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plaetton:
Excellent.
I couldnt agree more with you.

I am A modern man, but a realist.
I don't ever want my wife working as hard or even harder than I do.

When you try to subvert nature, distress and disharmony ensues.
The funny thing is that men have not changed one bit in thousands of years.

The ignorance of feminist is mind blowing. I have never seen a group so intelligent in ignorance and lacking in wisdom.

Virtually all carrier driven and power hungry women have paid away their children and husbands as a price for their folly.

Which unaltered man with a healthy, uncompromised testosterone will find sexy and eternally seductive a woman who goes to work by 8am looking her soft best for her colleagues and returning home tired,exhausted to the husband. They both arrive at home by ,say, 5pm , both looking tired and worn out. This isn't the way it is meant to be.

possible out comes, the man gets a secret young mistress who is always soft, clean, strong and waiting. Someone whose the very natural disposition is unalterably opposite of his testosterone driven nature. He will lose his power and money to that woman.

The carrier freak wife is going to toil hard and get older,maybe one or two flings with a colleague and she's going to return home old and alien to her husband and children. Then her wiser counterparts whose mothers told them the way around a man's heart will be happier with their children and husband.

Stillfire:
All your fears can be prevented by limiting your daughters education to home economics. We don't what the daughters out of their natural comfort zone. Do not let them partake in the sciences to test their intellectual capabilities thereby threatening the man in the future. STEM subjects are usually the drivers of power and glory, which makes men happy but leads women to unhappiness, rotflmao.

that's a narrow interpretation of the subject matter. The bottom line is that carrier success, promotion, power and social status has not increased the happiness of women as have been shown in research statistics. Because what makes a man happy isn't what necessarily makes a woman happy.

The bottom line is applying carrier and motherhood in a good balance as Danielle wrote in her record smashing book: What Our mothers Didn't Tell Us:"[b]Why Happiness Eludes The Modern Woman"[/b]

My daughters are going to get that striking balance.

bukatyne:
And you judge happiness by no of divorces?

Does it occur to you that the divorce rates were lower because it was not widely accepted? Same with baby mamaism

How many women have you personally come across that are sad because they want to be like men?

What is ratio of women who alter themselves to be men to men who alter themselves to be women?

I choose to believe you misunderstood me. By women trying to be men, I was implying the prioritizing of thier goal to achieving happiness which is as a result of modern feminism.

The rate of divorces were lower in 1979 as compared to today , and yes women were happier then as research shows. Divorce is hard on humans, both male and female. But I think women are worse hit not because of any social conditioning or cultural inclinations, but because they are inherently different by psychological and biological dispositions.


Evolution has balanced the gap between man and woman for millions of years. Modern feminists get confused and wicked and spun lies from a selfish political ideological point of view.

Men pursue power, glory, money and social status to satisfy their abundant testosterone and also to impress the ladies.

Evolution balanced this gap by giving women the skills and ability to control men. All she needed to do was invoke her inbuilt feminine meekness and wiles. That's what our mothers did with wisdom without the corruption of modern feminist education.

Men control the money, power and politics plus resources,and women control men. That's the balance of power by God in his wisdom of mystery of evolution.

Today's feminist have become pretenders who venture out side their natural comfort zones and area of strength to compete and think what a man can do they can do better.
they can't be further from the truth, the difference between men and women means they both have areas of natural expertise.


The Swedish and Americans have begun ripping the folly of their intelligence. All the nations of feminist movement have come to report the increasing unhappiness of women even as their financial and economic status rise.

MduZA:
SA is not in competition with any country...those countries competing with SA are doing it on their own peril..their inhabitants called humans are suffering from ego and inferiority complexity...am done with you,and remember you will have my recognition when you start drinking water from a tap.."shelele"

south Africa is the most status conscious African country and your Zulu, Bantu brothers are the most misguided, ignorant self-deluding usurpers in Africa. Read the ISS report about your ignrant backward government .

bukatyne:
Women were happier 35yrs ago?

What made them happier? Staying at home? Considering thefact that as at 35yrs ago, a lot of women were earning income, getting promoted etc.

Can We know If the women 40yrs ago and up were happier?

By 1979, women could still balance the moderate demands of career and children.
35 to 40 years ago women were not pretending to be men. The earning power of women in 1979 is not the same today.

