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Lilyqueeny:
hmmmmm

Lol

Lily!! I miss u

jakeboss:
women are emotional if a girl slap u it mean diffrent tins a girl can slap u and hug u in next seconds wen she slap I and I walk away its maturity and it make her feel bad I hate to beat a girl but u cant deny me sex

Look at his mouth like "you can't deny me sex" as if sex is his birthright. Chair, she can deny you sex. And if you feel you can't stand the sex denial, leave her and go get an alternative who will give you sex, simple.

You have no right to demand anything especially forcibly from your spouse. Even God Almighty who created us gave us freewill how then can you a mere mortal want to seek absolute authority over a fellow creation?

lepasharon:
ok...but a ghanian told me kontimire stew is egusi..

Kontomire is not egusi please. Some Ghanaians may want to add egusi to it but original kontomire has no egusi at all. Egusi, is a Nigerian food it has never been Ghanaian and there's no Ghanaian version of it so there's nothing like Ghanaian egusi. Why do people just enjoy unnecessary cyber food wars?

Lashort:
I only came here to see your wife, I didn't even read the story. Too long and I'm lazy

Lol, not my wife o. A Facebook friend posted this today. It's his true life story. If you see the preamble I stated clearly that it was a someone else's true life story.

GloriaNinja:
COCK AND BULL STORY

Because you can't do it? Madam be easy, I know the guy.

jakeboss:
guy I will marry ur sister and nothing will hapun u dont reach my last brother. if she misbehave I will dicipline her did u know dat wen u beat a woman it mean 2 things
1 dat u are wrong
2 dat u are rite
if u are wrong she will dump u if u are rite she will love u more iv experince it. u are d kid herr is u who aint matured

#sigh, I give up on you.

Kindly note that this was copied from a Facebook post and it is in no way my story... I'm not even married yet

"I studied Accounting at the University, and Three (3) years after graduating, I couldn't find a job. I was 31 years old then.
Even what to eat was a problem. I had borrowed money from friends, that I hadn't been able to pay back.

I didn't know what to do, or whom else to call on. I could walk from Madina to Accra, and back, in search for a job. I wasn't getting any offers, so I decided to hang around 'rich' neighborhoods (Estate Homes), to offer my services - to weed and clean or something, anything, just to survive.

An old woman was generous enough to employ me first. She even referred me to her neighbors, and I was gradually, getting homes to weed. It didn't pay much, but was better than nothing.

Then I offered to wash the clothes of the men. I got many wives giving me their husband's suits to wash, and other clothes. I was making enough money to feed myself and my siblings.

Then, I met my wife. She had moved to the neighborhood, and had been observing me keenly. I had noticed her too, very pretty lady. But she wouldn't talk to me. She would smile with me from afar, but would not talk.
When I realized, after a few weeks, that no man had been visiting her, I walked to her gate, one weekend, and washed her car - without her asking.

She watched me from her living room, without stopping me either. When I was done, she cooked for me, allowed me to wash down, in one of her bathrooms, brought me a clean, white towel, to clean myself, and then gave me a bag full of new clothes and shoes and belts.
She had been shopping for me.

She offered to drive me home, and that was how we built on our friendship.

We've been married for 14 years, and I can boldly testify to you that, I feel safe, emotionally. Dave, on days when it seems the entire world - in its various ways, is rejecting, hurtful, saying,

"No,"

... I always have someone who is my soft place to land, telling me all is well, and the nasty lies in my head are untrue.

My wife and I challenge each other, too, push, nudge each other to go bigger, grow stronger, face our crap.

On even the darkest days, Dave, we laugh; sometimes dark, dark laughs, but it gets us through. It is, cheesy as it sounds, a ray of sunshine through black clouds.

We'll agree often times ... "Holy sh*t, the ship is sinking!", but if one of us starts to go FULL Titanic, the other says,

"Hey, it's just ice."

Or one of our favorite "ice-breakers" in such moments, as we hear the ship start to spilt in two... "Now, THIS... THIS is going incredibly well."

Do NOT spend a lifetime with someone who doesn't make you laugh. They needn't be a comic, the life of the party, nor make anyone else laugh for that matter, but they need to "get you" enough to get you to giggle... or at least try, ideally, daily; and especially, when the sh*t hits the fan.

And...

I am stronger, Dave, because it really is like people say, my wife makes me want to be the best version of myself. Without being wimpy or unmanly or putting me on a pedestal, she treats me like I am very valuable, very important, a treasure.

