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Travel › Re: Save Us From Xenophobic Attacks, Nigerians In S Africa Urge FG by lezz(m): 11:44am On Apr 15, 2015
BluIvy:
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Whoo! I will not respond in detail to yourvrubbish. Go home! This is not Lagos, you cannot claim one Nigeria here.

Hardworking people crying so hard to stay in the land of the xenophobes and the lazy. Well by th way we know now who have cognitive problems. Btw, even Yorubas are lazy and blah, blah!

Dontdie with all your hardworking in SA please go home. This is really easy if you think about it leave the lazy, wicked Xenophobes in their country.
you are not even worth my responce or keystrokes. ever heard of globalization?

the average south african is a butt-scratching xenophobic savage.

after the rest of africa pressured your anglo-dutch Overlords to grant you self rule, you finally were allowed to climb down from your trees, mountains and caves in 1994.

naturally majority of you are unemployable and unqualified zulu savages. so nigerians, congolese, zimgabweans , etc with good spirits fill up your local economy economy, owning shops and taking up a few public institutions.


your only reaction is to kill and loot the shops of this hardworking foreigners.

in the meantime, white owned firms like shoprite are fleeing your country as economic refugees in nigeria even in regions where boko haram holds , just to escape from your incompetency, violence and the ability to run every company and infrastructure to the ground.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 9:51am On Apr 15, 2015
cococandy:
Gosh I'm just seeing this post.
So 'real' men whose wives work 8-5 don't find them attractive?
That would make millions of men out there who aren't finding their wives seductive anymore.

Jeeeeeeeez! Bro. No offense. Are you high? grin no offense pls I beg.

Where do you live That the men are all so rich their wives can afford to work 8am - 12 noon everyday?

You think a woman having a career or a job she does to support her family or does simply because she loves it is about power hunger?

I shake my head for you bro.

Make sure you don't educate your daughters so that none of them will make the mistake of trying to be a doctor or nurse or lawyer that would require her working even more than 8-5.
You know so they won't pay for such 'foolishness' in future.

#i thought I'd read it all grin
cococandy; your moniker is sweet, you also are intelligent and knowledgeable but you do not have wisdom.

A man or woman going to school isnt about making money or necessarily practicing what you had read. Education is about enlightenment, having a better world-view and taking a positive and critical apprpach to life. if you crave money, then get into business.

alright, that being said, let me equip you with this facts

the office only takes 2nd place to social media in infidelity-----FACT.

A wife working 8/5 is part of the moral decadence and decay in spciety today. a wife goes off to work and spemds 9 solid hours of her most energetic and productive time working for the government or private firm. she comes home after the day's work sweaty and mentally and physically fatigued. mean while junior and princess came from prep/nursery/primary school is 12pm and they are either left with a nanny or neighbour till mother or father gets bwck from work.

you ever wonder why the rate of female infant rapë is on the increase? mom is chasing after money like dad.


When a man comes home from work battered, sweaty, exhausted and tired or even angry, the best gift anyone can give to him is the hospitality in his own home, by his own wife. never the house help.

When the man and woman leaves home by 8am and return by 5pm tired, you realise they both are spending the most viberant and energetic part of their days apart and in company of colleagues.

the woman only begins to realise when she stands at the threshhold of menopause and old age that family upholding is her first ministry.


nb.... do not resort to subtle insults and cover them with lame appologies. i can give as good as i get as a swift glance over my posts will reveal.

let's keep it inpersonal.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 8:29am On Apr 15, 2015
Shollypopzz:
ROFLMAO!! I swear this person is too far gone! grin grin grin

What a lunatic, and 5 other lunatics liked his posts?? Bwahahahahahahahha!! grin grin grin

This kind of stup1dity deserves to be bookmarked. Hollup, you mean some feminists replied this poster?? Bwhahaha grin grin grin
And here it comes. i know this thread is going to lure out a horned she-devil, i just wasnt sure when. let the devil take your soul.


the only thing your type appears smart enough to do is lay on your back and spread your legs.

it is funny how your only contribution here is cheap vulgarity, depicting you as the resident lunatic.

your brain elasticity cant stretch beyond 2cm. and reading most of the post here is too much mental exertion for you, resulting in your mental fatigue. so you you resort to a cheap, courtessan's language to stay relevant.


you are as intellectually hollow and daft as a dumb, a-dime-a-dozen whorre, whose most sophisticated clientelle are buss-conductors and teenage street urchins .

your aggressive and raging approach to intelletual debate depicts you as a frustrated lovelorn.

you, my dumb ass feminist , are as worthless as the waste in a sewer pipe. you arent even smart enough to pull off this apalling feminist rubish. you are an embarrassment to the feminist, a huge 0 to womanhood. THAT SUMS YOU UP AS A WASTE OF HUMANITY.

You obviously swapped your school pen for a diick while in school, howelse could you be this classless and totally lacking in style.


If you aren't gifted by God with an UNCOMMON BEAUTY TO OFFSET YOUR UNCOMMON LACK OF GRACE and COUTH, you are going to end up as a thoroughly sucked out orange.

now, biitches like you do not bother me except if you want more.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2015
pickabeau1:
You could have made your points without the drama and histrionics
You have your moment of fame




lol
lol, her truth-absorber is awfully thin.
your words were sharpened by facts and truth; it cut her deep.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 5:54pm On Apr 14, 2015
5minsmadness:
This is rhema right here. I never thought of it like that before. This is very deep.
It is very deep and worrisome. This is actually satan's first attempt at usurping authority and giving power to women. His short term goal is to distrupt the family unit. When wives become insurbodinate to their husbands, children lose all sense of discipline and the family unit breaks down.