The figures of single motherhood aren't the same as is the number of divorce.

bukatyne:
I wonder how it was concluded that the 'modern' woman is not Happy

Can the OP pinpoint the time in life when women were Happy?

If a person (male or female) is not content, the person cannot be Happy (I am guessing you mean joyous)

The research group says women where happier 35 years ago than they are today.

Did you skip the lines.

patches689:
Tell me - what objective did we fail to meet?

Ah! You're back from pap-break.

Patches, I'm going to slap you hard across your meaty face!!

Who's talking about objectives,eh, internet lawyer? Your SANDF was beaten black and blue into a retreat after severe losses they had to seek safe passage to flee.

Your troops were defeated spectacularly.

MduZA:
hence a call was made that igbos should vacate Lagos...kwerekwere read this carefully,I don't hate Nigerians but hate only haters..i told you that you will only play the big brother in your imagination ,in reality you remain a refugee in foreign lands..

political emotions, Zulu. Many yorubas have decried that Oba's statement.

Funny thing is that South Africa isn't going to be even No.2 on the continent eventually.

Vickybee:
I'm a Nigerian woman.
I'm a feminist.
I'm happy

So, anyone who did this silly reasearch should shove it into his/her hairy dirty ass.

Your heated, animated reaction says otherwise.

jl115:
Jap he did

he did not.

patches689:
You said we lost - what objective did we fail to meet?

To say we were routed is to say that we intended to achieve something and Seleka prevented this. What did we fail to achieve?


So you dont dispute that foreign mercenaries are now actively engaged in combat?

Your shameless denials in the face of overwhelming evidence is out of this world.

You really are mixed, clerk.

******modified ******hey! Come back clerk, where are you going?

patches689:
Your arse must be jealous of all the sh1t your mouth spews

lol, I think you're missing your Sunday pap.

swaggzo:
EVERY BODY IS IN CHARGE OF THEIR FEELINGS


ITS A STONNER THAT MOST OF THE WOMEN CHOOSE TO FEEL SAD.

surprisingly, I think it's an overdose/abuse of the feminism pill.

patches689:
"I am not a tribalist"

Goes on to attach specific traits to specific tribes.

That is textbook tribalism

I know what you're up to, patches. Just know that it won't fly here.

Our differences I just stated is our strength like no other in Africa.

MduZA:
so you want those compatriots to admit that they are black even though they are not...in one of my posts I told you that your tribalism behavior is alarming,you are proofing me right...i do understand your situation though ,you are a Nigerian...you are playing the Yoruba vs igbo primitive game with the wrong person...to me you remain a kwerekwere..

they needn't deny it, my boy. They are stating their heritage which stand in sharp contrast to yours.

I have caught you in other threads where you descended to the brainless savage you are and hate on Nigerians. So you're always having emotional diarrhoea wherever Nigeria is mentioned.

I can't be a tribalist, my Zulu stooge. The reason the citizens of Nigeria stgand head above any African country is because of her tribal diversity. The yorubas alone with their literary and educational prowess , organisational skills are a threat, not to mention the entrepreneurial igbos who combine hardwork, education, mobility and risk-taking to colonise you in your very streets.

Then the southern Nigerians who have the swagger and cosmopolitan heritage to morph into any society with great adaptability and sophistication. The Middle-belterns are a cultural and intelectual spread between the north and the South.

Everyone wants the secret key to happiness, both men and women alike. Thus positive psychology seems to be the rage these days as everyone is searching for this elusive psychological land of Oz.


So what can evolutionary psychology say about being happy? Humans are designed by God and evolution in a particular way for millions of years. No amount of debate, argument or denial can change our evolutionary legacy and heritage.


One thing God has done through evolution is to make man and woman inherently different in many ways. One of the ways which men and women are different is what makes them HAPPY.

Modern feminist movement has advocated that a better paying job, money and promotion and "equality" would promote women and consequently make them happy.
These are lies fuelled by political and ideological leaning, and never on science or the bible.

Promotions, money, political power and social status are unlikely to make a woman truly happy. Similarly, quitting their jobs, dropping out of the rat race and spending all their time with their children to become stay-at-home-dads is unlikely to make men happy.


Money, power, respect, promotion, political power, social status and/plus/or a strong metaphysical belief is make makes a man happy.

