Family › Re: And What If She Is Cheating? by lezz(m): 6:26pm On May 12, 2016 |
bukatyne: @le.zz:
A man can cheat and still have unflinching love for his wife?
What is love? Has anyone been able to define that in a generally acceptable term? |
Family › Re: And What If She Is Cheating? by lezz(m): 6:19pm On May 12, 2016 |
MRBrownJ: it is all in your head, and the fact that you believe that we should consider the cheater's state of mind, as a worthy reason to cheat, is sad. i guess the idea of BEING FAITHFUL is unimportant You're a misconstruer!!! I have given no reason to cheat yet. I simply stated a man may cheat and still have unflinching love for his wife and I submitted it isn't so for (the average) woman. Lolz, you've got to keep within the thin rails of logic here. MRBrownJ: men and women cheat for the exact same reason... because they are WEAK (whether men or women) Ignorantly simplistic. Infact borderline naivety!!! There are instances where the dearth of love and affection can spur men and women to cheat. And there are other instances particular to men with cheating: Just for the fücking fun of it. How can "weakness" be why everyone cheats?  MRBrownJ: this is my view on the subject of cheating, she asked for it and i laid it down. She didn't ask for your view on why people cheat, she asked for your take on my submissions. And you went off on the sanctimonious train without pulling the stops!!! |
Family › Re: And What If She Is Cheating? by lezz(m): 5:43pm On May 12, 2016*. Modified: 6:05pm On May 12, 2016 |
MRBrownJ: thats the HYPOCRISY of human beings i talked about earlier.... Your take on hypocrisy both here and at the first instance is inadvertently pointing to your ignorance of the chief differences between men and women in relation to sex and the act of cheating!!! MRBrownJ: what difference the above make?! instead of selfishly focussing on how the cheating person feels at that moment, think of the DAMAGE it causes to their partner instead... and understand that it is the SAME. who cares anyway why people decide to cheat? its WRONG and thats just that! Still doesn't do justice to your postulations. Go back and read bukatyn's post I quoted. She asked: " do cheating couples still desire to stay in marriage " Something of that nature. And my response was in answer to that. And that answer isn't the same for men as it is for women. Do you think perchance, she saw a semblance of truth there and cc-ed you for damage control?  |
Family › Re: And What If She Is Cheating? by lezz(m): 4:30pm On May 12, 2016 |
bukatyne: Mr. Brown,
We are not discussing adultery here; we are discussing if death (at the hands of the spouse) is a deserving consequence of adultery.
And I 100% agree with you that a woman/man shouldn't stay married if they desire to have other partners. I also believe someone who cheats when the other partner errs is indirectly saying they are done with the marriage.
This now leads to other questions...
1. Is sex = love 2. Do people who cheat no longer interested in their marriages? The premise on which you built your logic is fundamentally wrong!!
I have in one of my threads -- https://www.nairaland.com/2971281/most-men-cant-reconcile-love -- stated the cardinal difference between men and women in sex.
A woman's cheating, by the very nature of her sexual and emotional disposition, entails far more graver betrayal than that of a man.
Chauvinist? Maybe, but true all the same.
A man may cheat and still worships the very ground his wife walks.
A woman may cheat and she's body and soul detached from her husband completely.
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Romance › Re: When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Respect/ Fear You Anymore by lezz(m): 3:33pm On May 12, 2016 |
firstEVA:
 Why the face, darl? If she is fück-cured of her puma-ism she wouldn't be asking such dumb questions.
And who would have thought mamagee3 is a cougar, not me  |
Romance › Re: When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Respect/ Fear You Anymore by lezz(m): 3:11pm On May 12, 2016*. Modified: 3:33pm On May 12, 2016 |
firstEVA:
 be careful there young man, she will come for you  I'll love to whoop her into line. 
And your friend needs a correctional fück therapy
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Romance › Re: When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Respect/ Fear You Anymore by lezz(m): 3:03pm On May 12, 2016 |
firstEVA: you are right, its just that this particular op's emphasis is most likely on the 'fear' part, her boyfriends have always feared her, now this particular one no longer fears her. Ah, seems she's either the sugar mommy type and love her boyfriends younger and yielding.
Or a tomboy who has a craving for quasi- pansy men.
I see her with facial beards and chest hairs too  |
Romance › Re: When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Respect/ Fear You Anymore by lezz(m): 2:53pm On May 12, 2016 |
firstEVA: Le.zz i am sorry i have brought you here, I really would want to know how you would respond to the op's question. thanks dear. Do boyfriends ever "fear" their girlfriends?