The long term goal is to distrupt human society and promote no sense of hierrarchy, loyalty, authority and order. So he seeks the financial and economic empowerment of women to make them independent of thier husbands amd the children follow eventually.

It is why feminist loby for control and not equality. they wamt to occupy the top and at the same time deny the representation of the lower spectrum of society where men alsp dominate.

It has been observed that most teen pregnancy occurs in single mother -daughter relationship.

also when a wife disrespects the husband, the children also disrespect her leading into the chaos and breakdown of the family unit which eventually spills into the larger society.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 12:57pm On Apr 14, 2015
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FrancisTony:
1) I'm not effiminate. You can believe whatever you want.

2) Why are homophobes so dumb? On a thread they tell you gays lacked motherly care on another, they would say they have domineering mothers.

Jeez! Stop thinking with your ass, i'm not gay but you can wish to label me anything. I don't care.

3) My grandma wasn't domineering. Not like I grew up with her. Just stayed with her during my primary school days.

4) Oh gawd! Another dumb and rétarded research. grin


What does it mean, then?


I was citing an example with your silly logic.


Do I need one? grin grin


Oh Lord! Who gave this dolt notion that i'm gay? undecided


None of my business.

- Why did Woman has to be a source of our salvation?
- I'm a Catholic and Mary is "theotokos" meaning Mother of God. What position does that place her?


Only Eve was created from the rib of Adam. Other people both men and women of today, were formed from male sperm and female egg.
Meanwhile, Adam and Eve fell and shouldn't be used as an example here - Jesus is the new Adam and Mary is the new Eve.


God needed to know whether Adam would succumb.
Adam showed that he's not strong enough and woman deceived him.


Snake deceived Eve and Eve deceived Adam.
They were both dumb.

Meanwhile, bible has many irregularities, don't think I concur with all passage(s).
I'm more of a theist who believe in some portions of the bible and Jesus.



None of my business


Yahweh was a misogyny in the old testament.

By the way, You need to research about books that was removed from the bible by Emporor Costantine--it reveres women higher than men.

-Book of Mary Magdalene etc



Crass!!! grin
lol, grin grin grin Lame, lame and lame attempt at defence. I know you'll come with a lousy response but I wasn't expecting this level of quackery from you.


I enjoyed the desperate attempt you employed at down playing the significance of your grandma's role in your upbringing as soon as you got besieged. That has been the root cause that has morphed you from a masculine, dominant male into an azz-leaking faggy fäggöt.

No amount of denial, shouting, and fighting will contrast the very nature you exude from thread to thread in nairaland : It is one who cannot reconcile his genetical composition to his feminie-dominated environment , one who has been bastardised by a perverted feminist 21st culture of a sexless human.

Alright enough of the this lengthy prose of explaining your hollow logic, mental and psychological makeup. Let me educate you with what your granny never told you; I'll answer those questionairs that exposed you for the fraud you are.


Some of my answers are going to be harsh, hurtful and damaging to feminists and their male apologists, but it is however the fundamental truth.


1----• Almighty God is a HE, a FATHER. THE BEGINNING OF ALL things created and funder.
The source of everything.

HE created the Male first to be the foundation and FATHER and source of the human race. That is why HE created the male first to be the source and progenitor of the human race.


2.....• If God had gone back to the dust to create the woman, she would have been independent of the male. She couldn't have been his help meet. She would have been someone with an entire different life career and purpose . Had God created the woman like the male, HUMANITY WOULD HAVE TWO LINEAGES.

A man would be called the son of his mother's father. That is what feminists are proposing, that's what a daft and maggot eating slowpoke like you is advocating.

In the bible, the genealogy of humanity was traced to their fathers to their progenitors and it ends with Adam the son of GOD.

3....• When Eve ate that fruit it was of no consequence because Eve didn't carry the authority, the responsibility of the human race. Adam did. It was Adam God held responsible not Eve. Remember my last post I said men are called to a higher sense of responsibility? Eve was his help meet, not his EQUAL PARTNER in the decision making process.

4....• Adam was with the snake since creation but the snake waited patiently to trick Eve. Your simplistic evasive answer of both Adam and Eve bieng dumb because while the snake tricked Eve, she then tricked Adam, is all the signs I needed to prove how malnourished your brainpower is.

Women are easily deceived,tricked and lured since the time of history across all cultures till this very day. God actually made her so because of the young child she will bear and nurse. Man are made more logical and less emotional to balance out the weak side of the woman and protect her from FALSE doctrines, cultures and trends. God gave the male both muscular and emotional stability above the woman to be an all-round shield for her.

The male cannot nurse after the young or hold the home as efficient as the female. This is how evolution balance the division of labour. That's is why women with WISDOM, not just INTELLIGENCE are happier and fulfilled than intelligent feminists. And that was what I will explain to balotyne or whatever her name is.


5----• It is striking to observe that all new churches easily convince the women. Later on men will follow up to get the ladies or to impress them.