Can a woman be truly happy without children? It is very unlikely. Spending time with their Children and/or a strong metaphysical belief is what makes women truly happy. Women with wisdom look out for a clever way to combine career with motherhood and it is not the way the feminists tell us.

Men and women are very different, because they are designed by millions of years of evolution to be very different. Women cannot become happy by pretending to be men, and men cannot become happy by pretending to be women. Swedes have already tried that, and they have failed massively and spectacularly. As Danielle Crittenden argues in her book,what our mothers didn't tell us: Why happiness eludes the modern woman women's TRUE happiness is in her reproductive and caring nature, both to her husband and children.


Finally, modern feminism is evil because it ultimately makes women (and men) unhappy. In a forthcoming article in the American Economic Journal: Economic Policy, Betsey Stevenson and Justin Wolfers of the Wharton School of Business at the University of Pennsylvania show that American women over the last 35 years have steadily become less and less happy, as they have made more and more money relative to men.

Women used to be a lot happier than men despite the fact that they made much less money than men. The sex gap in happiness (in women’s favor) has declined in the past 35 years as the sex gap in pay (in men’s favor) narrowed. Now women make as much as, sometimes even more than, men do. As a result, today women are just as unhappy, or even more unhappy than, men are. As I explained earlier, money does not make women happy.



The feminist insistence that women behave like men and make as much money as men do may not be the sole reason for women’s rising levels of dissatisfaction with life; a greater incidence of divorce and single motherhood may also contribute to it. At any event, the culpability of modern feminism in making women steadily unhappy, because it is based on false assumptions about male and female human nature.. Surprising, Men’s happiness has not declined in the last 35 years, because there has not been masculinism.

biafransoul:
PDP has won 9 L.G.A 17 on pending
Isoko north
pdp=30000
Apc= 111
lp = 23
isoko south pdp= 28000
lp = 150
apc = 59
Ika south
pdp=22000
apc = 1270 lp = 995
ika north east
pdp= 38000
apc = 11
lp = 92
oshimilli south pdp =12820
apc = 5
lp = 14
ughilli south
pdp =28000
apc = 508 lp = 8
ughilli north
lp= 101
apc=555
pdp= 30000
ethiope south pdp=8000
apc =540
lp = 104
ethiop north
pdp= 6800
apc= 12 lp= 580.?

Okowability is the man. Where are the so called changers?

they're hiding in shame.

MduZA:
oh I do understand now ,Nigerians go to universities so that they can be employed in SA by white south Africans as gardeners and grass cutters...selling tap water in the rusty streets of Lagos does not resemble hard working to me ,it only tells how poverty stricken your country is...see you later ,am now going to cut my hair,as usual the barber is a Nigerian university graduate..

nope, you're going off to loot shops your fellow hungry savages just finished invading led by your commander in chief, the Zulu King.

Those shops are owned by foreigners not South Africans.

By the way, Nigeria has got more rich people than South Africa. Happy looting spree to the Zulu king and co.

Laziness, docility, savagery have forever marked your legacy.
Hope you noticed how your compatriots here a denying being blacks South Africans....when will you?

EVarn:
??
"sitting in his vehicle or office monitoring enemy activity"?
You are a shameless man mike "ebola" czar,what kind of silly statement is that?.how can a soldier monitor enemy activities from inside an office?
I just confirmed that you know nothing about the military,you just want to impress your grandchildren by having a username on the internet.
According to our troops,when BH attacks,our men immediately roll into the trenches and return fire.can that be done from inside an office?.
Our troops are being trained,"firstly as field soldiers",not as bankers in uniform.

Hey,Chief, that was a nice slaughter for that Soweto czar.

MikeCZAR:
Majority of 32 battalion personnel were Angolans who fought alongside SA troops during op savannah.

They become saffers and most of them are still in SA.

32 battalion of lies. Read up their website and see for yourself. You will realise that the average South African is military glory-thief.

patches689:
If you managed to keep up with the argument you would notice that augugbug has been soundly defeated and has resorted to posting pictures of mechanics and passing them off as tank crews

Simple fact of the matter is that your tank crews are not properly equipped

Even sanction starved rhodesia was able to give their tank crews proper equipment

of course I wasn't keeping up
I joined in yesterday. The debate was about overall for tank crews. And he successfully proved not all of your tank crew members are equipped with overalls from your own pictures as well as his.