I believe the OP is trying to say when your boyfriend no longer treats you with respect anymore. she already knows the answer; LOVE'S GONE!!!
You can stick around providing emotionless fück and prolonging the eventual parting.
Or you can walk away with your dignity still intact. |
Romance › Re: When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Respect/ Fear You Anymore by lezz(m): 2:47pm On May 12, 2016 |
mamagee3: [color=deeppink]What does it mean when your boyfriend doesn't respect nor fear you anymore?[/color] The question only succeeded in raising more posers to the original one. |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 11:31am On May 12, 2016*. Modified: 12:24pm On May 12, 2016 |
Irenyy: u are among the knight retards  Your oga(bipolar) has been banned and there is nothing you can do about it 
Poor child cry me an ocean 
Ciao! Ireneony, you know the KNIGHTS are Romance section's best and one of NL's wittiest -- of all time that is.
The conglomeration of diversely brilliant individuals is unprecedented in Nairaland in the same degree as it is awe-inspiring.
Preach love, baby . Each time I look at your DP, which is often, I still ponder what business hate has dwelling in you.
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Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 10:11am On May 12, 2016 |
misspicy: Go brush  Was that why you didn't tongue me properly?  |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 9:11pm On May 11, 2016 |
Misspicy you've been AWOL!
You're needed. Do you mind stepping aside, please?
I need you to untangle a puzzle for me!
Take one kiss in advance 
I promise you more after  |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 9:05pm On May 11, 2016 |
SINXU: On the internet, a chicken can claim to be a falcon. An abused kid who turned out to be a slowpoke can also brand himself a rebel. He lives true to it here. |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 8:30pm On May 11, 2016 |
SINXU: You should know gbadebo by now, he's a depraved kid. He loves to beg and cry. Doesn't mean he'll escape the storm when it comes. It'll come. Lolz, what do we expect from a tormented child whose life's depravity had formed his nairaland moniker: "rebel" ?
He's on a self- realisation mission in NL; to seek any semblance of meaning to a life that knows nothing but misery and bleak existence. |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 8:11pm On May 11, 2016 |
SINXU: You never get rusty.  I've just prepped up The dark troll for slaughter and suddenly the most bruised child in the thread has summoned all Nairaland's hierarchy here  |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 7:34pm On May 11, 2016 |
kramfonos: Look at your picture . You look like a sentient oracle in Okija shrine. You are the most fugly female on Nairaland. You look you bathe with used engine oil. A mechanic beneath a truck looks neater than you.
Your nose was probably smashed with a plank at birth.
Now look at mine, again, like you always have. You see why I detest your face? I'd never find you attractive. YOU ARE UGLY. 
Lolz, fine boy!!! Easy on Joy. I have a hunch she digs you alright.
I see she doesn't interest you in the least!!!
Her boobs remind me of the hard floor I used for pillows when the mod sent me on a 1 month incarceration.
I want to lay my head on those boobs and drive the demons of my incarceration away.  |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 7:30pm On May 11, 2016*. Modified: 10:15am On May 12, 2016 |
SINXU: Welcome back from hole, man. I see the curriculum at the correctional facility isn't that liquid. And you aren't so porous afterall. Comrade, Sinnzu, prison beans didn't obliterate my battle readiness. I'm a little blunt at the edges but still sharp enough to dismember any rebellious limb around!!!  |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 7:19pm On May 11, 2016 |
dollyjoy: i wouldn't deny that Le.zz,it actually funny especially when it all a lie   .
Am not asking for it sha oo   You should have told me in clearer terms you love e-spanking!!!
I have the prosodic muscle to deliver hard expletives to moisten the corridors where your thighs meet  |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 7:15pm On May 11, 2016*. Modified: 12:36pm On May 12, 2016 |
kramfonos: Everyone knows. Where have you been? They were leaked September last year by one of the folks he antagonizes and cheats during rap duels.
Same dude claimed he's a mulatto (half Nigerian and Ukrainian). He votes himself in Rap battles with his alternate monikers. He also created a female moniker (SHARONNNN) to woo himself.
His shenanigans are well-detailed.
[/b] Damn!!! For the fleeting, delusional victory of rap battles, one would wander such depths of desperate remedies? E-life is bridging the physical |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 7:05pm On May 11, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAI: hehehe yeah mimzy all minute, all hour, all day, all week, all month, all year, infact mimzy forever.  |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 7:04pm On May 11, 2016 |
dollyjoy: who is he I'm beginning to suspect you enjoy his type-lashings in a physical way, Joy.
