be so shocked that you are not the only one interested in the woman just because of her money.
But if you say it now,all men will come and be denying it, some even cursing you.Some are ready to kill you for daring to destroy what they stupidly consider to be their ego.
Also there are women who have high libido and need someone that could satisfy them, someone that could touch/suck their breast/private parts, someone that could have sex with them in a way that they would be satisfied.These women are so many and they are willing to pay a man.
These women know that the normal men coming to them for sex are only interested in their own satisfaction and not in the women's satisfaction.
So these women are willing to pay any man that will only be interested in the women's satisfaction.
They are willing to pay a man who can suck their vagina or perform any other sex act that the women want.
Some men know all these but they will still live in delusion.
They delude themselves into believing that Women do not like sex much compare to men, that when once you have sex with a woman and you are satisfied that she is also satisfied, that a woman cannot have high sexual libido, that a woman cannot desire to pay for sex.
Even when they know the truth, they will still deny it.
And the surprising thing is that because of their so called ego, they always forced themselves to believe a lie even when they know that what they are believing is completely a lie.
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 10:12pm On Dec 24, 2020
Tohsynetita1:
okay, send me the book's name
The book is called The riddle of cruelty
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 10:10pm On Dec 24, 2020
NiRfreak:
Where can I get the book..I tried search for it to no avail.
I only saw the book in a state library in Uyo.
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 11:09pm On Dec 23, 2020
I am logging out now.
It is already late and I want to sleep.
Good night all
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 11:07pm On Dec 23, 2020
Dpsychologist:
Its true... But it's not all women.

Thats why BDSM is trending.

If you come across 50 shades of grey you will understand.

Its not only the western women who love this. A quite number of Nigerian women are into it.
Thanks.
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 11:06pm On Dec 23, 2020
virginprincess:
Never heard of that, who takes pleasure from pains.
Ok
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 11:06pm On Dec 23, 2020
Yusufisraelj:
That's complete nonsense, it only works for "damaged" individuals who have been victims of repeated abuse for a long long time.
Ok
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 11:05pm On Dec 23, 2020
lefulefu:
Hm 50 shades of greyish
Ok
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 11:05pm On Dec 23, 2020
hashtagged:
Yes if they are BDSM sadists
Ok
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 11:01pm On Dec 23, 2020
Tohsynetita1:
what do you mean by that, I don't understand you OP?
What I mean is that i read it in the library that if someone or some people are under punishment, if a woman is watching the punishment or if she is among those who are punished, she will be so sexually excited.
As in, her clitoris will become enlarged due to the feeling of sexual pleasure.
Her breasts may also response with pleasure the same way it will respond when a man is sucking her breasts.
That is what I mean.
That is what I read.
Do you understand now?
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 10:16pm On Dec 23, 2020
tobechi74:
Type BDSM.
Not that I want to try such.
I just want to know.
One must know these things so that when he/she marries,he/she would know what to expect from his/her spouse as far as sexuality is concerned.
Romance › Re: Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 10:12pm On Dec 23, 2020
Fuckhypocrite:
Funny buh true
Ok.
Romance › Can Someone Be Sexually Stimulated By Punishment? by lecturer50(op): 9:58pm On Dec 23, 2020
I read it in a book that almost all women are always very sexually excited and stimulated when they are watching people being punished.
Also I read that many women are always sexually excited and stimulated when they are undergoing punishment.
I read it yesterday in the library.
The book is called THE RIDDLE OF CRUELTY.
That is why I have come here to ask the ladies here if this is really true.
Of course I know all ladies will either deny it or will not answer, even if it is true.
I also know that the thread will be taken over by hateful males and even females who will be giving hateful comments.
Another thing is that people may not comment much on this thread.
But if I can get one truthful answer,it will be enough.
Romance › Re: These Days Its Girls Now Chasing Guys, Why? by lecturer50(m): 10:35pm On Dec 22, 2020
virginprincess:
Op that a lie, no matter what, it guys that always look for attention from girls whether facebook, whatsapp or any social media platform, and even in reality guys do the chase, the only thing you will tell me that i will understand is that girls of nowadays are easy to catch, they no longer prove hard to get.
It is not a lie my sister.
Just yesterday I went to buy garri from a lady.
I have been buying garri from her before I traveled.
When she saw me she asked where I had been.
I told her I just returned from where I went to.
She asked what I was doing to warrant my travel.
I told her what business I am doing.
Immediately she said she would like to be my girlfriend.
I thought she was not serious and told her so.
She repeatedly said she was serious and that why would she be joking with me.
She said she needed an answer to her request to be my girlfriend.
Her fellow garri seller was just there smiling.
I told her to give me time to think about it and that I would get back to her.
Romance › Re: Women Have Tried Their Best. by lecturer50(m): 9:33pm On Dec 22, 2020
I have been seeing some things like that online but I don't really believe them.
What I see online concerning men and women relationship is different from what is happening in real life.
I am not always bothered by those information online because it can make a man commit suicide over what is not true.
Romance › Re: How Many Usenames Do You Have Here On Nairaland? by lecturer50(op): 10:28am On Dec 16, 2020
Heartlessbanker:
As at now, I have 3 monikers here. But I don't use them except I'm banned. This is the most active one. Two "m" and one "f" grin
Romance › Re: How Many Usenames Do You Have Here On Nairaland? by lecturer50(op): 10:23am On Dec 16, 2020
fati2001:
one..
Romance › Re: How Many Usenames Do You Have Here On Nairaland? by lecturer50(op): 10:23am On Dec 16, 2020
khingTony:
Most of the SIMPs in this forum are females disguising as males
What I know in reality is that most people lie about their gender here in one of their usenames.
They may have 2 usernames with one bearing "m" and the other bearing "f".
That is the truth as far as nairaland is concerned.
When I did it once, I was spelled bound to discover how desperate men are for sex here in nairaland.
It was so disgusting how they were disturbing me not even taking the time to reason that I could actually be a man behind the moniker.
It made me very sad to discover how my own gender have been reduced to something without value, something which only exist to have sex.
I want men to know that most of the people you are sending pm are actually men.
Romance › How Many Usenames Do You Have Here On Nairaland? by lecturer50(op): 10:05am On Dec 16, 2020
Most people on nairaland have different usernames.
Someone can have up to 4 usernames and 3 of them he use "m" and the other one he use "f" to indicate the gender.