Occasionally, big gestures, but mostly extremely CONSISTENT little ones - always opens my door, carries my crap, will go to multiple extents to get that silly thing I wanted (a particular sex position) and NOT because I asked or expected her to, but because THAT is who she is, how she loves, or puts her hand on my knee and just says,

"Hey there,"

... when she sees I might not be doing so well, as in:

"I see you... need something?"

She doesn't slack. She always does her best at EVERYTHING, including us. THAT is the number one way my life has changed. I don't want to embarrass myself or feel unworthy of this gift I have been given so I try harder and don't give up when I fail.

Wallowing is much easier without a cheerleader.

My wife is the best woman I ever want to know - for the rest of my life."

jakeboss:
baba tnx ur woman will take u as mumu dont decieve ursef

Ridiculous guy, take who as mumu. You're being a kid here. Gentleman, that's why there's a courtship period
If you notice traits in a woman that you don't like you just leave. And if you marry her and you feel you're not compatible, just leave. Why will you waste energy beating someone when you can use energy for other things. Who made you her father? Or you think because you are the husband you are a better human being than her? Or you think you have no flaws and what if she could also beat you.

If I had a sister and you were her unlikely husband, just know you'll probably be deformed if you tried that nonsense of beating her. Such ridiculous mentality some people were raised with. I just don't get it.

Such absolute balderdash!

jakeboss:
I put a blog dat d best marriage is one were they lived as family witout a fight and I said women are like a babies and u have to treat dem so. is a fact dat if u neva show dat ur a man no woman will ever respect u sometimes u nid to treat them with force. I believed dat to get ur respect some woman get a beating beforr dey start behaving. some curse me dat day, and I felt bad but I learnt is bad to beat ir wife or girl. but my question is how do u make ur woman obey or respect u let take and example ur wife keep disobeying u u give her money to cook a food u wished to eat wen u back from work but she cooj another, or she didnt she now make useless indomie. again u want to sex her, she refuse for like 7 days she didnt let u touch her. and u are a fateful person dat doesnt like to cheat how will u handle dat kind of woman dat after family meeting she didnt change. how can u dicipline her ayamconfidence myfantasies
for dose who are married I wish to hear wat u think
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Wow, what an interesting mentality. How were you socialized?? Smh. #WalksOutOfThread

Lily4star:
I have been long taken, I'm sorry

Lol hope you know it's juat a scénario being painted. I'm many miloketers far from you.

Lily4star:
I look way younger, wrong, 25 but age is just a number

Oh I see, and does that stop my possible adventure if proximity wasn't an issue?

ZarZar:
Yes.

Alright sweerie...

OP sorry.

ZarZar:
Lol, let's just drop the subject of emails because we clearly see it differently.

Zar as in ZuidAfrikaanseRand.

#sobs

ZuidAfrikaanseRand. .. that sounds like Afrikaans (South African Rands?)

ZarZar:
Lol, slow down. No, don't drop it. To me that signifies taking things to "another level" & I'm not looking for that right now

Hahaha, "another level"? You mean 1st Base , it's just a harmless email nne

But I doubt it means another level especially when you don't like my dear Malema... and is zarzar the pet name for Zahara?

King44:
My ex chik sent me a text on whats app asking me to link her up with my one of my brother who is rich, knowing fully well we are still dating, I thought it was a joke not until she actually slept with him.. and me mumu when it comes to sex na to begin tell me say she dey on her period.. till today i am still regretting i didnt give her d D before we broke up

Wait you mean your own brother slept with your gf when he knew she is your gf?? I find this lie hard to believe

ZarZar:
Hahaha. You're resolute, nne? Patience is virtue

Determination and resolve are also great virtues nne

That being said, should I drop my email?

Ghanaian film actor, director and presenter, Chris Attoh, has proffered an advice to celebrities that are in relationships or intend to do so.

Speaking to citifmonline.com, he said celebrities should know what they really want before they get into relationships.

“Relationships are things that should be left to those who are in it. When you are outside a relationship you have a different view of it but those in it know better. But I will advise that before you get into the relationship you should take your time and know what you want and give it a shot. If it works, fine! If it doesn’t, you learn from your mistakes and you shine,” he stated.

Recently, it was rumoured that Chris and his Nigerian wife Damilola Adegbite, also an actress, had separated. When asked if the rumour was true, the celebrated actor declined to answer but rather said both Damilola and their child were doing well.