This is a typical come spank me bidding  |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 4:09pm On May 11, 2016 |
TreasurePhoenix:
 What else is left to say when such buffoonery is displayed in a celebratory manner? |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 3:56pm On May 11, 2016 |
EzePromoe: Well, I'll be very foolish to expect objectivity from you. I like Mimzy as a person but the truth must be told. If the truth is joke to you, then you have a higher extent to go in proving it. The onus is on you to prove your claims!!!
Treat visual hallucinations. |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 3:45pm On May 11, 2016 |
EzePromoe: Maybe you're not getting things clear from a distance. Let me bring this a bit closer or we can involve others to check it for you. Your defense doesn't gel with the reality on ground. Maybe I could bring this a bit closer and ask the same question I've been asking for ages. Are these faces identical? The closer it gets, the more derisory your story is.
You're making my day with this jocularity!  |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 3:38pm On May 11, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 3:23pm On May 11, 2016 |
mimzy: ha it's been a while...  that poetic side of you... lol That's what you make me do.
You unleash the beast of my prosody from the depths of docility.
And of course you know my pen can only script one third of what I feel for you.
Wait until I darken your way. Your heart will have to adjust to the pace of a new longing. |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 2:59pm On May 11, 2016 |
mimzy:

seen my new picture?  You know I can't get enough!!!
Every new pic of you brings a fresh radiance of your never-dimming luminescence!!!
Reawaken my desire, babe. |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 2:48pm On May 11, 2016*. Modified: 4:41pm On May 11, 2016 |
EzePromoe: I'm not dumb guys. Take a look at these pics again (I shouldn't be doing this but for the sake of credibility in the contest, I have to). The verification portrait and the campaign portraits are obviously not identical. One is an older woman, lightskinned with flat nose, while the other (the younger lady) is darkskinned with pointed nose. I am not daft, I can differentiate between an edited pics and a natural one. I call on the objective minded to take a closer look at these pics.
cc: dygeasy mimzy This can't even fly!!! Clipped wings by laughable claims and ludicrous postulations.
Alright, I get the psychology: You can actually make people see what isn't there by insistently screaming you "see" something 
Both pics are frightfully the same and you know it. Don't play on the different hairstyles and lightening conditions.
FROM THE TAGGING
1) check the high forehead and hairline!!!
2) Same full sumptuous lips. (Pic one has the lips slightly spread out in a smile)
3) Same nose. And it isn't pointed in any of the pics. First pic with a smile will of course widen the nostrils. Are you not an African?
You need new materials to sell this. Stillbirth it is!!!www.nairaland.com/attachments/3703026_2016051114_34_13_jpegec4ba61bdc398b4aab9502b3a7d95423 |
Family › Re: And What If She Is Cheating? by lezz(m): 2:16pm On May 11, 2016*. Modified: 2:43pm On May 12, 2016 |
fancyupage: To all Nigeria men, please get it into your skull, you do not own a woman, she is your companion. You are the head and she is the neck, the two needs to work together or go their separate ways in peace.
I do not encourage cheating but if a woman cheats in marriage or a man cheats in marriage, the best is yo separate if you cannot live with it and talk it through for improvement.
The right to associate is a fundamental right, so if your wife is cheating on you, try and talk it through and hope for better or let her go.
No justification for a woman beater. #leaveyourmanifheisabusingyou. Your story seems to stem from a larger experience you didn't state here. There's no justification beating a woman in so far that the woman did not strike first or initiate violence. And why do you tag Nigerian men to this? Violence against women has higher occurrence rate in the West than in Africa! |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 1:19pm On May 11, 2016 |
EzePromoe: Well, just take a Good look at these two pictures and tell the truth if they're identical. If you're good with mobile camera you will understand what camera lens do to facial structure. All those pics are mobile-genrated and the closer they get to the object, they tend to form streaks and slight facial distortions especially with the nose and lips. First pic was taken in close range, second was taken with a considerable distance from the camera. End of story! |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 12:52pm On May 11, 2016*. Modified: 12:49pm On May 12, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAI: nope i dnt hit d mod button and i will neva hit it, dnt u get the clearer picture, there are other folks hitting d mod button always, u shud know them by now. what i do is that i slay u. Buddy, try as you may, slaying won't ever be associated with any one of your monikers.
You aren't built to carry such mental load, lad.
To be a successful, tactful and spontaneous troll with facts and wits require more brainpower than writing even the best of threads!!!
Evolution designed you to be just another disposable receptacle of flesh and blood. 
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Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by lezz(m): 12:34pm On May 11, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAI: hehehe and u too ure my favourite sport and u know it, u change to about three monikers each time i was panel beating u. loooooolz!!! If getting me banned by hitting the MOD button is victory, then I won't deny you that  |