I was surprised to discover that even a lady on nairaland also lie by using "m" to deceive the people when in reality she is a female.
I thought it was only males that engaged in lying about their gender by using "f' until I went to a cyber cafe and saw a young girl opening nairaland with the username indicating "m " although she is female in reality.

I can't understand why a lady will use "m".
For men I could understand why they use "f". It is to dupe unsuspecting men and collect their money in the guise of offering themselves for sex.
I believe most people using "f" on nairaland are men.
I once used "f" on nairaland and if you see the way men were sending me messages for relationship and sexual encounters.
It was disgusting. My own was not to dupe men but to see what exactly women go through.
Before then I didn't believe men could disturb women so much for sex.
It was after I use "f" that I actually knew what women go through from men.


My question is: How many usenames do you have here on nairaland?
And how many of them do you use "m", how many do you use 'f" to indicate the gender?
Romance › Re: What Exactly Do Ladies Do For Each Other? by lecturer50(m):
The truth is that a woman wants another woman to respect, obey and fear her.
But she does not expect a man to respect, fear and obey her.
She only wants a man to love her.
She wants a sexual relationship with a man.
What a woman will tolerate from a man,she would not tolerate from a fellow woman.
All women know this truth.

A woman shows another woman an attitude.She became very angry and started abusing her.
Few minutes later,a man shows her that same attitude, she does not react against the man.She just let go.That is how it is.

That is why if a female teacher is teaching,no female student will make noise.They will not do anything to provoke her because she would not take rubbish from a fellow woman.Girls will all be in total submission and fear before a female teacher.
But she will treat male students with more leniency.
I speak from what I have observed as a teacher.

Because of these things, women see each others as rivals.
One popular female actress said that when a woman sees another woman, there is always a silent war between them.