You denied they were mechanics . But the truth is your military are picture-loving and Press-hyping pretty boys who doesn'thave any clean military history.

They get their "highs" in front of cameramen and cooked up propaganda from SANDF magazines, not in front of battle.

patches689:
Who said we lost?

All you can find is opinionated and untrustworthy evidence that suggests that one battle out of over 35 fought was at best a draw.

What Western logistical support? I guess you dont know about the massive Western Sanctions and Arms Embargo we were under.

Dude, you are a waste of time.

I am sorry your country sucks, I am sorry we are better than you. But its time to man up and deal with it.

the BBC still sites us as the most important country in Africa.


Besides most of the tanks you fought with in that war were imported from the US and UK.

All the powerful western countries helped you in the border war because of the worry Russia was promoting communism there, just as the Russians and Cuban were helping tiny Angola.

Your history in nairaland is marked with denial and argument. You're not capable of honest debate.

American were supplying your overhyped army with logistical supplies from its bases in Zaire. I'm not even taking of thousands of mercenaries. Go to sleep, patches.

patches689:
You realize that they do menial labour right? All these foreigners work in gardens and as cleaners in Spaza shops.

Its like saying Mexicans are taking jobs americans are unqualified to work.

Anyway, again you are posting off topic.

in otherwords, these menial jobs is what South Africans are competing with them over.

The menial job is what got Edwards so disturbed and the Zulu king so concerned.

Why can't you admit that foreign companies in South Africa finds majority of South African grossly incompetent just like the Anglo Dutch finds them not only as violent but also inefficient.

As blacks move into Johannesburg, the whites scamper in fear into sandton suburbs.
Tick tock says the BBC.

MduZA:
so you are also wishing for ticking bomb to explode?if it does do you know what does that mean?it means all the Nigerian animals will go back to their zoo land...you are now beating your chest about Amakwerekwere taking jobs from south Africans ,on the other hand you are crying foul when south Africans raise their concerns..mate I don't want to agree or disagree with you in anything the bottom line is as much as you try hard to show your artificial muscles on this thread,the reality on the ground is different...some of your arguments are laughable,it shows how frustrated Nigerians are,if I may ask you...as a Nigerian what is your problem if best south African student pilots are channeled for the air force and the average ones go into commercial?,by the way those you claim are average,are the ones flying over your roof daily therefore you should show appreciation...as long as there is a country called south Africa,you will only play that giant game in west Africa....

listen, I read 4 lines from your nonsensical post and left with the conclusion that your brain power is just as low as your Zulu king.

Black South African should get better education and training and naturally they will get better employment . The Anglo Dutch prefers hiring foreign black national who has got better training and education than you laidback, drug-sniffing möröñ.

Send your lamentations to BBC over the "ticking time bomb", i was only reporting what they published which is accurate anyway.

MduZA:
it would not make sense for white people to complain about foreigners who are not sharing resources with them ,remember these kwerekweres are sharing resources with black people ...attacks or no attacks Nigerians will keep on flocking to SA running away from your pathetic country,they rather die in foreign land..you can scream on top of your voice denying..thats your naturalistic behavior but the fact remains eko Atlantic belongs to the Europeans...you are still telling me about your huge empty GDP which is only catering few elite people...you will only play that master game in your imagination but in reality you remain a refugee in foreign lands...

I don't expect you to agree to facts; it isn't in your nature.

Whites do not complain because they are secure in their learning and education.

Nigeria and Congolese, Ghanaians, Somalia a and Zimbabweans came into SA to take the jobs created by the fall of apartheid which you Zulu morons couldn't handle and unqualified to take. That's is globalisation, boy.

Why is the ANC making it mandatory for 75% black representatives to be employed? That's insecurity.

In South Africa the best pilots in your schools are traditionally meant to go into the air force while the average ones go into commercial flight. Well, since blacks do not come up tops despite their population, the ANC government are placing Zulu monkeys on the air force and directing whites to fly commercial.

We pity your incompetent, blond government. Ticking time bomb BBC says.

patches689:
The men are all in the same uniform, unlike yourse

The men all have shoes, unlike yours

The men dont have to use civilian clothing, unlike yours.