Women are forever looking for direction, leadership and authority. No woman wants to be the one taking the majority of responsibility and decisions at home, not even the avowed feminists. When a man fails in spiritual and emotional leadership, females scatter like lamb without shepherd looking for direction. Feminism has destroyed many a young male. In Europe now there's actually a social war on males. I will point you to a ground breaking book: WAR ON THE BOYS to see the systematic war being waged by against young males all over Europe . That's why I say, African feminists are dump piece of decaying shout who haven't even begin to grasp the import of feminism .

I asked you why God had finished making the male and finished instructing him on his purpose on earth before creating the male.

HE observed the man was only, and needed a HELP MEET. lol. Your answers here are not only desperate lies but sacrilegious in its entirety. You need to ask forgiveness in all seriousness.

God gave women no office because the office of the man automatically becomes her office. The calling of the man becomes the woman's task of helping him in those areas.

That's why Saint Paul said in the NEW TESTAMENT, " The woman is made for the man, not the man for the woman. The woman was deceived not the man"

You foolishly want to differentiate Adam from today's man and Eve from today's woman. How clueless.

Every male is made essentially with the same emotional and physcio-mental disposition of Adam. He is still naming animals, generations, and pioneering civilization. And of course women are still DECIEVING men, for that's our only weakness, whom Evolution make us to fight and die for ;to own and to impress.


Women still are eternally like their mother Eve. Let me replay some of the thoughts of Eve in the garden.

"Eve looked at the fruit and it was pleasing to the eye. Reminds me how guys still get an easily lay by flaunting fastfoods eatries, shiny gifts and sweet words.

The devil also said " you will be like God, knowing evil from good. Your eyes shall be opened" Eve didn't only fall for the sweet voice modern women still fall for, she actually was an usurper who wished to out grow her husband by being equal to God.

FrancisTony, feminist never EVER are christians because behavioural scientists have come to acknowledge the role between men and women in support of the bible which has survived many civilizations and history.

you have admitted to be a partial believer of the bible, when are you going to toe the line of atheism of the feminists?

Answer: when you finally resolve your gendal confusion in favour of being a diick-sucking homo.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 11:07pm On Apr 13, 2015
grin
bukatyne:
Have you surveyed a lot of women to know that kids and family is the only thing that will make them happy?

Or family does not bring happiness in men? Or child birth? Or men do not flaunt their families or you think men do not like happy and healthy families?

Please stop the generalizations and blank divisions. The men I know are proud of their fatherhood and love having flourishing families in addition to whatever career advancement they make. Ditto the women I know. Don't you see NL guys opening threads daily on their successful marriages? Don't you see them put up pictures of their families?

Even look at celebrities; don't the men put up pictures of their families online? Don't they flaunt their families?

Now you are hilarious with the statement below:

Her "illiterate" counterparts who have followed their inner feelings will look younger, fresher and get more love from their husband and children.


A woman must be a stay at home mom to enjoy her home and children?

I though I have heard it all.

What makes me happy is different from what makes woman B happy.

Neither I nor anyone else can define a universal happiness index for women or men.
Of course,men are happy with a family and wife. In fact, the average wants a happy, stable family. Nowhere in my post did I say men do not want a family or aren't happy with one.


Men just aren't fulfilled with kids and family; that is, family and kids is more like the icing in the cake. Unlike the female he is an adventurer, a hunter driven by testosterone to dominate, conquer and to explore in the quest for glory, power and status. Therein lies his ultimate happiness and fulfilment.


In the same way, money, fame and status still give women the thrill but ultimately, she's very unlikely to be happily fulfilled without her kids and a nice home

Women do not spend all their time pursuing glory like so many men, they want to be home with their kids, look beautiful and soft. That's why even though men make much more money than women, women have more pairs of shoes and jewellery than men. Women also spend more shopping time than men.

When I say women, I mean the vast majority of NORMAL women. No one can claim to speak for every single members of the sexes
. After all, some are lesbians, feminists, She-men and subnormal having gender identity crisis grin grin grin
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op):
FrancisTony:
Yes! Francistony is an effiminate dude because he doesn't share your "women and gay hating" ideology.
You can even call me a tranny because I don't care. Here's an online forum and life is too hard to try pleasing inconsequential people because I want to be viewed as a strong mangina - it's not all about chest beating. Let your achievements speak for you.
"Captain save the whorès", you say? Funny how you tagged your fellow humans whorés because they are females.
My manhood can't rise? O' yes! Proudly team flat manhood. grin grin grin

I dealt with your silly ass the last time our path crossed and you couldn't stand the heat but resort to "ad hominem". This thread was/is really the definition of you as of that day. Yes, you are sad not women! cry


You musn't invent bulb or electricity? Atleast, brag with what you invented not what other men invented. Stop stroking your ego with other people achievements.


Lol, @bolded, how chauvinistic and sexist could one get? No women has that?
Well, Single women have successfully trained their children and that debunks your silly claim.
I spent my early life with my grandmum, yes! My grandpa was old and never instilled the fatherly discipline in me except pampering me and most of my nice childhood upbringings was taught to me by my grandma though I left her when I was still a child(barely 11years).


Thou shall not use the name of God your Lord in vain! grin
Provide biblical proof for this balderdash. angry


LOL! Without an egg, what will spèrm fertilise? Zilch!
I can see you are a Christian.
Okay! Why was Mary egg fertilised without spérm but no spèrm can produce an offspring without ovum?.
Going by your silly logic, women are the owner of kids because they owns the egg which forms the baby. Spèrm only helps in fertilising it.


Unnecessary junks borne out of hate!