But women see men as love objects.
Some see men as sex objects. That is an object which she interact with sexually through relationship or marriage.

She does not need your obedience, fear, respect if you are a man.
That is why she can easily love a man because women see men as love objects.

But she needs the fear, respect,submission, royalty and obedience of her fellow woman.
Crime › Re: Herbalist Arrested For Killing Hotelier Jimoh Bello Because Of N250k (Photos) by lecturer50(m): 1:09pm On Dec 11, 2020
The heart of man is desperately evil.
The heart of man is desperately stupid.
The heart of man is desperately foolish.
The heart of man is desperately unreasonable.

Most people dont think before they act.
That is why things like this keep happening.
People do not learn from history that is why history continues to learn them.
That is why history continues to repeat itself.
Tomorrow another person will kill again out of flimsy excuse and will be arrested and sentenced to death.
still people will not learn.They will continue repeating the same mistakes.
Romance › Re: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by lecturer50(m):
LucyB24:
I'm a 24 year old lady living and working in Abuja. My job is very time demanding. I'm usually very busy on weekdays, and sometimes on weekends I can get called to work if something important comes up.

There is a guy I've known for months now. We met in Abuja at an event and we've been friends since. He lives in lagos but visits Abuja occasionally. He's also a very busy guy and he hardly has time on his hands. We have spent sometime together talking and getting to know each other but we haven't been on an official date. Most of our interaction has been over phone calls and WhatsApp text messages due to the distance barrier.

I fell in love with him during the course of our friendship. He is everything I want in a man. He's financially stable, very good looking and smart. The few times I've spent talking to him have been a pleasure, both for my eyes and for my mind. I never thought I could ever meet someone who checks all those boxes perfectly.

Men like him usually get a lot of female attention and I've tried to tread carefully. I didnt want him to see me as cheap but I also don't want him to think I am not interested in him. The day he told me he loved me was very memorable for me because I felt the same way. Few days later I told him I loved him too. Due to the distance barrier we could only talk on phone. I'm a very decent lady with good upbringing but because of what I felt for him, I did things I thought I'd never do. One night we had a sex chat that ended in me sending nudes to him. I've never done this before. This made me feel vulnerable and cheap because even though he said he loved me, I never believed him because he didn't really act like someone who was in love with me. He wasn't the type to call everyday and there were periods where he would dissapear for days and ignore my calls and texts and then return like nothing happened.

Last week we planned a special meeting. I was to travel to Lagos to see him at his place on Saturday morning. He had planned to refund me the money I'd use for my airline ticket and even hire a taxi that would bring me straight to his place from the airport. The way he sounded I knew he took it as a big deal. I agreed to come see him in lagos. On Friday morning he called and I assured him I was going to come. He called me again in the afternoon and I assured him I was going to come.

Towards the end of work on Friday my boss informed me that I had to be at work on Saturday to complete a very important project. Immediately I got the information I sent him a text. I was too tired when I left for home and I planned on calling him...
My sister just pray that if he is your own,he will come back for you.
Forget those ladies here advising you against the man.
Most women are like that.
They will advise you to forget the man but if they can locate the man, they will go to him secretly to say evil about you and to get the man for themselves.
But here all of them will be saying things that will make you hate and forget the man.
If it is they that the man is not picking their calls, they will not stop begging the man.
But when it happens to another person,they will be saying terrible things and will be advising her to forget him.
It is a psychological issue.They are unconsciously asking you to forget him so they can have a chance of getting him.
I read psychological books on men and women behavior so I know what I'm talking about.


Also I have experienced it before when a lady was advising another lady that she should forget about me that I was not worthy to marry her, that I was this, I was that.
Later she met me and said evil about the other lady that she pitied any man that will marry the lady.
Now she wants me to marry her after spoiling me before the other lady who later left my state after NYSC.
I now know that she wanted the other lady to hands off so she could get me for herself.
That was why she spoiled me before the lady.
So be careful of those advising you.