“Damilola is fine, our baby is also growing faster and faster,” he told Citi Showbiz.

With regards to his movie career, Chris disclosed that he would be flying to the United States in May for his second Hollywood project.

“I’m flying off to the United States to film in a movie which will be my second Hollywood collaboration, for it’s important to put Ghana on the map. I think that when you become comfortable with becoming area champion you don’t go anywhere,” Chris revealed.

He also hinted that he would soon be launching a big project in Ghana.

“Earlier on this year, I actually made noise on something very big that I am working on and it’s coming even closer so Ghanaians should expect it very big especially in the entertainment world,” he said.

Comparing the state of Ghana’s film industry now to the past, he intimated that there has been some improvement in the Ghanaian movie industry now than before.

“We’re making our film closer to how movies should be made now as compared to how it used to be. Technically, there has been some improvement in our movie industry,” he said.

Mr. Attoh also asserted that if the movie industry will be better the movie industry needs to follow the steps of the President of the Musicians Union of Ghana, Bice ‘Obuor’ Osei Kuffuor.

“I’m gonna use my brother Obuor as an example because he changed the music industry to what it is today. It comes down to having foresight and I pray for a lot more patriotism. It’s good to remember that change begins with the individual,” he said.

Chris Attoh has starred in movies like ‘Six Hours to Christmas,’ ‘Sinking Sand,’ ‘Single and Married,’ ‘A trip to Jamaica,’ with television series like ‘Tinsel’ and ‘Shuga,’ and others.

He is also one of Ghana’s finest Masters of Ceremonies and a broadcaster.

–

By: Kwame Dadzie/citifmonline.com//Ghana

ZarZar:
I meant the social media everyone refers to as social media aka selfiewood.

Lol I see... there are other options for me to see your oomph then... email!

ZarZar:
Unfortunately, I don't use social media. It's not my thing.

That's curious... if not ig I'm sure you do some other form of social media, NL is social media. I'm not on ig either I just have the app for viewing.

ZarZar:
You'll just have to use your imagination because apparently I have obsessed people waiting for my pictures like the 2nd coming of Christ. Don't want them to end up in some voodoo shrine

Lol eish, fortunately I'm not one of the obsessed I'm just curious... You should possibly drop hints of your ig so I go searching

Lily4star:
Story story, how old do you think I would be if you were to guess from my facial looks?

Lol why story? You think I won't make you my adventure?
Talking of age erŕm between 21 and 24

Lily4star:
And why do think it's a lie, I really do want to hear your reasons

Dont mind them... I actually sincerely believe you, but I bet if I was in your hood, I'll probably make you an adventure.

QueenSuccubus:



Oh okies...i will check it later...i must rest now...i dont feel well again..

Oh, what's wrong me lady?

ZarZar:
He just doesn't look like a full grown man. IDK how to explain it more. He doesn't have machismo lol. Oomph is "that thing"...sexiness.

Looool

Now I'm curious, I wanna see if you have that oomph

QueenSuccubus:
Is this ur own website?

It's for all of us, you, me, everybody

KennyID17:
For real, it's remained stagnant for years

We want new emojis, a block button....

That's all i can think of for now

Exciting emojis on www.nigerianbase.com

jakeboss:
I feel sad cos they ban a lot also I wish dat romance room have 21 and above cos I hate to see kid like mhisbliss or refiner here that insult people a lot I wish pple drop dia number too to make friendship easy

You won't get banned on www.nigerianbase.com

ZarZar:
Nope, he is not doing it for me. He looks small.

Lol zarzar how does he look small?

ZarZar:
LOL! Even so, he still doesn't have enough oomph for me.

What is oomph?

ZarZar:
I'll lurk for now

Aiit

ZarZar:
Oh wow! Congrats I can't do that now, I need time to warm up to the idea 1st. As lame as it sounds, but I'm goona need to spyche myself for it. I don't jump into new things just like that.

Lol for someone who likes to 'conversate' it didn't seem like you will be forum-shy... anyways lemme follow u here to keep tabs on you

ZarZar:
I just checked. Interesting topics but it's a little too quiet for me, I talk a lot I'm not writing it off just yet. Will keep an eye on it to see if things pick up It'd sure feel like a Naija overdose that's for sure. I'm not quite certain how I feel about that, but we'll see.

I'm curious though, you seem to be the most active member over there, are you the owner?

Lollest, no not the founder. I have an interest in it and I'm a mod. Why don't you just register now and choose a favorite moniker now before it gets taken up...