Oh well, seems you haven't seen a female geek.
Strength? I guess you haven't seen a woman beating a man? When I say a man, I mean strong man? grin So, don't lump all women together.
Wisdom & logic? Visit Education section & check "Mathematics Clinic thread". You'll see geeky females killing Mathematics: Integration Differentiation etc


Chai! So much of hate.
Has Chimamanda digged your gold before? grin grin
You have solved the puzzle of your effeminate nature : raised by your grandma. Research shows that a good number of homosexuals are either raised by a domineering mother or a single mother.
thanks for the insight.

You also refute my assertion than no woman can give a child a sense of identity and security. Let me ask you whose name do you bear, your granny's or your father's? Only a man who bears his mother's name displays a Total lack of ignorance of this magnitude.

Being raised by your granny, I was asking too much of you. There are things you're predisposed not to understand by the very circumstances of your upbringing.
I find your logic as emotional and weak as that of a little girl. Since when has a woman even beating up a hulk Hogan mean woman are physically stronger? You should cover your head in sand.

You talk about Mary, the mother of Jesus . As a christian how could you compare a completely supernatural process to the bilogy of procreation? You really are a woman.

I should direct you to a best seller in America entitled DAD IS DESTINY. And you shall be cured from your subnormal gender malady.

I know must homosexuals are bible haters but you seem to defy this trend surprisingly.. Let me give you this questionaires then and you can answer them to impress your little minded feminists

1---- Why did God create the male first?

2---- God created man from dust, when he needed to great the female he could have as well just created the woman from dust. Why did God go to the trouble of causing the man to sleep, then created the woman from the side bone of the man?

3---•When Eve ate the fruit nothing happened until Adam ate it. Why was that?

4----• Despite God creating the male first, the snake had been with him ever since but NEVER made any attempt to deceive him. But he deceived the woman , why was this?


5----• Have you noticed that all new churches are formed by easy talking women into it? Just like the snake talked Eve into eating the fruit?

6•••••••God gave Adam all the direct instruction concerning the work on earth before Eve was even created, why is this.

Answer those for your feminist to brighten their face writhing in self-loathing.

Oh, and talking about Chimamanda or whatever her name is, i have read some of her piece, very brilliant and knowledgeable. But truth is she's as lacking in wisdom as most of these shallow minded feminists here.

Look for her writeup on her experience of TRUE feminist experience in Scandinavia and you will know why you are still an overgrown grandma's boy with no masculine drive or purpose.

Waiting for the answers, please.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 4:48pm On Apr 13, 2015
craziebone:
will you also tell the feminists in here to stop using marie curie's achievements too?

When women put all men together as a group, why won't we take the achievement of Einstein and Newton as ours? Afterall, they also don't only claim the achievement of real women, they also claim the power of the mythical Lilith and women of the Amazons.

We men also have to fight against how feminism sees us which is becoming engrained in men's mentality.

Feminism told men it is ok to sit down and let his wife feed him. Some men took that in and guess the result? These men became what even the feminists won't even want to date. These men became what the society and feminists will point to as evidence of failure of the male gender. We are also seen as the enemy, the rapist, the one whomust be contained at all cost.
FrancisTony is not only effeminate , he is also always on the wrong side of logic. An ISO certified captain-save-the-who'res.
Someone who can't get his manhood up properly.

Why you talk about the pioneering nature and innovative drive of men and you bring Albert Eistien(?), you are also talking about the average male which include every functional male. We mustn't all invent the bulb or electricity.

Every man has the potential to give a sense of security, identify and foundation to his offspring. No woman has that!! A woman gives love and support and care.
A growing child needs both to be psychological and mentally balanced .


Every man is called to a higher sense of responsibilty and purpose than women. And this is not by cultural or societal conditioning but by the very essence of the male's disposition by God in evolution.

As men are the providers of identity by which children and women are to be identified, evolution saw to it by equipping the male with the ability to produce offspring of an entire village, community and nations. Thus a man produced semen until he dies, while a woman can only release one egg per month which eventually ceases at age 45 or even before.

A recent survey in America shows that the average woman is far happier when her husband is successful financially and does the major part of the financial work than if she's more financially successful and does the work more than the husband.

A poll conducted in Europe and America on top female CEOs and top Executives found out that they don't wish to work till retirement. They prefer an arrangement where they would be able to work part time and from home.

The Scandinavian countries have tried feminism and failed spectacularly . It is known the world over as the[b] Swedish failure[/b]

Evolution gave men heavier bones, strength, wisdom, night and logic than the average female.

Which is balanced female's stronger resistance to sickness; females also outlive males in all human societies, females are also more biologically productive than the average male.

Feminists are wicked ignorant psychopaths who are psychological maladjusted and self-loathed lots whose ultimate aim is to distrupt the family structure and upturn society.

This description is for the western feminists, the African feminists are just a bunch of confused, brainless, gold-digging lots who don't even have a clue of what feminism entails.

People whose perception has not progressed beyond the acquisition of fake hairs, nails and eye brows. Whose understanding of feminism is to be spoon-fed by society without reciprocity.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 9:15am On Apr 13, 2015
craziebone:
don't mind these people. The victim mentality is not only an evidence of an unfortunate pathology on their own part, but also an example silly excuse! For them, it always has to do with the other person.