Another thing is that most men if they see that you are a nice girl whom they truly love, they will initially be pretending that they are offended by your actions but deep down in their hearts, they really love you.
Unlike a woman who shows her love by being very friendly, so many men who loves a lady will at some point pretend that he is angry with the lady.
That is one of the difference between male and female.
Some time a lady can misinterpret the show of anger to mean the man does not love them.
But the truth is that you are the love of his heart, that is why he is pretending as if he is angry with you.
Some time,a man can see a woman he loves so much and want to have her.
He starts attacking her and behaving as if he hates her.The woman will think the man hates her.But deep inside, the man is dying for her.
And because women show their love by being friendly and their hatred by being unfriendly,the woman will think the man hates her when he is behaving unfriendly towards her.
She won't understand how a person will love someone and at the same time be behaving unfriendly towards her.
After sometime, the man will stop being unfriendly and will want to start a deep relationship with the woman or may want to marry her.
He will no longer be unfriendly towards the woman.

Your man may actually be madly in love with you,that is why he is behaving that way.
So just pray that he is yours.
If he is not yours,God will bring another man.
Romance › Re: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by lecturer50(m):
LucyB24:
I'm a 24 year old lady living and working in Abuja. My job is very time demanding. I'm usually very busy on weekdays, and sometimes on weekends I can get called to work if something important comes up.

There is a guy I've known for months now. We met in Abuja at an event and we've been friends since. He lives in lagos but visits Abuja occasionally. He's also a very busy guy and he hardly has time on his hands. We have spent sometime together talking and getting to know each other but we haven't been on an official date. Most of our interaction has been over phone calls and WhatsApp text messages due to the distance barrier.

I fell in love with him during the course of our friendship. He is everything I want in a man. He's financially stable, very good looking and smart. The few times I've spent talking to him have been a pleasure, both for my eyes and for my mind. I never thought I could ever meet someone who checks all those boxes perfectly.

Men like him usually get a lot of female attention and I've tried to tread carefully. I didnt want him to see me as cheap but I also don't want him to think I am not interested in him. The day he told me he loved me was very memorable for me because I felt the same way. Few days later I told him I loved him too. Due to the distance barrier we could only talk on phone. I'm a very decent lady with good upbringing but because of what I felt for him, I did things I thought I'd never do. One night we had a sex chat that ended in me sending nudes to him. I've never done this before. This made me feel vulnerable and cheap because even though he said he loved me, I never believed him because he didn't really act like someone who was in love with me. He wasn't the type to call everyday and there were periods where he would dissapear for days and ignore my calls and texts and then return like nothing happened.

Last week we planned a special meeting. I was to travel to Lagos to see him at his place on Saturday morning. He had planned to refund me the money I'd use for my airline ticket and even hire a taxi that would bring me straight to his place from the airport. The way he sounded I knew he took it as a big deal. I agreed to come see him in lagos. On Friday morning he called and I assured him I was going to come. He called me again in the afternoon and I assured him I was going to come.

Towards the end of work on Friday my boss informed me that I had to be at work on Saturday to complete a very important project. Immediately I got the information I sent him a text. I was too tired when I left for home and I planned on calling him later that evening. I was so tired that I took a quick nap and woke up to missed calls from him. I called him back and asked if he got my message and he said he didn't. I informed him of the change in plans and he got very furious. He accused me of being indecisive and playing games. He said he had cancelled lots of meetings and spent money preparing for my visit and was disappointed that I didn't take him as seriously as he took me. He ended the call in annoyance and I've not heard from him since. He isn't picking my calls or replying my texts. I've sent him voice messages on WhatsApp apologizing and explaining myself but he hasn't replied..

I really love this guy and I don't want to lose him. He probably thinks I'm lying to him or that I have someone else I'm seeing but that's not the case.
My sister just pray that if he is your own,he will come back for you.
Forget those ladies here advising you against the man.
Most women are like that.
They will advise you to forget the man but if they can locate the man, they will go to him secretly to say evil about you and to get the man for themselves.
But here all of them will be saying things that will make you hate and forget the man.
If it is they that the man is not picking their calls, they will not stop begging the man.
But when it happens to another person,they will be saying terrible things and will be advising her to forget him.
It is a psychological issue.They are unconsciously asking you to forget him so they can have a chance of getting him.
I read psychological books on men and women behavior so I know what I'm talking about.