Who says the man in the pants is part of the crew?

for once in your pathetic life admit being fvckec all over by agaugust. Stop killing this thread by your circle of stupid denials and lame repeatability.

agaugust:
Coveralls do NOT have belts :

http://www.riley.army.mil/News/Photos.aspx?igphoto=2000769461
.

hmm, simple few words and a pic that killed patches689

patches689:
Someone is forgetting about the border war again.

Training > Experience
Organisation > Experience
Discipline > Experience

How does building more bases make it harder? If all men are trained the same then they all build themsleves the same bases.

you lost the border war. Stop making reference to that. Besides CIA, America , British and west Germany ready made sure you never lacked logistical supplies but you lost still.

jl115:
Anglo-Dutch="Dutch people in the United Kingdom, also known as Anglo-Dutch people, include British people of Dutch ancestry and people born in the Netherlands who live in the United Kingdom. The 2001 UK Census recorded 40,438 Dutch-born people residing in the UK.[1]"

you're correct, but your definition is also very narrow and strict. @mikeczar

Anglo always stand for English either in relation to person or culture or institution. Dutch is always Dutch. Anglo-Dutch simply refers loosely to people of brtish and Dutch backgrounds. And the two major Europeans that built and run southafrica are the Dutch who chased the natives into caves and trees,lol, then came the English who conquered the Dutch and ruled as colonists.

Yes we know other pockets of whites later came from Europe to settle in but their numbers are darn insignificant to change the term. All whites immigrating to SA either fell into the Dutch or English angle.

And isn't Afrikaans are corrupt form of Dutch language, a pidgin variant.

jl115:
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2015/mar/05/the-fall-in-oil-price-could-be-a-turning-point-for-nigerians-economy
http://www.economist.com/blogs/freeexchange/2015/01/oil-prices-and-nigeria-0
http://www.bbc.com/news/business-31455031

"nope, what's shocking is how a country of 55 years will bleep into insignificance a country that was growing steadily since over 300 years. "
Uhm...South Africa was near bankrupt in the mid to late 80s.Secondly SAs economy is estimated to grow by more than 5% from 2018 and on.

And yes SAs economy grew by 4,1% beating estimates!
http://www.southafrica.info/news/business/gdp-250215.htm

"What's the diffeence between 4.8% & 5% ?"
0.2%

I like the 0 in front

MduZA:
time bomb ticking",that's the only sentence driving the entire essay of yours...your wishful thinking

that's yesterday's BBC news, keep deluding your dishonest self.

MduZA:
your bare hands and blood only built mokoko slums in the city of Lagos built by the British, your bridges,highways rails en so forth are built by the chinese even the eko Atlantic we are hearing about belongs to the Europeans...your GDP is just like a huge empty house,check out the global economic competitiveness index ,your country is at the bottom....your country men and women are flocking to SA like flies for green pastures because that GDP only caters for few,the elites ...since you are over populated you need to triple it...you seem not to appreciate what SA is doing for you,creating jobs for you in your own country,feeding you with food,you are watching our tv channels that's why you know too much about SA than your own country,our airways are flying over your roofs daily
..on the other hand we are housing nearly 1million Nigerian refugees ...swallow your empty pride and say thank SA for your generosity...you keep on mentioning infrastructure,I hate talking about it particularly with people who only see a moving train once a year...a diesel one in this case...you talking about rape and corruption in SA like if it does not occur in your country...this clearly shows how blind you are...

you are trolling in circles now and doing vian repeatisions. After reading the xenophobic attacks I posted now, you're still taking about Nigerians flocking into SA.

Your Zulu king and president's son is asking foreigners to leave. Why is it that whites do not complain? It is because they are equipped and qualified hence they do not see foreigners as threat.

But the feeding bottle-sucking overgrown black babies who can't look after themselves are murdering Congolese, Kenyans, Somalians for the fear of being left out of work.

Which Europeans own Atlantic City in Nigeria. You're as desperate now as your besieged troops were in Angola in 1988. Stop talking nonsense.

We have built the best economy and biggest in Africa and have the richest black people on earth. Our entrepreneurial skills is second to none on the continent.

You're saving grace is that you're 50 million, Angola would have knocked you out of the ring a long time ago.

The Anglo -Dutch remains your shield, Angola and Nigerians are your TRUE masters.

Each xenophobic attacks is a depiction of your insecurity and incompetency.