Since most feminists are arrongant towards religion and religious stories of the creation, may be they can answer this question: if men and women started off with the same psychological wiring such that what interests us and makes us feel fulfiled are one and exactly the same, then at what point did the difference come in? What were the factors that led to it? How was it that women were 'held down' by almost all cultures all through history? How did the man force her into that position of 'oppression'?

I really want answers from the smartest feminist in here.
lol, believe me, none of them can even attempt an answer. Stillfire and co were just going round in circles of repeating question which has been felt with.


There are two things feminist and homosexuals have in common

1- They are Godless and almost always refuting the bible/quaran, ideologies which has survived the vast part of human civilizations for something written by a sad, unfulfilled woman which hasn't stood up to science, philosophy and religion.

2- They fight against nature .
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 8:44am On Apr 13, 2015
Msauza:
I am not crying because I know that from SA geographical position upwards in the continent is just a bush with big lions and monsters, and downwards from Cape town is Europe. That's why we do not see ourselves much as Africans because we do not compare ourselves to Africa but Europe.
Msauza from your Monika you're either a Zulu Bantu, Xhosa or Tswana bush-hut dwelling savage whose forebears built nothing in south Africa .

Mandela was referring to you and your kind when he admitted"we can't run a country, we are just released from the bush, prisons and camps"
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 8:23am On Apr 13, 2015
Msauza:
Every hospital in SA has a power back up system. Many people do not even understand the concept of sensationalism used by media, just like you. Tell me which doctor in the world can perform operation with a light of a cellphone? You must study communication or journalism to understand sensationalism.


Meanwhile, SA doctors has made history yet again.

http://www.bdlive.co.za/national/health/2015/03/13/sa-doctors-perform-worlds-first-penile-transplant
keep crying.
When the ANC took over governance 20 years ago, the party, by its own admission, lacked the capacity to run a government.

"We were taken from the bush, or from underground outside the country, or from prisons to come and take charge," the late Nelson Mandela recalled after becoming the country's first democratic president.

"We were suddenly thrown into this immense responsibility of running a highly developed country."

But 20 years on South Africans appear to be less understanding, with blame roundly piled on the governing party and its policies.

The party's leadership has "allowed corruption to take root, ran an ineffectual bureaucracy and education system, and spent millions on vanity projects," said analyst Max du Preez, in a recent book A Rumour of Spring.

While Mandela sought to retain all but the most politically-warped white civil servants needed to run the country, many still left.

They were replaced by party acolytes who too often used the public sector for self-enrichment, looting coffers through manipulation while the people were neglected through poor service delivery.

"The public service is incapable of fulfilling its obligations because of a lack of capacity among civil servants," said Wits University vice chancellor, Adam Habib.

This is a consequence of the government's "misguided cadre deployment policy".

"Corruption runs rampant and is not dealt with firmly because of party loyalties or inefficiencies in the system," he said in a recently published book South Africa's Suspended Revolution.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 7:55am On Apr 13, 2015
Msauza:
Nigeria has most of poorly developed hospitals in Africa. SA always wants to compare to European standard in almost everything. By the time they start to look into Africa, they will see that they are in actual fact by far better in terms of development of infrastructure. The problem is that we have white community and Asian community that always refer to either Europe or Japan that they always use as a yardstick to measure the quality of public services. I just only wish them to visit Nigeria and other African countries, I bet you they will recommend SA in many ways.


Nigerian government is a complete failure when it comes to service delivery. They don't even know the concept of service delivery. Pregnant or not pregnant you are entitled to free health care in SA.
operation by phone light, 3-1 bed with a dead body Sandwiched between 2 patients, Mandela admitting ANC do not know how to run a government because they're from the bush.

You have been killed and buried. R.I.P
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by lezz(m): 10:54pm On Apr 12, 2015
Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children
you're obviously a pú§§y-trading bítçh whose çünt is as used and as weak as the old national stadium in lagos.

You have plainly paid your pû§§y away in school for free meals and expo, you slummy, dumb , a dime-a-dozen whørë.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 10:15pm On Apr 12, 2015
bukatyne:
Einstein did not need extra push later the extra push is curiosity undecided

Every extraordinary person had extra push to succeed, that makes the difference afteral he was not the only male in his class really

So Marie Curie's achievements doesn't count because she worked with her husband? I laugh.


You remind me of a NLer's signature... I will not fail; If I fail, they will say because I am a woman.

Never mind million men have also failed in that area. A woman fails and it is because she is a woman.

I believe the current NAFDAC boss is a man; pray tell, What has he manufacturedhuh

From my Secondary School days, I know that different people have different competencies and they are placed in classes according to interests and capacity So I don't get the stress on STEM courses.

Gani was a lawyer (arts) and did a lot than an average STEM guy. Infact, most notable people in Nigeria were/are known for the arts, sicial sciences and humanities.

Is There anywhere Wole Soyinka cannot enter? He might probably not know the solution to 2x + x.

I am a firm believer of allowing everyone decide What they want to do.

I do not support using quota system to place ladies in STEM courses. Instead, break the barriers If any and let girls and boys compete on a level ground. If the girl chooses STEM, fine; If not fine.

As to STEM courses not relaxing to females, I do not know.
Academic intelligence doesn't necessary equate into wisdom.

The male dominant homone, testosterone drives men into pioneers, explorers, inventors, founders, upholders, nourishers and protectors . This homone is very little in women.

In actual danger, a woman looks up to male for guidance and instructions, even if that male happens to be an adolescent
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 10:05pm On Apr 12, 2015
craziebone:
haha! This is strawman arguement my dear, especially with the tubman example.