Also I have experienced it before when a lady was advising another lady that she should forget about me that I was not worthy to marry her, that I was this, I was that.
Later she met me and said evil about the other lady that she pitied any man that will marry the lady.
Now she wants me to marry her after spoiling me before the other lady who later left my state after NYSC.
I now know that she wanted the other lady to hands off so she could get me for herself.
That was why she spoiled me before the lady.
So be careful of those advising you.

Another thing is that most men if they see that you are a nice girl whom they truly love, they will initially be pretending that they are offended by your actions but deep down in their hearts, they really love you.
Unlike a woman who shows her love by being very friendly, so many men who loves a lady will at some point pretend that he is angry with the lady.
That is one of the difference between male and female.
Some time a lady can misinterpret the show of anger to mean the man does not love them.
But the truth is that you are the love of his heart, that is why he is pretending as if he is angry with you.
Some time,a man can see a woman he loves so much and want to have her.
He starts attacking her and behaving as if he hates her.The woman will think the man hates her.But deep inside, the man is dying for her.
And because women show their love by being friendly and their hatred by being unfriendly,the woman will think the man hates her when he is behaving unfriendly towards her.
She won't understand how a person will love someone and at the same time be behaving unfriendly towards her.
After sometime, the man will stop being unfriendly and will want to start a deep relationship with the woman or may want to marry her.
He will no longer be unfriendly towards the woman.


Your man may actually be madly in love with you,that is why he is behaving that way.
So just pray that he is yours.
If he is not yours,God will bring another man.
Romance › Re: How Do I Propose To A Lady? by lecturer50(op): 2:28pm On Dec 07, 2020
SmellySperm:
weed
It is wed and not weed.

I want to wed the girl.
Romance › Re: How Do I Propose To A Lady? by lecturer50(op): 2:26pm On Dec 07, 2020
blinking001:
Whatever you do make sure you dont kneel
Noted
Romance › Re: How Do I Propose To A Lady? by lecturer50(op): 2:25pm On Dec 07, 2020
macho44:
Tell her "I LOVE YOU", then ask her to repeat after me grin grin grin

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lqzg_Pwrlcs
I hear.
Romance › Re: How Do I Propose To A Lady? by lecturer50(op): 8:14am On Dec 07, 2020
SmellySperm:
who's your dealer bro?
Which dealer bro?
Romance › Re: How Do I Propose To A Lady? by lecturer50(op): 8:13am On Dec 07, 2020
walter11590:
:Sing her Ultrasound by Joyner Lucas or Amazing Amy by Lil Wayne ft MigosShe'll accept sharp Ok.
I need to download the songs and start learning them.
Romance › Re: How Do I Propose To A Lady? by lecturer50(op): 8:11am On Dec 07, 2020
tobechi74:
Write her a letter like this

wanted us to be just friends and I told you from the very start. Some how we got closer.You began to feel something for me. I did not notice at first. Your jealousy increased I played it cool. Now you have opened up. I know Iy must have been difficult for you to . Now I cannot pretend any longer. We need to talk about it .

I do not have to pretend to feel the same way as that would be dishonesty on my part. I do not want to turn you down abruptly. For that would bring an end tovthe wonderful friendships.The awkwardness is what I am trying to manage now so we need loose everything.

I am sorry If I gave you any signal that I would be interested in taking decision is to the next level.

I need your affirmation that you can handle and accept the situation without feeling embarrassed and return to normal friendship without avoiding each other.

I promise not to tell any third party about this disclosure.I would tune down any flirting signs I might be giving unknowing
That letter makes sense.
Romance › Re: How Do I Propose To A Lady? by lecturer50(op): 12:01am On Dec 07, 2020
hashtagged:
Don't kneel, Just tell her you know I am doing you a favor, so will you be my baby machine? She won't say no
I am hearing you.
Romance › Re: How Do I Propose To A Lady? by lecturer50(op): 10:26pm On Dec 06, 2020
Fajoe2020:
Real G don't propose. Na she supposed kneel, how will I kneel to help person
Ok.

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