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Anambra is now d home of crime... Day in,day out, news of one crime or d oda in anambra... We don't have a sense of security in this state again... And d gov is doing notin

Nuezha: FROM EXPERIENCE, a girl can only talk shamelessly like that when you've CLIMBED her. You're a disgrace if you ever did that.
As charming as I was 7yrs ago, I didn't date a female corp member let alone descending so low to mingle with underage.

it's a shame if he did climb her. But, I don't entire agree wt u, mehn u need to see how shameless some female student can be these days, esp in riverine areas... U will ask u n even plead wit u to sleep wt dem, even wen u r trying to keep dem @ arms length...

obailala: What sort of dumb posts am I seeing here from Nlanders?

An anonymous enemy of Dino sits in front of a laptop and types rubbish and not a single person on this thread has questioned the credibility of this anonymous source

Don't mind nairalanders, we believe everytin hook, line n sinker without taking a few seconds to think... Two tins r involved, it's either the guy is a dog or his enemies want to ruin him... And with this second revelation, I tend to lean towards the latter...

Kamardiran: i wonder y u guys are shouting cos of delay in paying ur stipend.....av u finish spending d one u collected last?? The problem is most corpers are spendrift.....dey spend like no tomorrow........before some of u will start attacking me,i was once a corper,batch b 2011.......i knw ao much i saved,i neva complained truout my service year........

The fact u saved doesn't mean odas will be able to do so... Believe me, saving depends on many factors like:
A: d state or town(are things cheap or expensive dia)
B: do u get oda small tips frm ur ppa apart frm d allowie
C: how close is ur ppa frm where u live?
D: do u have relatives sending u money
E: do u have anoda source of income(business)?

I neva touched my nysc allowie, cuz option E applied to me, but that doesn't mean I should expect the same from everybody n become insensitive to the fact that 19,800 is nothing... Yea, 19,800 isn't enough... To feed,cloth, transport, etc...unless any of d above mentioned options applied/applies to u...

[quote author=Nice-Kid]I wonder o! Today is just 10th October and they are here shouting government-government. To the best of my knowledge, salaries/wages/ allowances are paid by month end. So be patient dude[/quote]And the month of september,2012 has not ended yet? Why can't we 'read' before we comment... Or do we think rushing to spew rubbish makes us look intelligent on nairaland?

Wonder wen naija will become d venue for such events

Not surprised... Wot a shame...

cowgurl: Currently in a committed relationship with a man whose dad left them @ a tender age and his sweet ma had to cater for them, all 4 of them kids.
I must confess he grew up a responsible man cos for the many years we've been together 'v had no reason to doubt that.
Yeah, u can say that again, mine is exceptional but my point is, people have lost good partners because they didn't take into cognizant their individuality. Even in relationships, we see it happen, people generalizing here and there.
Exceptions also exist when children from good homes grow up acting otherwise, will you go ahead and settle down with them because he/she is from a good home?
@topic, inasmuch that family history does matter in choosing our spouses we should't throw away their individuality.
As a matter of fact, it should come first before the former!

It should dear, I A̶̲̥̅♏ not disputing dat... But, ur case is an exception...my 2 kobo

Nashville: Ask people who are married and they will tell you family history matters a lot. The first marriage we see Is our parents' and if it ends in a very bitter divorce then be very careful of such people. If it happens with the grandparents then even worse.

Such people may not know how a family truly function and the need for a loving spouse. Such people may be filled with hate and anger due to various horrible things one parent may have said about the other. Such people carry all these baggage into marriage and it doesn't help!

These things matter!

On point,sister

[quote author=Mrs..Chima]I was more concern with HIV, STD, and Mental status. [/quote]ℓ☺ℓ

Ivynwa: Shouldn't it be about the person and the person's way of thinking. Family history should be considered to some extent but that should not be the determining factor because a person can have opposing ideology to what others in the family uphold.

190
This your redina has reached a screaming point where people should go on strike about it. That is too freaking bright on the eyes. WTfr*ak, 190?

Believe me, I had a notion like urs... I dropped it wen I started observing trends.... One can be dif frm wot is obtainable in his family,but its more like d exception,not d rule

190: OP

I agree with you on the part of broken homes

I have dated quite a few ladies from broken homes raised by single moms
and i swear down those ladies where nothing to write home about, they simply dont understand
the function of a relationship or man in their lives..

God help them sha!
Just kicked one of em to her sorry curbs a few months back and till date shes till venting

dont blame me - blame your mama - kmt


OFF TOPIC

Why wouldnt you check the history of the girl u wanna marry
You sure dont wanna end up with a NATIVE DOCTOR'S DAUGHTER ELSE You would be 7 STEPS FROM HELL FIRE
by the time the father blows native chalk in your face each time you hit his daughter

190, U r right.... A few of dem don't act dat way,but it's just a few of dem... Lmao @ d native doctor ish

[quote author=::Andrew::]no, I have my decisions and choices.[/quote]I used to say such tins,until I tot time to study events... Believe me, it's a big factor.. If it happened to d granny and d parent, den u have to be very careful... if it happened to just the parent, it could be a one-off, so that was y I included the grandparents in my post...

[quote author=D-Explorer]Dude, i like this topic but why kill it? "Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? would have been better and also earn a deserved attention.

@Topic: Sometimes they do and sometimes they don't depending on what matter is to be considered. If the grandmother and mother had a broken home, it doesn't interpret that a child born into that family will have a broken home if it's not supernaturally related.

If the grandfather and father was alcoholic doesn't mean the son would be but if they were polygamous and such individual doesn't have some strong set of beliefs against the act of many wives then he just might follow that pattern.

Good topic dude and hope more people respond.[/quote]It doesn't really have to be spiritual for traits to repeat themselves,esp when it comes to blood...
What happened to the saying, 'it runs in the family'

Sijo01: Smh!

Y r u shaking ur head?