I didn't mean that women are incapable of something sublime, of course they are! There are countless examples of women who have actually done alot to advance intellectualism and the world has benefited from their work so much. I can even add to your list if you want me to.

What i was trying to drive home is that women are generally (and when i say generally, i mean on the average) are not relaxed by subjects like Physics, mathematics and philosophy. Hence the natural low number of women in those area. Dora, though a pharmacist, is not known for inventing any drug really. She is known more with chairing an organization that was highly effective in combating fake drugs. Her achievements are more in the area of management rather than pharmacy, her chosen proffession. But feminism came up and because it is more concerned about elitism and man jealousy, it decided to push women into areas that just do not relax them.

Today, even though women make up a large part of stem courses and sometimes are best graduating students in those courses, their overall contribution to the advancement of the field is still very very low.

Also, it is important to note that the work for which Marie Curie is known, she did it together with a man, her husband. They were both awarded the Nobel Prize in chemistry for their pionering work in radioactivity.

So no! The arguement doesnt go both ways.

NB: Dora's excellecnce at NAFDAC was inspired by her personal story. The fight against fake drugs was personal to her. She needed an extra push to trigger her inovative skills. Einstein did not need a very personal extra push to come up with his theory of relativity. The extra push he had was the basic extra push men have always had that inspired them to be great explorers, innovators and patriachs. That extra push is just simple curiousity.
you will always be a hard bone to crack for the feminist. Gifted with literary prowess, empowered with facts and the power of honest superiority of knowledge .

Your style of comment is all there is to know that men are born to be teachers and instructors. God created the male first and made the woman from him as a support and help meet, never as a competitor .
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 9:53pm On Apr 12, 2015
MikeCZAR:
All armies were integrated into the SADF and were retrained for conventional warfare as their was based guerrilla warfare.

Compare that with Nigeria, as we got problems but yours are worse.

In your dreams.
Nelson Mandela admitted that they came from the bush, prisons and camps and do not know how to run a country.

Runnig a country implies the military, education, hospitals and infrastructure. And all of these are nose-diving in South Africa of today.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 8:22pm On Apr 12, 2015
Msauza:
If you touch the issue of hospital, do yourself a favour and shut up, because we both know how bad are Nigerian public hospitals which do not even offer free medical care. SA provide free medical care and is about to implement NHI, the first country in the world to do so. The country which will pay for its citizens medical care even in private medical facility. This initiative assures that every citizen of SA will have a medical aid of their own, dummy.
Nigeria has the NHIS ( National health insurance scheme.

In delta state, all pregnant women goes through free ante natal and deliveries.

Sing me another song.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 8:18pm On Apr 12, 2015
Msauza:
If you touch the issue of hospital, do yourself a favour and shut up, because we both know how bad are Nigerian public hospitals which do not even offer free medical care. SA provide free medical care and is about to implement NHI, the first country in the world to do so. The country which will pay for its citizens medical care even in private medical facility. This initiative assures that every citizen of SA will have a medical aid of their own, dummy.
you must be a zombie schizophrenic baboon.

Your hospital shares 1 bed to 3 patients.

A dead patient got sandwiched in between two loving patients, plus your operations are carried out by touch light, not even a generator set.

Your government reduced pass grade to 30%.

This anomaly don't happen in Nigeria, not even in during the civil war.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 8:03pm On Apr 12, 2015
Msauza:
You don't know anything about the story of textbook saga. The book were delivered but instead they were dumbed in the dumping site.


Nigerian school children know nothing about textbooks. Most of their schools are in bad conditions particularly in Enugu. So, you shut up because I know the poor conditions of schools in Nigeria.



http://m.mg.co.za/article/2012-08-07-more-textbooks-found-dumped-in-limpopo



http://m.news24.com/news24/SouthAfrica/News/5-000-dumped-textbooks-found-in-Limpopo-20120807
[b]'Things have got worse'

And a facility that was once one of Africa's finest hospitals is now plagued by broken equipment, a lack of basic medicine and despite having 3 200 of them, a lack of beds.

At the advent of democracy on 27 April 1994 Baragwanath Hospital had a stellar reputation, receiving referral patients from far beyond South Africa's borders.

Its doctors had already successfully separated conjoined twins, while Groote Schuur hospital in Cape Town was the first place in the world to successfully carry out a heart transplant.

With universal suffrage came a duty to care for tens of millions of black patients who had largely been denied access to quality care for most of the previous century under racist apartheid laws.

"Things have got worse, it's so bad, it's actually frightening," said a black senior doctor at the hospital who asked not to be named.

He remembers an incident two weeks ago when three very ill patients were forced to share a bed in an admission ward that checks in more than 100 patients each day.

"The one in the middle died and suddenly these two people were sandwiching a corpse," he recalled indignantly.

In another recent case a woman was forced to share a bed with a male patient.

State "hospitals were much better run under apartheid", he said, dismissing suggestions that the expansion of medical coverage to black patients is the root of the system's problems.

"There was less money that was going into corruption."[/b]
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 7:52pm On Apr 12, 2015
Msauza:
One thing that separate SA and Nigeria is development. Despite corruption in SA but development is heading forward, with our struggling economy or not. We are the only country in Africa that build free houses and free services. I have been to many countries in Africa including Nigeria, but all that I see there is disappointing. Nigeria in particular is a bush outside Lagos and Abuja. Even Lagos is still under developed in many respects.


In Limpopo 5 000 children had no textbooks for more than six months because the government stuffed-up a delivery contract.

Across the country the government has lowered the high school pass mark to 30% to ensure matriculation rates don't collapse under the weight of low-quality teachers, protected by government-allied unions.

At an upscale housing estate in Pretoria ill-trained or reckless police tramp through a suspected murder crime scene, putting their own case in jeopardy, while some investigations into the politically connected are dropped.

"The whole policing sector is a failed institution. It has become like a militia - like Haiti's Tonton Macoute," said political analyst Moeletsi Mbeki, the brother of former president Thabo, referring to the brutal paramilitary force created by ex-dictator Francois 'Papa Doc' Duvalier.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 7:34pm On Apr 12, 2015
MikeCZAR:
what's decaying tell us?

Abacha didn't build anything?
majority of your military is peoples by ill-trained Zulu fighters who got drafted in by 1994.

Your institutions are filled by half-literate employees forced in by ANC.

2014-04-24 12:06 Johannesburg - In the bowels of Africa's largest hospital, doctors carry out emergency surgery by the light of a cellphone while, in a nearby ward, seriously ill patients are sardined three-to-a-bed.

Twenty years after South Africans jubilantly swept apartheid aside, Johannesburg's Chris Hani Baragwanath Hospital, like many of the country's post-apartheid institutions, has failed to live up to the dream.

Away from the country's high-profile political scandals, a more pernicious institutional crisis is ravaging the "Rainbow Nation".

Small municipalities and large ministries are being eaten away by corruption, mismanagement and the enormity of serving all of the country's 51 million citizens, not just an elite few.

The problems are "systemic" and require a complete "overhaul" according to Phophi Ramathuba of the country's doctors association, but they are not limited to the health sector.

When I told you whites are your saviours, you beat your chest like a gorilla and deny.

When I compared you to Burundi, you thought I was being funny.

Now listen, South Africa is going to keep rotting away to the very bottom before an attempt at change will surface. Mark my words.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 7:10pm On Apr 12, 2015
MikeCZAR:
Better than Nigerian's.

What's Nigeria's road coverage?
We're building still, while you're decaying. Everything your anglo-Dutch built is rotting away at an unprecedented fast pace.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 7:02pm On Apr 12, 2015
MikeCZAR:
South Africa has the best infrastructure, universities and military support companies.
South Africa has the most rapidly decaying infrastructure in Africa.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 6:38pm On Apr 12, 2015
Henry120:
Patches689 has had a complete mental breakdown. The desperado can't come to terms with the ineptitude and incompetence of the SANDF.
lol, that dude bleeds in the heart and pretend to put out a strong facade.

pre-1994 South Africa was a hype!!!

Post-1994 South Africa is a criminal representation of facts.

This is the beginning of decay of South Africa.
We've seen in its societal structure, in institutions , schools and in the military.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 6:16pm On Apr 12, 2015
Msauza:
why do you like to balloon the numbers of SA troops deployed to CAR? How is that going to benefit you because only 250 soldiers were deployed. The number that does not even make a quota of SANDF troops.



Meanwhile, The whole Nigerian army, air force et al asked assistance from SA mercenaries to defeat BH. Don't forget that one as well.

In Bangui, the French deployed over 4000 troops in contrast to SA that deployed only 250 soldiers.
What the world knows and acknowledge, South Africa denies.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 6:11pm On Apr 12, 2015
Patchesagain:
Nigerian troops on the run

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXbQ4aN2B5U

And again

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HY36o7O6LpY

And again

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_WxPK6xdukQ


“There’s so many issues,” said Alkasim Abdulkadir, a Nigerian freelance journalist and security analyst, citing the lack of a unified command structure, poor equipment, low morale and allegations of corruption among commanders as key reasons behind the military’s failures."
- Al Jazeera

Last year, Nigerian troops were deployed as part of an African Union mission to Mali - they arrived without transport, armour, very little ammunition, and almost no communications equipment.
- BBC

You had to rely on Chad, Cameroon and white mercenaries to liberate you.

Whom is incompetant?
Patches is getting angry and desperate again.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 5:38pm On Apr 12, 2015
Stillfire:
So why don't you relegate your daughters to studying home economics only then if you believe women don't have the brains to revolutionize culture?
To even refer to Einstein era in the same breath is disingenuous where prioritizing female education was just beginning to pick up steam in the late 19th century and early 20th century putting into consideration men have had more than a thousand year head start to women. Despite the thousands of year gap between men and women, we begin to see women as early at 1930's showing some intellectually might. This is like comparing the head start of European men in the STEM to African men. Does that mean African men are dumb because it has done nothing to contribute to the sciences today?

Nope the old power, relied on physical strength. But today it relies on intellectual might through STEM courses cheesy. The so called Magic and mysticism are part of STEM. These are all part of physics and medicinal chemistry.
what then do you think is responsible for women's slow start to education in the society?
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 5:18pm On Apr 12, 2015
Stillfire:
This is the most disingenuous thing I've ever read in my life.
Was your gender ever restricted in achieving these things?
Between someone who was restricted and who wasn't, who is more likely to think outside the box? shocked shocked shocked
that's a wrongly held opinion for centuries now. So you wish to admit to me that women have been held down by all societies in the world since pre-historical times.
If you admit this, then it has solved our little debate. Don't you think ?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Has The Strongest Military In Africa? by lezz(m): 4:45pm On Apr 12, 2015
Henry120:
Uselessness of the SANDF. CAR

[b] Pretoria - Operational commanders have painted a picture of chaos around the mission in the Central African Republic that claimed the lives of 15 South African soldiers - putting the blame squarely on the shoulders of the military’s top brass.

According to the Sunday Times, logistical blunders and feuding among military bosses led to South Africa’s ‘Mogadishu’ in March last year.



However, the military has never revealed before that all the deaths happened in a single ambush on 23 March last year when about 100 paratroopers were being transported in open vehicles through rebel territory.

Details came to light after interviews were conducted with survivors during a probe into the incident.

The newspaper reports that field commanders had pleaded for armoured personnel carriers two months before the ambush, that they had asked for sniper rifles, Rooivalk attack helicopters, Oryx transport helicopters and a reconnaissance aircraft - none of which were supplied.

Troops painted a picture of chaotic supply of weapons and equipment while dual reporting lines contributed to the logistical chaos while force commander Colonel William Dixon gave a horrific description of the lead up to the final assault that claimed the lives of the South Africans.


had become a target for reportedly helping CAR President Francois Bozize flee the country into the Democratic Republic of the Congo.

According to the report, top structures were warned by senior SANDF officers that the CAR mission amounted to "suicide".

SA Air Force aircraft were also put on standby but due to financial constraints the Gripens were not armed with weapons with an attack capacity.

SANDF soldiers reportedly struggled on the ground due to lack of logistics and air support.

Soldiers had to ask French parachutists for essential equipment, with only one doctor present with a backpack for medical support.[/b]


Patches689, mikeczar, agaugust, Jln115, saengine, lezz
Hmn, little by little the SANDF is being exposed. A ragtag army from a nation which love to pretend and flex muscle where it hasn't matured enough.

South Africa , a nation of pretenders whose army love pictures like models
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 4:21pm On Apr 12, 2015
Stillfire:
If a woman's natural calling is to be attending to family why not focus more on her capabilities by taking her to home economics school? If men are the drivers of society why waste efforts on your daughter? Why send her to school? When her utmost goal is to be a homemaker? Do you understand these women are taking admission slots in universities of men who genuinely have the so called 'natural' disposition to amass wealth, power and glory, which creates unhappiness for women? grin Please start from your daughter and I'll take you seriously. Do you know how much STEM subjects costs and how much time spent on such, it would be wasted efforts if a woman, infact anyone studying these courses do not reach her full potential as a career woman. So instead of wasting such time and money with the full knowledge of not practicing her degree, please let her study home economics.

A lot of women are mixing career and family very very well. The so called striking a balance comes from when the husband also strikes his own balance by also attending to the 'homely' responsibilities of taking care of the kids and doing his own house chores.
A woman's TRUE source of happiness doesn't negate her need for education. My dear, I am sorry to inform you that women have never founded any civilization, Town or technology. What they do best is to give to society what society gives to them.

Men on the other hand are pioneers of civilizations, technologies and founders of towns, cities and nation.

A female doctor or Scientist is more likely to give to her patient what she learnt in school while a male doctor, (a few percentage)
will change the course of the medical profession for the next century. If you research female pioneers of technology, you find them as the exception, not the rule.

Females should be educated but ultimatley life is about happiness and fulfilment and women naturally gravitate towards nature.

You can't fight your biological disposition no matter how hard the denial and shouting.

Evolution says you love your kids and husbands more than you will ever love office fights, the quest for power and getting that promotion.
Family › Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(op): 4:00pm On Apr 12, 2015
bukatyne:
The word you are looking for is joyful. Happiness is fleeting and is temporal.

If I just failed my final exams and I was given N200K cash, I will temporarily forget my failure and be Happy... till the effect wears off and I am back to sadness

Career, promotion, money etc. has never and will never make anybody joyous (Male or female). Else all our bosses at work will be bubbling with joy.

Family alone cannot make people joyous too.

Life calls for balance in all areas for everyone.

Only been content in What you have while striving for more guarantees joy.
No human emotional state is static. There are periodic swift changes. The time lag is of importance here between the state of one emotional condition to anpther. Even menstrual circles alter the emotional state most women.lol


That being said happiness is a state of being as the most predominant state of a persons entire given emotion. It's akin to the state of contentment, of the fulfilment of an inner fulfilment of an oblique task as old as life itself. My happiness is akin to fulfilment

That's why I said happiness for men and women are very different. A man is wired inherently to be aggressive , to produce , to get power, to control resources. So he founded towns and cities and countries and civilizations and technologies. And the feminist say it's because of social conditioning and cultural vote. But they can't back it up with science. Men can therefore come into a LONGER. phase of happiness in his entire life time if he achieved these to a varying degree. He will come to a sense of fulfilment of having achieved his unexplainable life-goal.



Women on the other hand will achieve these,if they can, in career and income and within a the shortest time realize they aren't happy, they will not get an answer to the nagging question of her natural, biological purpose; she will be unfulfilled, empty and without a sense of purpose, a little man.

She will soon find out that all she ever needed have been deposited in her by nature and she was just too intelligent to use it.

Her "illiterate" counterparts who have followed their inner feelings will look younger, fresher and get more love from their husband and children.


What's your notion of a long term state of fulfilment for the modern woman?

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